"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Mankind99]

Curious where do you take your SB for encounters? Don't know that I'd want to bring them to the house when I first meet them.

[FlipMe69]

Anybody have any experience with this one? I met her for a drink several months back and decided not to go any further. Thinking about circling back.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-00cc655a42d7

[FlipMe69]

This is good advice. I will add a few: don't send money "to help" even after a successful first date, be careful with those that have been on the site for several years, they are more likely to waste your time with haggling over ppm, no allowance money, stick with ppm, the under 25 group can be bad about wasting your time, they probably have regular fwb or boyfriends, if they have kids their time is often sparingly limited and dates are rushed, more than one profile is a red flag, avoid discussing exchange of money for specific sexual activity if possible. While I think an encounter with the police is unlikely with these dates, getting you to admit that you are willing to say that you are looking to pay for sex is a tactic that the police use. I had one last week keep asking if I was looking for sex. That's a red flag for me.

Here are the golden rules to follow.

1. Never pay more than $300-$400 for two-three hours with a baby.

2. Never ever take the girls on dates. $300-$400 a pop is more than enough to get them straight to Hotel or your place.

3. Don't discuss money on Seeking. Discuss off site on spare phone number.

4. Have baby perform STD / Herpes test or provide recent results. Or if she can't provide wrap it up.

5. Don't ever pay more than $300-$400 a pop unless it's warranted. $500-$1000 is for top tier girls with the beauty and it has to be something like they drive three hours or more to see you. That warrants that type of price.

6. No you typically don't have to worry about police. But still be aware and vigilant.

[ThatSexyGuy]

Hello I'm new to this side of site. I normally just do escorts but this has intrigued me. Do I need to watch out for cops and is there things I shouldn't say. You can pm me or reply back with the help. Thank you.

Here are the golden rules to follow.

1. Never pay more than $300-$400 for two-three hours with a baby.

2. Never ever take the girls on dates. $300-$400 a pop is more than enough to get them straight to Hotel or your place.

3. Don't discuss money on Seeking. Discuss off site on spare phone number.

4. Have baby perform STD / Herpes test or provide recent results. Or if she can't provide wrap it up.

5. Don't ever pay more than $300-$400 a pop unless it's warranted. $500-$1000 is for top tier girls with the beauty and it has to be something like they drive three hours or more to see you. That warrants that type of price.

6. No you typically don't have to worry about police. But still be aware and vigilant.

[FlipMe69]

Hello I'm new to this side of site. I normally just do escorts but this has intrigued me. Do I need to watch out for cops and is there things I shouldn't say. You can pm me or reply back with the help. Thank you.

Bring your wallet and a lot of patience! I have had some great experiences but for every good one I have had 2-3 bad ones. Most are looking for an ATM and have no self awareness of their actual worth. The average PPM has gotten to be out of control. Apparently someone is paying upwards of $1000 for an average date. Crazy!

[FlipMe69]

Courtney drove up from Charlottesville to see me in the DC area. I was disappointed and you know when the chick assumes the doggy position and you get a good wiff of her slot? Fuck me. Her box was the stinkiest thing I've ever smelled. Worst SA date by far. Made me question what the fuck I was doing.

I was about to close a deal with her and found these reviews. Thank you!!

[AyoMyth]

Hello I'm new to this side of site. I normally just do escorts but this has intrigued me. Do I need to watch out for cops and is there things I shouldn't say. You can pm me or reply back with the help. Thank you.

[ThatSexyGuy]

Well guys, I'm sadly back, and sadly, this one hurts a little to write.

I met the baby below, Amaya, on Seeking. She's a very interesting character, to say the least. Asian / Black mixed female with a banger body. College student. No lies, I actually thought about busting inside and dealing with the consequences later.

But you know me: no kids. At 36 years old, I'll start off with the good.

She is a master deep-throat expert, on the level of porn stars. She could take my entire 9-inch cock in her throat, and she could also handle rough sex without any gag reflex at all. She made my entire cock disappear.

Guys, I'm huge! Master level! Can you believe she told me she doesn't give head? I had to push for her to do it until she tried, but seriously, she is THAT good.

My first meet with her cost $1,070. She drove all the way from Baltimore, MD, to Virginia. It was like a three-hour-plus drive, so in this case, $1,000+ and gas was fair. She stayed the entire Saturday night and all Sunday with me.

I'm telling you guys, her pictures are accurate as fuck, and she is easily a hard 8. 59 in person. She is built with a fat, round ass and nice-sized tits.

We fucked all Saturday night, and I put her in every position possible. I was pounding her hard as fuck because she was so damn hot. We went the first round for about two hours before I finished. She was giving me everything, and the chemistry was insane.

We went at it again after I recovered, and the doggy was a 10/10. She has a big, round ass with a nice slim waist. Man, I lost myself in doggy and went too rough with her. I pulled her curly hair, smacked that ass, and went as deep as I could. Honestly, it sucks because she was bleeding afterward. It wasn't my intention to hurt her, but I'm a large male, and this has happened with girls before until I adjust to them. She didn't complain about it, though.

Basically, this was the best oral sex I've had in a while. She is a real gem. I've never been with an Asian / Black mixed woman before, and now I want to try more. She just looks mixed in person, and you can tell. It's beautiful.

The sex was so good that I tried my best to make her cum. I got her to cum through intercourse three times. Oral, I could not get her to cum.

I saw her a second time last week. Same thing: great oral and fantastic sex. Similar to the first encounter all over again. Out-of-pocket total the second time was about $479.44.

Notice how the cost was reduced for her to come down from Baltimore, MD? I did not pay her $1,000 the second time because she liked me and just came.

Here are the issues with her, and why I have another baby lined up this weekend:

When we first met, she sold me a dream while drunk. She wanted more and told me I better not have a girlfriend. She was very aggressive after I started fucking her. Honestly, I didn't mind too much.

