"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[FarFarAway]

You're only paying dinner with no allowance? Nice deal.

I can tell you that Mr. JoyDrop is the real deal. There are some people here who claim that there is no such thing as a guy having game, and that the deal you make w / a girl is simply a financial transaction. He is the exception to that rule for sure. I don't think many of us have his talents, so we can't exactly mimic his strategy, but we can aspire to it.

I met a 30's girl off SA recently, the GM of an auto dealership. Tall slender and pretty MILF (maybe needs a little trip to the dentist). I focused on overall interactions w / her in the M&G, didn't spend much time at all on the sexual part. I did ask what sort of gift she needed to FC, her non-committal response was something like 'oh, I do pretty well for myself, but I'm a girl, I like to get my hair done, my manicures, etc. And that is what I get out of an arrangement. ' Well I am still in the dark on allowance based on that. So I guessed. I am in California where the market is high, but I got her a gift card to Lululemon for 100, and 250 cash. Oh, yes, and a $7 bouquet from the grocery store. Well, in the FC, she was the bomb. Totally amazing 37 D boobs, all natural, bearing very dark and very large nipples. Which commanded attention for a long long time. Many funs were had. She is incredibly submissive, just begged to be told what to do.

Texting her after, DYK what she said? That the gifts I got her were amazing, and the flowers she put in her office. I went overboard. I should have just given her the 250 and the flowers.

[TheLife1]

That made me laugh out loud when I read it. And yeah, that is my "thing".

Nothing against those of you who are looking to smash PPM, but I prefer the longer term relationships. Different strokes for different folks right? I'm married, I use SA to find girls who have a fantasy of being in a relationship with an older man and don't mind being the side chick. The best ones prefer it. It's not easy to find a girl with the right mindset, but when you do, damn it can be good.

The girls I look for and wind up dating are going through a phase in life where they're either focused on finishing school or starting their career and they're tired of the shit they have to deal with from guys their own age. They want an older man who treats them with respect, doesn't make them pay for dinner or drinks and knows how to keep them cumming over and over. If you get a good one she'll be mature enough to accept it for exactly what it is and give you the ride of your life for a year or two until she gets it out of her system and decides she's ready to find someone (else) to settle down with.

I've been fortunate enough to have done this several times; the girl I've been seeing for about a year now is an extraordinarily sweet, pretty 26 year old that falls squarely into the description above. She's a college grad, working hard to establish her career and is doing pretty well for herself. She doesn't want to even think about looking for a husband until she's 30. But she does want a good man in her life to keep her physically satisfied. We're in an exclusive relationship and we're both pretty happy about it. She does consider herself my girlfriend, and to be completely honest I'm good with that. She doesn't just respect my boundaries for our relationship, she embraces them. It's truly 100% drama free. But most importantly, she puts it on me hard every time I see her and acts like I'm doing *her* a favor. It's really hard to explain just how far she goes out of her way to accommodate all of my needs and make sure I'm always completely fulfilled ... it's almost too good to be true. I get all I can handle (and then some) and it doesn't cost me a dime outside of the dinners we share together. It's really tough to complain.

You're only paying dinner with no allowance? Nice deal.

[BumbaCloth]

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...7-1809d583944c

[JoyDrop]

That's called a girlfriend. And if that your thing, well more power to you.

That made me laugh out loud when I read it. And yeah, that is my "thing".

Nothing against those of you who are looking to smash PPM, but I prefer the longer term relationships. Different strokes for different folks right? I'm married, I use SA to find girls who have a fantasy of being in a relationship with an older man and don't mind being the side chick. The best ones prefer it. It's not easy to find a girl with the right mindset, but when you do, damn it can be good.

The girls I look for and wind up dating are going through a phase in life where they're either focused on finishing school or starting their career and they're tired of the shit they have to deal with from guys their own age. They want an older man who treats them with respect, doesn't make them pay for dinner or drinks and knows how to keep them cumming over and over. If you get a good one she'll be mature enough to accept it for exactly what it is and give you the ride of your life for a year or two until she gets it out of her system and decides she's ready to find someone (else) to settle down with.

