"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**FlipMe69** · Yesterday 09:00

Originally Posted by Rpatl [View Original Post]

So this was when she was moving to VA from FL I think. Wanted $2 k a month, and then during the process of moving wanted paid flights to come and check out the area and stay up here. Then wanted money for her everyday life on top of that without ever meeting first.

Seems like this is how seeking is in general now so I just gave up.

Oh hell no! That's crazy! I met her after she had moved to Va. I don't remember what she asked for ppm but after I saw her I decided it was too much.

**Rpatl** · Yesterday 02:07

So this was when she was moving to VA from FL I think. Wanted $2 k a month, and then during the process of moving wanted paid flights to come and check out the area and stay up here. Then wanted money for her everyday life on top of that without ever meeting first.

Seems like this is how seeking is in general now so I just gave up.

Originally Posted by FlipMe69 [View Original Post]

I appreciate it! I am curious about what odd requests you experienced and what her ppm was.

**FlipMe69** · 10-17-26 09:11

Originally Posted by Rpatl [View Original Post]

My experience was the same. Got to be annoying with all the stupid ass requests so moved on.

I appreciate it! I am curious about what odd requests you experienced and what her ppm was.

**Rpatl** · 10-13-26 04:00

My experience was the same. Got to be annoying with all the stupid ass requests so moved on.

Originally Posted by Automatic2015 [View Original Post]

To each their own. I seen her once last year. Nice and friendly to talk to. Older than 40 for sure. Good in the bed but overall transactional. So I guess YMMV. I had no plan to repeat as I like them young. Not worth for the $$$$$ PPM that she expects. Better options out there for that.

Peace out brothers!

**Automatic2015** · 10-12-26 22:07

Originally Posted by PaulT [View Original Post]

Seen her several times in last few months. She is no-nonsense, friendly and amazing in the sheets. Slightly older than my preference, but she makes up with great energy.

To each their own. I seen her once last year. Nice and friendly to talk to. Older than 40 for sure. Good in the bed but overall transactional. So I guess YMMV. I had no plan to repeat as I like them young. Not worth for the $$$$$ PPM that she expects. Better options out there for that.

Peace out brothers!

**Xaxado** · 10-12-26 17:04

Originally Posted by Mankind99 [View Original Post]

Curious where do you take your SB for encounters? Don't know that I'd want to bring them to the house when I first meet them.

I've almost exclusively had my fun at Dayuse hotels. A lot of them are very nice and you can rent the room for like 5 hours during the daytime. Dayuse.com. For meet and greets I go for a restaurant that's not brightly lit and get a booth that's a little out of the way just in case my neighbor or someone happens to come in.

**FarFarAway** · 10-12-26 14:42

Originally Posted by TheDude1 [View Original Post]

Hate to ask but what prepaid / gift cards work these days on Seeking?

I just posted on that thread about a current prepaid card solution I found to charge on the What'sYourPrice site, which has the same ownership as seeking, and which uses the same payment processor, W8 tech.

**PaulT** · 10-12-26 11:44

Originally Posted by FlipMe69 [View Original Post]

Anybody have any experience with this one? I met her for a drink several months back and decided not to go any further. Thinking about circling back.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-00cc655a42d7

Seen her several times in last few months. She is no-nonsense, friendly and amazing in the sheets. Slightly older than my preference, but she makes up with great energy.

**Mankind99** · 10-12-26 02:26

Curious where do you take your SB for encounters? Don't know that I'd want to bring them to the house when I first meet them.

**FlipMe69** · 10-11-26 10:26

Anybody have any experience with this one? I met her for a drink several months back and decided not to go any further. Thinking about circling back.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-00cc655a42d7

**FlipMe69** · 10-11-26 10:13

This is good advice. I will add a few: don't send money "to help" even after a successful first date, be careful with those that have been on the site for several years, they are more likely to waste your time with haggling over ppm, no allowance money, stick with ppm, the under 25 group can be bad about wasting your time, they probably have regular fwb or boyfriends, if they have kids their time is often sparingly limited and dates are rushed, more than one profile is a red flag, avoid discussing exchange of money for specific sexual activity if possible. While I think an encounter with the police is unlikely with these dates, getting you to admit that you are willing to say that you are looking to pay for sex is a tactic that the police use. I had one last week keep asking if I was looking for sex. That's a red flag for me.

Originally Posted by ThatSexyGuy [View Original Post]

Here are the golden rules to follow.

1. Never pay more than $300-$400 for two-three hours with a baby.

2. Never ever take the girls on dates. $300-$400 a pop is more than enough to get them straight to Hotel or your place.

3. Don't discuss money on Seeking. Discuss off site on spare phone number.

4. Have baby perform STD / Herpes test or provide recent results. Or if she can't provide wrap it up.

5. Don't ever pay more than $300-$400 a pop unless it's warranted. $500-$1000 is for top tier girls with the beauty and it has to be something like they drive three hours or more to see you. That warrants that type of price.

6. No you typically don't have to worry about police. But still be aware and vigilant.

**ThatSexyGuy** · 10-11-26 09:14

Originally Posted by AyoMyth [View Original Post]

Hello I'm new to this side of site. I normally just do escorts but this has intrigued me. Do I need to watch out for cops and is there things I shouldn't say. You can pm me or reply back with the help. Thank you.

Here are the golden rules to follow.

1. Never pay more than $300-$400 for two-three hours with a baby.

2. Never ever take the girls on dates. $300-$400 a pop is more than enough to get them straight to Hotel or your place.

3. Don't discuss money on Seeking. Discuss off site on spare phone number.

4. Have baby perform STD / Herpes test or provide recent results. Or if she can't provide wrap it up.

5. Don't ever pay more than $300-$400 a pop unless it's warranted. $500-$1000 is for top tier girls with the beauty and it has to be something like they drive three hours or more to see you. That warrants that type of price.

6. No you typically don't have to worry about police. But still be aware and vigilant.

**FlipMe69** · 10-11-26 09:09

Originally Posted by AyoMyth [View Original Post]

Hello I'm new to this side of site. I normally just do escorts but this has intrigued me. Do I need to watch out for cops and is there things I shouldn't say. You can pm me or reply back with the help. Thank you.

Bring your wallet and a lot of patience! I have had some great experiences but for every good one I have had 2-3 bad ones. Most are looking for an ATM and have no self awareness of their actual worth. The average PPM has gotten to be out of control. Apparently someone is paying upwards of $1000 for an average date. Crazy!

**FlipMe69** · 10-11-26 09:04

Originally Posted by CuriousVaMan [View Original Post]

Courtney drove up from Charlottesville to see me in the DC area. I was disappointed and you know when the chick assumes the doggy position and you get a good wiff of her slot? Fuck me. Her box was the stinkiest thing I've ever smelled. Worst SA date by far. Made me question what the fuck I was doing.

I was about to close a deal with her and found these reviews. Thank you!!

**AyoMyth** · 10-10-26 07:02

Hello I'm new to this side of site. I normally just do escorts but this has intrigued me. Do I need to watch out for cops and is there things I shouldn't say. You can pm me or reply back with the help. Thank you.