"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**GokuBoy420** · 08-02-26 13:45

Ok so was talking to lovely love (Lexi) for about a month, and this past Friday we decided to hang out. Conversation was so natural throughout, so didn't see this one coming. But they're both sisters which I found out when I got there. All in all, we all hung out for about 2-3 hours before they try to set you up and has their roommate come in to tell you they're underage (They're not as I found their socials after the fact). Don't bring anything personal because they will steal from you as well. I got out in one piece also since it was in villa rica so a good drive for me. Just adding their profiles so why'all can watch out.

Isabella - https://members.seeking.com/member/a...2-cde223289087.

**BrownSugaTwo** · 08-02-26 11:11

Originally Posted by JGrey77 [View Original Post]

Went out with her once months ago. Didn't want to do anything physical until "we got to know each other". Still wanted $ and I said no. She dropped off and popped back us as Blu. Wants 400-500 "depending on what we do". I don't mind a $. 5 quickie with one of our methylated girlies but don't ask for 400+. Wrong lane.

When I said that was too high. She pimped two of her buddies that are also on site.

Do you have links / names for her "buddies" so they can be avoided or more scrutinized?

**AssLover1979** · 08-02-26 08:42

Originally Posted by AtlPrince [View Original Post]

I saw both Bambi & Aubrey.

Bambi has good looks but mediocre in bed, she need to improve her bbj skills.

Got pro vibes from Aubrey but she did well after she got high.

I have setup a back to back party with other daddies.

What is the damage for Bambi? I don't have a seeking account but if she's willing to meet then I'm open to giving her a spin. Been a while since I've played with a 19 yr old.

**JGrey77** · 08-01-26 18:03

Went out with her once months ago. Didn't want to do anything physical until "we got to know each other". Still wanted $ and I said no. She dropped off and popped back us as Blu. Wants 400-500 "depending on what we do". I don't mind a $. 5 quickie with one of our methylated girlies but don't ask for 400+. Wrong lane.

When I said that was too high. She pimped two of her buddies that are also on site.

Originally Posted by AtlPrince [View Original Post]

Ofcourse, Blu is a pro.

**JGrey77** · 08-01-26 17:50

Changing her script. Hit me up after our first PPM (with sob story. Gave her a few bucks. Took it off second PPM. She wasn't super happy about that. Hasn't bugged me in a few days. Maybe I'm blocked. LOL Could be fun if she would just take what's given every week and chilled. I enjoyed both meetups.

Originally Posted by BrownSugaTwo [View Original Post]

I was blocked, too. Here's her profile -.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...7-54070897dcd0

**VirgilToole** · 08-01-26 06:41

Originally Posted by Nistech83 [View Original Post]

Be careful with this one. Seriously. She's been on Seeking for some time, so either she isn't 19 and is older, or she was too young at first on there.

I also talked to her and got the same spiel about "you're looking for a hooker. " But she did tell me that she starts school again this Monday, the 3rd. I looked it up, and no college in Georgia seems to start earlier than the 10th. But guess what does start back on the 3rd? The high schools in her area. Now, she could be lying about school, she could be going to some obscure college that didn't show up in my brief research or doing online classes, but Occam's Razor says to steer clear.

**GoneForGood97** · 07-31-26 14:32

Originally Posted by Gerardo5696 [View Original Post]

Hello, I I've always been into the streetwalker side of things but I really want to get into the sugar baby's I'm completely new to this with no experience, and I don't even know where to look any guidance or advice at all Would be greatly appreciated. Thank you guys for everything.

The Richmond, VA sugar thread is the "hub" with a lot of great info if you can parse through it, but here are some basics:

1) Use seeking.com, it's the largest site by far.

2) It costs money to use the site.

3) There are lot of scammers on the site. Be extremely careful, and if it sounds too good to be true, it is. Scammers are either content sellers who really just want to sell you pics and never meet you or guys pretending to be girls who will eventually try to get you to send them money for "gas" or because their lights are turned off or some other sob story.

4) Never talk sex or money when you're on the site. Keep the conversation innocent and nice, then ask the girl for her ph# or other social. Once you're offsite texting / messaging you can discuss sex or allowance.

5) Once we weed out the scammers, you're left with:

A) girls who are just escorts. These are are easy to fuck, but they'll have escort rules and tend to be poorer service. If a girl mentions time limits, rates for specific service or amount of time, or requires a condom for a BJ, then she's an escort using seeking as a high class ad. Strippers also fall into this category but sometimes are more GFE than the escorts are.

