Non Pro's

**Pawghtr16** · 02-13-25 01:26

Just seeing if anyone has talked to or met up with this girl from secretbenefits?

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...97df873c12e1ec

Pics seem TGTBT. Making plans to meet up soon, moved to texting. Most girls I have talked to on both SB and SA have always asked to see pic before meeting this one hasn't asked for one yet so just curious. My last meet up with an SB girl she ghosted me at the meeting spot.

Cheers!

**PriceIsRight39** · 02-11-25 17:30

Originally Posted by Snake93 [View Original Post]

So-Crates, I respect your hustle man, for sure. That said, I'd rather pay these young, slutty girls that would give it up to me bareback and hang out for a couple of hours instead of these GPS hoes. There, we agree. I pay because I typically don't have access to young, early 20's spinners and I want to cut the line in front of all the other dudes with their dicks in their hands.

While the fun, you describe is indeed available free of charge, I'm limited on time. Don't have the time to be these chatting up and getting these girls horny for what are very likely to be one-off encounters. The pay + vibes + good dick keeps the young, attractive spinners coming back with limited effort from me, which is my ideal outcome.

Now don't get me wrong, I have played with my fair share of hot wives, older women and swingers across multiple sites free of charge, but sometimes you want that young spinner bouncing on your dick. Everyone want those girls, so I pay to cut the line.

You understand the real cost. Most guys that call it free discount the soft cost associated with "free" women. Even married fellas are paying and in good marriages too. My current mistress was one message, couple of txt, meet two days later, BB 21 yo same day. When I'm in the mood it's a txt away. The savings on time when compared to free dating, and no smoke on the fellas that do " free" ladies, is enormous. Time is truly what I've come to value more than money. Considering the end result was a wet dick which were all in this mess for. LOL Anyway, it saves my designer fragrances, and suits (soft costs) for my enjoyment not for the pursuit of ass. Ok well maybe a little. Haha.

Peace.

**MilfHunter66** · 02-11-25 00:07

Originally Posted by Markro3000 [View Original Post]

Those girls want to be your "escort for the day" but often aren't very good at it. So it's going to be very YMMV. But the blowing up your phone isn't typically a good sign.

I texted back this morning. Said tell me what your after for allowance and activities. Nothing back, no reply. I'm more curious on what kind of game there playing. Maybe it's some dude just getting a kick fucking around LOL. Time to block the number and let it go.

**Markro3000** · 02-10-25 14:03

Originally Posted by MilfHunter66 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...0-fe9b7d9e9835

Has anyone seen her? She has been texting me every couple of weeks. I can't get any info from her at all.

All I get is do you want to see me. Sure but like can you host or maybe what are you expecting.

Those girls want to be your "escort for the day" but often aren't very good at it. So it's going to be very YMMV. But the blowing up your phone isn't typically a good sign.

**MilfHunter66** · 02-09-25 18:38

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...0-fe9b7d9e9835

Has anyone seen her? She has been texting me every couple of weeks. I can't get any info from her at all.

All I get is do you want to see me. Sure but like can you host or maybe what are you expecting.

**MilfHunter66** · 02-08-25 20:58

Originally Posted by DelToro [View Original Post]

Darsey is a nut case.

She lost a lot of weight so she has a bit of low self esteem issues. Be aware that her body reflects the weight loss.

She does like to fuck and to please, I had a great time with her once and we both seemed to be satisfied with the meeting, but then after, as with you, she went bananas and started to tell me that I was trying to take advantage of her, as she had issue with the arrangement, which she did not have when we were together.

She blocked me, later came back with another profile and she favorited me. I off course passed as I am very drama adverse, and there are plenty of better options.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...1-6b3bcd431fb2

At least I know it's not me LOL. Thanks.

