"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**WoodstockShane** · 05-12-21 10:29

After perusing this board, I think I'm actually going to pay for a membership over at 'seeking". Having said that, I will not be paying to meet someone for a drink, other than the cost of the drink. If she's nice, and I'm genuinely enjoying the company, I'll pay for more. I do not suffer fools gladly, and that site seems to be chock full of women that have inflated egos, have gotten by on looks, and have about fifteen bucks in their bank account. As soon as I weed through the messages from out of the country, and other far away states (aka bots) I'll definitely report back. It may be a boring report, because I am not that good looking enough to warrant the company of some 22 year old hottie that looks like she belongs on a beach in Miami. -- that is a metaphor BTW, and not to be taken literally. I'm a man of a certain age, and know my limitations when it comes to women. Therefore I do not have unrealistic expectations. In the meantime, you guys that are out there doing the hard work of meeting and greeting, and corresponding. Thank you! Your information is extremely helpful.

Shane.

**HollowGuy** · 05-12-21 09:31

This one was listed at 800 now 1000 pm. WTF. Who is paying these prices? Visited her at Pink Pony got a dance she had a slight Oder but there are much prettier girls there IMO.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4335b...d-e1a5e46f4fdd

**Bobt45** · 05-12-21 09:06

Originally Posted by Ghoul92 [View Original Post]

So I met her last weekend and wasn't a good experience. She first said she is looking only to meet (food / drinks). After one drink she flipped and wanted money for sex. She started her sad story how the guy she lived with put her out of the house and basically she doesn't have money for anything. I suspect she didn't want to get physically involved and was just seeing what's out there. If anyone has experienced anything different with her feel free to share. She blocked me as well.

She may have blocked you but I've never spoken with her and her profile is gone. Guess she was just another confused girl who thought she wanted to be an SB then changed her mind LOL.

**Hal1957** · 05-12-21 09:03

Did the pictures in their SA profiles mirror what showed up for the m / g? That's been my experience. If she looks ghetto or trailer trash in the photos, that's what she's going to look like in person. Same with nose rings, rainbow hair colors and multiple tats. Last time I went to the bowl I had extended text conversations with eight girls, met six and banged five for less than 250 each. They were all students or single moms who were fine with going straight to intimacy. Be realistic, you aren't getting a 20 year old sorority girl for 150 and Burger King. Look for women who are over 25, single moms with some idea where they're going in life.

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

After a few days and lots of messages, I weeded out the pay in advanced girls. Set 5 " meet and greets" yesterday and today since I had the days off.

22 year old Sarah. Demanded $50 in person for meeting. Drank her coffee took her $50, stared at her phone the entire time. Cute but looked nothing like her pictures. Pretty sure 10 years older than she claims. Told me $500 ppm. Totally not worth it.

26 year old Mandy. Gained about 60-80 lbs since pics and had cut her hair. Dressed like a **** when she shouldn't have. Tits were saggy. She ate lunch hardly said a word. Other than $400 ppm, I told her I would keep her in mind. She asked for gas money. Gave her $20 for her time.

30 year old Jannet. Looked like her pics but was really ghetto. Felt like I needed a translator. Covered in tattoos smelled like booze and cigarettes and rotted brown teeth. She ordered a margarita and shot of tequila, told me $300 and we could go to her hotel. I just felt uncomfortable and who knows what was waiting at the hotel.

40 year old Morgana. Looks like her pics, Was best looking so far but I think she lies about her height and was way taller than I expected. We had fun conversation felt like a traditional date and she never mentioned money and had an awesome rack. I went to the bathroom and came out and she was gone and had paid her own tab. I sent her a text with? S She replied with "not interested good luck". I replied with $500 and she replied with a laughing emoji.

Another girl canceled on me 30 minutes before our date.

**QuartJess** · 05-11-21 21:24

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

After a few days and lots of messages, I weeded out the pay in advanced girls. Set 5 " meet and greets" yesterday and today since I had the days off.

