Swingers

**CatCo** · 08-31-11 08:34

Hi everyone! I'm located in the Hickory, NC area and looking for any suggestions on swingers clubs or anything of that type. I've heard of The Estate in Charlotte, a couple of our friends have been there, but it's not a monthly thing from what I understand. Charlotte, Winston-Salem, or even the Asheville area would be okay. I'm just having problems finding legit places. Perhaps I haven't looked in the right places. We've only been in the lifestyle for a few years, I consider us to be fairly new at it still. Thanks in advance for any info. PM me if you feel more comfortable talking about it that way.

**Bevo Martini** · 03-26-11 23:08

My wife loves a dp. She wants a dp whiles a guy fucks her throat. Being a girl of course, she doesn't want to do it alone. She is 40 120lbs 5-2 blonde blue w / natural C's. Anyone have a wifey that is interested. We are in Pacific Northwest. She isn't interested in magnum guys.

Sorry

**Bbqman69** · 03-25-11 12:02

We will be opening a pvt. Swing club for over 50 in a month in the Dayton, Ohio area. It seems a lot of clubs do not want the mature crowd. This will be for couples and singles. Check out the Dayton Backpage under bodyrubs. If your over 50 come have fun soon.

**Charliebeach** · 01-10-11 13:39

As a male I have only had 3 swinging experiences. When I lived in Colorado my then girlfriend and I had a drunken foursome with a couple she knew. We wound up trying it twice more before I had to move to MD. It was my first group sex experience and now I want to try it again. Now as a single male, I would like to try this again, but I know it can be difficult with the large number of us. I wouldn't want to be labeled as one of those pushy males or some guy who just brings a woman with him as a pass to get into certain events. And when you are casually dating someone, it's kinda hard to segway swinging into a conversation. Anyone know of any male friendly clubs / events that happen in the DC / MD area, or places to meet like minded females?

**Just Parties** · 11-17-10 10:54

Originally Posted by Sluttypie [View Original Post]

So my Dearest and I had to jump through hoops to try and "apply" at this uppity swingers club. Twice, only to get rejected. Twice. WTF?

In my experience swinging is about enjoying yourself, your partner, others, making friends, partying down and good old fashioned sexy time! There is nothing hotter than watching sexins going on while having a conversation about the latest hockey game or whatever. I especially enjoy blowing my dearest and whoever he may be talking to while they are talking and heck joining in the convo if I feel I have something to add. I love to watch him with others and he loves to watch me. Hell I just love to watch and to be watched. So, after answering the stupid Q&A for this snobbish swing club here in Louisville only to get rejected for reasons unknown. We were like screw you people we will find cooler and dirtier filth.

Enter. THE HOBBY.

Nothing like seeing fellas when Dearest is at work and taking pictures with cocks in my mouth and sending them to him as a suprise out of the blue. Best sex ever when he gets home!

Although, it would be nice to have some sort of social club to interact with other folks in a safe environment. But Louisville is sadly lacking! We have tried fetish parties, but those are so trite and ritualistic with all the repeated spanking and floggings and no sexual interction. BORING. Oh and usually you can't have more than 3 beers. Again, BORING!

Someone needs to liven The 'Ville up in the way of THE SWANG!

Go south one weekend to TheSocialClub in Nashville. Google that for more info. Plenty of REAL SEX to watch and plenty of real people to watch you.

**RediMax42** · 10-28-09 10:12

I hear there is a private club meet, any insight?

**Lugnut** · 10-23-09 18:22

Originally Posted by Northsideman

Last time was at Sun Aura (or whatever they call themseleves these days, they used to be Naked City years ago) in Roselawn, Indiana, by myself. Except for a few people who were nice, I was mainly treated rudely like a second class citizen just for being a single male (this after I paid to get in).

My wife and I have been to Sun Aura quite a few times and we've never experienced what you describe. Our experience has been that everybody is more than friendly. Yes, there are a lot of single guys who go there and for the most part they're well-mannered and friendly. If that's the case, they're not a threat or a problem. Guys who are pushy and/or have an attitude tend to get treated like you describe. Not saying you were that way, I'm just sayin'.......

Originally Posted by Northsideman

Actually found the place rather childish and high school-ish. The so-called "highlight" of the camp was a place where (not particularly hot) women dance nude in the middle of a circle of chairs (which single men are NOT allowed to sit in!). Big deal! The guy presiding over this silly ceremony said I could sit for a few minutes, then threw me out!

Can't imagine what sort of "highlight" that was. We've never seen that particular event there. There are lots of different groups of people doing their own thing, however. Friends, and friends of friends tend to stay within their own enclaves, doing whatever might be fun to them; relaxing, talking, cooking out, playing games, or whatever, all in various states of undress.

