Non Pro's

[SocratesRvng]

I wholeheartedly agree. I just segregate those that will do it pro bono vs quid pro quo. If I know a person is willing to let me stick it without opening my wallet, I have zero interest in donating to them a penny more than a few tacos from El Riconsito. But, I am still on this board and searching the provider sites at the same time. I figure it this way, partake in the sure thing whilst investing (time-wise) in the not-so-sure thing balance my Money-Time investment. There are some whole weeks (sometimes 2) I don't spend a dime but I am still getting strange and when that Pro Bono pussy kicks in, I am happy I invested in such a way.

And, same here, no smoke whatsoever to those who like to keep it simple and stick with quid pro quo exclusively. I know the benefits and to someone who might already have a significant other might feel it is way too much work and too risky to work on free pussy, so, slicing a couple Benjamins to stick-it-and-move is completely understood.

So-Crates.

Ate me up all day that I made that error. LOL.

[Chancey]

soundshennington

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-d8403bca29e2

Beware: entitled, low-effort, and insecure. She's already been reviewed in the Atlanta forum. See the link below. It has details consistent with my experience. She's now taken her tour to Seattle.

She reached out to me first with a copy-paste intro. I asked a few questions to get the conversation started. She answered with minimal effort and falsely accused me of not reading her profile, implying I was wasting her time. I called her on it, told her I wasn't interested, and tried to give constructive feedback. She responded with weird personal insults and then blocked me.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...=1#post6867422

[SocratesRvng]

You understand the real cost. Most guys that call it free discount the soft cost associated with "free" women. Even married fellas are paying and in good marriages too. My current mistress was one message, couple of txt, meet two days later, BB 21 yo same day. When I'm in the mood it's a txt away. The savings on time when compared to free dating, and no smoke on the fellas that do " free" ladies, is enormous. Time is truly what I've come to value more than money. Considering the end result was a wet dick which were all in this mess for. LOL Anyway, it saves my designer fragrances, and suits (soft costs) for my enjoyment not for the pursuit of ass. Ok well maybe a little. Haha.

Peace.

I wholeheartedly agree. I just segregate those that will do it pro bono vs quid pro quo. If I know a person is willing to let me stick it without opening my wallet, I have zero interest in donating to them a penny more than a few tacos from El Riconsito. But, I am still on this board and searching the provider sites at the same time. I figure it this way, partake in the sure thing whilst investing (time-wise) in the not-so-sure thing balance my Money-Time investment. There are some whole weeks (sometimes 2) I don't spend a dime but I am still getting strange and when that Pro Bono pussy kicks in, I am happy I invested in such a way.

And, same here, no smoke whatsoever to those who like to keep it simple and stick with quid pro quo exclusively. I know the benefits and to someone who might already have a significant other might feel it is way too much work and too risky to work on free pussy, so, slicing a couple Benjamins to stick-it-and-move is completely understood.

So-Crates.

[Pawghtr16]

Just seeing if anyone has talked to or met up with this girl from secretbenefits?

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...97df873c12e1ec

Pics seem TGTBT. Making plans to meet up soon, moved to texting. Most girls I have talked to on both SB and SA have always asked to see pic before meeting this one hasn't asked for one yet so just curious. My last meet up with an SB girl she ghosted me at the meeting spot.

Cheers!

[PriceIsRight39]

So-Crates, I respect your hustle man, for sure. That said, I'd rather pay these young, slutty girls that would give it up to me bareback and hang out for a couple of hours instead of these GPS hoes. There, we agree. I pay because I typically don't have access to young, early 20's spinners and I want to cut the line in front of all the other dudes with their dicks in their hands.

While the fun, you describe is indeed available free of charge, I'm limited on time. Don't have the time to be these chatting up and getting these girls horny for what are very likely to be one-off encounters. The pay + vibes + good dick keeps the young, attractive spinners coming back with limited effort from me, which is my ideal outcome.

Now don't get me wrong, I have played with my fair share of hot wives, older women and swingers across multiple sites free of charge, but sometimes you want that young spinner bouncing on your dick. Everyone want those girls, so I pay to cut the line.

You understand the real cost. Most guys that call it free discount the soft cost associated with "free" women. Even married fellas are paying and in good marriages too. My current mistress was one message, couple of txt, meet two days later, BB 21 yo same day. When I'm in the mood it's a txt away. The savings on time when compared to free dating, and no smoke on the fellas that do " free" ladies, is enormous. Time is truly what I've come to value more than money. Considering the end result was a wet dick which were all in this mess for. LOL Anyway, it saves my designer fragrances, and suits (soft costs) for my enjoyment not for the pursuit of ass. Ok well maybe a little. Haha.

Peace.

[MilfHunter66]

Those girls want to be your "escort for the day" but often aren't very good at it. So it's going to be very YMMV. But the blowing up your phone isn't typically a good sign.

I texted back this morning. Said tell me what your after for allowance and activities. Nothing back, no reply. I'm more curious on what kind of game there playing. Maybe it's some dude just getting a kick fucking around LOL. Time to block the number and let it go.

[Markro3000]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...0-fe9b7d9e9835

Has anyone seen her? She has been texting me every couple of weeks. I can't get any info from her at all.

