"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**SeanLively85** · 01-02-23 20:41

Originally Posted by CuriousVaMan [View Original Post]

I chatted with her tonight on Seeking as well. Wanted to immediately move to Snap, which I don't have. Haven't heard anything from her since informing her. Good luck. Please report back!

Brilliantheiress is definitely a scammer. I went to Snapchat with her to discuss and I asked her to do a video chat to talk and prove she was real. She said "Not for free". Then I asked if she could at least send me a live video saying "Hey *my name*" she declined to do so without me paying her first. Of course, I said no and called her out for being a scammer. She then went on a rant about how I'm just a "cheap ass" and that she has plenty of men willing to pay top dollar, blah blah. In other words, avoid her.

**LouisHernandez** · 01-02-23 20:25

Originally Posted by LaidLow17 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-20ef81ca2eb5

Said she'd love to meet but gosh she just needs to pay the babysitter first, wants to know if I could help w that. I politely declined.

Babysitter help scam. I've been hit with it recently and the girl put in her profile she has 0 kids. What a dumbass. Any money upfront is always fraudulent. Payment is only rendered after services are performed. Next.

**LouisHernandez** · 01-02-23 20:14

Originally Posted by LaidLow17 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-e0567d7f8bfc

Messages on the site, moved off pretty easy. Got to talking and pic sharing, this girl wants 500 ppm with a body that is worth half that maybe. I politely declined.

P. s this round of seeking has been real rough for me, nothing but scammers hitting me up from Estonia and fat chicks who think they're worth 10 x what they are. Anyone else or is it just me?

It's definitely gotten harder. I'm hoping things improve in January, perhaps everyone is on Christmas break and not needing any cash etc. I've got a few leads but haven't had any meets this subscription round yet and nothing is lined up. Could have scored easily with a 35 yo "curvy" latina (fatty) and a skinny 28 year old methhead, but I digress, not going there. I've only been on for about a week so far.

**LouisHernandez** · 01-02-23 20:08

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

I actually legit dated someone from seeking for 2. 5 years LOL.

No shit? My longest stint with a SB was also 5 years but it was 100% "casual". It was like a once every 3 month kinda deal. Met her when she was 19. Holy shit did she go down hill though, unrecognizable. Easily put on 50 pounds over the 5 years. She still has a nice ass though, but I finally couldn't do it anymore and she got really flakey, so that finally went dark. It was BBFS pullout $200 everytime, 1 pop, 30 mins. Girl was a trip.

**SoonerFan72** · 01-02-23 19:18

Reached out to me first, very aggressive, but nice. Comes off with a pro vibe. She said she was in the Johns Creek area. Asked for $450, I passed. I did not get a verification pic, so if you pursue, I'd make sure and get one. I also got a few hits on her number for arrest records, mostly family stuff, nothing too crazy. Anyways, just providing info for you guys, tread at your own risk.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-e551ab30346d

**KingHorama2** · 01-02-23 19:14

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...d-70a6b0f45010

Not sure if anyone seen her before, no hits on the name, but she immediately moved convo to phone and then started asking personal details.

**TattoedDaddy1** · 01-02-23 18:29

Originally Posted by LaidLow17 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-20ef81ca2eb5

Said she'd love to meet but gosh she just needs to pay the babysitter first, wants to know if I could help w that. I politely declined.

I chatted with her on the site. She wanted to know what I wanted. I explain to her and she hasn't responded couple months. She may not be ready to pull the trigger on this lifestyle idk.

**LaidLow17** · 01-02-23 18:11

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

With an account dating back to 2015 you have to believe she is legit though. However I would never send money first. That is a weird one. Maybe say you will give her babysitter money when you meet.

Maybe, and it's a good point about account age. I've just been burned and I didn't want to deal with it.

**Member #6718** · 01-02-23 18:07

Originally Posted by LaidLow17 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-20ef81ca2eb5

Said she'd love to meet but gosh she just needs to pay the babysitter first, wants to know if I could help w that. I politely declined.

