"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**PornRider** · 03-30-23 17:09

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

Man it sounds like you are in a pickle. You hear about women all the time planning an exit strategy as a way to cash out on an arrangement so they can come out ahead. I try to follow common sense. Who would want to travel 2-3 states away for a surgical procedure that's invasive instead of just popping a pill? Then the cost seems high, extremely high. Almost seems as if she expected more money out of the arrangement, it ended abruptly and now she's trying to make sure she makes her bank and cash you out. Tread carefully. Ripper.

Yeah, that's what my suspicions are as well. I told her that I'm not comfortable giving her thousands of dollars blindly, and now she's barraging me with texts and threats. She wrote that she'll be reaching out to my side of the family, and job, etc. It looks like I made a really bad decision hooking up with this one. This whole experience has made me regret going into this lifestyle. Stay safe out there, boys.

**HighPockets64** · 03-30-23 16:43

Current situation. I am 53 years old and one of my currents (9-10 months) has recently started an only fans account. This has allowed her (27 year old) to quit one of her two jobs and she has been making pretty good money at it. Most of her requests lately have been to fuck on camera. She asked me to be the guy in the video and she has managed to keep my face and voice out of her production. Since we started this. Her account has tripled. Not because of me, but because the demand for that is much greater than just nudes and masturbation. She suggested to me that maybe I look into Viagra or Cialis to be able to go twice back to back. This would us allow to film a couple of videos per session. I have never partaken of the stuff and was wanting some feedback. My questions are:

1. Do you lose sensation?

2. Do you last longer?

3. Can you go back to back pretty quickly?

4. Are there side effects to deal with?

There are already several good explanations on your question. I just wanted to add my experience with it all since taking.

I am 58 Years old and having been using the Generic for Viagra for about 8 years now started using at 50 mg 1/2 a pill and eventually graduated maybe 3 years ago to a whole 100 mg pill.

For me I can go about 20 minutes. I actually wear out- get winded sometimes before I can finish. Take a 10–15-minute break and go again till finish.

I have no problem same day about 6-8 hours later getting hard again for a second round and pop.

I really believe almost everyone is different on the effects of the 2 pills. Like Cialis works for me but I can't go as long as I can when on Viagra- I think I lose some sensitivity with Viagra that Cialis doesn't cause me to lose. I don't get a stuffy nose unless I am getting a massage with my face down in the donut hole for a while- then I get a stuffy nose. But it clears up pretty fast once I roll over.

My biggest suggestion to you is to call around. Don't take it to your pharmacy and just fill it- you will be amazed at the price differences. I have a friend that gets his at Publix without insurance 30 pills for $30.00 - I get mine at the Medicine shop for 15 pills for $18.00 Just depends on how you fill it- I like to keep fresh pills so I don't fill more than 15 at a time.

Kind of jealous of your situation with the 27-year-old. Good Luck to you!!

**MariettaJoe** · 03-30-23 15:43

Originally Posted by BobeSugar [View Original Post]

It seems highly suspicious to me. I would take her to a pregnancy test place and make sure she is pregnant. Nowadays, they can also do DNA test. I think she just wants to scam you.

That's the problem with these SBs. So shortage of scams in their mind. A friend of mine faced similar situation 10+ years ago. He spent so much money on the kid and loved the boy as his own. Turned out the kid was from someone else, she just needed someone who is reliable and makes money to take care of her and the money. Found out about it after asking for DNA test. So first, check her pregnancy. Second, ask for DNA. They can check DNA inside mother.

P.S. I really want to have a child. If I were in that situation, I would ask her to keep the baby. But that's my situation.

It's not cheap to do an in-utero DNA test, but it's cheaper than what she's asking for with the abortion, and much cheaper than 18 years of child support.

**Jrody1** · 03-30-23 15:21

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I just got a call from a former sugar baby that I had seen for maybe 4-6 weeks who I stopped seeing a couple of weeks ago. She said that she is pregnant with my kid and wants an abortion, but she's only willing to do a surgical abortion where she's under anesthesia in North Carolina. She's asking for $3200 for the procedure. And she refuses to take the abortion pill or any other procedure.

I want to believe her, but I'm worried that I'm being scammed. Does anyone have advice on what I should do?

