"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Peter Johnson** · 02-26-22 21:30

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Since I have a decent stable of midrange talent (single moms in late 20's early 30's) I've been trying to be a little more selective for future SBs. One thing I've noticed is the prettier / younger they are, the more likely to be CFS starting off. Most of them will eventually move to BFS after you develop some trust. CFS is not a deal breaker for me in the sub-300 range, particularly if I plan on seeing someone long term where I expect to move to bare. And I tell them that after the first time, something like "This was fun, I definitely want to see you again, but I only have long term SBs with girls I can trust enough to not need a condom. We won't need that anymore after a few dates right?" I haven't had one yet who was interested in seeing me again decline.

Yes that is true, that the prettier and younger ones seem to have more self respect and will insist on CFS, which just isn't worth 200 to me, in most cases. But when I was younger, it may have been different. If you are getting your money's worth, that's what counts... and then even moreso when they let you go BFS later on.

**GoneForGood97** · 02-26-22 21:26

Seeing if anyone had intel on https://members.seeking.com/member/b...-d54db020f875. Got her to text but haven't really made a full court press on her yet. Thought I'd check here if anyone knew she was real and worth the effort. Pure speculation from her profile is I bet she's selling content, but she hasn't made any attempt to sell me any yet. Even if she's not a content scammer, I assume anyone who self identifies as a model is GPS, but I've had decent luck getting overpriced girls down back down to earth, but it's a lot of time, effort, and charm, and I just want to know if that much work is worth it in this case.

**Niteluvr** · 02-26-22 18:57

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Since I have a decent stable of midrange talent (single moms in late 20's early 30's) I've been trying to be a little more selective for future SBs. One thing I've noticed is the prettier / younger they are, the more likely to be CFS starting off. Most of them will eventually move to BFS after you develop some trust. CFS is not a deal breaker for me in the sub-300 range, particularly if I plan on seeing someone long term where I expect to move to bare. And I tell them that after the first time, something like "This was fun, I definitely want to see you again, but I only have long term SBs with girls I can trust enough to not need a condom. We won't need that anymore after a few dates right?" I haven't had one yet who was interested in seeing me again decline.

Are you finding these girls on seeking.com or other places?

**GoneForGood97** · 02-26-22 17:34

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I was talking to her, but she had a bad attitude, so I bailed.

CFS, bratty, and pierced nips are all negatives for me, but glad you had fun, and thanks for sharing the intel (and the pic).

Since I have a decent stable of midrange talent (single moms in late 20's early 30's) I've been trying to be a little more selective for future SBs. One thing I've noticed is the prettier / younger they are, the more likely to be CFS starting off. Most of them will eventually move to BFS after you develop some trust. CFS is not a deal breaker for me in the sub-300 range, particularly if I plan on seeing someone long term where I expect to move to bare. And I tell them that after the first time, something like "This was fun, I definitely want to see you again, but I only have long term SBs with girls I can trust enough to not need a condom. We won't need that anymore after a few dates right?" I haven't had one yet who was interested in seeing me again decline.

**Peter Johnson** · 02-26-22 12:04

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Alright, here's a hot one I banged out off and on a few weeks ago, but the distance is too much of a hassle and our schedules couldn't align due to her work so I'm throwing her to the board. Take care of her, she's super sweet and pics are real. Best set of natural tits I've ever seen on a woman I fucked, and if you like small tattoos and piercings, congrats you've hit the jackpot. Will do $3, but can get down to $2 after you see her a few times (you open with that and you're toast though). CFS but BBBJ CIM, no anal on initial date, but after you've built some trust and give her some advance notice she's receptive. And once you built up some trust she'll let you in on her kinky / submissive / bratty side, but if you try to start there you're blocked and done. Declined to host, so always had to get a room. You're welcome gents.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2c3e3408-d636-4496-9f04-f3ac9c7fd1bf

I was talking to her, but she had a bad attitude, so I bailed.