With an account dating back to 2015 you have to believe she is legit though. However I would never send money first. That is a weird one. Maybe say you will give her babysitter money when you meet.

**Member #6718** · 01-02-23 18:06

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Thanks for that perspective. I also disagree that everything about SA is short term. It might be for him, but he's in no position to speak for everyone. I have truly enjoyed several long-term arrangements I have had, and my last one, she had to relocate out of the lower 48 for work, but every time she is back home visiting her family, we FC. If she were still here we'd still see each other weekly, we have that strong a connection. I saw her at Thanksgiving, we had this exact conversation, and she agrees completely with that. Of course, we know we aren't a long-term match for a committed relationship. I've been married 2 decades+. What I think is the max you can expect from an arrangement is the *intention* that you are going to continue to see someone, but of course that is just until something happens. One of you gets a job in a different location, perhaps she meets a dude she wants to date vanilla, or your wife finds out you've been banging a 20-something.

I have also had a lot of fun w / girls I've seen only once (mostly when traveling) or a few times, we didn't match well for a continuing arrangement.

Yeah in my case I have only been using seeking since I got divorced, so have been single the entire time. The 2. 5 year one, that was not an arrangement, we were just vanilla dating, despite an age gap of over 20 years. There is a decent chance I will end up in another relationship at some point with someone from seeking. I also remain friends with the first chick I ever banged from seeking way back in 2014. We hookup from time to time.

**LaidLow17** · 01-02-23 17:53

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-20ef81ca2eb5

Said she'd love to meet but gosh she just needs to pay the babysitter first, wants to know if I could help w that. I politely declined.

**LaidLow17** · 01-02-23 17:51

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-e0567d7f8bfc

Messages on the site, moved off pretty easy. Got to talking and pic sharing, this girl wants 500 ppm with a body that is worth half that maybe. I politely declined.

P. s this round of seeking has been real rough for me, nothing but scammers hitting me up from Estonia and fat chicks who think they're worth 10 x what they are. Anyone else or is it just me?

**LaidLow17** · 01-02-23 17:48

Originally Posted by CuriousVaMan [View Original Post]

I chatted with her tonight on Seeking as well. Wanted to immediately move to Snap, which I don't have. Haven't heard anything from her since informing her. Good luck. Please report back!

She's real, and really in Atlanta. Did live location sharing with her to confirm, but then she's asking for deposit offering 250 for all night. I said nah and she immediately dropped to 1.0. Classic deposit scam, nothing else to see here.

**FarFarAway** · 01-02-23 17:00

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

I actually legit dated someone from seeking for 2. 5 years LOL.

Thanks for that perspective. I also disagree that everything about SA is short term. It might be for him, but he's in no position to speak for everyone. I have truly enjoyed several long-term arrangements I have had, and my last one, she had to relocate out of the lower 48 for work, but every time she is back home visiting her family, we FC. If she were still here we'd still see each other weekly, we have that strong a connection. I saw her at Thanksgiving, we had this exact conversation, and she agrees completely with that. Of course, we know we aren't a long-term match for a committed relationship. I've been married 2 decades+. What I think is the max you can expect from an arrangement is the *intention* that you are going to continue to see someone, but of course that is just until something happens. One of you gets a job in a different location, perhaps she meets a dude she wants to date vanilla, or your wife finds out you've been banging a 20-something.

I have also had a lot of fun w / girls I've seen only once (mostly when traveling) or a few times, we didn't match well for a continuing arrangement.

**Member #6718** · 01-02-23 15:54

Originally Posted by LouisHernandez [View Original Post]

Yes I prefer the casual encounters too, but come to think of it, given the entire goal is BBFS with a UTR, it's best to come across looking for "monogamous" and "emotional connection" even though we all know everything about seeking is short term.

I actually legit dated someone from seeking for 2. 5 years LOL.