But after the sex, she started dropping truth bombs. On the first encounter, she told me she had been sexually assaulted by her uncle. She then proceeded to explain that she doesn't really care about anybody.

In my time with her, she admitted she is a narcissist and then tried to downplay it after telling me.

Guys, I'm crying because the more this girl talked, the more I could see how damaged she is. She even told me she scams old guys and married guys on the Seeking site, or plays on their desperation for love. Yikes!

She even told me how she helped a guy cheat over the phone on his wife with cancer. Diabolical. I'm just sitting there like, WTF?

I stayed calm, of course.

She is all over the place, and that's what made me realize it was just my turn. She's not mine.

Guys, listen to me. She will only meet you if you're handsome. This is where I break your guys' hearts. Ugly guys stand no chance with her. She will try to finesse you. She only met me because I'm handsome.

And she admitted she would have my kids, LOL.

I still encourage you all to try and get her, especially if you like crazy women and women with an inability to cater to you. And believe me, she won't cater to you other than sex. Which tells me she is not the ideal sugar baby.

And this is why I'm changing her out for another sugar baby despite the fire sex.

Don't tell me you want more with me when all I wanted was a one-time fuck because she was my type. I paid the $1,000 and got a two-fuck supreme special, in my opinion. Because it's rare for a woman to be able to handle me like that.

The problem for me is that when she leaves, you won't be able to text with her. You won't be able to feel any of the magic she gave you in person. She is not sugar-baby trained, and there's too much pussy out here to be training.

Not to mention, she half-asses a lot of the texts I've sent her. Basically, she gets back to me days later.

Guys, we talked about keeping up with each other, and I'm telling you, she did nothing she told me she wanted from the first meet. After the second meet, she was still in my grasp, but I could not stomach how she texts, and I also don't like how far away she is from me.

I'm used to sugar babies being very receptive over text, like the new baby I have now. She texts me every day and actually gives a damn about my struggles and life, and I give a damn about hers.

Being real, I'm not here just for the sex. When I get serious and set a baby up with an allowance, I need and want attention!

Sorry, guys, my life is a hellhole at work. I don't care if a baby fakes it. Text me and care about my life until I get rich enough to get out of this damn country!

Amaya has shown these last few weeks that she's a pornstar in the bedroom but bad for daddies who want more of a close personal connection. That's the type of daddy I am.

So, in closing, Amaya is a case study for sugar babies.

Amaya will tell you she only cares about herself. She only cares about her nephew and doesn't care to ask you anything about your day. She doesn't care what issues you've got going on.

She is, without a doubt, a narcissist, and I loathe the guy who gets her pregnant. Likely won't end well.

Other than that, she's a good fuck.

Also, she told me she loved me. Honestly guys pray for me I sent her a text I won't continue with her and found a new baby. Hopefully she don't come after me!

And don’t message me asking for her number. Go on seeking and try her.

[FarFarAway]

Can someone help?

I am looking too, for a prepaid card that works on seeking or on what's your price.

[CuriousVaMan]

Anyone have any experience with this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-579232f1c070

Brother, she hasn't logged on in 3 months. My rule of thumb is if a chick hasn't logged on in the last couple of weeks, she's not playing. Not a hard-fast rule tho. . . Good luck.

[SafePlayer69]

Anyone have any experience with this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-579232f1c070

[ThatSexyGuy]

Been chatting with her. Anybody seen her or have any info?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-7d6ad2303909

Gave her $300 and she came to my place. She's a little chubby but cute. Looked very young when we met. She took the 9 inchs all the way bare back and let me rough her up quite a bit. Yanking her hair and really pounding away. I really went hard at her in doggy and Missionary and blew my load all over her chest and face. I come a lot so she was drenched. She didn't complain. She's all about business.

I had a good time. Made her produce std results before fucking her bare. Be careful out here guys.

[CarpenterP2017]

The first two links aren't opening for me.

Blue. Wonder if that is the same 19 YO that goes by that name that's been discussed in the escort forum?

Jay. Had a meet and greet with her last year after chatting on secret benefits. Hot as hell but had a big case of GPS back then. Said she usually gets 800 to 1 K LOL After chatting she came down to 400 but could not host. I didn't pursue it.

Weird, try this one for Lila (she’s in Lynchburg): https://members.seeking.com/member/5...1-1da6367777bd.

Blue is 19 yes. I'll go dig around over there.

Ari is 4'11, DTF, $350, can host. Bit of a butter face but we'll see what's happens!

[SBmidlo]

Samantha: https://members.seeking.com/member/3...-03532f39603b. Talked everything seemed fine, flaked the day of.

Lila: https://members.seeking.com/member/5...-1da6367777bd. Real, lives in Lynchburg but will drive. Will take 3-400. Someone left a good review on the Lynchburg forum. Seems nice.

Anyone have info on these:

Ari: https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-be7d553395df I'm pretty sure she's been reviewed before but I couldn't find it. Anyone remember?

Blue: https://members.seeking.com/member/3...1-468b600496b6 Anyone had contact with this one?

Jay: https://members.seeking.com/member/7...3-273c8384095f Says she's a nurse.

The first two links aren't opening for me.

Blue. Wonder if that is the same 19 YO that goes by that name that's been discussed in the escort forum?

Jay. Had a meet and greet with her last year after chatting on secret benefits. Hot as hell but had a big case of GPS back then. Said she usually gets 800 to 1 K LOL After chatting she came down to 400 but could not host. I didn't pursue it.

[PaulT]

Been chatting with her. Anybody seen her or have any info?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-7d6ad2303909

Her pics are bit dated. Much bigger in person. If you're into chunkier girls, she is a decent lay. I would not go to her place in Hopewell.