"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Fergie830** · 02-26-26 08:06

Originally Posted by Apollo007 [View Original Post]

Does anyone know why I get this when I try to sign up:

SugarDaddyMeet does not accept visitors from this referring source to ensure we maintain one of the highest standards in the industry.

I can't sign up?

Are you trying to link from this site? I've noticed several sites not allowing you to sign in if you come from a site like this. Should be able to open a new window and log in.

**Viktor213** · 02-25-26 23:07

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

My experience has been very different. I don't have a profile pic and Seeking won't even let me upload one that is an unaltered version of me but I've still had good success with responses. I tell them in my first message that I'm happy to send them a pic. Sometimes they ask for one and I send it and a lot of times they don't even ask.

I have talked about this before and my profile is developed to get certain types of interest. It's working and I am getting steady hits every day. I would say half of the women that reach out say in their profiles inquiries from picless profiles will be ignored. Kudos to experienced players that work around it but no question it will cost opportunities. As always YMMV.

Safe Hunting.

**Apollo007** · 02-25-26 22:46

Does anyone know why I get this when I try to sign up:

SugarDaddyMeet does not accept visitors from this referring source to ensure we maintain one of the highest standards in the industry.

I can't sign up?

**Rican2323** · 02-25-26 20:00

Has anyone meet Bunny from SA. She's a younger goth girl but seems chill. Been speaking to her on and off for a week or two on text. Planning on meeting but wanted to check with you guys first.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-8ef6fb84eee9

**MadDog1746** · 02-25-26 16:36

Originally Posted by Grail47 [View Original Post]

OK, so while I'm in Los Angeles, I really like to read about experiences in SB / SD dynamics around the country. Mostly I just lurk, but I had to comment my own bemusement at reading of SB's only offering head for ppm! I mean, 400 ppm for head? That's way over rates with pro's for a basic BJ!

I agree and they are getting more crazy by the day but I just say no thank you and block. I would just go the escort route since they are cheaper and can host.

**Georgiaguy57** · 02-25-26 16:36

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

My experience has been very different. I don't have a profile pic and Seeking won't even let me upload one that is an unaltered version of me but I've still had good success with responses. I tell them in my first message that I'm happy to send them a pic. Sometimes they ask for one and I send it and a lot of times they don't even ask.

Yeah I'd never just have a public picture of my face. I'll just share private photo once I message. I've still had very good look finding some beautiful women on the site over the years. It's just annoying seeing some women I'm interested in always online but won't respond to me, haha.

**2me4Looking2** · 02-25-26 16:19

Originally Posted by Viktor213 [View Original Post]

The statement you made that says "I'll message them, 'share my picture', they'll read my messages," is a HUGE problem. If you're profile has no pics they think you're a scammer or a weirdo. There's already good advice for what to do about profile pics and profiles in general.

My experience has been very different. I don't have a profile pic and Seeking won't even let me upload one that is an unaltered version of me but I've still had good success with responses. I tell them in my first message that I'm happy to send them a pic. Sometimes they ask for one and I send it and a lot of times they don't even ask.

**Viktor213** · 02-25-26 16:09

Originally Posted by Georgiaguy57 [View Original Post]

It seems like seeking just keeps getting worse. I'm starting to wonder if most of the girls on this site are even real. Just started a new subscription the other day, sent out quite a few messages. Talked to some and got their numbers, then logged out for a few days. I had like one new message when I went and checked today. It seems like most of them that look halfway decent don't even respond to my initial message. Some even block me. I don't think I'm hideous or anything LOL. I'll message them, share my picture, they'll read my messages, look at my profile, and that's it. Idk what I'm doing wrong exactly. And some of these girls are on the site pretty frequently too. Who exactly are these women talking to? LOL. Because if they found a whale or something, I'm sure they wouldn't be on the site so much. Anyone got any insight?

The statement you made that says "I'll message them, 'share my picture', they'll read my messages," is a HUGE problem. If you're profile has no pics they think you're a scammer or a weirdo. There's already good advice for what to do about profile pics and profiles in general.

**Grail47** · 02-25-26 16:06

Originally Posted by MadDog1746 [View Original Post]

I recently got back in the bowl and the prices seem inflated and I only been out for a few months LOL but wanted to share some with you all. I got these in one day.

