"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Jman1234** · 05-13-21 20:10

This chic messaged me out if nowhere. Says union city where I wouldn't dare go on a good day. But bored I played along. Will want to move to text fairly quickly. But like a good infomercial "but wait there's more. " For a mere $50.00 she will continue the conversation over text. It's a starting fee. Lmao. SA has been a joke this go around.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5fda9...8-f244acd8ebe4

J.

**QuartJess** · 05-13-21 16:08

Originally Posted by WoodstockShane [View Original Post]

I mean, wth? Venezuela?? Oh well. Sorting through the wheat and the chaff. Or however that saying goes. Anyway. How about this chick? Anyone think she's really 39? https://www.seeking.com/member/f2765...1-566ba0669181.

She's probably not 39. A majority of the chicks I've met on the site are at least 5 to 10 years older and 10 to 15 pounds heavier. Once, I find their social media sites I see that the pictures that some use are 2-3 years old as well.

**LoriTruck** · 05-13-21 13:59

**WoodstockShane** · 05-13-21 13:51

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

I'm curious how many of you guys ask for verification pics (them doing something specific) before meeting and if you do, what do you say if they ask for one in return?

I use fake pics even if I'm going to meet. I've had my profile pic posted to a blackmail site so I'm not risking it again. So far no one has been upset when I've shown up and I always explain why. I'm sure they are annoyed though.

If I felt I needed verification pics from one of those ladies, I wouldn't meet her. Period. These ladies aren't the brightest bulbs in the drawer, and they're all just hustling. 99% anyway. If you're using a fake photo, and no one complains, who cares? If you have someone that bolts on you when you go the men's room, then you know why.

**Vivid Dream** · 05-13-21 12:31

Originally Posted by WoodstockShane [View Original Post]

I mean, wth? Venezuela?? Oh well. Sorting through the wheat and the chaff. Or however that saying goes. Anyway. How about this chick? Anyone think she's really 39? https://www.seeking.com/member/f2765...1-566ba0669181.

She was at one time. Several years ago!

**2me4Looking2** · 05-13-21 12:26

I'm curious how many of you guys ask for verification pics (them doing something specific) before meeting and if you do, what do you say if they ask for one in return?

I use fake pics even if I'm going to meet. I've had my profile pic posted to a blackmail site so I'm not risking it again. So far no one has been upset when I've shown up and I always explain why. I'm sure they are annoyed though.

**ReffingMan94** · 05-13-21 10:37

Originally Posted by WoodstockShane [View Original Post]

I mean, wth? Venezuela?? Oh well. Sorting through the wheat and the chaff. Or however that saying goes. Anyway. How about this chick? Anyone think she's really 39? https://www.seeking.com/member/f2765...1-566ba0669181.

Hey guys, I've chatted with that one and she's down to meet at her place in Kennesaw, just haven't pulled the trigger yet.

**WoodstockShane** · 05-12-21 21:20

Originally Posted by WoodstockShane [View Original Post]

After perusing this board, I think I'm actually going to pay for a membership over at 'seeking". Having said that, I will not be paying to meet someone for a drink, other than the cost of the drink. If she's nice, and I'm genuinely enjoying the company, I'll pay for more. I do not suffer fools gladly, and that site seems to be chock full of women that have inflated egos, have gotten by on looks, and have about fifteen bucks in their bank account. As soon as I weed through the messages from out of the country, and other far away states (aka bots) I'll definitely report back. It may be a boring report, because I am not that good looking enough to warrant the company of some 22 year old hottie that looks like she belongs on a beach in Miami. -- that is a metaphor BTW, and not to be taken literally. I'm a man of a certain age, and know my limitations when it comes to women. Therefore I do not have unrealistic expectations. In the meantime, you guys that are out there doing the hard work of meeting and greeting, and corresponding. Thank you! Your information is extremely helpful.

Shane.

I mean, wth? Venezuela?? Oh well. Sorting through the wheat and the chaff. Or however that saying goes. Anyway. How about this chick? Anyone think she's really 39? https://www.seeking.com/member/f2765...1-566ba0669181.

**Jman1234** · 05-12-21 20:21

Originally Posted by WoodstockShane [View Original Post]

Joined the site last night, and woke up to a message from her this morning. An ottoman in the garage??

I wouldn't call it a garage. That's what she said it was. It's more of a nasty shack.

**SeekingHead** · 05-12-21 19:18

Originally Posted by DonkeyKong55 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/2a8c1...8-e4051e1219a2

Tried to set something up with this one, but she is only available midday hours during the week which doesn't mesh with my work schedule since it would be like a 2 hour drive. Quoted 300-400/ meet, looking to meet weekly. I do not know what services are on the table. Pretty hot pics though, and she did send me a verification pic. Just an FYI for you guys.

