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**Nate0110** · Today 09:56

Originally Posted by Claymore76 [View Original Post]

Nate,

The links provided are opening the webpage and the home screen but it is blank; no drill down to the member profile in the link Any availability for a resend? I am a member and I am currently looking for fresh perspectives. Any help is much appreciated.

Weird if you are logged into secret benefits these are direct links to the girls profile for me- like this newbie (who gets it and I would try if I was a member currently) https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...6qQDmRXXkWCaL9 You can always PM for email. Stay safe and happy hunting.

**Claymore76** · 09-18-26 02:08

Originally Posted by Nate0110 [View Original Post]

I would guess those are bots. All the sugar websites have them.

One I usually join for and turns out to be fake looks tempting though.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...RKUBbbwY0vVS0Y

Desperate for help. I would verify her age before anything else.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...JoOU2ajDPk_xwa

Prolly a semi pro but I would try her.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...Zy1xwdDevSK7kN

24 yr old single mom. Yea.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...v16nl-6SQX69Bi

Stay safe and Happy Hunting.

Nate,

The links provided are opening the webpage and the home screen but it is blank; no drill down to the member profile in the link Any availability for a resend? I am a member and I am currently looking for fresh perspectives. Any help is much appreciated.

**Nate0110** · 09-08-26 11:14

Originally Posted by JTerry26 [View Original Post]

Yes, I have been seeing someone for 5+ years. It was PPM, then a fixed weekly and now nothing, other than occasional support for stuff. Very classic SD / SB. Completely unspoken. Kind of like an exchange you and I had a while back about the different kinds of SBs. Earlier on we traveled a bit but now it is like a weekly Tinder date, sometimes with dinner after. Very casual, lots of contact in between.

Going back to our earlier conversation, she was a single mom who had pressing temporary needs. I am sure she saw other guys early on, but she was far from a pro and just looking for a safety net. She's no longer on SA.

I just don't think that is very common.

JTerry26 your inbox is full. Delete a few thanks.

**Shampoo55** · 09-06-26 21:56

Seen this girl on Seeking and thought I might contact her. But for some reason that face looks familiar. So anyone know this one? A true SB candidate or a STG-type retread?

**JTerry26** · 08-31-26 07:18

Originally Posted by Shampoo55 [View Original Post]

Is anybody having success finding a true SB on Seeking? Seems like all I can find are escorts, P2 P girls, porn stars and others who just are DTF in hotels with no true relationship.

Interesting how many girls I recognize from the escort sites!

Yes, I have been seeing someone for 5+ years. It was PPM, then a fixed weekly and now nothing, other than occasional support for stuff. Very classic SD / SB. Completely unspoken. Kind of like an exchange you and I had a while back about the different kinds of SBs. Earlier on we traveled a bit but now it is like a weekly Tinder date, sometimes with dinner after. Very casual, lots of contact in between.

Going back to our earlier conversation, she was a single mom who had pressing temporary needs. I am sure she saw other guys early on, but she was far from a pro and just looking for a safety net. She's no longer on SA.

I just don't think that is very common.

**Shampoo55** · 08-29-26 13:41

Is anybody having success finding a true SB on Seeking? Seems like all I can find are escorts, P2 P girls, porn stars and others who just are DTF in hotels with no true relationship.

Interesting how many girls I recognize from the escort sites!

**PinHead11** · 08-01-26 22:00

Frasier69; Has any older men (over 40) used Tinder to find UTR's or sugars?

Lots, I mean LOTS of work.

PM'd you.

PH.

**Frasier69** · 08-01-26 15:23

Has any older men (over 40) used Tinder to find UTR's or sugars?

If so.

1) What's the hit rate of finding and meeting up with someone?

2) Is the pool of women on Tinder that are UTR's or sugars also on SA and other sugar sites?

3) What are the rates most women are looking for on Tinder?

I realize using Tinder for such a thing is a lot more work vs. Using SA or other sugar sites. But it might be worth the effort if one can find a pool of women that aren't on the sugar sites and / or being able to get better rates than what most sugars are looking for. Especially given the rules of Tinder and SA since one has to be careful on how they initially communicate with women on those platforms until they can establish direct communications off the site.

**Shampoo55** · 07-27-26 18:27

I get that SA has changed. Often I respond to a girl and IF I use the word "generous" I get a warning from the SA BOT about no P2 P stuff. OK got it.

So I'm in the early stages of contacting & connecting with a girl and she sends me a note that she wants to meet and it's 1 K for the meeting! Yeah each word of the sentence was on a separate line, but overall how does she get away with that? And what happens if I respond to that, does it make it look like I accepted her "offer" and thus am violating the TOS and get kicked off?

