NoVA SugarBabies

[Max #01]

According to SA: https://www.seeking.com/p/sugar-baby...sity-2021/usa/.

Grains of salt aside, none in the top 15 list are even close to the DMV. We must have all the grad students? .

[FogHorn1]

That warning is spot on to the point of being eerie, and that's exactly what they did to me I'm ashamed to say. I should have had the guts to post to the forum when it first happened earlier this month but was embarrassed about it, to be that dumb.

But seeing this thread now and some of you guys considering meeting her and her "friend" -- don't do it. These two are cash and dash scammers, they come across all nice and somewhat normal in person but should have known better. Tried to pull that exact trick of "taking a shower" and when I said it's cool I actually just took one before we met up, she got strange. And the two of them started tag teaming the point like, well we only like clean men don't you want to be clean? Finally I said I ok I'll jump in the shower but I'll take my pants with me (where the allowance was) into the bathroom just to be safe. And that's when they got violent, attacking me and one trying to physically pull the money out of my pocket while the other had her arm around my neck choking me.

Do not under any circumstances meet up with these two, or either of them. I'm lucky they didn't have a weapon or who knows what might have happened. But they should be in jail, not on SA.

Sorry this happened to you bud, I suspected something was up with her for a number of reasons and ultimately passed on seeing her. I didn't suspect the violence and robbery but certainly suspected blackmail may be on the table based on things she was asking for and the need to meet "today only".

[DCExplorer1]

Word of warning. Usually when they start wanting to bring a friend for a cheap 3-some there is usually a reason and it usually doesn't work out for you especially as you have never met either of them. My advice, meet in hotel not at your place. Be on your toes as they will have 1 girl distract you while the other is doing the scam. Get you in the shower while the one steals your wallet, take the money and run while you are undressed and they're still mostly dressed (1 girl playing with you while the other is grabbing any clothes / money and they make a break for the door and sprint out. My advice, meet one only if she actually delivers, then the next time she can bring her friend. Hope it works out for you!

That warning is spot on to the point of being eerie, and that's exactly what they did to me I'm ashamed to say. I should have had the guts to post to the forum when it first happened earlier this month but was embarrassed about it, to be that dumb.

But seeing this thread now and some of you guys considering meeting her and her "friend" -- don't do it. These two are cash and dash scammers, they come across all nice and somewhat normal in person but should have known better. Tried to pull that exact trick of "taking a shower" and when I said it's cool I actually just took one before we met up, she got strange. And the two of them started tag teaming the point like, well we only like clean men don't you want to be clean? Finally I said I ok I'll jump in the shower but I'll take my pants with me (where the allowance was) into the bathroom just to be safe. And that's when they got violent, attacking me and one trying to physically pull the money out of my pocket while the other had her arm around my neck choking me.

Do not under any circumstances meet up with these two, or either of them. I'm lucky they didn't have a weapon or who knows what might have happened. But they should be in jail, not on SA.

[InSearch69]

Word of warning. Usually when they start wanting to bring a friend for a cheap 3-some there is usually a reason and it usually doesn't work out for you especially as you have never met either of them. My advice, meet in hotel not at your place. Be on your toes as they will have 1 girl distract you while the other is doing the scam. Get you in the shower while the one steals your wallet, take the money and run while you are undressed and they're still mostly dressed (1 girl playing with you while the other is grabbing any clothes / money and they make a break for the door and sprint out. My advice, meet one only if she actually delivers, then the next time she can bring her friend. Hope it works out for you!

I'm texting with her now. She reached out to me first and asked if we could possibly meet tonight and if so for me to tell her what I'd offer and my phone number. She said 600. I said the most I've ever given was 3. She said she would do 4. I said ok. She texted and the pics she sent are a little too good to be true. I asked if we could meet tomorrow and she stated she could only meet tonight. I told her ok and she texted me again asking what I'm offering. Weird. I asked for any dos or don'ts and she said nothing too aggressive, then had one more question. She asked if she could bring a friend along that is super cute and we could have a threesome. Pics of friend were really hot too. And she asked what I could offer her. I asked back and she said they could do 700 cash total. We facetimed and she seemed real. Not sure If I am going to meet with them tonight though.

[Mike77]

https://www.seeking.com/member/2160c...8-2fa0decc5809

She's been around for awhile, has anyone spoken to her or seen her face?

I stay away from ones that are so narcissistic to claim that they are "too pretty to be yours". It just screams of someone that wants to be spoiled with little to no "mutual" benefits.

[Mike77]

So I was lets meet tomorrow at a public place lets see if we click ie lets see if you look as good as your pictures before we get a hotel, or if youll let me do you in a car.