22 year old Sarah. Demanded $50 in person for meeting. Drank her coffee took her $50, stared at her phone the entire time. Cute but looked nothing like her pictures. Pretty sure 10 years older than she claims. Told me $500 ppm. Totally not worth it.

26 year old Mandy. Gained about 60-80 lbs since pics and had cut her hair. Dressed like a **** when she shouldn't have. Tits were saggy. She ate lunch hardly said a word. Other than $400 ppm, I told her I would keep her in mind. She asked for gas money. Gave her $20 for her time.

30 year old Jannet. Looked like her pics but was really ghetto. Felt like I needed a translator. Covered in tattoos smelled like booze and cigarettes and rotted brown teeth. She ordered a margarita and shot of tequila, told me $300 and we could go to her hotel. I just felt uncomfortable and who knows what was waiting at the hotel.

40 year old Morgana. Looks like her pics, Was best looking so far but I think she lies about her height and was way taller than I expected. We had fun conversation felt like a traditional date and she never mentioned money and had an awesome rack. I went to the bathroom and came out and she was gone and had paid her own tab. I sent her a text with? S She replied with "not interested good luck". I replied with $500 and she replied with a laughing emoji.

Another girl canceled on me 30 minutes before our date.

So that's how I spent my days off. Spent about $130 met 4 girls, got nothing. Should've just gone to a massage parlor. That's my Seeking Arrangement review.

Is this an accurate example of what seeking arrangement has to offer? Should I just stick to regular dating?

Dang, man. You had a rough 24 hrs.

**Machintosh** · 05-11-21 19:38

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

After a few days and lots of messages, I weeded out the pay in advanced girls. Set 5 " meet and greets" yesterday and today since I had the days off.

22 year old Sarah. Demanded $50 in person for meeting. Drank her coffee took her $50, stared at her phone the entire time. Cute but looked nothing like her pictures. Pretty sure 10 years older than she claims. Told me $500 ppm. Totally not worth it.

26 year old Mandy. Gained about 60-80 lbs since pics and had cut her hair. Dressed like a **** when she shouldn't have. Tits were saggy. She ate lunch hardly said a word. Other than $400 ppm, I told her I would keep her in mind. She asked for gas money. Gave her $20 for her time.

30 year old Jannet. Looked like her pics but was really ghetto. Felt like I needed a translator. Covered in tattoos smelled like booze and cigarettes and rotted brown teeth. She ordered a margarita and shot of tequila, told me $300 and we could go to her hotel. I just felt uncomfortable and who knows what was waiting at the hotel.

40 year old Morgana. Looks like her pics, Was best looking so far but I think she lies about her height and was way taller than I expected. We had fun conversation felt like a traditional date and she never mentioned money and had an awesome rack. I went to the bathroom and came out and she was gone and had paid her own tab. I sent her a text with? S She replied with "not interested good luck". I replied with $500 and she replied with a laughing emoji.

Another girl canceled on me 30 minutes before our date.

So that's how I spent my days off. Spent about $130 met 4 girls, got nothing. Should've just gone to a massage parlor. That's my Seeking Arrangement review.

Is this an accurate example of what seeking arrangement has to offer? Should I just stick to regular dating?

I tend to get an idea of investments prior to the actual meet. As far as physical appearance not matching the photos? Not so much.

**Ghoul92** · 05-11-21 18:30

Originally Posted by Pharmacy470 [View Original Post]

Anyone speak with this one. Her profile on SA for me at least is blocked. Rdy2 mngle.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c2206...9-3681ab1c6068

We were chatting back and forth and were trying to meet this week. She seemed nice.

Thanks for any feedback.

So I met her last weekend and wasn't a good experience. She first said she is looking only to meet (food / drinks). After one drink she flipped and wanted money for sex. She started her sad story how the guy she lived with put her out of the house and basically she doesn't have money for anything. I suspect she didn't want to get physically involved and was just seeing what's out there. If anyone has experienced anything different with her feel free to share. She blocked me as well.

