NoVA SugarBabies

[Mross86]

I've seen her. Really sweet and fun. Looks like her pictures. Didn't get the online thing. Invite her to dinner to start.

Thanks. I might have a second attempt on this one as I have a thing for red heads. Yeah, dinner invite would be a good way of getting back in.

[SRH59]

Wants to start slowly and online first, open to more later on.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-362933645222

I've seen her. Really sweet and fun. Looks like her pictures. Didn't get the online thing. Invite her to dinner to start.

[Mross86]

Never got around to meeting her but she asked for $550-$600 which would also cover her Uber. Sounded like she was ok to fk on the first meet.

Damn, I might need to revisit my opening approach going fwd LOL. When did you talk to her BTW? I got a response from her yesterday on the platform so just wondering if this is YMMV case or she had changed her mind.

[TomFordModel]

Never got around to meeting her but she asked for $550-$600 which would also cover her Uber. Sounded like she was ok to fk on the first meet.

Shit, she should pay. Her pics are so filtered- no tits and god knows what else.

[Kpop1]

Wants to start slowly and online first, open to more later on.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-362933645222

Never got around to meeting her but she asked for $550-$600 which would also cover her Uber. Sounded like she was ok to fk on the first meet.

[Flipper69]

She's crazy. Chunky AF the only thing she has going for her is she's white and blonde. In south Florida. People would be offering her 300. She should take whatever in DC because we have the highest concentration of simps overpaying.

Agree. I feel like she'll realize and come around eventually. To your point though, there is always a simp out there, so will see.

[Flipper69]

Cleared, go ahead.

I just sent a DM to both of you as well.

[TonySop]

Wants to start slowly and online first, open to more later on.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-362933645222

She mentioned she's open to dinner dates as well. But yeah, nothing physical at first.

[Starwood1982]

No, she responded she's worth at least double that amount, and offering a discount already. I respectfully disagreed and moved on. If someone's willing to pay 800 she's DTF but in my opinion, 500 is a ceiling for her.

I'm talking to her right now. She's saying she is used to getting 1. 5 k ppm while she was in school down in South Florida. SMH.

[Mross86]

Wants to start slowly and online first, open to more later on.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-362933645222

[Mross86]

When I first got into this some years ago, I (I guess naively) thought it was going to be more like the traditional sugar dating (and started because that style appealed to me). My first few were actually like that. Now I'll run a search on here, or think I've got a low volume one. Only to have someone be like "hey, anyone seen X?" and a bunch of you say you have LOL.

As someone already said before, we are all "eskimo brothers" LOL.

[TomFordModel]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...4-bafa634330cc

Anyone hitting this? I saw her on tinder so she lives on the md side.

[Senbonzakura]

I'll tell you one thing though, back in 2016, when I started dipping into the Sugar dating, both Seeking Arrangements and Secret Benefits (I didn't use SDM back then) were completely different and more in line with traditional sugar dating. Now, some might disagree, but we are just a niche area under the large prostitution umbrella with very blurry lines that separate us as a unique area.

When I first got into this some years ago, I (I guess naively) thought it was going to be more like the traditional sugar dating (and started because that style appealed to me). My first few were actually like that. Now I'll run a search on here, or think I've got a low volume one. Only to have someone be like "hey, anyone seen X?" and a bunch of you say you have LOL.

[Mross86]

That is basically correct. You need to first buy a package of "credits. " E. G. , $150 for 500 credits (= $0. 30 a credit). You then offer a date to those you chose, and name a price for the date, e. G. , $200. If the girl accepts, then you can (1) text her (and get charged "credits" based on the amount you offered for the date. E. g. , a $300 date offer you will be charged 60 credits to message her, a $50 date offer and you will be charged 10 credits to message her), or (2) not next her (and you are charged nothing). Thus, you MUST become very selective about who you message.

There are a lot of "rinsers" or "M&G girls" on the site,. Girls who go on a date every night, collect their cash, and then disappear. I just watch the site for a few days and they are easy to pick out because they are always on. But there are several GND types who would like the sugar lifestyle, but don't want to commit to anyone until they have met them. They are RARE, but I have met several over the years, a couple of which lasted a couple of years. I am selective as well, and don't mind paying for a few dates to find the right fit because I want something longer term. Others disagree with this strategy, but that is how I have found the lower-volume SBs.

Seeking has a MUCH higher volume of hot girls (maybe 50 x more). But it also has a lot higher volume of pros and catfish and rinsers as well. The last thing I will say is that the "credits" do not expire. Once I find a good SB, I get off the site, and when I return months / years later, the credits are still there.

Got it. In your case I think WYP will work very well. I was exactly like you few years ago when I had 3 SBs over the span of 5 years, all long term relationships. That's a rarity these days and sort of a dying breed I think. The sites I'm currently using (Seeking, SB and SDM) are filled with Pros and even the genuine SBs there are very high volume. No knock on them though, as most of us here are also more contained with short term flings or transactional encounters and honestly I get bored with some of these girls pretty quick (and I think most of our brothers here are same way). In most cases, beyond the good looks and the sex, there is literally nothing else that would keep the interest going with most of these chicks, so once those things wear off, and they always do, you are ready to move on to the next one.

I'll tell you one thing though, back in 2016, when I started dipping into the Sugar dating, both Seeking Arrangements and Secret Benefits (I didn't use SDM back then) were completely different and more in line with traditional sugar dating. Now, some might disagree, but we are just a niche area under the large prostitution umbrella with very blurry lines that separate us as a unique area.

[AdcFellow]

Thanks, the way I understood it before was you get a date (pretty much pay for bit upfront) and then figure out the specifics and most of the chicks want it to be a dinner out. From there, you can try to get to the next stage. So to me it seemed like paid M&G. Another dude in the past told me that, he's been using it for so long and can see the signs if the girl is interested in hooking up and only bids on those and he's upfront (e. G. The date is in a hotel and the agreed price is the price etc.). I do see pros and cons with it. One of these days might give it a try.

That is basically correct. You need to first buy a package of "credits. " E. G. , $150 for 500 credits (= $0. 30 a credit). You then offer a date to those you chose, and name a price for the date, e. G. , $200. If the girl accepts, then you can (1) text her (and get charged "credits" based on the amount you offered for the date. E. g. , a $300 date offer you will be charged 60 credits to message her, a $50 date offer and you will be charged 10 credits to message her), or (2) not next her (and you are charged nothing). Thus, you MUST become very selective about who you message.

There are a lot of "rinsers" or "M&G girls" on the site,. Girls who go on a date every night, collect their cash, and then disappear. I just watch the site for a few days and they are easy to pick out because they are always on. But there are several GND types who would like the sugar lifestyle, but don't want to commit to anyone until they have met them. They are RARE, but I have met several over the years, a couple of which lasted a couple of years. I am selective as well, and don't mind paying for a few dates to find the right fit because I want something longer term. Others disagree with this strategy, but that is how I have found the lower-volume SBs.

Seeking has a MUCH higher volume of hot girls (maybe 50 x more). But it also has a lot higher volume of pros and catfish and rinsers as well. The last thing I will say is that the "credits" do not expire. Once I find a good SB, I get off the site, and when I return months / years later, the credits are still there.