**DelToro** · 02-08-25 15:01

Originally Posted by SocratesRvng [View Original Post]

See, that's your problem right there, you're looking in the wrong place. I'll give you a secret, the posts by females are spotted by anything walking with a johnson between their legs. Look for comments on men's posts and couples posts. Especially, couples.

....

Sorry to say but having pics increases your chances. The good thing is, Fet doesn't require them to be face pics. So, post them and don't be shy. You may even get a like or two from a lady (happened to me) and you can DM them and make something happen.

Now, go off and be merry, my son!

So-Crates.

Very interested points.

I have been in FetLife for a while, but have not actively tried to use it for a long time when I did I found the quality of the girls to be very subpar with respect to SA and the ones that I liked where in SA anyways. It also seemed to be a lot of work. Will give your tips a try.

Thanks for the intel.

**DelToro** · 02-08-25 14:56

Originally Posted by MilfHunter66 [View Original Post]

This woman is nuts but likes to fuck. I would have posted a link but I'm blocked. She is 32, chunky and in the Kent area. I'm done with her since she blew up on me for no reason so I'm done.

Darsey is a nut case.

She lost a lot of weight so she has a bit of low self esteem issues. Be aware that her body reflects the weight loss.

She does like to fuck and to please, I had a great time with her once and we both seemed to be satisfied with the meeting, but then after, as with you, she went bananas and started to tell me that I was trying to take advantage of her, as she had issue with the arrangement, which she did not have when we were together.

She blocked me, later came back with another profile and she favorited me. I off course passed as I am very drama adverse, and there are plenty of better options.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...1-6b3bcd431fb2

**Nilats** · 02-08-25 12:29

Originally Posted by MilfHunter66 [View Original Post]

This woman is nuts but likes to fuck. I would have posted a link but I'm blocked. She is 32, chunky and in the Kent area. I'm done with her since she blew up on me for no reason so I'm done.

Even without seeing her she went off on me on fetlife, and then on seeking. Nuts! But some might like that.

**MilfHunter66** · 02-08-25 11:51

This woman is nuts but likes to fuck. I would have posted a link but I'm blocked. She is 32, chunky and in the Kent area. I'm done with her since she blew up on me for no reason so I'm done.

**Titus Andro** · 02-07-25 20:59

Originally Posted by PriceIsRight39 [View Original Post]

LOL. 48? She should pay you! Delusion is strong with that one.

I bet she is on a Sugar Baby Reddit. There is a lot of "girl, ask for 10 k for a M&G" on there. Unimaginable allowances. But there are guys who do it. Friggin ridiculous.

**Snake93** · 02-07-25 02:41

Originally Posted by SocratesRvng [View Original Post]

See, that's your problem right there, you're looking in the wrong place. I'll give you a secret, the posts by females are spotted by anything walking with a johnson between their legs. Look for comments on men's posts and couples posts. Especially, couples.

Why Couples? Female posts are usually for attention (shocker) - I doubt anyone every gets anywhere with those (they usually have OF in their profile and you know its to try and sell you on that). Males posts, you are competing against the poster. But Couples posts, single women who comment on couples posts love the security of the husband being taken and the husband is too preoccupied with the wife to ever make the single ladies their main pursuit. If you see a female in the comments, you know she is active and is looking for something. Don't respond to her in the post, go to her profile, actually read it. A lot of times, they give you a way in with their profile text or if you'll be wasting your time, and then send her a DM. Be Direct but have tact.

Sorry to say but having pics increases your chances. The good thing is, Fet doesn't require them to be face pics. So, post them and don't be shy. You may even get a like or two from a lady (happened to me) and you can DM them and make something happen.

Now, go off and be merry, my son!

So-Crates.

It's typically good practice to avoid the posts by the single chicks posting for attention and promoting their Only Fans. Yeah, there trying to make a living, that doesn't mean I have to watch! Couples are the shit! The husband manages the comms and makes the woman feel safe. You go over there, fuck the shit out of his wife / GF and leave him to deal with her afterwards. It's a pretty good deal.