Is this a joke? LOL. Getting ghosted sucks, but I can kind of see why they'd do that.

I think most of the ones that are too "pro-like" tend to get banned for soliciting. I have seen a few that pop back up with different profiles after a month or two of hiatus.

If you don't mind a shitty attitude, this one might be up your alley:

https://www.seeking.com/member/87f15...2-9dcc59ca509b

Then there are some that if you just click on their profiles, they will seek you out to let you know they are DTF:

https://www.seeking.com/member/614ef...3-b169581c40dd

And if you scroll back a few pages, there's a lot of discussion on a lady who goes by MackJo or some derivative who is definitely DTF.

Oh, almost forgot about MissJ. https://www.seeking.com/member/16ba8987-cf8c-4c42-9fb6-2d4eb2bea8a6

[ChadwickX]

https://www.seeking.com/member/2160c...8-2fa0decc5809

She's been around for awhile, has anyone spoken to her or seen her face?

I'm texting with her now. She reached out to me first and asked if we could possibly meet tonight and if so for me to tell her what I'd offer and my phone number. She said 600. I said the most I've ever given was 3. She said she would do 4. I said ok. She texted and the pics she sent are a little too good to be true. I asked if we could meet tomorrow and she stated she could only meet tonight. I told her ok and she texted me again asking what I'm offering. Weird. I asked for any dos or don'ts and she said nothing too aggressive, then had one more question. She asked if she could bring a friend along that is super cute and we could have a threesome. Pics of friend were really hot too. And she asked what I could offer her. I asked back and she said they could do 700 cash total. We facetimed and she seemed real. Not sure If I am going to meet with them tonight though.

[FogHorn1]

https://www.seeking.com/member/2160c...8-2fa0decc5809

She's been around for awhile, has anyone spoken to her or seen her face?

[FogHorn1]

Been back on the site now for like two weeks after a break and wow there is slim pickings you would think with the economic problems it would be easier its almost the opposite. Talked to two girls who seemed dtf and still got ghosted.

First one https://www.seeking.com/member/be637...4-19761b124b6b.

Talked on the site her profile seems like she doesn't like to waste time. From her photos she was pretty hot so we moved straight to text. Some small talk we set an amount easily a good deal. So I was lets meet tomorrow at a public place lets see if we click ie lets see if you look as good as your pictures before we get a hotel, or if youll let me do you in a car. She said ok to the location see you tomorrow the day of crickets.

We all get ghosted on occasion, it happens and is the nature of the beast. Without trying to sound like a jerk, no chick that looks halfway decent or doesn't have a monkey on her back wants to "let you do them" in a car. You might reconsider your approach. The majority of the women on SA want to think they aren't hookers, asking to do them in the car pretty much tells them they're trash. Just my two cents bud, hope it helps.

[David032]

Been back on the site now for like two weeks after a break and wow there is slim pickings you would think with the economic problems it would be easier its almost the opposite. Talked to two girls who seemed dtf and still got ghosted.

First one https://www.seeking.com/member/be637...4-19761b124b6b.

Talked on the site her profile seems like she doesn't like to waste time. From her photos she was pretty hot so we moved straight to text. Some small talk we set an amount easily a good deal. So I was lets meet tomorrow at a public place lets see if we click ie lets see if you look as good as your pictures before we get a hotel, or if youll let me do you in a car. She said ok to the location see you tomorrow the day of crickets.

Second one https://www.seeking.com/member/73cd0...5-c031e78a1a6c.

Very similar to the first one till we get to arranging a meet up she's like am two hours from you one of those girls who has the multiple location. So then I asked when will you be at the location near me. She said when someone makes it worth my while. I tuned off at that point.

Man its rough anyone got any links or recommendations for dtf girls.

[Geeker]

Tl; dr: you can lead a horse to water, but sometimes she's just a massive bee itch.

When I decide to get back on SA, I generalize my search in 3 categories: the tens, the realistics, and then what I like to call "charity work". So I spied this one:

https://www.seeking.com/member/dfd71...0-b48ea7020a92

I like redheads, so lets see where it takes us. I reach out, suggest maybe we can help each other out, she sends her number so we start texting.

I ask her what her primary motivation is, because I like to know. Money, dick, or just to have a fella around? Money, she's in a bad place with debt on some medical bills. She's divorced, kid is with her ex because COVID. Okaaay. I ask her what her source of income is, she's a Lyft driver. Physically taxing, unfulfilling work, I get it. She's studying to be a paralegal, probably another year or two. Interesting, but ok. I'm just trying to get a picture of what's going on, you know, that "mentorship" these babies always say they want. No, that's right, they don't want advice, they want stock tips or some other. I press on more, and I find out she used to be an LMT! Had a license, let it expire or moved out of the state. Are you guys thinking what I'm thinking?