B) Rinsers who are just looking to meet guys for expensive dates but never put out. Careful with these, their existence is why I focus on coffee dates if the girl wants a meet-and-greet first. Also, meet-and-greets are normal, and if a girl wants to meet you for coffee before joining you in a hotel room don't get offended.

C) Girls who just need some extra cash and enjoy sex enough to see multiple guys a week to get it. These are fun, easy to get into the sack, and will usually be GFE or close to it. But since they are high volume you won't get all her attention, and if another guy offers a higher PPM then you'll suddenly fine she unexpected cancels on you for some "reason".

D) Girls who genuinely want to date older / successful men. The allowance / PPM isn't relevant to them if they truly like you. These are unicorns, but they do exist.

Sugar babies (SBs) expect some kind of compensation for dates, but remember the golden rule of sugar dating: Only sugar for sugar. In other words, don't pay them just to meet or for the promise to meet. You pay them when they fuck you and not before. Now, compensation takes various forms, the most common is a simple PPM (pay-per-meet) where you give them cash for a date that ends in fucking. Some guys will also do an allowance, where you pay them a certain amount per week or per month to fuck you a certain amount of times in that time period. I tend to avoid these since once you pay an allowance there's no guarantee they'll still show up. Still, if you've been seeing a girl long enough and have built up enough trust, you can go that route.

Basically, learn how to spot scammers, treat the other girls like would if you were trying to date them instead of treating them like hookers, and never pay a deposit or in advance, and you'll be fine. If you want some tips on how to approach women and negotiate their allowances I've posted about my strategies in the past here: https://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/sho...11#post7336911.

**Nistech83** · 07-30-26 21:45

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Ashley https://members.seeking.com/member/2...e-198a0e9da52b.

I figure I was wasting my time with this one based on age and profile alone, but figured I'd give her a shot. However, she did provide a slightly new wrinkle to the wannabe content seller fake baby that I hadn't personally seen yet.

We spoke on seeking, after a little back and forth I asked for her snap and added her. As soon as she added me back she video called me immediately. When I answer, she pulls the camera back showing she's in her bedroom only wearing a tiny top and tight yoga shorts, and immediately asks if I'm up for spoiling her. The whole "immediate video call" thing just caught me off guard, I hadn't had one of them be that bold before.

I told her that wasn't what I was looking for, and she immediately asked if I was trying to scam (ah, good old fashioned accusation-as-confession). We talked briefly, but since she called me immediately I hadn't worked very much charm on her at all, so I knew she wouldn't be receptive to my standard offer. She started talking pretty fast so I may not have understood, but I think she was willing to take around $2K a month, though it's possible she meant $2K ppm, it wasn't clear.

Anyway, based on the video I know she's at least real, though whether or not she's really in Atlanta is anyone's guess. Just an "onlyfans-with-more-steps" waste of time, but if you throw a big enough number at her she might let you bend her over.

I can't see the profile because I think I blocked her. Is she about 19 and Asian looking, cute girl next door type? If so, I had a similar experience with her. She attempted to video call me on Seeking and I didn't take it as I have never done it before. I told her that I couldn't take it and she immediately gave me her number. So I called her. She said she was horny. I told her let's fix that. I asked where she lives, Roswell I think she said. I said I'm not far. So we chatted for a minute and asked what do I think Seeking is used for. I explained I was just missing the physical touch of a lady and what comes with that. She immediately said "So you're looking for a hooker". "Why not just go pick up a prostitute". She became belligerent, aggressive, accusatioal. We never even discussed terms, amount, etc etc. I told her I'm not playing this game, quit fucking around, hung up and blocked her on Seeking and my phone.

Be careful with this one. Seriously. She's been on Seeking for some time, so either she isn't 19 and is older, or she was too young at first on there.

**BrownSugaTwo** · 07-30-26 08:30

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Ashley https://members.seeking.com/member/2...e-198a0e9da52b.

I figure I was wasting my time with this one based on age and profile alone, but figured I'd give her a shot. However, she did provide a slightly new wrinkle to the wannabe content seller fake baby that I hadn't personally seen yet.

We spoke on seeking, after a little back and forth I asked for her snap and added her. As soon as she added me back she video called me immediately. When I answer, she pulls the camera back showing she's in her bedroom only wearing a tiny top and tight yoga shorts, and immediately asks if I'm up for spoiling her. The whole "immediate video call" thing just caught me off guard, I hadn't had one of them be that bold before.

