"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Hal1957** · 09-23-19 18:43

I had one who wanted money for platonic meets. I declined with a polite "we have different goals. " A couple of weeks later she contacted me and asked if I was still interested. I told her my goals haven't changed, intimacy must be part of the arrangement. She said ok, let's give this a try and see where it goes. Lesson: Be nice. Sometimes they come back. Also, as mentioned on many of these boards, these girls talk with each other. A polite "no thanks" will get you better mileage with the next girl if she checks on you.

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

Yep, agree with Ripper. We. Need to have a hard No on paying for pics, vids etc as well. I never have and never will pay for pics they do nothing for me. However someone is bc I am approached by girls almost daily asking for that nonsense. It's always the same story "Well my friend / rommate found a guy willing to pay for pics / vids. . . . ".

We must nip this in the bud. $ only for FS and nothing else.

I have started a policy of blocking all these type girls. Which I know has an effect. In the world of social media, it does sting a little to them when a guy blocks them since the block is permanent on SA now. I bet if we all did it for just a month or so we could end this nonsense.

Never forget the golden rule: The one with the gold makes the rules.

**MickyRocky** · 09-23-19 12:48

Thanks Fellas. I read the old reviews and it seems her head game is not good which is a must for me. I will pass.

Originally Posted by StewPitt [View Original Post]

I saw her last year, she's heavier than her pics. I overpaid, I paid 300. She's got 2 small dogs that will be jumping all over the place. She's got a big ass and can take a pounding. Don't pay more than 200. Also she give's lousy head.

**BoJackSugarman** · 09-23-19 11:42

Yep, agree with Ripper. We. Need to have a hard No on paying for pics, vids etc as well. I never have and never will pay for pics they do nothing for me. However someone is bc I am approached by girls almost daily asking for that nonsense. It's always the same story "Well my friend / rommate found a guy willing to pay for pics / vids. . . . ".

We must nip this in the bud. $ only for FS and nothing else.

I have started a policy of blocking all these type girls. Which I know has an effect. In the world of social media, it does sting a little to them when a guy blocks them since the block is permanent on SA now. I bet if we all did it for just a month or so we could end this nonsense.

Never forget the golden rule: The one with the gold makes the rules.

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

I have never advanced anyone. Just screams scam or cash and dash. Was chatting with a chick on SA the other day that swore we would meet eventually but wanted to start off sending pics / vids. No siree Bobby. Not going to happen. Found a couple of gems this time around on the site, the shift toward platonic only is growing for sure. Ripper.

**Ripvan12** · 09-23-19 11:06

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

I agree completely. Gentleman, we must be together on this one point. Never ever give a girl money upfront. If even one of us does, it leads another 100 chicks to try to get one resulting in so much time wasting. My policy is of they mention any type of advance I block them immediately. If we all start doing that they will get the message.

And BTW, I have been dumb enough to do it in the past and 100% of the time it was a scam, so for you newbies as tempting as it may be just don't do it.

Ok this ends your public service announcement LOL.

I have never advanced anyone. Just screams scam or cash and dash. Was chatting with a chick on SA the other day that swore we would meet eventually but wanted to start off sending pics / vids. No siree Bobby. Not going to happen. Found a couple of gems this time around on the site, the shift toward platonic only is growing for sure. Ripper.

**JimStokes** · 09-22-19 23:00

Originally Posted by MickyRocky [View Original Post]

Fellas,

Planning to meet her, any intel on her would be appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f12fb...c-9f79d84f10ac

Thanks.

Mick.

She has been reviewed on here before. Recall the face but not sure if the SA name is the same. Its worth a search (not being a smart ass, just recognized the pic and remember reading review (s) on her).

**StewPitt** · 09-22-19 20:16

Originally Posted by MickyRocky [View Original Post]

Fellas,

Planning to meet her, any intel on her would be appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f12fb...c-9f79d84f10ac

Thanks.

Mick.

I saw her last year, she's heavier than her pics. I overpaid, I paid 300. She's got 2 small dogs that will be jumping all over the place. She's got a big ass and can take a pounding. Don't pay more than 200. Also she give's lousy head.

**MickyRocky** · 09-22-19 18:44

Fellas,

Planning to meet her, any intel on her would be appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f12fb...c-9f79d84f10ac

Thanks.

Mick.

