"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**2me4Looking2** · 02-25-26 17:19

Originally Posted by Viktor213 [View Original Post]

The statement you made that says "I'll message them, 'share my picture', they'll read my messages," is a HUGE problem. If you're profile has no pics they think you're a scammer or a weirdo. There's already good advice for what to do about profile pics and profiles in general.

My experience has been very different. I don't have a profile pic and Seeking won't even let me upload one that is an unaltered version of me but I've still had good success with responses. I tell them in my first message that I'm happy to send them a pic. Sometimes they ask for one and I send it and a lot of times they don't even ask.

**Viktor213** · 02-25-26 17:09

Originally Posted by Georgiaguy57 [View Original Post]

It seems like seeking just keeps getting worse. I'm starting to wonder if most of the girls on this site are even real. Just started a new subscription the other day, sent out quite a few messages. Talked to some and got their numbers, then logged out for a few days. I had like one new message when I went and checked today. It seems like most of them that look halfway decent don't even respond to my initial message. Some even block me. I don't think I'm hideous or anything LOL. I'll message them, share my picture, they'll read my messages, look at my profile, and that's it. Idk what I'm doing wrong exactly. And some of these girls are on the site pretty frequently too. Who exactly are these women talking to? LOL. Because if they found a whale or something, I'm sure they wouldn't be on the site so much. Anyone got any insight?

The statement you made that says "I'll message them, 'share my picture', they'll read my messages," is a HUGE problem. If you're profile has no pics they think you're a scammer or a weirdo. There's already good advice for what to do about profile pics and profiles in general.

**Grail47** · 02-25-26 17:06

Originally Posted by MadDog1746 [View Original Post]

I recently got back in the bowl and the prices seem inflated and I only been out for a few months LOL but wanted to share some with you all. I got these in one day.

Orevermorgan32.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74227973

Looks good but something seems off. Only wants someone to eat them out and she can squirt LOL she balked with I offered 300 for sex and 200 for head She then said 550 for everything.

Throatgoat27.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74494029

Haha what you think. 350 for throat.

Divinelyfunded22.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74492871

Told me 400 ppm just for head LOL these chicks are crazy. Told me sex is reserved for serious relationships and you can't cim or face.

Theraremuse.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74458209

Firm at 500 but can host and not big on kissing. I really liked this one but not paying 500.

Tbandz.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74481168

Seems real and young. Goes to Clark but seems too naive to me.

Prettybabyj.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74062436

I like this ones body and I wanted something a little different. She came with 300 ppm and can't host.

OK, so while I'm in Los Angeles, I really like to read about experiences in SB / SD dynamics around the country. Mostly I just lurk, but I had to comment my own bemusement at reading of SB's only offering head for ppm! I mean, 400 ppm for head? That's way over rates with pro's for a basic BJ!

**MadDog1746** · 02-25-26 16:13

I recently got back in the bowl and the prices seem inflated and I only been out for a few months LOL but wanted to share some with you all. I got these in one day.

Orevermorgan32.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74227973

Looks good but something seems off. Only wants someone to eat them out and she can squirt LOL she balked with I offered 300 for sex and 200 for head She then said 550 for everything.

Throatgoat27.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74494029

Haha what you think. 350 for throat.

Divinelyfunded22.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74492871

Told me 400 ppm just for head LOL these chicks are crazy. Told me sex is reserved for serious relationships and you can't cim or face.

Theraremuse.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74458209

Firm at 500 but can host and not big on kissing. I really liked this one but not paying 500.

Tbandz.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74481168

Seems real and young. Goes to Clark but seems too naive to me.

Prettybabyj.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74062436

I like this ones body and I wanted something a little different. She came with 300 ppm and can't host.

**HollowGuy** · 02-25-26 10:50

Originally Posted by Georgiaguy57 [View Original Post]

It seems like seeking just keeps getting worse. I'm starting to wonder if most of the girls on this site are even real. Just started a new subscription the other day, sent out quite a few messages. Talked to some and got their numbers, then logged out for a few days. I had like one new message when I went and checked today. It seems like most of them that look halfway decent don't even respond to my initial message. Some even block me. I don't think I'm hideous or anything LOL. I'll message them, share my picture, they'll read my messages, look at my profile, and that's it. Idk what I'm doing wrong exactly. And some of these girls are on the site pretty frequently too. Who exactly are these women talking to? LOL. Because if they found a whale or something, I'm sure they wouldn't be on the site so much. Anyone got any insight?

On Seeking women typically don't pay to join, while men are required to purchase a membership.

That said, like any online platform, you'll find a mix of people. There are legitimate women genuinely seeking arrangements, but there are also professionals, individuals who aren't serious, and even scammers including men posing as women.

Be cautious. Take time to read the forums, follow recommended safety guidelines, verify who you're speaking with, and protect both your personal information and finances.

Stay smart and stay safe.

