Sugar Baby

**Bertil** · 07-20-22 00:17

Originally Posted by DrGood [View Original Post]

Hey ya'll.

Hoping I could get some of ya'lls insight on the sugar dating scene. I'm pretty familiar with the escort scene in the USA And abroad but the sugar scene is something I've stuck my toes in, but haven't figured out and can't say I've had experiences I'd repeat out of the couple of girls I did meet. But I'm definitely interested in it as an alternative and I know there's something here.

What's your approach / strategy here? I notice even some guys are getting BBFS with cip.

I'm a little apprehensive in discussing things explicitly because I've had the feeling before I'm speaking with LEO and I don't want to end up with that situation. Do you just discuss things plainly / openly with them? Do you hint at it and wait until the real life meet and then discuss the blunt details? What do you look for? How do you feel them out?

It's obvious this is a sorting game because some of these girls are beyond entitled and delusional. Even some of the arrogant ways some of them have tried to get me interested or sell me have been outright laughable.

Much appreciated in advance.

It depends on the type of girl you're talking to on there. If it's a pro she won't have a problem telling you what it cost per meet up front and that's where the negotiating begins. By the way just make sure you are talking about $$ outside of the site or risk being banned. The majority of girls on there I've had offer BBFS and they all say the same thing about not doing it often and that they get checked often. Right.

As far as non pros which is what I prefer, it takes some time and they will not fuck on the first date for the most part. Meet and greet and discuss the details there if the vibes are right. Just tell them what you're wanting. If you see them long enough and they start to trust you, you can have your way with them. Those are the type of girls that don't get posted about on here. The rare gems are there but it takes time. PM me if you have more questions. Also there is an excellent post a monger posted on here not too long ago about what to do or not to do. It should be on the front page.

**Eustisflman** · 07-19-22 22:16

Originally Posted by Gilagin [View Original Post]

Have messaged back and forth with this one. Looks nice in the pics. I have asked what her expectations are twice and no response. Location says orlando and she says she is in the Sand Lake / I drive area. Not sure how much longer I'll spend working this one. Anyone had any luck with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-0519eb121153

Blocker her already at some point. So something did not add up on her profile.

**DrGood** · 07-19-22 21:48

Hey ya'll.

Hoping I could get some of ya'lls insight on the sugar dating scene. I'm pretty familiar with the escort scene in the USA And abroad but the sugar scene is something I've stuck my toes in, but haven't figured out and can't say I've had experiences I'd repeat out of the couple of girls I did meet. But I'm definitely interested in it as an alternative and I know there's something here.

What's your approach / strategy here? I notice even some guys are getting BBFS with cip.

I'm a little apprehensive in discussing things explicitly because I've had the feeling before I'm speaking with LEO and I don't want to end up with that situation. Do you just discuss things plainly / openly with them? Do you hint at it and wait until the real life meet and then discuss the blunt details? What do you look for? How do you feel them out?

It's obvious this is a sorting game because some of these girls are beyond entitled and delusional. Even some of the arrogant ways some of them have tried to get me interested or sell me have been outright laughable.

Much appreciated in advance.

**Gilagin** · 07-19-22 18:44

Have messaged back and forth with this one. Looks nice in the pics. I have asked what her expectations are twice and no response. Location says orlando and she says she is in the Sand Lake / I drive area. Not sure how much longer I'll spend working this one. Anyone had any luck with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-0519eb121153

**Je2010** · 07-19-22 14:39

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-108950fdc288

Never said an amount, but wants spoiling for a cpl of weeks and then she was be intimate. We all know what that means, it will never happen.

**Eustisflman** · 07-19-22 09:28

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...b-794c2e7077f5 wants 500 plus dinner and she does not host. Told her she has UCF that sets the rates way lower.

**Eustisflman** · 07-19-22 09:26

Must be a pro asked how many hours. https://members.seeking.com/member/3...4-fdf951d1a777 I passed.

**Je2010** · 07-18-22 13:45

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-9e12b00e480c

Wants 8-1 k per meet.

**Bud Green** · 07-17-22 02:10

Originally Posted by Gilagin [View Original Post]

I looked at her profile, the not into married men and not willing to travel puts a damper to the fun.

I expect to start seeing more of this since seeking has become more of a main stream dating site. I read on redit a lot of people are being banned so make sure your messaging sugatbabies and keep messages vague until you go to text. I actually go from sa to Snapchat I verify than move to text. I'm already seeing vanilla seekers.