From reading her profile if any of you guys want a long term SB / Girlfriend who wants to be a trophy wife, this is what she is looking for.

**Darmour88** · 05-12-21 11:50

Originally Posted by HollowGuy [View Original Post]

This one was listed at 800 now 1000 pm. WTF. Who is paying these prices? Visited her at Pink Pony got a dance she had a slight Oder but there are much prettier girls there IMO.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4335b...d-e1a5e46f4fdd

There are people that pay that. I had someone tell me that they got offered $800 for a HJ.

**WoodstockShane** · 05-12-21 11:46

Originally Posted by HollowGuy [View Original Post]

This one was listed at 800 now 1000 pm. WTF. Who is paying these prices? Visited her at Pink Pony got a dance she had a slight Oder but there are much prettier girls there IMO.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4335b...d-e1a5e46f4fdd

She's just trying to shame men into opening their wallets by making up stories about all the fabulous previous SD's she's had. Bottom line, she's looking and men have options. 1 k ppm and you get to meet up once a week for a month may not be a bad investment though, but she probably doesn't roll like that.

**WoodstockShane** · 05-12-21 11:40

Originally Posted by Jman1234 [View Original Post]

She is legit with an open menu. Met her when the little head was talking. Seemed nice and dtf. Got to her place and she was sitting in her car in a robe. Said too many baby cats in the house for fun, but she has an ottoman in the garage. I'm thinking WTF, but horny and already there. Teeth aren't the best but not the worst I guess. I wouldn't kiss her. She can suck a dick and not a bad fuck. The garage is more like a shack and not very clean. Was definitely weird, but she lives out in the middle of nowhere so there's a lot of privacy. 2 tokens and can host if that doesn't bother you. Not a repeat for me though.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3cb0d...a-f80b81d363f9

Stay Thirsty my friends.

J.

Joined the site last night, and woke up to a message from her this morning. An ottoman in the garage??

**Donkey Kong55** · 05-12-21 11:25

https://www.seeking.com/member/2a8c1...8-e4051e1219a2

Tried to set something up with this one, but she is only available midday hours during the week which doesn't mesh with my work schedule since it would be like a 2 hour drive. Quoted 300-400/ meet, looking to meet weekly. I do not know what services are on the table. Pretty hot pics though, and she did send me a verification pic. Just an FYI for you guys.

**SoonerFan72** · 05-12-21 11:03

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

After a few days and lots of messages, I weeded out the pay in advanced girls. Set 5 " meet and greets" yesterday and today since I had the days off.

22 year old Sarah. Demanded $50 in person for meeting. Drank her coffee took her $50, stared at her phone the entire time. Cute but looked nothing like her pictures. Pretty sure 10 years older than she claims. Told me $500 ppm. Totally not worth it.

26 year old Mandy. Gained about 60-80 lbs since pics and had cut her hair. Dressed like a **** when she shouldn't have. Tits were saggy. She ate lunch hardly said a word. Other than $400 ppm, I told her I would keep her in mind. She asked for gas money. Gave her $20 for her time.

30 year old Jannet. Looked like her pics but was really ghetto. Felt like I needed a translator. Covered in tattoos smelled like booze and cigarettes and rotted brown teeth. She ordered a margarita and shot of tequila, told me $300 and we could go to her hotel. I just felt uncomfortable and who knows what was waiting at the hotel.

40 year old Morgana. Looks like her pics, Was best looking so far but I think she lies about her height and was way taller than I expected. We had fun conversation felt like a traditional date and she never mentioned money and had an awesome rack. I went to the bathroom and came out and she was gone and had paid her own tab. I sent her a text with? S She replied with "not interested good luck". I replied with $500 and she replied with a laughing emoji.

Another girl canceled on me 30 minutes before our date.

So that's how I spent my days off. Spent about $130 met 4 girls, got nothing. Should've just gone to a massage parlor. That's my Seeking Arrangement review.

Is this an accurate example of what seeking arrangement has to offer? Should I just stick to regular dating?

Sorry you had such a rough time bro!

A couple things to try before your next venture.

First off, ALWAYS get a verification pic before you meet anyone. Ask them to send a simple selfie standing in front of a mirror holding up something, like a piece of paper with your name on it. This will let you know what they look like realtime, as well as make sure they are legit. Pretty much every girl that was serious about meeting would send me a pic within an hour. If they balk at the idea, or just ghost you, you just saved yourself some headache.

Second, politely set the rules before you meet, if you have to do a meet and greet. Tell them you will happily meet and buy them a lunch or coffee, but you don't give out allowance for M&G. This too will also weed out the flakes.

Ultimately, its like buying a car. You have to be willing to walk away if the deal doesn't feel right. Play by those rules, and you will have success. Happy hunting!