**Georgiaguy57** · 02-25-26 09:26

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

When you first message them, are you being bland or boring and just saying "Hey" or "What's up" or even "hey there beautiful" because each girl on there receives that exact same message dozens, if not hundreds of times a day. Figure out something clever or funny. Say something to stand out. There's a million different "tinder openers" you can look up if you want something a little unique.

Well yeah, my standard opening is a bit generic, but even when I do take the time to put a bit more thought into a message for the better looking women, they'll still have ignore me most of the time, so I'm not sure. Maybe it's a race thing too? I'm black, so possibly that's a factor? Either way, I've still gotten with beautiful women from the site for sure, and I do reject most of the ones I'm not attracted to, but it still feels like a good portion of the women just ignore me even when I do try.

**GoneForGood97** · 02-25-26 02:56

Originally Posted by Georgiaguy57 [View Original Post]

It seems like seeking just keeps getting worse. I'm starting to wonder if most of the girls on this site are even real. Just started a new subscription the other day, sent out quite a few messages. Talked to some and got their numbers, then logged out for a few days. I had like one new message when I went and checked today. It seems like most of them that look halfway decent don't even respond to my initial message. Some even block me. I don't think I'm hideous or anything LOL. I'll message them, share my picture, they'll read my messages, look at my profile, and that's it. Idk what I'm doing wrong exactly. And some of these girls are on the site pretty frequently too. Who exactly are these women talking to? LOL. Because if they found a whale or something, I'm sure they wouldn't be on the site so much. Anyone got any insight?

When you first message them, are you being bland or boring and just saying "Hey" or "What's up" or even "hey there beautiful" because each girl on there receives that exact same message dozens, if not hundreds of times a day. Figure out something clever or funny. Say something to stand out. There's a million different "tinder openers" you can look up if you want something a little unique.

**TrevMan** · 02-24-26 15:44

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...3-6d1327ff5457

Cute profile pictures but asking for 700 ppm which made me walked away.

**2me4Looking2** · 02-24-26 12:12

I finally found a good option that worked to pay for Seeking and you can do everything online. I used Biterefill's prepaid Visa that is funded with cyrpto. If you have never used crypto, the easiest option I have found is to create an account on Kraken and be sure you pay with a real debit card. Any other payment method will result in them holding the crypto funds for up to 7 days. Buy Ether based USDC stable coin. When you choose a card on Bitrefill it will give you the address to send the funds to so that you can add money to the card and you can send directly from Kraken to the virtual card.

You have to give personal info on Kraken but not on Biterefill so seeking wouldn't be able to get any of your personal info and you can use whatever name and address you want.

**Georgiaguy57** · 02-24-26 02:49

It seems like seeking just keeps getting worse. I'm starting to wonder if most of the girls on this site are even real. Just started a new subscription the other day, sent out quite a few messages. Talked to some and got their numbers, then logged out for a few days. I had like one new message when I went and checked today. It seems like most of them that look halfway decent don't even respond to my initial message. Some even block me. I don't think I'm hideous or anything LOL. I'll message them, share my picture, they'll read my messages, look at my profile, and that's it. Idk what I'm doing wrong exactly. And some of these girls are on the site pretty frequently too. Who exactly are these women talking to? LOL. Because if they found a whale or something, I'm sure they wouldn't be on the site so much. Anyone got any insight?

**2me4Looking2** · 02-23-26 12:31

I know this has been talked about a lot, but the two methods I've been using all of a sudden don't work anymore. The last few times I renewed, I bought a virtual Amex card directly from Amex and had no issues, but today when I tried paying with one, it was declined by Amex or whoever handles their gift card processing. They have also apparently removed the ability to pay with google play credits which is what I was using before I found the Amex virtual cards.

Does anyone have a confirmed payment method that has worked in the last month? If so where did you get it, who is the processor, and when did it last work for you?

Thanks,

**TheAnswer4** · 02-20-26 13:08

Originally Posted by Marmong [View Original Post]

Crypt keeper is looking for some D fellas!

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-18d514b235ca

Lmao looks like the Baron from What we do in the Shadows.

**FreudFro** · 02-20-26 08:26

Originally Posted by Marmong [View Original Post]

Crypt keeper is looking for some D fellas!

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-18d514b235ca

She's not afraid to put it out there.

**Dingo11** · 02-20-26 00:41

Jackie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-dd7ed8cca91e

300 ppm atrocious coms.

Faye.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-d85d9c031764

400 ppm atrocious coms.

Nina.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...-56ab69937c37b

500 ppm coms great then went to shith.

Drezia.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...-bea2cc6c3f0eH

3-400 ppm again coms great but the went to shit.

I had a few more but not sharing yet. Also on the atrocious communication thing it absolutely could be me. I am Really blunt and direct. And also if I can't get everything out in one texting exchange you know ppm how long and everything else I block it it's been 24 hours.

Dingo out.