NoVA SugarBabies

[JamesBlond007]

They enjoy sex and if they can make a little on the side which makes their lives easier / better, way not. More power to them.

This is exactly the kind of SB I look for. She can be a smoke show or not, but really just a kindred spirit. I've had similar experiences with the few successes I've had. The best one just wanted to get out of the house and give head once in a while, nothing asked. I fucked it up by being honest about another SB in my rotation. Perhaps intentionally, perhaps not.

Question, with your successes, was there a common thread between them all? Like some kind of verbiage in their profile, or age range, life situation, or just luck of the draw? I feel like I reach out to about 100 profiles before I get any promising hits.

[CarloRogue]

I never pay for a room until I have the girl in my car with me, ie. I pick her up, or I see her in person in the hotel parking lot. I will book a room that allows cancellations without losing a deposit, there are some that allow you cancel day of until 6 pm without penalty. I always check the price of the room at the hotel site and also use Hotel.com or Booking.com. I find that Booking.com consistently gives me the best prices for the same type of room in the same exact hotel on the same day / time. With Booking.com, it takes maybe 5-10 minutes from the time you make the booking on you smartphone app until the reservation appears on the hotel check-in counter. This is one of my cardinal rules even for SBs or UTRs I've known for years as I've had even the 'reliable' one flake on me from time to time. Shit happens and I'm not going to risk my money on someone else's reliability. And as you said about previous girl, it takes literally like 10 seconds to send a text that she can't make it an hour before you meet, so that is no f*cking excuse to leave someone hanging.

Actually, I do not even leave for the pick-up unless I hear from the girl 30-60 minutes before pickup. I happened to me this weekend with a SB I'd seen before. We were texting all day about getting together. 60 minutes out, radio-silence, I refused to drive out there and waste my time. Good thing because I never hear from her that day. Then after she says she fell asleep which is BS since I knew she was working until we met. So I let her have it about sending a text. Yesterday, she was much better about texting to cancel when she couldn't make it.

Hotel Tonight is another good app for last-minute bookings. It's quick and easy, and I've always found good options at reasonable prices at the last minute. Sometimes even exceptional four star options. I'd never pre-book on a first meet. Just no need to, and the cost of one no-show outweighs any benefit you get from pre-booking.

I also learned to send a confirmation text in the morning of a first meetup. If no response, and I'm really interested, I'll send a second text with a politely worded, but specific deadline (eg, 2 pm) to hear her response. After that, I drop it entirely and delete her from my memory. No matter how incredible she seems. There's no point in getting belligerent about it. Dealing with fakes and flakes is part of the experience of the bowl. And some of the real gems I've found were newbies and legitimately skittish about their initial meeting. Without a bit of persistence and some willingness to be fooled, I probably would've never met them.

[HeyDuhman]

Would you mind sharing some local NOVA / DC area hotels that allow same day cancellation till 6 pm?

I never pay for a room until I have the girl in my car with me, ie. I pick her up, or I see her in person in the hotel parking lot. I will book a room that allows cancellations without losing a deposit, there are some that allow you cancel day of until 6 pm without penalty. I always check the price of the room at the hotel site and also use Hotel.com or Booking.com. I find that Booking.com consistently gives me the best prices for the same type of room in the same exact hotel on the same day / time. With Booking.com, it takes maybe 5-10 minutes from the time you make the booking on you smartphone app until the reservation appears on the hotel check-in counter. This is one of my cardinal rules even for SBs or UTRs I've known for years as I've had even the 'reliable' one flake on me from time to time. Shit happens and I'm not going to risk my money on someone else's reliability. And as you said about previous girl, it takes literally like 10 seconds to send a text that she can't make it an hour before you meet, so that is no f*cking excuse to leave someone hanging.

Actually, I do not even leave for the pick-up unless I hear from the girl 30-60 minutes before pickup. I happened to me this weekend with a SB I'd seen before. We were texting all day about getting together. 60 minutes out, radio-silence, I refused to drive out there and waste my time. Good thing because I never hear from her that day.

