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[Lexx1]

I'm curious, how to you approach discussing a car meet for a SB? I'll do that with a pro because they're used to that question, but with a civilian SB on seeking or SDM it seems like a more sketch conversation that would throw them off and doxx you as being a hobbyist. You don't get any pushback from that conversation?

LOL Never any push back. You just have to know how to ask. Since these girls should be new to the p4 p world and naive / innocent. They shouldn't know about "hobbyists" mongers and that world. So they don't see anything wrong with doing that. Civies don't make out in cars and fuck around in them? Of course they do. It's something normal. That's the way you have to see it. For some girls it's kinky too and they're totally down for it. I've had all kinds of action go down in my ride and take video too. Usually 8 to 9 out of 10 girls are totally fine with it. The one that may be iffy is just worried about privacy in the car. But I always reassure I have tinted windows, shades to put up for the front windows and park in a secluded spot.

[Godre737]

You have to set the expectation of time spent in your initial negotiations. I expect a minimum of 2 hours each meet up. On average I spend 2 to 4 hours each meet up. Overnights can be discussed separately. Each girl is different of what they can accommodate. Sometimes I'll have a quick car meetup just for head. Those are quickies and around an hour. Sometimes we fuck in those car meet ups too. After the fuck meet if she wants to hang out for whatever. Say just chill or grab a bite to eat. That's up to her.

I'm curious, how to you approach discussing a car meet for a SB? I'll do that with a pro because they're used to that question, but with a civilian SB on seeking or SDM it seems like a more sketch conversation that would throw them off and doxx you as being a hobbyist. You don't get any pushback from that conversation?

[Grail47]

Think these questions were brought up already very recently. Look back a few pages. Pricing can be all over the place in LA. Usual bare minimum is 200 and can go up to 1000. My hard max is 500. But I rarely go there. I can go higher than 500 but why? I usually hover between 200 to 400 ppm. I don't fly out at all or fly girls in. I stick to LA county, North OC and the IE. I drive to my girls, if they're far, and either get a hotel near them. Or if nearby my house in LA. I pick them up and bring them over.

As for gifts, etc. I'll gift some things sometimes to a girl. Not often and not right away. It's mostly the cash. Girls I see usually need that and can do as they please with it.

I'm pretty much aligned with Lexx regarding this aspects of SB / SD dating. I also don't fly out or fly anyone to me. And since I can host easily, all my meet ups have been here at my place, with the exception of getting a hotel for one SB in Whittier that I briefly saw. I also don't mind picking her up or driving her back home later, especially when they live close, or I've ordered an Uber. I haven't had any requests for gifts and haven't provided any, other than drinks here and ordering in dinner occasionally for us.

[Lexx1]

So how long does each ppm last usually? Given it starts from hotel?

You have to set the expectation of time spent in your initial negotiations. I expect a minimum of 2 hours each meet up. On average I spend 2 to 4 hours each meet up. Overnights can be discussed separately. Each girl is different of what they can accommodate. Sometimes I'll have a quick car meetup just for head. Those are quickies and around an hour. Sometimes we fuck in those car meet ups too. After the fuck meet if she wants to hang out for whatever. Say just chill or grab a bite to eat. That's up to her.

[Grail47]

So how long does each ppm last usually? Given it starts from hotel?

It depends, as I usually chat with my SB about how much time she has to spare, what else is on her schedule for the day, etc. They're usually pretty upfront about "I have work in a few hours" or "I have dinner plans 8 pm, so I can visit you at 6 pm and stay until then". Of course, since I live alone and can host I'm not having to deal with hotel time frames. I've also had a few SB's specifically ask me how much time I wanted to spend together and I'll answer around an hour and a half.

[Kaphio0918]

So I am newb and just wanted to know how long each ppm lasts.

[Kaphio0918]

So how long does each ppm last usually? Given it starts from hotel?

[Lexx1]

So now I have a reflective question for you daddies. Does your baby ask for items usually or straight up cash? And since this is the LA side of things, and I personally doesn't do the LA drive to see a sugar baby, how are the pricing compare to else where say SD or in a vegas? I am presuming some experts here doesn't stay only local for them sugar babes.

Think these questions were brought up already very recently. Look back a few pages. Pricing can be all over the place in LA. Usual bare minimum is 200 and can go up to 1000. My hard max is 500. But I rarely go there. I can go higher than 500 but why? I usually hover between 200 to 400 ppm. I don't fly out at all or fly girls in. I stick to LA county, North OC and the IE. I drive to my girls, if they're far, and either get a hotel near them. Or if nearby my house in LA. I pick them up and bring them over.

As for gifts, etc. I'll gift some things sometimes to a girl. Not often and not right away. It's mostly the cash. Girls I see usually need that and can do as they please with it.

