NoVA SugarBabies

[ProCatHunter]

I'm exaggerating, but there are plenty of hot young college aged and ones between 18-26. You just have to put the effort in and have some game when chatting. And they all can be had for 500 or less. I'm not into the mid 30's with 2 kids SB thing, but I'm sure there are 100's of those you can find on the site as well.

Not sure why there are so many mongers on the board complaining right now. Maybe 2 years ago, I was also frustrated with the lack of options; but there are plenty of young 20 something's with tight bodies out there willing to spread those legs for way less than $500.

Other cities are definitely cheaper, easier and hotter these days; but it's like shooting fish in a barrel these days.

[Senbonzakura]

Anyone try sugerdaddymeet? Wondering if it might be a good alternative to seeking.

When I last used it:

- Interface sucked.

- Same girls as Seeking, for the most part.

- Women on there seem less active.

[ProCatHunter]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...d-5937e7019da5

Was blowing up my phone, so hit it again for $200, after promising myself that I'd never touch that tuna puss. It wasn’t the little head that won, because could’ve had a night out with one of my regulars, but the wallet kept calling out for value. You can literally smell the cum of the past 10 dudes who unloaded inside of her when the panties come off. Put a cover on boys, but if you want a cheap young one, she's very active right now because rent is due for March. Was like going out for cheap Sushi buffet. Good idea at the time, just don’t eat the tuna…

[SaSearch]

Anyone try sugerdaddymeet? Wondering if it might be a good alternative to seeking.

[PRMan12]

Thanks for the advice guys! Going to try out some of these approaches.

If I'm going all the way to NYC for pussy it's going to be to CIP hot Japanese girls.

Probably the most successful on the site. Have a vibe-keep it light, be funny, be normal. So many weirdos on the site that are very direct, big turn off to most. They want to feel safe, so suggest a public meet up where assuming the vibe is good, then afterwards you begin the arrangement. The non pros want something consistent, so cater to that. I have many more but I figured I would chime in a bit without giving away all the secrets!

[Senbonzakura]

Selling conversation and pics of her outfits.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...e-d82113884a1b

[JonFisher]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-b019dd618317

Very curious if anyone has met up with this girl.

[BazookaSteve]

Thanks for the advice guys! Going to try out some of these approaches.

Can you travel, if yes then use NYC. DC is horrible. I keep trying to find one and it's just a shitshow on this area. The good ones were 5 years ago now I'm wasting time / money for whatever is out there.

I'm not renewing anymore.

If I'm going all the way to NYC for pussy it's going to be to CIP hot Japanese girls.

[TomFordModel]

And I guess to be more specific with what I'm asking, how are you guys going about this? Are you guys using public pics? How much info is on your profile in terms of your about me and what you're looking for? And lastly, what sort of intro messages are you sending that actually get responses?

Can you travel, if yes then use NYC. DC is horrible. I keep trying to find one and its just a shitshow on this area. The good ones were 5 years ago now I'm wasting time / money for whatever is out there.

I'm not renewing anymore.

[TomFordModel]

Yea the scratch wasn't worth the sniff with her. Didn't speak any English. Just laid there, didn't give head.

Google translate! Nah, I told her to suck it and she did.

She has potential to be hot but the face needs work.

Awesome body just need a bit more tits.

[DasHottCalla]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...9-bc364f821342

Face is meh. Small tits but a nice tight gym body. A shit lay. Not repeating.

Yea the scratch wasn't worth the sniff with her. Didn't speak any English. Just laid there, didn't give head.

[DasHottCalla]

Mary.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-cb5e2e7f68da

She's in Bmore and drives. Set up for her to come out yesterday but she requested 30% of the allowance before she comes out. Obvious no for me.

[SRH59]

I'm new to the bowl stuff, and just signed up for seeking a week ago. Either I'm ugly as hell or just have zero game because I am struggling hard even after a week. I've messaged about 40 girls, most of which are either online frequently or girls from info posted on this board. I'm struggling to even get a reply. Out of those 40 girls, like 10 viewed my profile and either never opened my intro message or left it on read. The couple of responses I've gotten were a couple girls responding with "hey" and never replying to my message after that, and one girl saying she only does virtual. Sent them a follow up message, no reply either.