**CagerCoach** · 09-22-19 13:11

I agree 100%. I made that mistake one time and one time only. I'm not paying a girl to have dinner with me or grab a drink. Also, what is it with these girls wanting an online arrangement. Come on guys! Please don't pay these girls money for pictures and videos. Try Pornhub! This girl, although really cute, responded immediately and asked what I wanted and I told her. She said all of that was fine with her but she only wanted a traditional SB / SD arrangement. She would rather talk on the phone, Facetime and send pics and videos but doesn't want to meet anyone in person. I hope none of you guys humor her with sending her money. I told her if she changes her mind, HMU.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/p...ef4392e558650d

**BoJackSugarman** · 09-22-19 12:11

I agree completely. Gentleman, we must be together on this one point. Never ever give a girl money upfront. If even one of us does, it leads another 100 chicks to try to get one resulting in so much time wasting. My policy is of they mention any type of advance I block them immediately. If we all start doing that they will get the message.

And BTW, I have been dumb enough to do it in the past and 100% of the time it was a scam, so for you newbies as tempting as it may be just don't do it.

Ok this ends your public service announcement LOL.

Originally Posted by SeekingHead [View Original Post]

$200 for a dinner date? Girl is a 5 looks wise, she is reading some supermodels blog about sugar dating. Yes, a solid 10 can get $200 for a dinner date but not that girl.

Toe the line guys, we don't pay for a meet & greet or platonic dates.

**Smalto59** · 09-22-19 12:11

Originally Posted by StewPitt [View Original Post]

So what's the update on Elaine's breath & biscuit odor? I wanted to see her, but I need to know if I have to bring breath mints & douche.

I did not had the chance it was change of plan hopefully will meet next week.

**SeekingHead** · 09-22-19 11:56

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

Blocked this one so I don't have SA link to share. Thick Latina. OTP. Told me she usually gets $200 for dinner dates only from a couple of you. Told her I wasn't interested in paying anyone just to eat with me and said goodbye. She resurfaces a week later saying she would like to reconsider. Cool. We meet over drinks at happy hour. Chemistry was cool. Nice chick with baby damage. Left with a hug. Follow up texts told her I wanted something physical. She said cool. I book a room a week later. She shows up. And within 30 minutes said she doesn't think she can go through with it. Wants to "date" a bit more to be fully comfortable. Pissed about coming up hotel expense, but too many others out there to stress. From her conversation I can tell she definitely can use the money but she is clearly toeing the platonic angle. Ripper.

$200 for a dinner date? Girl is a 5 looks wise, she is reading some supermodels blog about sugar dating. Yes, a solid 10 can get $200 for a dinner date but not that girl.

Toe the line guys, we don't pay for a meet & greet or platonic dates.

**Ripvan12** · 09-21-19 19:07

Blocked this one so I don't have SA link to share. Thick Latina. OTP. Told me she usually gets $200 for dinner dates only from a couple of you. Told her I wasn't interested in paying anyone just to eat with me and said goodbye. She resurfaces a week later saying she would like to reconsider. Cool. We meet over drinks at happy hour. Chemistry was cool. Nice chick with baby damage. Left with a hug. Follow up texts told her I wanted something physical. She said cool. I book a room a week later. She shows up. And within 30 minutes said she doesn't think she can go through with it. Wants to "date" a bit more to be fully comfortable. Pissed about coming up hotel expense, but too many others out there to stress. From her conversation I can tell she definitely can use the money but she is clearly toeing the platonic angle. Ripper.

**BoJackSugarman** · 09-20-19 15:36

Originally Posted by Dawgins [View Original Post]

Like, she needs to clean her ass or she's got BV?

I can confirm the odor issue w her seems like a BV type of thing or maybe yeast infection. Also, while we are on the topic someone posted a terrible Carmella odor / period episode. Exact same thing happened to me! I don't think it was a period BTW. It seemed more like a BV / Trich kind of thing it was a dark brown thick substance. Just like the previous poster, it stank up my whole room to holy hell!! She acted like she didn't even notice. So that's the last time I see either of them. Both have been over and not had a smell but the last time was so bad I can't continue with either. Getting nauseated as I write this and relive the experience LOL.

**SeekingHead** · 09-20-19 15:20

Originally Posted by LogJammin18 [View Original Post]

Yep. This is 100% exactly correct. I have noticed 300 is now the magic number the in the know college girl is asking for now. We need to get that back to 200. Stick together guys.

If you want to see a girl more than once, try this strategy. Meet her price for the first meet but stipulate it's $200 going forward. I've done this with more than 10 women & it's worked everytime. I even had one girl who wanted $250 first time "emergency" but agreed to $150 going forward, I was hitting that on a weekly basis for around 3 months. She finally wanted more money but wasn't worth it.

**StewPitt** · 09-20-19 14:08

Originally Posted by Smalto59 [View Original Post]

Planning to see this one today but for some reason I've seeing some discussion about her somewhere, anyone seeing her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/9854e...f-ec2ec8bab19a

So what's the update on Elaine's breath & biscuit odor? I wanted to see her, but I need to know if I have to bring breath mints & douche.