[Dimples572]

Did you just do a meet and greet with her or did you seal the deal? I've been chatting with her as well, interestingly she claims to have never met anyone from SA. LOL.

LOL don't believe a word she says, or any of these chicks for that matter. Her personal life is a trainwreck, she's a mess. Yes I sealed the deal, filled her up 3 times the first time we met.

[Old Chinese Guy]

Back to back days this weekend she completely flaked on me.

Sweetaffair.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0a1a3...f-5f84efe55ddc

I've been texting with this one off and on for about 3 weeks, never could line things up. She's in the Rockville area, I'm on NoVa and apparently she "doesn't drive" (it's amazing how many of these chicks say that. You'd think we lived in NYC where nobody has a car, yet everyone I know in my personal life that lives in tht DMV has a car because you pretty much have to if you don't live in DC proper. But whatever) so we've been going back and forth because she wants me to come to Md and rent a room and I keep refusing because I'd rather just Uber her to my place in NoVa. A week or so ago she finally was cool with me getting an Uber to bring her my place, then I asked how long she could hang out and she said only two hours. We agreed to 400 ppm and I told her that wasn't long enough and not worth all the trouble / cost. So we kept negotiating for the next few days, I asked for how much for 4 hrs and she wanted double, I said fuck that. So she said the most she'd do was 2. 5 hrs. So Sunday morning I said 2. 5 hrs and I'll Uber you to me. She countered with 3 hrs if I'd get a hotel room in Rockville. So I agreed to that, she said she'd be available at 2:00. So I booked the room and said, sent her the address and said I'll see you then. About a half hour later she texted and said she didn't realize what time it was that 6:30 would give her more time to get ready for me. I said WTF?? 6:30? Told her that was too late and the latest I could do was 4. She agrees. I drive to Rockville, check in. 4:00 comes and goes and nothing. I'm blowing up her phone wondering where she is. Finally around 4:30 I get a text that she's almost ready and she'll be there at 5:30. Long story short never heard a peep out of her the rest of the day / night. Total waste of a day and 100 bucks on a room. And once again no consideration to let me know what's up so fuck her too.

I never pay for a room until I have the girl in my car with me, ie. I pick her up, or I see her in person in the hotel parking lot. I will book a room that allows cancellations without losing a deposit, there are some that allow you cancel day of until 6 pm without penalty. I always check the price of the room at the hotel site and also use Hotel.com or Booking.com. I find that Booking.com consistently gives me the best prices for the same type of room in the same exact hotel on the same day / time. With Booking.com, it takes maybe 5-10 minutes from the time you make the booking on you smartphone app until the reservation appears on the hotel check-in counter. This is one of my cardinal rules even for SBs or UTRs I've known for years as I've had even the 'reliable' one flake on me from time to time. Shit happens and I'm not going to risk my money on someone else's reliability. And as you said about previous girl, it takes literally like 10 seconds to send a text that she can't make it an hour before you meet, so that is no f*cking excuse to leave someone hanging.

Actually, I do not even leave for the pick-up unless I hear from the girl 30-60 minutes before pickup. I happened to me this weekend with a SB I'd seen before. We were texting all day about getting together. 60 minutes out, radio-silence, I refused to drive out there and waste my time. Good thing because I never hear from her that day. Then after she says she fell asleep which is BS since I knew she was working until we met. So I let her have it about sending a text. Yesterday, she was much better about texting to cancel when she couldn't make it.

[Old Chinese Guy]

She's only looking for online BTW.

Bare photos are gone, maybe moved to private ones.

[FogHorn1]

Back to back days this weekend these two both completely flaked on me.