I used to do my share of mongering and adult theater visiting when I was younger. I'd guess my mindset was pretty much like the vast majority of guys who are out trolling for pussy: find some, bust a nut, then leave. Reflecting back on those experiences I've found it rather amazing how fast my horniness level would change. I'd go from frantic horny just before stuffing it in, to heading for the door and wondering how the Monday Night Football game turned out, all in a matter of seconds, pre- and post orgasm.

A vital part of the swinging lifestyle is the social side of it. When my wife and I started "playing" we never figured the social side would be as much fun as it is. When you run into more-or-less compatible people, much of the "fun factor" comes from the extensive talking, partying and generally having fun that goes on before any screwing starts. Most single guys aren't into that mindset, nor are they willing to invest the time it takes to become friends with a couple, get comfortable, and maybe eventually start sampling some of the wife's pleasures; they'd just as soon bust a nut and leave. Couples know this, of course, plus many swingers only play with other couples. Sure, there are couples around who actively seek out single guys, but they tend to be a minority. There are one zillion guys out there looking for a hookup for every woman or couple who might be, so they can afford to be quite picky. Chances are you don't have the one cock that she's been looking for, so you have to sell yourself with your people skills.

Originally Posted by Northsideman

Once I was at a non-sexual nudist camp and a couple mentioned to an older member that they had recently been to a swing club. This older member read them the Riot Act about how "this is not a swing club" and "swinging is about conquest" while non-sexual nudism is about "relaxation" (relaxation of the non-sexual kind of course!).

Older people at non-sexual nudist camps can be hostile towards single men, but for different reasons than the rudeness at sex camps. Some conservative nudists automatically assume that single men are going to misbehave, while all couples are above criticism. But I have seen couples misbehave at non-sexual camps. One couple at a non-sexual camp was sneaking in other people through a back gate who hadn't paid to get in!

There are as many different flavors and outlooks on nudism, swinging, polyamory, or whatever as there are people engaged in it, which is the prime reason it's difficult to run into folks in the lifestyle you click with well. When we first started playing we didn't expect this, but it's true.

And, some discrete playing goes on even at non-sexual nudist camps. You can't get a bunch of adult naked people together and expect no fucking to go on. It's just not overt. Also, be careful in those places. Typically, you have to be nude, kids and all, and they're prime pedophile magnets.

**Bayarea Hotguy** · 10-12-09 14:48

I got the dates for the October swinger party...there is one in the daytime, mostly gangbang style, at noon, on the 23rd, and a couples only at 8pm one on Saturday night the 24th in Herndon/Dulles area...They do let in a few single guys at the "couples only" one, but get with me on info for that.

**Just Parties** · 10-12-09 14:25

Originally Posted by YoHimBeBrother

Lets see, free p#ussy with no hunting involved or danger from being busted by LE, safe environment fun and friendly people. Equals good time had by all.

I bet all the ladies and the couples left happy also.

That was a great report!

**YoHimBeBrother** · 10-11-09 23:19

I've been attending swing parties in Houston once or sometimes twice a month for the past year. The parties are single guy friendly. The couple that host the parties love to play and they expect everyone to play. At the larger parties they charge single guys a cover charge, which includes beer, water and finger food. But with the smaller parties its free.

Last nights party was exceptional thus the reason why yohimbebrother feels compelled to submit this post.

At previous parties there's a mixed bag of different couples that have showed up to play. They range from fat black couples, black and white couples of different sizes, sexy latino couples, hot looking couples, single older ladies (late 50s) that love too fuck and suck, and a few single ladies here and there so on and so on.. Over the past year I have fucked all of the good looking ones that show up and I have taken one for the team. This one particular lady that I took one for the team with was about 5'2" and 200lbs. ROUND is the word that comes too mind. I had a difficult time focusing on f&cking her, but this lady could suck a golf ball thru a garden hose. But back to last nights party.

There was 5 couples at last nights party. 2 white couples, 2 black couples and 1 hispanic couple. All the ladies were good looking with the exception of 1 of the black couple, but she was still doable.

I started off my f*ckfest with the hispanic chic who I always like to fuck first. We started off just watching the others f*ck in the bedroom then moved to the living room for some fun of our own. She started off sucking me while I FIV. Then another guy moved in and started a little DATY. After he got her all hot and bothered I slid on a cover and started pounding away in her nicely shaved vagina.