Can you confirm you were the only one she was fucking with or not? Why does a chick that is 4-6 weeks pregnant need a surgical abortion? Why acknowledge her request in the first place? This abortion can be done by taking one of those pills or they suck the dam baby out. Cost no where near that price. You know it is a scam yet your believing it for some odd reason. The baby is that big that it requires a surgery? Question everything yourself. Next time you decide to cream. Maybe insure she is taking a contraceptive. Chick is traveling and wants your money. After that will want more.

**SeekingHead** · 03-30-23 15:18

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I just got a call from a former sugar baby that I had seen for maybe 4-6 weeks who I stopped seeing a couple of weeks ago. She said that she is pregnant with my kid and wants an abortion, but she's only willing to do a surgical abortion where she's under anesthesia in North Carolina. She's asking for $3200 for the procedure. And she refuses to take the abortion pill or any other procedure.

I want to believe her, but I'm worried that I'm being scammed. Does anyone have advice on what I should do?

I'd call her bluff & setup a doctors appointment to get a pregnancy test done by a medical professional. $100 she goes radio silent.

**HighPockets64** · 03-30-23 15:01

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I just got a call from a former sugar baby that I had seen for maybe 4-6 weeks who I stopped seeing a couple of weeks ago. She said that she is pregnant with my kid and wants an abortion, but she's only willing to do a surgical abortion where she's under anesthesia in North Carolina. She's asking for $3200 for the procedure. And she refuses to take the abortion pill or any other procedure.

I want to believe her, but I'm worried that I'm being scammed. Does anyone have advice on what I should do?

Man you guys that haven't done it yet- Get Fixed!! I have no worries about this. I know it isn't mine because mine are blanks!!

**BobeSugar** · 03-30-23 10:33

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I just got a call from a former sugar baby that I had seen for maybe 4-6 weeks who I stopped seeing a couple of weeks ago. She said that she is pregnant with my kid and wants an abortion, but she's only willing to do a surgical abortion where she's under anesthesia in North Carolina. She's asking for $3200 for the procedure. And she refuses to take the abortion pill or any other procedure.

I want to believe her, but I'm worried that I'm being scammed. Does anyone have advice on what I should do?

It seems highly suspicious to me. I would take her to a pregnancy test place and make sure she is pregnant. Nowadays, they can also do DNA test. I think she just wants to scam you.

That's the problem with these SBs. So shortage of scams in their mind. A friend of mine faced similar situation 10+ years ago. He spent so much money on the kid and loved the boy as his own. Turned out the kid was from someone else, she just needed someone who is reliable and makes money to take care of her and the money. Found out about it after asking for DNA test. So first, check her pregnancy. Second, ask for DNA. They can check DNA inside mother.

P.S. I really want to have a child. If I were in that situation, I would ask her to keep the baby. But that's my situation.

**Ripvan12** · 03-30-23 10:31

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I just got a call from a former sugar baby that I had seen for maybe 4-6 weeks who I stopped seeing a couple of weeks ago. She said that she is pregnant with my kid and wants an abortion, but she's only willing to do a surgical abortion where she's under anesthesia in North Carolina. She's asking for $3200 for the procedure. And she refuses to take the abortion pill or any other procedure.

I want to believe her, but I'm worried that I'm being scammed. Does anyone have advice on what I should do?

Man it sounds like you are in a pickle. You hear about women all the time planning an exit strategy as a way to cash out on an arrangement so they can come out ahead. I try to follow common sense. Who would want to travel 2-3 states away for a surgical procedure that's invasive instead of just popping a pill? Then the cost seems high, extremely high. Almost seems as if she expected more money out of the arrangement, it ended abruptly and now she's trying to make sure she makes her bank and cash you out. Tread carefully. Ripper.

**Airmantroy** · 03-30-23 09:48

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I just got a call from a former sugar baby that I had seen for maybe 4-6 weeks who I stopped seeing a couple of weeks ago. She said that she is pregnant with my kid and wants an abortion, but she's only willing to do a surgical abortion where she's under anesthesia in North Carolina. She's asking for $3200 for the procedure. And she refuses to take the abortion pill or any other procedure.

I want to believe her, but I'm worried that I'm being scammed. Does anyone have advice on what I should do?