MandiQuin.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1a03b...a-b03e76ae1a51

Met her earlier in the week. Had a great time, we really hit it off, or so I thought. Texted for the next few days about how we couldn't wait to see each other again. Made plans to hang out Friday evening around 7:00. I get a text around 6:30 that she'll be running late, she says about an hour late. Then about 45 minutes later she's still not on her way so I suggest maybe Sat night might work better? At first she says no, then a bit later she agrees and we make plans to meet sat at 5:00 at my place Sat evening. Long story short throughout the day I sent her 4-5 texts never hear a word. 5:00 comes and goes. Finally around 7:30 I get a text from her that she's sooo sorry and thank something totally unexpected came up and she wished she had a chance before now to tell me before then. Riiiiight. So I ask her you couldn't take 30 seconds to send a text to let me know something came up? Her response was "I guess not". I have zero tolerance for people with no respect or consideration for other people. Regardless of what type of relationship you are in, even if it's a relationship with a friend or co-worker if you don't have mutual respect for one another the relationship will never be successful. So that was the end of her.

Did you just do a meet and greet with her or did you seal the deal? I've been chatting with her as well, interestingly she claims to have never met anyone from SA. LOL.

[Dimples572]

Back to back days this weekend these two both completely flaked on me.

MandiQuin.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1a03b...a-b03e76ae1a51

Met her earlier in the week. Had a great time, we really hit it off, or so I thought. Texted for the next few days about how we couldn't wait to see each other again. Made plans to hang out Friday evening around 7:00. I get a text around 6:30 that she'll be running late, she says about an hour late. Then about 45 minutes later she's still not on her way so I suggest maybe Sat night might work better? At first she says no, then a bit later she agrees and we make plans to meet sat at 5:00 at my place Sat evening. Long story short throughout the day I sent her 4-5 texts never hear a word. 5:00 comes and goes. Finally around 7:30 I get a text from her that she's sooo sorry and thank something totally unexpected came up and she wished she had a chance before now to tell me before then. Riiiiight. So I ask her you couldn't take 30 seconds to send a text to let me know something came up? Her response was "I guess not". I have zero tolerance for people with no respect or consideration for other people. Regardless of what type of relationship you are in, even if it's a relationship with a friend or co-worker if you don't have mutual respect for one another the relationship will never be successful. So that was the end of her.

Sweetaffair.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0a1a3...f-5f84efe55ddc

I've been texting with this one off and on for about 3 weeks, never could line things up. She's in the Rockville area, I'm on NoVa and apparently she "doesn't drive" (it's amazing how many of these chicks say that. You'd think we lived in NYC where nobody has a car, yet everyone I know in my personal life that lives in tht DMV has a car because you pretty much have to if you don't live in DC proper. But whatever) so we've been going back and forth because she wants me to come to Md and rent a room and I keep refusing because I'd rather just Uber her to my place in NoVa. A week or so ago she finally was cool with me getting an Uber to bring her my place, then I asked how long she could hang out and she said only two hours. We agreed to 400 ppm and I told her that wasn't long enough and not worth all the trouble / cost. So we kept negotiating for the next few days, I asked for how much for 4 hrs and she wanted double, I said fuck that. So she said the most she'd do was 2. 5 hrs. So Sunday morning I said 2. 5 hrs and I'll Uber you to me. She countered with 3 hrs if I'd get a hotel room in Rockville. So I agreed to that, she said she'd be available at 2:00. So I booked the room and said, sent her the address and said I'll see you then. About a half hour later she texted and said she didn't realize what time it was that 6:30 would give her more time to get ready for me. I said WTF?? 6:30? Told her that was too late and the latest I could do was 4. She agrees. I drive to Rockville, check in. 4:00 comes and goes and nothing. I'm blowing up her phone wondering where she is. Finally around 4:30 I get a text that she's almost ready and she'll be there at 5:30. Long story short never heard a peep out of her the rest of the day / night. Total waste of a day and 100 bucks on a room. And once again no consideration to let me know what's up so fuck her too.

[Old Chinese Guy]

So I finally met up with a SB who posts in NOVA but lives in WV. I don't have her permission to post her link (she's very particular about a type, and I so happen to be that by some fluke) as she says she pays SA for the privilege to only be searchable by specific members. Anyway, she's not my usual preference, I like the blonde waif with big tits look which is problemmatic since waifs generally don't have big tits and most regular women do not look like waifs. Generally, only the medicated do have that waif look. I've only known one UTR to have that waif with big tits look but she finally found a bf and moved away, hence my stint on SA.

