Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[Grasshopping]

Tiffanyy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...2-84df5b29c42f

No first-hand experience but she's a real person. Found her social media and it is her in the pic. Light-skinned mexican that can pass for a gringa with the dyed hair. Very cute. She looked good in some of her pics and in some, she looks a little above average.

Wanted 450. I offered 400 and she accepted it. I can probabky talk ehr down to lower but I hate haggling back and forth. Convo was very dry. Agreed on a M&G but went radio silence couple hours before the meeting. Texted me the next day saying she fell asleep. I didn't bother to pursue as I don't think we had chemistry. And at 400, I'll probably just see her once or twice (don't think she'll give me PSE). I simply didn't think she was worth pursuing for me. If anyone end up seeing her, please report just because I'm curious LOL.

[Member #6718]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...a-5b83dcb918f7

I blocked but she is gas money collector.

[Member #6718]

Had a quick meet with Ana and she's very sweet, cute and no sign of demons.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-7a7cb1cd6b5f

Senior members feel free to contact me for more details.

Oh yeah I hit her up in raleigh. She was fun, but very pro.

[OrdinaryJohn]

Had a quick meet with Ana and she's very sweet, cute and no sign of demons.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-7a7cb1cd6b5f

Senior members feel free to contact me for more details.

[BDChristie]

I started using Seeking 4 months ago and my luck has been pretty good so far. Was able to meet plenty of girls. I think I had my run and reached the end of it. Too many profiles are fake and ask for prior deposits. And many of the chicks are so bad at comms. They are very interested in meeting for a moment and then they go radio silent all of a sudden. I had fun with pretty good-looking chicks so far. Too many profiles with a single picture and a very new account as well.

In my experience, hot chicks have been a hit or miss. They either want to meet right away (or) They won't even respond if you mention anything that says "mutually beneficial". I think that is a pretty norm given the attention they get, they want platonic dates even though they don't mention it explicitly. I was talking to this chick the other day and she wants someone to be more "open-minded" when I mentioned I don't pay allowance for M&Gs. Has anyone's experience been the same?

How has your luck been with the prettiest chicks? I felt it was easy with the average chicks. For reference, I'm in my early 30's, and fairly fit-looking with probably 6 to 7 in the looks department.

It's a numbers game. I usually go for 8's or above. But never ones with a single pic or the adjective / noun combo. Prettymermaid etc. Also if they message me without seeing my profile then it's a bot. I have 4 on rotation now. All 8's. Young, thin, great body and DTF. Keep trying!

[StormyStrokes]

I started using Seeking 4 months ago and my luck has been pretty good so far. Was able to meet plenty of girls. I think I had my run and reached the end of it. Too many profiles are fake and ask for prior deposits. And many of the chicks are so bad at comms. They are very interested in meeting for a moment and then they go radio silent all of a sudden. I had fun with pretty good-looking chicks so far. Too many profiles with a single picture and a very new account as well.

In my experience, hot chicks have been a hit or miss. They either want to meet right away (or) They won't even respond if you mention anything that says "mutually beneficial". I think that is a pretty norm given the attention they get, they want platonic dates even though they don't mention it explicitly. I was talking to this chick the other day and she wants someone to be more "open-minded" when I mentioned I don't pay allowance for M&Gs. Has anyone's experience been the same?

How has your luck been with the prettiest chicks? I felt it was easy with the average chicks. For reference, I'm in my early 30's, and fairly fit-looking with probably 6 to 7 in the looks department.

[Jay75]

Speaking strictly regarding Seeking Arrangements.

I treat it similar to a combination of dating and escorting. Meet up / do a public meet up. And for any real intimacy and such, set up another day / date to meet at a hotel or private location and do the deed there. For money, I try not to be too straight forward because then it comes across as too transactional, in which case some women tend to get scared off. It'll work well for the Pros and the "experienced SBs" , but for the average woman there (who is likely a college student, or curious) I don't talk about money and such via text or on the site. Many other women on that site are inexperienced, don't know what they want, treat it as a dating site, hear from a friend that "guys give tons of money for platonic dates", really need the cash, etc.

Regarding Meet & Greets:

- I don't give any Money or gifts to people in M&G's. Since it's all just meeting. If it turns out I don't like the person, then I just wasted time giving a gift to someone I have no interest in. And if they have no interest in me, then I wasted time. So I usually keep things platonic / casual by going for coffee or going at a mall or park for a M&G. That said, if you do have a lot of disposable income then doing a Paid M&G can put you at the top of the list in terms of priority. But it can also have an effect in which she doesn't like you, and thus she benefited in the end.

Such good advice Saint, I appreciate it. I've wondered about this myself. Some of them simply think you want to pay to have lunch dates with them. LOL.

[SaintMan3500]

Hey all, Thinking about getting into the sb / sd game and wondering how this normally plays out for yall and how much exactly you are spending. Say you match with someone, is it straightforward "I want this much, here's what I'm offering" or do you have to take these girls on dates and such? Also not sure what exactly goes down in a M&G, are we supposed to buy gifts (is it just money or something on there Wishlist?

Any advice would be appreciated.

Sincerely- a lost bro.

Speaking strictly regarding Seeking Arrangements.

I treat it similar to a combination of dating and escorting. Meet up / do a public meet up. And for any real intimacy and such, set up another day / date to meet at a hotel or private location and do the deed there. For money, I try not to be too straight forward because then it comes across as too transactional, in which case some women tend to get scared off. It'll work well for the Pros and the "experienced SBs" , but for the average woman there (who is likely a college student, or curious) I don't talk about money and such via text or on the site. Many other women on that site are inexperienced, don't know what they want, treat it as a dating site, hear from a friend that "guys give tons of money for platonic dates", really need the cash, etc.