Also, make friends with the cool guys you meet at events. Women in Seattle have real trust issues, so if you receive a warm intro from a guy she's already fucking, alot of that work will be done for you.

Also, you're going to need pics (preferably body and cock pics) to get the lady's mind going and her pussy wet. But yes, going to and reading her profile is very good advice. I would also take a look at her activity to see what gets her going. She gets at minimum 10-20 messages a day from idiots who want to meet and fuck. If you come at her with something you have in common from her profile, that and your pics may help you stand out.

Good luck!

**Snake93** · 02-07-25 02:34

Originally Posted by SocratesRvng [View Original Post]

Uhhh, you're paying? I have been off of Seeking for the past month because I have been racking them up on Fetlife for free! It's a kink site; the people who are on there are looking to fulfill kinks, first and foremost. No one should be paying on that site. Now, that's not to say there aren't the ones on there who are selling it but there is far more opportunity to break away from the hobby and have some fun gratis.

I've met up with this 18 year old (varied and turning 19 next week) in Wenatchee who just wants to be bred. Like, that was literally what they were looking for, to be bred / filled in each hole. That one's "mistress" wants me to fuck her at Tubs and fill her up. Met a petite-something who wants to be bred and is coming from Portland for it in a week. Found an older lady from Vancouver who wants me and my buddy to DP her and fill her up this weekend. Found another older women who I met last week who is an absolute sub and is into free-use and I went over to her nice house in Renton to fill up each hole.

Don't pay LOL. I see guys old, young, slim to fat on there getting pussy because there is someone for everybody on there. I only come back to the hobby because it is only slightly easier to get pussy; on Fetlife, you have to hold more discussion to get to the meetup while on Seeking, I let the money do the talking for me.

So-Crates.

So-Crates, I respect your hustle man, for sure. That said, I'd rather pay these young, slutty girls that would give it up to me bareback and hang out for a couple of hours instead of these GPS hoes. There, we agree. I pay because I typically don't have access to young, early 20's spinners and I want to cut the line in front of all the other dudes with their dicks in their hands.

While the fun, you describe is indeed available free of charge, I'm limited on time. Don't have the time to be these chatting up and getting these girls horny for what are very likely to be one-off encounters. The pay + vibes + good dick keeps the young, attractive spinners coming back with limited effort from me, which is my ideal outcome.

Now don't get me wrong, I have played with my fair share of hot wives, older women and swingers across multiple sites free of charge, but sometimes you want that young spinner bouncing on your dick. Everyone want those girls, so I pay to cut the line.

**Snake93** · 02-07-25 02:12

Originally Posted by DelToro [View Original Post]

I did an unpaid M&G with her and we made out a bit in the parking lot.

Did not get pro vibes but she is very money driven.

She is the girl in the pictures but they are well done pictures. We had fun, She is intelligent, good looking with a pleasent personality.

We did not talk amounts until after the M&G, her expectations were a bit high. I counter oferred and she did accept but did not read all that happy.

As the ones at my regular rotation at the time, were better looking and did not complain about the arrangement amount, I decided to pass.

Great report, thank you! Would be interested to know her expectations. She's also on Fet Life and has started an OnlyFans account. She's on the hustle for some cash!

**DelToro** · 02-06-25 19:24

Originally Posted by Dirk901 [View Original Post]

All,

Looks like she been around for awhile. Anyone seen her? Pro?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...8-6f60995dbcd6

I did an unpaid M&G with her and we made out a bit in the parking lot.

Did not get pro vibes but she is very money driven.

She is the girl in the pictures but they are well done pictures. We had fun, She is intelligent, good looking with a pleasent personality.

We did not talk amounts until after the M&G, her expectations were a bit high. I counter oferred and she did accept but did not read all that happy.

As the ones at my regular rotation at the time, were better looking and did not complain about the arrangement amount, I decided to pass.