I ask her if she'd ever thought about getting back into massage. How would she feel about happy endings? You know, since she's already putting it out there that she'd do "something" for money. She already has the skill, investing in a $2 bottle of oil, can you make a fist for 2 min? I know some guys who would probably be happy to help you, you wouldn't even have to advertise. Hell, 100/ hr, in a week you'll be back in business. "I wouldn't want to do massage without a license". Well sweetie, I don't think there's a license to give a handy after a massage, I think you'd be fine. "No, that's not how I want to make money". Ok, you're on a sugar babies website, well what the heck do you want? "I want a no strings attached, mutually beneficial relationship". I ask her to kindly cut the shit and tell me exactly what she wants. She'd rather meet up and discuss in person. I counter with I'd rather talk now than have you waste my time meeting you.

Finally I get it out of her. She wants an allowance, amount unspecified and I sure as hell wasn't going to ask. I tell her that the nature of my sugar stash doesn't allow for an allowance, sorry, I have to do PPM. She replies "PPM is for escorts". I ask her to explain to me what's the difference between doing something for an "allowance" vs PPM. She makes some disparaging remarks about "those men" who solicit a word that rhymes with "frostitute". The hipocrisy is amazing. I tell her I'm no longer interested, and she says good luck in my search for a ppm, as if it's some kind of insult. Yeah, good luck. As an overweight single mom in debt with a crappy attitude, I'm sure she'll do fine.

That's all I run into here in DC metro area. Unrealistic SBs working as cashier or some other work and they want a monthly allowance that's more than their annual salary.

[Jost815]

Anyone have info on this one? We are currently messaging on the site but she is a little slow to respond. Seems dtf but haven't discussed any figures or dos / donts.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8a668...3-68691dcc15b5

[GolfMan57]

https://www.seeking.com/member/dfe2e...a-1d213e7c089f

Got her to text several months ago and then came the "need the deposit" to prove I am real.

[Jsidd]

https://www.seeking.com/member/dfe2e...a-1d213e7c089f

[JamesBlond007]

Tl; dr: you can lead a horse to water, but sometimes she's just a massive bee itch.

When I decide to get back on SA, I generalize my search in 3 categories: the tens, the realistics, and then what I like to call "charity work". So I spied this one:

https://www.seeking.com/member/dfd71...0-b48ea7020a92

I like redheads, so lets see where it takes us. I reach out, suggest maybe we can help each other out, she sends her number so we start texting.

I ask her what her primary motivation is, because I like to know. Money, dick, or just to have a fella around? Money, she's in a bad place with debt on some medical bills. She's divorced, kid is with her ex because COVID. Okaaay. I ask her what her source of income is, she's a Lyft driver. Physically taxing, unfulfilling work, I get it. She's studying to be a paralegal, probably another year or two. Interesting, but ok. I'm just trying to get a picture of what's going on, you know, that "mentorship" these babies always say they want. No, that's right, they don't want advice, they want stock tips or some other. I press on more, and I find out she used to be an LMT! Had a license, let it expire or moved out of the state. Are you guys thinking what I'm thinking?

I ask her if she'd ever thought about getting back into massage. How would she feel about happy endings? You know, since she's already putting it out there that she'd do "something" for money. She already has the skill, investing in a $2 bottle of oil, can you make a fist for 2 min? I know some guys who would probably be happy to help you, you wouldn't even have to advertise. Hell, 100/ hr, in a week you'll be back in business. "I wouldn't want to do massage without a license". Well sweetie, I don't think there's a license to give a handy after a massage, I think you'd be fine. "No, that's not how I want to make money". Ok, you're on a sugar babies website, well what the heck do you want? "I want a no strings attached, mutually beneficial relationship". I ask her to kindly cut the shit and tell me exactly what she wants. She'd rather meet up and discuss in person. I counter with I'd rather talk now than have you waste my time meeting you.

Finally I get it out of her. She wants an allowance, amount unspecified and I sure as hell wasn't going to ask. I tell her that the nature of my sugar stash doesn't allow for an allowance, sorry, I have to do PPM. She replies "PPM is for escorts". I ask her to explain to me what's the difference between doing something for an "allowance" vs PPM. She makes some disparaging remarks about "those men" who solicit a word that rhymes with "frostitute". The hipocrisy is amazing. I tell her I'm no longer interested, and she says good luck in my search for a ppm, as if it's some kind of insult. Yeah, good luck. As an overweight single mom in debt with a crappy attitude, I'm sure she'll do fine.