Regarding Meet & Greets:

- I don't give any Money or gifts to people in M&G's. Since it's all just meeting. If it turns out I don't like the person, then I just wasted time giving a gift to someone I have no interest in. And if they have no interest in me, then I wasted time. So I usually keep things platonic / casual by going for coffee or going at a mall or park for a M&G. That said, if you do have a lot of disposable income then doing a Paid M&G can put you at the top of the list in terms of priority. But it can also have an effect in which she doesn't like you, and thus she benefited in the end.

Regarding the Arrangement itself:

My rule of thumb is:

A. Do a Public Meet Up / Meet & Greet. And then the second time we meet, intimacy (W / PPM).

B. If I really like them, then I go out on dates or platonically hang out with them. And intimacy (W / PPM) on other days.

C. If I solely want intimacy and I don't see myself hanging out with them platonically, then I just keep it intimate and that's it.

Other notes:

-If you want to avoid paying anyone for intimacy or if you want to treat it solely as a dating site: Then you are technically free to do so. It'll just be hard, since the dozens of people messaging her are probably offering hundreds or thousands.

-Some arrangements last long, while many others don't last. Due to someone finding another SD, them moving onto the next stage in their life, finding a BF, boredom, etc.

- Negotiate if you decide to do any sort of PPM / Allowance.

[LexHard]

Roxana.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...55ec28c1350c2c

I saw this one a few months ago. I purchased credits a while back ans used them sparingly. I used the last credits I had and fired off couple more messages and ended up hooking up with her.

Someone had reported her on this forum before saying that her body was perfect. Well, excuse me. I know everyone's taste and view is different but for me, her body looked pretty good with clothes on and that's about it.

She is Venezuelan and speaks Spanish only (which I'm fluent of). Face is so so. Slim body that looked really good when covered. Had lunch together and got a place (said she'd host in subsequent meetings but I never repeated with her). 250 plus room. Good DFK and good BBBJ. CFS but I charmed my way and convinced her to go bare. So it was actually an ok lay. However, once clothes came off, yiu could see her horrendous scars from plastic surgeries. Big inverted T shaped scars on the underside of both boobs. A huge scar that runs across her lower abdomen. Her tits are very round and hard and felt very unnatural. Soft butts (not in a good way). I swear I can grab those butts and lift them up to her mid-back LOL. Ok I'm exaggerating but you got my point.

So it was a one and done for me.

I have no more credit left with Secret Benefits and don't intend to use them again. There had been debates on here about the site and from my personal experience, it was completely not worth it.

I would have to agree with you on the SB site. I have renewed a couple of times. MOST sent messages are never answered back. I have met one or two from the site, However the amount I have put into the membership, Well its just not worth it. SA used to be good in the past. SA changed all of their protocols because they were being block by most systems for Pro $1 tuion site. Lately I have not been able to get a membership with SA because of my bank blocking it. Have even reach out to the bank and they have lifted the block and they still deny the purchase. Personally I think that the carriers are doing most of the blocking. (Verizion, Spectrum and such).

So with all that said what other options are out there? Skip the games is not what I am looking for. Suggestions?

[Grasshopping]

Roxana.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...55ec28c1350c2c

I saw this one a few months ago. I purchased credits a while back ans used them sparingly. I used the last credits I had and fired off couple more messages and ended up hooking up with her.

Someone had reported her on this forum before saying that her body was perfect. Well, excuse me. I know everyone's taste and view is different but for me, her body looked pretty good with clothes on and that's about it.

She is Venezuelan and speaks Spanish only (which I'm fluent of). Face is so so. Slim body that looked really good when covered. Had lunch together and got a place (said she'd host in subsequent meetings but I never repeated with her). 250 plus room. Good DFK and good BBBJ. CFS but I charmed my way and convinced her to go bare. So it was actually an ok lay. However, once clothes came off, yiu could see her horrendous scars from plastic surgeries. Big inverted T shaped scars on the underside of both boobs. A huge scar that runs across her lower abdomen. Her tits are very round and hard and felt very unnatural. Soft butts (not in a good way). I swear I can grab those butts and lift them up to her mid-back LOL. Ok I'm exaggerating but you got my point.

So it was a one and done for me.

I have no more credit left with Secret Benefits and don't intend to use them again. There had been debates on here about the site and from my personal experience, it was completely not worth it.

[South215]

South215, Tried to PM you back and said mailbox full. May want to clear some room.

All Clear now!

[LexHard]

Anyone Talked to this one? Just looking for any Info?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...6-938082c60953

PM is open if youd like to keep it private.

South215, Tried to PM you back and said mailbox full. May want to clear some room.

[LV Fun]

Anyone Talked to this one? Just looking for any Info?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...6-938082c60953

PM is open if youd like to keep it private.

She's actually out of Sumter. Comms with her are flakier than a box of corn flakes. She'll also ask for money up front.

[BDChristie]

Anyone Talked to this one? Just looking for any Info?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...6-938082c60953

PM is open if youd like to keep it private.

Some back and forth, talked on snap then kinda fizzled. Asked for meet and greet but didn't ask for money.

[South215]

Anyone Talked to this one? Just looking for any Info?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...6-938082c60953

PM is open if youd like to keep it private.