I'm not fat and I can't imagine that face wise I'm ugly enough to where a girl on here can't imagine herself fucking me for money LOL. I need privacy so I the only pic I have posted is a clear selfie of my face, but after a while I made the picture private because I came across a girl I know IRL and I don't need that drama. I have a simple one liner for me "about me", and in my "looking for" section I have a simple message that should imply what I'm here for (but not outright saying I want to fuck) so it's not an empty profile. I also set my join date to be hidden so it doesn't look like I'm a scammer.

For my intro message, I've just been trying to be direct without treating them like a prostitute, by saying something along the lines of "Hey, I like your profile and I'd love to chat more about what you're looking for. If you're interested let me know." I've also just tried saying "Hi there / Hey". Even tried a few times to be super direct and leaving my number at the end of the intro message. I'm messaging some of the same girls as everyone else here and yet my response and open rate is abysmal. I have yet to have an actual conversation on Seeking.

Is my intro message trash? Is only having one selfie up turning girls away from me (I'm confused on this one because it seems like most guys don't even upload pics?)

I've messaged most of the girls in the DMV that are active and that I think are hot enough (without messaging the ones who look like models or out of my price range I stay in my lane with those). I'm desperate and any guidance would be greatly appreciated!

A few thoughts:

It's not as much you vs the DMV pool. The attractive women are very much the minority of profiles. Then they get all the messages.

Add to your bio. Play around with it. Make yourself seem easy to chat with. Share an interest.

Try different pictures. I keep my few pictures hidden. What I have shows enough of my face to gauge attractiveness. Then a full body one in business casual attire.

Message women when they're online.

Play the long game. I get women responding to messages weeks or more after sending. They should have an Out of Office response "fucking 3 other dudes atm. Will respond when my roster dries up. ".

Never seem desperate. Do this by matching or only slightly outdoing their level of engagement. So many women give 3 word messages that make it hard to get a convo going. That's just part of it.

A ton of these women use the word "intentional" in what they want a man to be. We can't say I intend to fuck you though. I'm never sexual in early messaging. The risk is my messages are boring or too generic. I just try to be authentic. But that opening message is key so try different things.

Last, and I'm not ashamed to admit this, but I've messaged plenty of women more than once when they didn't respond. And finally gotten a response. Wait a week or more but that's an option.

[BazookaSteve]

I'm desperate and any guidance would be greatly appreciated!

And I guess to be more specific with what I'm asking, how are you guys going about this? Are you guys using public pics? How much info is on your profile in terms of your about me and what you're looking for? And lastly, what sort of intro messages are you sending that actually get responses?

[Rkoppa]

I'm new to the bowl stuff, and just signed up for seeking a week ago. Either I'm ugly as hell or just have zero game because I am struggling hard even after a week. I've messaged about 40 girls, most of which are either online frequently or girls from info posted on this board. I'm struggling to even get a reply. Out of those 40 girls, like 10 viewed my profile and either never opened my intro message or left it on read. The couple of responses I've gotten were a couple girls responding with "hey" and never replying to my message after that, and one girl saying she only does virtual. Sent them a follow up message, no reply either.

I'm not fat and I can't imagine that face wise I'm ugly enough to where a girl on here can't imagine herself fucking me for money LOL. I need privacy so I the only pic I have posted is a clear selfie of my face, but after a while I made the picture private because I came across a girl I know IRL and I don't need that drama. I have a simple one liner for me "about me", and in my "looking for" section I have a simple message that should imply what I'm here for (but not outright saying I want to fuck) so it's not an empty profile. I also set my join date to be hidden so it doesn't look like I'm a scammer.

This is my approach I don't put any profile pics what so ever there all hidden.

I got 3 hidden pics there the typical selfie pic in the bathroom showing my face and body of course all dress (try and dress nice like its Friday at your work).

I just message them and say "hi hows your day going" and give them access to my pics.

If they respond I just say " you got time this week to meet up this week? If so let me get your number".

If they give me there number I message them and setup a date to meet right away.

This approach has worked well for me.

For my profile about me I just put my hobbies golf, sking something like that.

For what I'm looking for I just put meeting new people and having mutual fun times something like that.

In my limited experience most want to meet up right away.

Some of these girls will probably never respond to you cause there inbox is flooded and some maybe busy too meeting other doods.

Also seasonality too you know valentines day, summer vacations all that stuff.

I am pretty new myself to this.

I'm ok looking 20 lbs over weight 50 but most tell me I look younger so I'm sure you can do well yourself (I am far from a chad).