I told her that wasn't what I was looking for, and she immediately asked if I was trying to scam (ah, good old fashioned accusation-as-confession). We talked briefly, but since she called me immediately I hadn't worked very much charm on her at all, so I knew she wouldn't be receptive to my standard offer. She started talking pretty fast so I may not have understood, but I think she was willing to take around $2K a month, though it's possible she meant $2K ppm, it wasn't clear.

Anyway, based on the video I know she's at least real, though whether or not she's really in Atlanta is anyone's guess. Just an "onlyfans-with-more-steps" waste of time, but if you throw a big enough number at her she might let you bend her over.

I haven't seen that before either. Usually, if they use Snap, I just assume they're a scammer / content seller. I've never had a snap-situation work out, but I'm sure others have.

**GoneForGood97** · 07-29-26 23:47

Ashley https://members.seeking.com/member/2...e-198a0e9da52b.

I figure I was wasting my time with this one based on age and profile alone, but figured I'd give her a shot. However, she did provide a slightly new wrinkle to the wannabe content seller fake baby that I hadn't personally seen yet.

We spoke on seeking, after a little back and forth I asked for her snap and added her. As soon as she added me back she video called me immediately. When I answer, she pulls the camera back showing she's in her bedroom only wearing a tiny top and tight yoga shorts, and immediately asks if I'm up for spoiling her. The whole "immediate video call" thing just caught me off guard, I hadn't had one of them be that bold before.

I told her that wasn't what I was looking for, and she immediately asked if I was trying to scam (ah, good old fashioned accusation-as-confession). We talked briefly, but since she called me immediately I hadn't worked very much charm on her at all, so I knew she wouldn't be receptive to my standard offer. She started talking pretty fast so I may not have understood, but I think she was willing to take around $2K a month, though it's possible she meant $2K ppm, it wasn't clear.

Anyway, based on the video I know she's at least real, though whether or not she's really in Atlanta is anyone's guess. Just an "onlyfans-with-more-steps" waste of time, but if you throw a big enough number at her she might let you bend her over.

**Gerardo5696** · 07-29-26 23:26

Hello, I I've always been into the streetwalker side of things but I really want to get into the sugar baby's I'm completely new to this with no experience, and I don't even know where to look any guidance or advice at all Would be greatly appreciated. Thank you guys for everything.

**BrownSugaTwo** · 07-28-26 11:59

Originally Posted by Airmantroy [View Original Post]

With her back around the 11th, we texted a little bit but I was going out to dinner with friends and fam and she went silent in the days after that. Her profile says divorced? Who knows, never got to allowance discussions and honestly was too busy with others to chase her down again.

Thanks for the info. There's an anniversary photo up from five weeks ago. New baby. Husband posting similar things. Just strange. I've done the SD / SB thing with married women before, but it was either under the covers or they were swingers. I guess this could be a swinger situation, but it's weird.

**Airmantroy** · 07-28-26 11:35

Originally Posted by BrownSugaTwo [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-f0851b0a4b56

She's been around for a while, but her social media says she has a husband that she's desperately in love with. So, not sure if she's real or not. Curious of anyone has seen her?

With her back around the 11th, we texted a little bit but I was going out to dinner with friends and fam and she went silent in the days after that. Her profile says divorced? Who knows, never got to allowance discussions and honestly was too busy with others to chase her down again.

**BrownSugaTwo** · 07-28-26 11:31

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

In my experience, girls with husbands / boyfriends are just hoping to find a simp to send them money for nudes. They never intend to meet or change their current situation if they already got a man at home. The husband is probably in on it too. No different than having an OF page.

Yes, I thought this could be the case. I also thought she could be robbing guys with the husband. Wait until the SD is in a compromised position, then she let's in the husband. Or, "oh, the husband put a tracker on my car and found out I'm at your place. He's outside, right now. Give me some money, let me leave, and he won't cause a scene. " Something like that.

**MacLuvin** · 07-28-26 10:53

Originally Posted by BrownSugaTwo [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-f0851b0a4b56

She's been around for a while, but her social media says she has a husband that she's desperately in love with. So, not sure if she's real or not. Curious of anyone has seen her?

In my experience, girls with husbands / boyfriends are just hoping to find a simp to send them money for nudes. They never intend to meet or change their current situation if they already got a man at home. The husband is probably in on it too. No different than having an OF page.