**Han57** · 05-11-21 17:58

Hey guys, I see many of our comments / reviews here are with respect to SA ladies that have only been on the site for 1 or 2 months per their profile. Is it even worth considering these girls in the first place? I would think most are just testing the waters and are just seeing how the web site works. I believe the ladies pay little or nothing to post? So what do they have to lose? .

**QuartJess** · 05-11-21 16:10

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

I agree with Bob 100%. I don't do meet and greets, only did it once in the past few years. But if I did, they would get no money for just showing up. There are tons of girls who will show up for a free meal, and as a bonus you give them money. And you never hear from them again. Just another FMH. The only time they get paid is in person, after the deed is done. I also tell them I don't send money electronically, only cash in person. There are just way to many chics out there to be dealing with these silly ho's trying to play games. Think with your big head, and move on if they don't agree to your terms. Good luck bro!

Spot on, man. I've done one meet and greet and that was my first ever meeting with an SA chick. Since then, it has been SA message, on to text, then meeting at the hotel room. All cash is given after the deed, I don't even show them the money beforehand. If they insist and leave, then I am only out of the cost of the room, but I haven't had one leave yet.

**BuckHead71** · 05-11-21 14:41

After a few days and lots of messages, I weeded out the pay in advanced girls. Set 5 " meet and greets" yesterday and today since I had the days off.

22 year old Sarah. Demanded $50 in person for meeting. Drank her coffee took her $50, stared at her phone the entire time. Cute but looked nothing like her pictures. Pretty sure 10 years older than she claims. Told me $500 ppm. Totally not worth it.

26 year old Mandy. Gained about 60-80 lbs since pics and had cut her hair. Dressed like a **** when she shouldn't have. Tits were saggy. She ate lunch hardly said a word. Other than $400 ppm, I told her I would keep her in mind. She asked for gas money. Gave her $20 for her time.

30 year old Jannet. Looked like her pics but was really ghetto. Felt like I needed a translator. Covered in tattoos smelled like booze and cigarettes and rotted brown teeth. She ordered a margarita and shot of tequila, told me $300 and we could go to her hotel. I just felt uncomfortable and who knows what was waiting at the hotel.

40 year old Morgana. Looks like her pics, Was best looking so far but I think she lies about her height and was way taller than I expected. We had fun conversation felt like a traditional date and she never mentioned money and had an awesome rack. I went to the bathroom and came out and she was gone and had paid her own tab. I sent her a text with? S She replied with "not interested good luck". I replied with $500 and she replied with a laughing emoji.

Another girl canceled on me 30 minutes before our date.

So that's how I spent my days off. Spent about $130 met 4 girls, got nothing. Should've just gone to a massage parlor. That's my Seeking Arrangement review.

Is this an accurate example of what seeking arrangement has to offer? Should I just stick to regular dating?

**Pharmacy470** · 05-11-21 14:03

Anyone speak with this one. Her profile on SA for me at least is blocked. Rdy2 mngle.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c2206...9-3681ab1c6068

We were chatting back and forth and were trying to meet this week. She seemed nice.

Thanks for any feedback.

**Totalcsllc** · 05-11-21 12:58

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

Yep I messaged with her today. No interest in negotiating at all. I assume someone is paying it, but not me.

Her real name is listed in one of the pics.

**Vx333** · 05-11-21 12:51

Current UTR moved to Newnan, so she's up for grabs.

Lightskin, maybe 5'4-5'6. Slight baby damage, but nice DD+ cups that come with it. Super submissive.

I was doing 300 per meet for anything from a full night to a quickie.

Seniors can DM for her snapchat.

Again. NEWNAN. Not Atlanta.

**Uga4041** · 05-11-21 12:37

Little red Atl. Can't share link bc she blocked me. Got careless and sent something on snap to her before verifying. She screenshotted. Make a snarky comment and then blocked me on the site. Of course first thing that comes to mind is blackmail. Hopefully jumping to conclusions. If anyone has chatted with her or met in person let me know as it will ease my mind. PM if more details wanted.