CFS, bratty, and pierced nips are all negatives for me, but glad you had fun, and thanks for sharing the intel (and the pic).

**NewAnonymousName** · 02-26-22 11:23

Originally Posted by ReffingMan94 [View Original Post]

Hey guys, this has been discussed before but thought I would ask for advice here again. Out of the blue yesterday I get a couple random texts from out side atlanta area codes asking to chat. Then they send me a.

Text with Screen shots of my Facebook and my Seeking account profile (which I immediately deleted) saying what would your wife say if she saw this?

How has anyone handled this? Scared the shit out of me initially!

Were the texts sent to your real phone or a burner phone you use for mongering?

**Dawgins** · 02-25-22 23:29

She is a former pro. Got caught up in the late unpleasantness in Dunwoody. She used to be one of the busted agency's best according to reviews. Also danced at follies when follies had white girls. Yes, she's had a kid, but I've been watching her pictures over the years and the one's on her profile are recent and probably representative of her physique. I think particularly the ones with blond / brown mixed colors. I've talked to her but never pulled the trigger due to timing. I guarantee she'll deliver. Will you connect with her and have some chemistry? That's all up to you. She quoted me 3, BBJ / CFS.

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Any info on this one? I'm looking to meet soon, and she's passed all my verification. Just want to know what others have $ and how fun she is. https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-abf885b25f68.

-----Edit-----
Disregard, found some reviews from a few years ago. Sounds like YMMV, and the reviews said old pics and baby dmg. She's snapped me some pics but maybe she's doing some touch up / angle magic or (hopefully) she's gotten into some kind of shape. I may smash as I have a thing for the tatted n trashy look.

**GoneForGood97** · 02-25-22 21:38

Any info on this one? I'm looking to meet soon, and she's passed all my verification. Just want to know what others have $ and how fun she is. https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-abf885b25f68.

-----Edit-----
Disregard, found some reviews from a few years ago. Sounds like YMMV, and the reviews said old pics and baby dmg. She's snapped me some pics but maybe she's doing some touch up / angle magic or (hopefully) she's gotten into some kind of shape. I may smash as I have a thing for the tatted n trashy look.

**GoneForGood97** · 02-25-22 21:26

Alright, here's a hot one I banged out off and on a few weeks ago, but the distance is too much of a hassle and our schedules couldn't align due to her work so I'm throwing her to the board. Take care of her, she's super sweet and pics are real. Best set of natural tits I've ever seen on a woman I fucked, and if you like small tattoos and piercings, congrats you've hit the jackpot. Will do $3, but can get down to $2 after you see her a few times (you open with that and you're toast though). CFS but BBBJ CIM, no anal on initial date, but after you've built some trust and give her some advance notice she's receptive. And once you built up some trust she'll let you in on her kinky / submissive / bratty side, but if you try to start there you're blocked and done. Declined to host, so always had to get a room. You're welcome gents.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2c3e3408-d636-4496-9f04-f3ac9c7fd1bf

**VirgilToole** · 02-25-22 19:59

Originally Posted by ReffingMan94 [View Original Post]

Hey guys, this has been discussed before but thought I would ask for advice here again. Out of the blue yesterday I get a couple random texts from out side atlanta area codes asking to chat. Then they send me a.

Text with Screen shots of my Facebook and my Seeking account profile (which I immediately deleted) saying what would your wife say if she saw this?

How has anyone handled this? Scared the shit out of me initially!

Never use a picture of yourself on SA that can be linked back to your Facebook or Instagram or any other social media. Always make it a unique photo.

The best bte is to use a picture that isn't you. Either search for a lookalike on a site like pimeyes, or, if you don't want to pay the subscription fee, just find a similar match on Google. You can hide your real pictures in private photos if you're attractive and think it might get you a freebie or a reduced rate. If you're looking for something purely transactional with a semi-pro, then you don't need any real pictures at all. If you have good social IQ, you should be able to tell the difference between the girls with whom you can trust real photos and those with whom you can't. Personally, I use a real picture of myself taken from behind in Muir Woods when it was foggy. It gives the girls a sense of my height and physique without revealing my face, and the fog and background makes it mysterious. Then I'll share my face pictures with profiles I trust.