If you saw her 4-6 weeks, then she obviously had a cycle somewhere in there. 28 days is 28 days. Do the math and see if it's possible. If it's within possibility then tell her you're paying, you decide where and what she has done. $400 for the pill at a clinic south of Atlanta.

**FreudFro** · 03-30-23 09:20

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I just got a call from a former sugar baby that I had seen for maybe 4-6 weeks who I stopped seeing a couple of weeks ago. She said that she is pregnant with my kid and wants an abortion, but she's only willing to do a surgical abortion where she's under anesthesia in North Carolina. She's asking for $3200 for the procedure. And she refuses to take the abortion pill or any other procedure.

I want to believe her, but I'm worried that I'm being scammed. Does anyone have advice on what I should do?

That rate seems double for the procedure in the few google results I checked.

Not saying she's lying, but I would ask for a pregnancy test at minimal. After that, you can decide how far you want to take it.

Is she threatening you? Wants to out you? Etc. ?

**PornRider** · 03-29-23 21:17

I just got a call from a former sugar baby that I had seen for maybe 4-6 weeks who I stopped seeing a couple of weeks ago. She said that she is pregnant with my kid and wants an abortion, but she's only willing to do a surgical abortion where she's under anesthesia in North Carolina. She's asking for $3200 for the procedure. And she refuses to take the abortion pill or any other procedure.

I want to believe her, but I'm worried that I'm being scammed. Does anyone have advice on what I should do?

**LouisHernandez** · 03-29-23 17:26

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

I submitted the request to not have my face indexed and got a notice that it was approved. I did a test with a different photo and this time it didn't find any hits for me, but found several that looked somewhat similar to me. I suspect this is going to become a game of whack-a-mole as more of these sites start to appear.

If you decide to go through with submitting the request, you do need to upload a copy of your driver's license however you redact all of the identifiable information. You could even edit your name using a photo editor, but I didn't do that.

I can't think pimeyes will be unique in this technology, but at least it's a paywall service.

I will say that back in the day it was alot easier to find info via phone numbers and / or pics. Reverse google search seemed much better than it is today, and you could enter a SBs phone number into facebook and get her fb page every time. You can still find people but it's a lot harder.

I loath all these damn pic filters women use b/c the catfish risk is so much higher. If I don't see some up close and personal unfiltered pics in a dating bio, I assume the worst and avoid.

**2me4Looking2** · 03-29-23 14:55

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

Like others, I tested with a photo I normally share and it found some matches. It won't let me see where they are from without paying though. I did click on the link to have my pics removed, but you have to do that for each individual result and I have no idea if they will really honor that request. I used to only share fake photos and then I lost 2 SB's I really wanted to see because they were upset that I used a fake pic. Not sure what I'll do going forward.

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

There is a link where you can upload a pic as well as an anonymized version of your I'd and they will supposedly stop showing any results for your face. I gave it a shot and removed all info from my DL other than my name and photo. Hoping I'm not making it worse.

I submitted the request to not have my face indexed and got a notice that it was approved. I did a test with a different photo and this time it didn't find any hits for me, but found several that looked somewhat similar to me. I suspect this is going to become a game of whack-a-mole as more of these sites start to appear.

If you decide to go through with submitting the request, you do need to upload a copy of your driver's license however you redact all of the identifiable information. You could even edit your name using a photo editor, but I didn't do that.

**MacLuvin** · 03-29-23 14:26

Originally Posted by LouisHernandez [View Original Post]

What sites do you recommend that will run these sorts of filters on your photos?

Quick, easy and free. It's not fool proof but if you find a good filter it will work and not match with your real photos online.

**LouisHernandez** · 03-29-23 13:12

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

As for filters, I find something on snapchat that changes facial features enough not to be recognized on one of those photo search sites. Usually it's a filter that firms up the jawline and cheeks for more of an angular or squared jaw look if that makes sense but it doesn't look too fake for the POT to call BS. And if they do I just tell turn it around on them and ask for them to send a real non filtered pic and that usually settles it because 99% of those girls won't send something that doesn't look like they have 5 layers of makeup on or some kind of filter. It seems like a fair amount of the girls I've talked to on there are trying to stay discreet as well as they have jobs, in a relationship, or kids.

What sites do you recommend that will run these sorts of filters on your photos?