Anyway, I digress, this SB I just met is blonde, with big tits but is self-described as thicc (2 'c's intended). We started with DATY and although she got really wet, she wasn't able to cum and begged me to move up and f*ck her, twice she asked while I was DATYing. On the second command I obliged and boy was I surprised. After a few minutes of pounding her hard, she pulls me out, squirts and cums. Now my only experience with squirters is from porn movies where they are basically peeing and actually last week with a MILF, who was actually peeing. I don't mind getting pee'd on, although golden showers is not necessarily something I seek or get turned-on by. But this SB today was a true squirter, not pee but pussy juices. Now, it did not gush out like pee but it dripped out of her p*ssy. Since I had not cum yet, I continued pounding away and then after another few minutes she pulled me out, came again and squirted. I came shortly after that. I was surprised that there was a huge wet spot in her bed. When she went to the bathroom to wash up, I had to confirm that the wet patch was not pee. I have to tell you it did NOT smell like pee and it was all sticky / tacky like p*ssy juice and it sure had her muskiness that you often smell with women when you are DATYing. I think this one's a keeper, I may start trimming my stable after this. I'll ask if any of them mind me passing out their SA links but most tend to be very particular as they don't like being 'passed around' as 'they are not wh*res'.

Now I know many of you (and myself included in the past) say if you are getting paid to f*ck, you are a wh*re, doesn't matter if you want to sugar-coat with being called a SB, a wh*re's a wh*re. But lately I'm not so sure anymore. I've met 15 women in person since I started last month on SA, and I would say half f*ck for free without asking for any money, the other half don't need the money, they have good jobs and lives. Now their jobs may not pay enough to support the lifestyle they want, which is why they do this. They enjoy sex and if they can make a little on the side which makes their lives easier / better, way not. More power to them. So my view of these women who have regular jobs but have a side schtick on SA to make some extra cash, has changed, I have a new found respect for them. Especially my new SB, she really has her shit together. She's travelled around the world, has a good job working with disabled kids, owns her own home (which is really nice) and drives a German sports car (which one of her SDs gave her). She keeps a stable of 3 SDs on rotation, she just lost one (not sure the reason why but will have to ask) and she was looking for a replacement. Looks like I'm it! I feel like a kid meeting that cute girl in grade school who likes me as much as I like her and we'll be friends forever. Okay a little over-stated but you get my drift.

[Dimples572]

SA is either getting very loose with what they're allowing on profiles or slipping quite a bit on what's getting through.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c33d6...c-bae9ae288e8a

I wonder what her private photos include? Lol

She's only looking for online BTW.

[Old Chinese Guy]

SA is either getting very loose with what they're allowing on profiles or slipping quite a bit on what's getting through.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c33d6...c-bae9ae288e8a

I wonder what her private photos include? Lol

Yeah, that's the first set I've seen, wonder how long before they get taken down?

[JonFisher]

SA is either getting very loose with what they're allowing on profiles or slipping quite a bit on what's getting through.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c33d6...c-bae9ae288e8a

I wonder what her private photos include? Lol

Private photos are vanilla compared to public and she doesn't want to meet. Hmmmm. Wonder what's going on.

[Mike77]

SA is either getting very loose with what they're allowing on profiles or slipping quite a bit on what's getting through.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c33d6...c-bae9ae288e8a

I wonder what her private photos include? Lol

[Futuopedico]

Does "adventurous and overly risky" = BBFS?

Is that new code language? .

https://www.seeking.com/member/cdb9f...1-ea3cd158e8b6

I tried to find out, but when I mentioned PPM, she was very quick to reply that she was not a prostitute and wanted an allowance.

[Decadentme]

Does "adventurous and overly risky" = BBFS?

Is that new code language? .

https://www.seeking.com/member/cdb9f...1-ea3cd158e8b6