"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**LouisHernandez** · 01-02-23 14:39

Originally Posted by OliverNP [View Original Post]

I encounter it fairly regularly (like when an SB is getting the hint that the new and shiny factor is wearing off for me, and suddenly she has the idea maybe we could date without sugar in order to keep me around), but only within a certain age bracket (maybe 25+ on average).

But, what I'm seeing now is a little different. It's the girls who make clear they are in search of a long-term relationship and ask me explicitly to not ruin it by talking about ppm or allowance.

Is that really sugar-optional? I don't think so. I still think the majority of them still want their hands in my pockets, they would just like it to be under the successful boyfriend / young girlfriend way of doing things rather than anything like an official specified amount.

If that's what you're looking for (and I know some folks are), then yes probably a different approach in the profile to indicate that's what you want would attract more of what you want. I try to craft my profile in a way that it doesn't limit opportunities. That's not always easy, because if I say I want casual & NSA, the girls who want BFs won't react well to it, and if I say I want a LTR, it might land me more cheap or free pussy (at the expense of lots of texting) but turns away the casual encounters I actually prefer.

Yes I prefer the casual encounters too, but come to think of it, given the entire goal is BBFS with a UTR, it's best to come across looking for "monogamous" and "emotional connection" even though we all know everything about seeking is short term.

**LouisHernandez** · 01-02-23 13:53

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...9-7b771c050d8e

Real, but just looking to sell nudes. Next!

If the profile was created only a few days ago and they are especially hot, I always ignore. Seeking is good about purging the scammers but it takes them about a week.

**LouisHernandez** · 01-02-23 13:51

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

They never tell you what you get banned for on any of these sites. This was before I ever said anything about sugar dating. It was just regular conversation on Bumble. I always tried to be polite and respectful, but maybe I told one she had nice cleavage and she flew off then handle, or who knows. I'm sure I'll get banned on there again eventually, because it's just a minefield filled with crazy women, and they will complain and lie about you, for anything.

Well that's complete BS if you've paid for a lifetime. They should refund you.

**TattoedDaddy1** · 01-02-23 13:50

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

Scammer. I blocked her before I got her profile link. She wanted to switch straight to text, when I Googled her number I got a hit on her RubMD page, with a review stating she is a scammer.

https://rubmd.com/nashville-tn/69ffe...f15c4af0?ref=p

This her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...7-08f2ccc97e3c

**SoonerFan72** · 01-02-23 12:15

Scammer. I blocked her before I got her profile link. She wanted to switch straight to text, when I Googled her number I got a hit on her RubMD page, with a review stating she is a scammer.

https://rubmd.com/nashville-tn/69ffe...f15c4af0?ref=p

**CuriousVaMan** · 01-02-23 02:04

I chatted with her tonight on Seeking as well. Wanted to immediately move to Snap, which I don't have. Haven't heard anything from her since informing her. Good luck. Please report back!

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-3a8b081d2a3f

Just curious if anyone has got anywhere with this one. Profile is a few months old, and they don't talk like a scammer. Moved her to snap, she snapped me a live pic. When I asked for one with a specific pose she pouted. Normaly I'd immediately cut off and move on, but her chatting doesn't have the usual hallmarks of scamming, and she hasn't asked for $.

**GoneForGood97** · 01-02-23 01:51

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-3a8b081d2a3f

Just curious if anyone has got anywhere with this one. Profile is a few months old, and they don't talk like a scammer. Moved her to snap, she snapped me a live pic. When I asked for one with a specific pose she pouted. Normaly I'd immediately cut off and move on, but her chatting doesn't have the usual hallmarks of scamming, and she hasn't asked for $.

**GoneForGood97** · 01-02-23 00:39

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...9-7b771c050d8e

Real, but just looking to sell nudes. Next!

**Thunderbolt27** · 01-01-23 23:31

Thank you so much for sharing these. For some reason, I rarely get these emailed to me.

T-Bolt.

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I got these in my email, and just used a 25% off and was $82.49 for a month of premium subscription. So if you need to renew, you can try them:

25% off: http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?m...0MjI2NgS2&rt=0.

25% off: http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?m...2MDg4NAS2&rt=0.

15% off: http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?m...wNjI4NQS2&rt=0.

**Peter Johnson** · 01-01-23 22:19

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Just curious if seeking ran a holiday or New Year discount and I just missed the boat? I was traveling over the holidays so wasn't really in a place to be able to discretely check the site on Christmas, and surprised to see there was no email sent to me with a New Year discount. Was going to resub since my most recent SB went to the wayside. Was a code sent out that I missed?

I posted a few messages below with links to 25% off. I heard about a 33% one as well, but don't have the info there.

**GoneForGood97** · 01-01-23 19:16

Just curious if seeking ran a holiday or New Year discount and I just missed the boat? I was traveling over the holidays so wasn't really in a place to be able to discretely check the site on Christmas, and surprised to see there was no email sent to me with a New Year discount. Was going to resub since my most recent SB went to the wayside. Was a code sent out that I missed?

**Peter Johnson** · 01-01-23 19:06

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

What did they ban you for? I have been pretty open. But respectful. On the sugar dating questions.

They never tell you what you get banned for on any of these sites. This was before I ever said anything about sugar dating. It was just regular conversation on Bumble. I always tried to be polite and respectful, but maybe I told one she had nice cleavage and she flew off then handle, or who knows. I'm sure I'll get banned on there again eventually, because it's just a minefield filled with crazy women, and they will complain and lie about you, for anything.

**Peter Johnson** · 01-01-23 19:02

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

How do you approach chicks for pics / vids? I would love to do this but just don't seem to know the right approach.

There are a couple of different ways to do it. I used to just wait until we were in the middle of having sex, and preferably after I get them off with oral, and they are loose and feeling good. Then in doggy, I will say something like "Damn what a beautiful view. I wish I could capture this somehow. Are you ok with taking some hot pics. I keep them encrypted on my computer, and only for my personal use". Some will go for it, and some will not.

But now I will bring it up before we meet, when we are discussing PPM. I will throw out a number what I did with past girls and casually mention, "or more if they were ok with me taking some hot pics together. For my personal use only and I keep them encrypted on my computer". So I basically upcharge myself there, and offer extra 50 or 100. And if the girl is hot, an extra 100 for pics I will enjoy for many years, is so worth it.

And I never say anything about "video", but just do it when I'm taking the pics. Saying you want to take video just sounds more creepy or intrusive. But nothing better than a BJ video or oral cumshot vid....although feels better to put it somewhere else, of course.

Basically the perfect date for me is 90 min to 2 hrs of BBFS / CIP, and I can take hot pics. If they give me all that, then I'm fine with being extra generous.

**Member #6718** · 01-01-23 18:18

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

Yes, I have my "new pussy spreadsheet" that goes back to the start. I didn't start it until I was up to #75 or so and just had to sit and remember all those, but I've kept it mostly updated and current, since then. I have pics saved of many of them, but some of the others I have zero recollection of, which is too bad. I am really pushing for taking pics and video of new girls I am with lately, because that adds a lot of value to the experience for me. Of course I don't blame the ones who aren't down for this, but they just get moved farther down the list.

How do you approach chicks for pics / vids? I would love to do this but just don't seem to know the right approach.