[Vevor12]

So now I have a reflective question for you daddies. Does your baby ask for items usually or straight up cash? And since this is the LA side of things, and I personally doesn't do the LA drive to see a sugar baby, how are the pricing compare to else where say SD or in a vegas? I am presuming some experts here doesn't stay only local for them sugar babes.

[Vevor12]

Ha, I like the way you put that!

I agree with whatever everyone is saying. Sugaring is basically semi-pro behavior. Maybe not completely but close enough. They may not charge by the hour, and sometimes it gets a bit more personable, but you're still exchanging money for a good time.

I will saw every once in a while you find a diamond in the rough that isn't interested in a transactional arrangement. Years ago I met this sugar baby, she was young and chic and pretty and had some damn good pussy. We did an arrangement PPM style like 2-3 times at first, but after that she never wanted money again. She just wanted somebody with good means to be able to treat her nicely. We would hang out, go to dinner, drink, fuck, and then see you again in a few few days. It was perfect honestly. Anyway it fell apart around Covid. They're rare for sure, but I'm just saying, not all the seeking girls are trying to be pros. I might fuck 'them like a *****, but I'll treat them like a lady.

Yea, see how often you get one of these right? I know I can't prove it, but I know my dumb ass friend's sugar baby is definitely not seeing his ass exclusively, call it a hunch if you may. The type of feeling that when I go to AMP I know they are faking to like my mug, but why ruin the illusion and just have fun right? But when you see the sugar baby side, and this girl is like affectionate and all the cringe public shit, I am like dude, she is putting on an act, I don't care what you say.

[Vevor12]

I think it was Chris Rock who said the reason why men pay for hookers is for them to leave. Definitely some truth in that.

Word. My friend, but hey if the pussy is cheap enough, why not partake right? Some sugar daddies have it all, and some like me see the darkness and now it is afraid of the dark LOL.

[HiImJeff]

Ha, I like the way you put that!

I agree with whatever everyone is saying. Sugaring is basically semi-pro behavior. Maybe not completely but close enough. They may not charge by the hour, and sometimes it gets a bit more personable, but you're still exchanging money for a good time.

I will saw every once in a while you find a diamond in the rough that isn't interested in a transactional arrangement. Years ago I met this sugar baby, she was young and chic and pretty and had some damn good pussy. We did an arrangement PPM style like 2-3 times at first, but after that she never wanted money again. She just wanted somebody with good means to be able to treat her nicely. We would hang out, go to dinner, drink, fuck, and then see you again in a few few days. It was perfect honestly. Anyway it fell apart around Covid. They're rare for sure, but I'm just saying, not all the seeking girls are trying to be pros. I might fuck 'them like a *****, but I'll treat them like a lady.

That's the way my current SB is going LOL. I've seen her a couple times now and did the PPM thing. The last time I saw her, I sent the PPM over venmo like 3 days after we hung out and she called me to say she forgot about it LOL. PPM started at 600, then she said she was fine with 400 and she always spends the night.

[FarFarAway]

Everyone gets the sugar bowl they're looking for.

I have a couple of decades and a couple of wardens on most of you guys. So sugaring works different for me. And there may be lurkers here similar to me. However, our thread master, Hollywood Guy, he may be even senior to me. He has had a few long termers but has mostly been one-and-done. I have had 3 long-term sugar relationships, and way prefer those. It's safer for one thing. Being active on these sites, there's a risk to me IRL. It usually takes a few FCs to find out what a girl could be to you.

I thought I had a keeper recently. Loves way older guys, super pretty, very horny and orgasmic, and submissive. Was OK with whatever I put together for sugar. But then I got super active finger banging her last FC, and, whew!

I'd guess she knew too; haven't been in touch since.

Thursday I am doing a 2nd FC w / a 30's ABG. She was a little passive, but when I asked her what she liked, she did mention watching herself blow me in the mirror. So I'm going deeper into that this time.

I don't have a huge bankroll b / c I am hiding the $, and not being Brad Pitt, my strongest cards to play are being nice and making sure they enjoy the sex.

[Godre737]

At the end of the day, these sexy babes are sitting on an ATM, and when they need money, they just get us to swipe our dicks in and money comes out LOL.

Ha, I like the way you put that!

I agree with whatever everyone is saying. Sugaring is basically semi-pro behavior. Maybe not completely but close enough. They may not charge by the hour, and sometimes it gets a bit more personable, but you're still exchanging money for a good time.

I will saw every once in a while you find a diamond in the rough that isn't interested in a transactional arrangement. Years ago I met this sugar baby, she was young and chic and pretty and had some damn good pussy. We did an arrangement PPM style like 2-3 times at first, but after that she never wanted money again. She just wanted somebody with good means to be able to treat her nicely. We would hang out, go to dinner, drink, fuck, and then see you again in a few few days. It was perfect honestly. Anyway it fell apart around Covid. They're rare for sure, but I'm just saying, not all the seeking girls are trying to be pros. I might fuck 'them like a *****, but I'll treat them like a lady.