Never include any personal information in your profile or share it with the girls you talk to initially. If you were born in 1975, e. G. , don't make your profile name something like NutBuster75. It just makes you easier to identify. Or if your name is Thomas, don't name your profile something like RichThomas.

Be vague about what you do for work. These girls don't need to see your W2 before you fuck them. They just need to know that you have a job that makes money. Make up a fake job or keep it vague with something like "I'm in finance. " Personally, I do specialty vehicle sales for a living, but as far as any of these girls know, I do medical supply sales. It makes it harder to track you down. And I can still answer questions about the sales world if they ask without being specific. If you're a landscaper, don't lie and say you're a doctor. They'll be able to sniff you out quickly. Keep your job similar to your real job but different enough that they can't track you down, especially if you're on your company's website.

Never put your real city on your profile. If you live in Marietta, list your location as Roswell or Kennesaw or Smyrna. That way they'll still expect to meet you OTP North, but they won't be able to search "your name + city" to find the real you.

I always use a fake name, age and job with girls I talk to on SA. I use a burner phone as well. Most girls think my name is James and my number starts with 770, neither of which is true. The only girls who get my real name and info are the ones I trust after I've met them several times or the ones who have been vetted already by guys on this forum (you know who you are, and I thank you). And the girls on SA understand this. Whenever I transition into a free FWB situation with a girl from SA, I normally tell her I was lying about my name, age, location, job, etc. , and 100% of them have understood because SA is a sketchy site by its nature. Women primarily want attention, and secondarily they want good dick, so if you provide them with both, they will look past any lie you tell them.

Unfortunately, you might be screwed. If you're married, start preparing your excuses now. Girls screenshot EVERYTHING, especially when they know they can use it as blackmail later. So even if you deleted your account, she likely has a record of you two talking.

**Harley32** · 02-25-22 14:59

Originally Posted by ReffingMan94 [View Original Post]

Hey guys, this has been discussed before but thought I would ask for advice here again. Out of the blue yesterday I get a couple random texts from out side atlanta area codes asking to chat. Then they send me a.

Text with Screen shots of my Facebook and my Seeking account profile (which I immediately deleted) saying what would your wife say if she saw this?

How has anyone handled this? Scared the shit out of me initially!

If you've got something to lose, either your job or relationship, don't use a real pic of yourself. Find one off the internet that is representative and won't make your SB think you catfished her. You could also try obscuring your real pic with a filter but your wife might still be able to tell it's you.

**TooHotForYou** · 02-25-22 14:32

Originally Posted by ReffingMan94 [View Original Post]

Hey guys, this has been discussed before but thought I would ask for advice here again. Out of the blue yesterday I get a couple random texts from out side atlanta area codes asking to chat. Then they send me a.

Text with Screen shots of my Facebook and my Seeking account profile (which I immediately deleted) saying what would your wife say if she saw this?

How has anyone handled this? Scared the shit out of me initially!

It's a real person. You might have a nut your hands or it's just somebody fucking around.

**ReffingMan94** · 02-25-22 00:28

Hey guys, this has been discussed before but thought I would ask for advice here again. Out of the blue yesterday I get a couple random texts from out side atlanta area codes asking to chat. Then they send me a.

Text with Screen shots of my Facebook and my Seeking account profile (which I immediately deleted) saying what would your wife say if she saw this?

How has anyone handled this? Scared the shit out of me initially!

**Wolfish1** · 02-24-22 22:21

Originally Posted by LovePunnany [View Original Post]

Any intel on this baby would be appreciated?

She's pretty sweet and down for whatever, very submissive. I think she works as a mobile private security around Norcross. She likes to fool around when she works and requests it. From what I dreamt she's likes to be filled up.