All I get is do you want to see me. Sure but like can you host or maybe what are you expecting.

Those girls want to be your "escort for the day" but often aren't very good at it. So it's going to be very YMMV. But the blowing up your phone isn't typically a good sign.

[MilfHunter66]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...0-fe9b7d9e9835

Has anyone seen her? She has been texting me every couple of weeks. I can't get any info from her at all.

All I get is do you want to see me. Sure but like can you host or maybe what are you expecting.

[MilfHunter66]

Darsey is a nut case.

She lost a lot of weight so she has a bit of low self esteem issues. Be aware that her body reflects the weight loss.

She does like to fuck and to please, I had a great time with her once and we both seemed to be satisfied with the meeting, but then after, as with you, she went bananas and started to tell me that I was trying to take advantage of her, as she had issue with the arrangement, which she did not have when we were together.

She blocked me, later came back with another profile and she favorited me. I off course passed as I am very drama adverse, and there are plenty of better options.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...1-6b3bcd431fb2

At least I know it's not me LOL. Thanks.

[DelToro]

See, that's your problem right there, you're looking in the wrong place. I'll give you a secret, the posts by females are spotted by anything walking with a johnson between their legs. Look for comments on men's posts and couples posts. Especially, couples.

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Sorry to say but having pics increases your chances. The good thing is, Fet doesn't require them to be face pics. So, post them and don't be shy. You may even get a like or two from a lady (happened to me) and you can DM them and make something happen.

Now, go off and be merry, my son!

So-Crates.

Very interested points.

I have been in FetLife for a while, but have not actively tried to use it for a long time when I did I found the quality of the girls to be very subpar with respect to SA and the ones that I liked where in SA anyways. It also seemed to be a lot of work. Will give your tips a try.

Thanks for the intel.

[DelToro]

This woman is nuts but likes to fuck. I would have posted a link but I'm blocked. She is 32, chunky and in the Kent area. I'm done with her since she blew up on me for no reason so I'm done.

Darsey is a nut case.

She lost a lot of weight so she has a bit of low self esteem issues. Be aware that her body reflects the weight loss.

She does like to fuck and to please, I had a great time with her once and we both seemed to be satisfied with the meeting, but then after, as with you, she went bananas and started to tell me that I was trying to take advantage of her, as she had issue with the arrangement, which she did not have when we were together.

She blocked me, later came back with another profile and she favorited me. I off course passed as I am very drama adverse, and there are plenty of better options.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...1-6b3bcd431fb2

[Nilats]

This woman is nuts but likes to fuck. I would have posted a link but I'm blocked. She is 32, chunky and in the Kent area. I'm done with her since she blew up on me for no reason so I'm done.

Even without seeing her she went off on me on fetlife, and then on seeking. Nuts! But some might like that.

[MilfHunter66]

This woman is nuts but likes to fuck. I would have posted a link but I'm blocked. She is 32, chunky and in the Kent area. I'm done with her since she blew up on me for no reason so I'm done.

[Titus Andro]

LOL. 48? She should pay you! Delusion is strong with that one.

I bet she is on a Sugar Baby Reddit. There is a lot of "girl, ask for 10 k for a M&G" on there. Unimaginable allowances. But there are guys who do it. Friggin ridiculous.

[Snake93]

See, that's your problem right there, you're looking in the wrong place. I'll give you a secret, the posts by females are spotted by anything walking with a johnson between their legs. Look for comments on men's posts and couples posts. Especially, couples.

Why Couples? Female posts are usually for attention (shocker) - I doubt anyone every gets anywhere with those (they usually have OF in their profile and you know its to try and sell you on that). Males posts, you are competing against the poster. But Couples posts, single women who comment on couples posts love the security of the husband being taken and the husband is too preoccupied with the wife to ever make the single ladies their main pursuit. If you see a female in the comments, you know she is active and is looking for something. Don't respond to her in the post, go to her profile, actually read it. A lot of times, they give you a way in with their profile text or if you'll be wasting your time, and then send her a DM. Be Direct but have tact.

Sorry to say but having pics increases your chances. The good thing is, Fet doesn't require them to be face pics. So, post them and don't be shy. You may even get a like or two from a lady (happened to me) and you can DM them and make something happen.

Now, go off and be merry, my son!

So-Crates.

It's typically good practice to avoid the posts by the single chicks posting for attention and promoting their Only Fans. Yeah, there trying to make a living, that doesn't mean I have to watch! Couples are the shit! The husband manages the comms and makes the woman feel safe. You go over there, fuck the shit out of his wife / GF and leave him to deal with her afterwards. It's a pretty good deal.

Also, make friends with the cool guys you meet at events. Women in Seattle have real trust issues, so if you receive a warm intro from a guy she's already fucking, alot of that work will be done for you.

Also, you're going to need pics (preferably body and cock pics) to get the lady's mind going and her pussy wet. But yes, going to and reading her profile is very good advice. I would also take a look at her activity to see what gets her going. She gets at minimum 10-20 messages a day from idiots who want to meet and fuck. If you come at her with something you have in common from her profile, that and your pics may help you stand out.

Good luck!