I've been fortunate enough to have done this several times; the girl I've been seeing for about a year now is an extraordinarily sweet, pretty 26 year old that falls squarely into the description above. She's a college grad, working hard to establish her career and is doing pretty well for herself. She doesn't want to even think about looking for a husband until she's 30. But she does want a good man in her life to keep her physically satisfied. We're in an exclusive relationship and we're both pretty happy about it. She does consider herself my girlfriend, and to be completely honest I'm good with that. She doesn't just respect my boundaries for our relationship, she embraces them. It's truly 100% drama free. But most importantly, she puts it on me hard every time I see her and acts like I'm doing *her* a favor. It's really hard to explain just how far she goes out of her way to accommodate all of my needs and make sure I'm always completely fulfilled ... it's almost too good to be true. I get all I can handle (and then some) and it doesn't cost me a dime outside of the dinners we share together. It's really tough to complain.

[Gatsby32]

If they are selling ass, their amateur status is gone.

Naanii is a pro she on listcrawler.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-17db5edbda8e

https://www.eros.com/georgia/atlanta/files/2131029.htm

[BumbaCloth]

Naanii is a pro she on listcrawler.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-17db5edbda8e

https://www.eros.com/georgia/atlanta/files/2131029.htm

[BumbaCloth]

She asked for 3 k allowance.

So I have not seen her, but exchanged several message with her about 4 years ago. So she has been around. I believe she is a hair stylist in the suburbs or exurbs. The reason I remember her is she was asking for an allowance that clear GPS. I know it was at least $$ But her pics were nice and she did seem to have that crazy hair dresser vibe.

[DudeNextDoor]

She's a scammer. Says she's looking for FWB / NSA and moves to text. She's using pics of some * girl. I found it through an image search that had a few twitter hits. I blocked and reported her so can't share the link to her page now.

[TylerDurden07]

This is the part that often gets lost on the thread. Everyone isn't necessarily using sugar sites as a revolving door of actual or wannabe escorts.

Some are truly looking for a certain connection that can last longer than a PPM.

I started out in this hobby with strippers, then with escorts, & now with SB's. Does that make strippers the "gateway drug"?

But anyway, I won't go back. The right SB is hotter than your average escort, & most importantly the right SB will stay with you for several hours (& overnight, if you want) for the same price you pay for 1 min 3 max hrs of an escort's time.

I target girls who will act like a gf but not really be a gf, if that makes sense. A "real gf" will eventually get marriage expectations. A "real gf" will want you to see her exclusively too. I've never had a gf-like SB have those types of expectations.

It really is just in choosing the right girl to be your SB, &--as always--what you want is totally up to you. What works for one dude doesn't necessarily work for another.

[HollowGuy]

Anyone has any information on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-e1a211fa24f4

[Firedup10]

-For sure. She is high volume and did a gang bang. I've seen her twice and hope she really did move to Braselton, so I won't be tempted for another repeat. She is a very cool chick, but I already had to get a few penicillin shots earlier this year, so trying to be at least a bit more careful now...

Has anyone had any contact recently with FriendlyLady that moved to Braselton?? I Know a couple of ya'll have messaged me with a phone number but she doesn't seem to respond. I was wondering if maybe someone has had contact with her in the last week or so and if so, I would really appreciate it if you would message me her digits. Thanks in advance.

[Wleakr]

It is! I use the sb world more to date younger, hotter chicks than I could otherwise, as opposed to just getting laid.

This is the part that often gets lost on the thread. Everyone isn't necessarily using sugar sites as a revolving door of actual or wannabe escorts.

Some are truly looking for a certain connection that can last longer than a PPM.

[Member #6718]

That's called a girlfriend. And if that your thing, well more power to you.

It is! I use the sb world more to date younger, hotter chicks than I could otherwise, as opposed to just getting laid.

[Jims2321]

Yeah this ain't the same for me. My relationships with SBs tend to go well beyond just getting laid, and depending on the connection I spend a lot of time with them outside of the bedroom. Hell I even ended up living with someone I met on seeking for a couple of years.

That's called a girlfriend. And if that your thing, well more power to you.

[Member #6718]

Pete,

Are you crazy? Look at the $400 mark you might as well get a pro. I have 3 of them right now that I rotate thru at $200/ meet. They are at best 6's, but god are the fucking sexual animals. And at the end of the day, isn't it just about getting laid?

JimS2321.

Yeah this ain't the same for me. My relationships with SBs tend to go well beyond just getting laid, and depending on the connection I spend a lot of time with them outside of the bedroom. Hell I even ended up living with someone I met on seeking for a couple of years.