Kinda figured maybe reporting her would build good will with the outfit, but did that a couple of years ago and her profile was still up a month later.

Just interested if other have seen this stuff?

**Shampoo55** · 07-23-26 17:10

Let's see. Some of my recent responses.

Girl #1 is cool with skipping the M&G and is willing for the first meeting to be in a hotel room? SB or pro?

Girl #2 states in her reply to my intro that she's looking for sd-sb relationship. Later says P2 P.

Girl#3 in reply to my lengthy intro message says: "I am not an easy person to handle financially. " WTF? You looking for Findom?

Most of the women have ZERO sense of humour, can't joke with them as the don't "get it". I guess in this area most guys are looking for escort lite, so they expect that and aren't willing to develop something that turns into life changing money. Oh well.

**Nate0110** · 07-06-26 12:25

Originally Posted by Shampoo55 [View Original Post]

Ran across something I haven't seen before while looking at a bunch of pics that come up with the search. Picture of the girl, age & location, but for the name it says, "Seeking Member".

I would guess those are bots. All the sugar websites have them.

One I usually join for and turns out to be fake looks tempting though.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...RKUBbbwY0vVS0Y

Desperate for help. I would verify her age before anything else.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...JoOU2ajDPk_xwa

Prolly a semi pro but I would try her.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...Zy1xwdDevSK7kN

24 yr old single mom. Yea.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...v16nl-6SQX69Bi

Stay safe and Happy Hunting.

**Shampoo55** · 07-05-26 19:17

Ran across something I haven't seen before while looking at a bunch of pics that come up with the search. Picture of the girl, age & location, but for the name it says, "Seeking Member".

**Shampoo55** · 04-29-26 12:10

Originally Posted by BerryMcCockinr [View Original Post]

Seems a bit paranoid. Do these girls work for the FBI? LOL, generally, you cannot identify the owner of a vehicle using a license plate unless you are law enforcement, a private investigator, or have a authorized reason, due to the Driver's Privacy Protection Act (DPPA).

But really you should just get them an uber. If yall can't afford one then you probably shouldn't be a sugar daddy. Same with buying drinks etc. Easier that way.

Yeah, we all know there are laws against outing D / L info. But that doesn't mean there isn't a website where one can lie and get the info. And of course we all know ZERO law enforcement are willing to bend the rules. What's the old saying? If there's a will there's a way? and what's the saying about a women scorned?

I dunno, many guys monger using their IRL phone numbers, email addresses and other info that outs them. Some prefer a more discrete approach.

But I agree, too many guys out there that play in the sugar bowl as 'escort lite' and won't drop the extra bucks for an Uber, pay for lunch for a M&G, give a gift at the M&G, or do anything "extra" other than P2 P donation. Turns the expectations of the girls into nothing more than an escort, when the relationship aspect is what it's really about.

**BerryMcCockinr** · 04-28-26 17:52

Originally Posted by Shampoo55 [View Original Post]

Glad to see she reached out again!

As far as keeping your plate hidden. They do make a device called 'hide a plate'. Scooped one for a Ben years ago. It was useful as one girl always showed up with her sister, and the sister's job was to get the plate number. They told me about it only after I gave them a ride to Wawa and they said. Hey you have to license plate! The end of that, for me was after I dropped a girl off at a certain motel in Elkton and I used the device to cover the plate as I was leaving Guess I forgot to turn it off and show the plate before hitting the street as a Trooper lit me up. By the time we were back looking at the plate it was open again.

But the evasive actions you take sound good. I was doing the same thing when I had a date go sour and was driving her back to Sharon Hill. She wound herself up the whole way back and when she got out make threats, since she "knew" my plate number. No way she saw it on the pick-up so I knew she was lying and made sure she went a direction away where she couldn't see it after we separated. But yeah, it can be interesting out there!

I suspect that the girl just got cold feet and finally came back. Now youse got to tease her that she need to 'make it up to you!

Have fun!

Seems a bit paranoid. Do these girls work for the FBI? LOL, generally, you cannot identify the owner of a vehicle using a license plate unless you are law enforcement, a private investigator, or have a authorized reason, due to the Driver's Privacy Protection Act (DPPA).

But really you should just get them an uber. If yall can't afford one then you probably shouldn't be a sugar daddy. Same with buying drinks etc. Easier that way.

**Nate0110** · 04-26-26 10:21

Originally Posted by PPJones [View Original Post]

Does that link work for anyone else? Not working for me, just brings up SB's, the header shows up but the page is blank.

If the link isn't working here she is on the site:

Model4 carz.

I'm sweet loving definitely worth getting to know.

Online Recently in US.

Carneys Point Township, NJ, United States.

These arent her pics on website (looks like you can't copy them anymore) The second pic is the most recent.