At the apex of the night, the black chick that was really good looking was taking all cummers. She was kneeling over a big comfy chair sucking dicks and getting banged from behind while her husband watched. This girl was looked like a porn star, heather hunter I think. Smooth lite skin, long waving hair, big ass, long legs and a high sex drive. I was with the HOT blonde chick f*cking in the bed and watching the black chick have fun. A guy finished f&cking the hot black chick and moved away. I immediately withdraw from the blonde chick's hole that I was f#cking and took off my condom and grabbed a fresh one and moved in for the kill. I started drilling her k9 style while she sucked some guy. Then she said lets move to the bed. We get in the bed in mish position and I'm looking into her beautiful face as I slid into her and f*cked her for all I was worth. Wow she was hot and tight. We flip over and she starts riding me and moaning really loud. I looked over at her husband and he gave me an approving smile and a thumbs up. I pummeled her in all positions for what seemed like an eternity.

After finishing with her I made a quick dash to the restroom to freshen up and then back to the bedroom for my next victim, which was the other black chick who was somewhat thick. She grabbed me when I walked out of the restroom and said let do this. I rode and spanked her ass till she was screaming in ecstasy.

The hispanic chick followed behind her again. During the course of the night I f*ck all of the ladies there last night with the exception of just one. This one particular chick always seems to be drunk and or on drugs, so I stay away from her.

Lets see, free p#ussy with no hunting involved or danger from being busted by LE, safe environment fun and friendly people. Equals good time had by all.

Have fun out there brother.

Yohimbebrother

**Bayarea Hotguy** · 10-09-09 17:34

I forgot to add, that if you go to the swinger party in DC, BE CAREFUL! The house is a nice house, and they have a good party, although way too many bi guys for my taste, not enough couples, so the party gets a B-, and they have them days and at nights.($100- $150 cover charge). The corner down the street is controlled by gangs (very obvious) and you have to drive right by it to get to the place to park, (PARKING SUCKS HERE) and when you drive right by the corner, and you are white, they will try to sell you drugs, so watch out. I see a robbery someday here. Also make sure your car has an alarm or the club. I would NEVER go there at night, just my opinion, you could get arrested for being in a drug area, or robbed and beaten. The house is right on the corner of one of those neighborhoods where on one side there are nice houses, on the other side, it is the ghetto, typical DC. Be careful guys.

Oh, and if you want the 411 on the Springfield Party, Herndon party or the new Mannassas party, message me.

**Bayarea Hotguy** · 10-05-09 02:02

I was just checking out this forum, and see that the posts are from all over, I can speak for only two places, one was Lover's Lane in Orlando, a great place, but very commercial. The other place was a place in Northern Va, just a hot couple hosting from home once a month. I think their website is novaswingerfun.com. Single guy friendly, (the only ones who pay a fee though) and lots of available women. Hope this helps the guys in my area.

**Just Parties** · 09-21-09 22:49

I operate a Swingers Party/Event/Convention Service. I do about 15 of these a year in many places including Vegas. Every thing from a small meet and greet to a huge 4 day party with hundreds of people filling a hotel. It is all about meeting like minded people and having fun!

Single guys are welcome and all the couples who attend know that we welcome single guys. But not all couples are looking for guys. But most are at some point.

Sorry this sounds more like an ad, than a report. I hope to advertise here on USASexGuide someday. But I am open to any questions about swingers.

Google JPJustParties to find my web site with a list of events that are planned.

**Northsideman** · 04-21-09 00:45

Even though Paadise Lakes (in the Tampa area) is a non-sexual nudist camp (many "wholesome family nudists" HATE swingers), rumor has it that many swingers hang out there anyway.

But I've never been there, only to various sexual & non-sexual nudist camps in the Midwest. Last time was at Sun Aura (or whatever they call themseleves these days, they used to be Naked City years ago) in Roselawn, Indiana, by myself. Except for a few people who were nice, I was mainly treated rudely like a second class citizen just for being a single male (this after I paid to get in). Actually found the place rather childish and high school-ish. The so-called "highlight" of the camp was a place where (not particularly hot) women dance nude in the middle of a circle of chairs (which single men are NOT allowed to sit in!). Big deal! The guy presiding over this silly ceremony said I could sit for a few minutes, then threw me out!

Once I was at a non-sexual nudist camp and a couple mentioned to an older member that they had recently been to a swing club. This older member read them the Riot Act about how "this is not a swing club" and "swinging is about conquest" while non-sexual nudism is about "relaxation" (relaxation of the non-sexual kind of course!).

Older people at non-sexual nudist camps can be hostile towards single men, but for different reasons than the rudeness at sex camps. Some conservative nudists automatically assume that single men are going to misbehave, while all couples are above criticism. But I have seen couples misbehave at non-sexual camps. One couple at a non-sexual camp was sneaking in other people through a back gate who hadn't paid to get in!