**Gilagin** · 07-16-22 20:01

Originally Posted by HardWoodsman [View Original Post]

I've talked to Babbylj66 a few times and even a had a meet scheduled that we had to cancel. I was hoping someone had met her in person and can share info? She is slow to respond and don't want to invest more time in her if she is a complete flake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...b-52ed34d5401a

I looked at her profile, the not into married men and not willing to travel puts a damper to the fun.

**Gilagin** · 07-16-22 19:58

Originally Posted by Johnson5 [View Original Post]

Been chatting with her too.

I don't understand the GPS.

I clicked the link through here to see her profile. Shortly after, she hit me up wanting to see my additional pics. Once we started talking she said minimum is $5. I told her thanks but no, then she asked what I would offer, I countered at $2-2. 5 depending on what is offered and the amount of time we get together. She hasn't read the message yet or responded. Doubt she will come down that much, plus not hosting adds another $- 5 for a room.

**HardWoodsman** · 07-16-22 17:03

I've talked to Babbylj66 a few times and even a had a meet scheduled that we had to cancel. I was hoping someone had met her in person and can share info? She is slow to respond and don't want to invest more time in her if she is a complete flake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...b-52ed34d5401a

**Shampoo55** · 07-16-22 13:59

Originally Posted by BudGreen [View Original Post]

I assume everyone knows SA is changing its business model to an actual dating website called seeking for those who seek to date, other successful people. You might start seeing marriage-minded, true love, monogamous some know about sugar dating some don't. I was with a nice peach last week and told me she owns a business and doesn't have the time for conventional dating and if she wants to get laid and some cash it only makes sense its a win-win but she prefers to find a life partner if possible and if I'm that guy then, of course, there wouldn't be a ppm. I've been using burner phones but if you say something to some of these women they will take a screenshot and report you so now I just use Snapchat its safer. If you have to explain what sugar dating is or asked what a ppm or what do you mean by allowance I'm not a kid! LOL yep, true story. There are still plenty of SB but if you haven't already you will start seeing things like financially independent, successful woman seeking. These are the type that will get you banned in a heartbeat and they probably do have a degree LOL.

Originally Posted by UtahLedgend2 [View Original Post]

I think they are just doing this to not get shutdown. Everyone knows what it is and there will be plenty of SB's. A regular dating site.

Charging 100.00 a month will definitely fail.

Originally Posted by MilkyWay [View Original Post]

I have seen this trend as well. Be careful when a SB requests that you provide more details on what you are looking for. It is a quick way to get banned. I think some SBs do it on purpose.

EXACTLY! It isn't so much that SA has changed its business model to a "dating" website, but more that they are trying to protect their business and owner from prosecution. Protect the tens of millions a year in profits!

Got to realize that the idiots running BP thumbed their noses at all attempts to help them get trafficking and under-aged stuff off of their website, it took and act of Congress to get them shutdown. Once SESTA / FOSTA was passed it changed the landscape. Look even this website moved "offshore. " Now websites can no longer hide behind the protections of the Communications Decency Act when it comes to sex trafficking & under-aged stuff. Since we know the public, and thus LE, have a hard time distinguishing between sex trafficking and plain prostitution anyone running a site has to be extremely careful. Also the site / owners are liable for damages if a girl is trafficked on their website.

So the changes at SA are more than cosmetic. They are trying to keep operating but be able to prove they are against prostitution. As such things have changed. There are warnings against prostitution, changes to the TOS and now they have BOTs reading and evaluating emails for signs of prostitution. Therefore, if one goes on that website and talks about money. Banned! Site can not tell you why you are banned as that could be construed as "coaching" or helping you get around their rules against prostitution. You just don't want to get banned as it is a permanent ban as they keep track of your IP Addy and MAC addy and ban you if you try to get back on! It's a tough process to get around, so better to just avoid getting banned.

I usually correspond a few emails on the site to see if girl is interested, BUT make certain to move the convo OFFSITE before I talk about dating in shape way or form. The BOTs know all of the code words and acronyms so one can't get around it that way. It is just safest to take convo offsite ASAP! And OP is correct, girls are naive to "the rules" and often will (unintentionally?) bait you into a discussion about sugar or amounts of funds. When I get that I either quit corresponding with her or state clearly that I don't do anything illegal and if she's like to chat offsite please provide a contact method.

You have to be extra careful these days, but very few I have run into on the site are actually looking for LTRs. Everyone knows why its there. Nudge, nudge, wink, wink! But you have to play by the new rules to end up with a SB.