Orevermorgan32.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74227973

Looks good but something seems off. Only wants someone to eat them out and she can squirt LOL she balked with I offered 300 for sex and 200 for head She then said 550 for everything.

Throatgoat27.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74494029

Haha what you think. 350 for throat.

Divinelyfunded22.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74492871

Told me 400 ppm just for head LOL these chicks are crazy. Told me sex is reserved for serious relationships and you can't cim or face.

Theraremuse.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74458209

Firm at 500 but can host and not big on kissing. I really liked this one but not paying 500.

Tbandz.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74481168

Seems real and young. Goes to Clark but seems too naive to me.

Prettybabyj.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74062436

I like this ones body and I wanted something a little different. She came with 300 ppm and can't host.

OK, so while I'm in Los Angeles, I really like to read about experiences in SB / SD dynamics around the country. Mostly I just lurk, but I had to comment my own bemusement at reading of SB's only offering head for ppm! I mean, 400 ppm for head? That's way over rates with pro's for a basic BJ!

**MadDog1746** · 02-25-26 15:13

I recently got back in the bowl and the prices seem inflated and I only been out for a few months LOL but wanted to share some with you all. I got these in one day.

Orevermorgan32.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74227973

Looks good but something seems off. Only wants someone to eat them out and she can squirt LOL she balked with I offered 300 for sex and 200 for head She then said 550 for everything.

Throatgoat27.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74494029

Haha what you think. 350 for throat.

Divinelyfunded22.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74492871

Told me 400 ppm just for head LOL these chicks are crazy. Told me sex is reserved for serious relationships and you can't cim or face.

Theraremuse.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74458209

Firm at 500 but can host and not big on kissing. I really liked this one but not paying 500.

Tbandz.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74481168

Seems real and young. Goes to Clark but seems too naive to me.

Prettybabyj.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74062436

I like this ones body and I wanted something a little different. She came with 300 ppm and can't host.

**HollowGuy** · 02-25-26 09:50

Originally Posted by Georgiaguy57 [View Original Post]

It seems like seeking just keeps getting worse. I'm starting to wonder if most of the girls on this site are even real. Just started a new subscription the other day, sent out quite a few messages. Talked to some and got their numbers, then logged out for a few days. I had like one new message when I went and checked today. It seems like most of them that look halfway decent don't even respond to my initial message. Some even block me. I don't think I'm hideous or anything LOL. I'll message them, share my picture, they'll read my messages, look at my profile, and that's it. Idk what I'm doing wrong exactly. And some of these girls are on the site pretty frequently too. Who exactly are these women talking to? LOL. Because if they found a whale or something, I'm sure they wouldn't be on the site so much. Anyone got any insight?

On Seeking women typically don't pay to join, while men are required to purchase a membership.

That said, like any online platform, you'll find a mix of people. There are legitimate women genuinely seeking arrangements, but there are also professionals, individuals who aren't serious, and even scammers including men posing as women.

Be cautious. Take time to read the forums, follow recommended safety guidelines, verify who you're speaking with, and protect both your personal information and finances.

Stay smart and stay safe.

**Georgiaguy57** · 02-25-26 08:26

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

When you first message them, are you being bland or boring and just saying "Hey" or "What's up" or even "hey there beautiful" because each girl on there receives that exact same message dozens, if not hundreds of times a day. Figure out something clever or funny. Say something to stand out. There's a million different "tinder openers" you can look up if you want something a little unique.

Well yeah, my standard opening is a bit generic, but even when I do take the time to put a bit more thought into a message for the better looking women, they'll still have ignore me most of the time, so I'm not sure. Maybe it's a race thing too? I'm black, so possibly that's a factor? Either way, I've still gotten with beautiful women from the site for sure, and I do reject most of the ones I'm not attracted to, but it still feels like a good portion of the women just ignore me even when I do try.

**GoneForGood97** · 02-25-26 01:56

Originally Posted by Georgiaguy57 [View Original Post]

It seems like seeking just keeps getting worse. I'm starting to wonder if most of the girls on this site are even real. Just started a new subscription the other day, sent out quite a few messages. Talked to some and got their numbers, then logged out for a few days. I had like one new message when I went and checked today. It seems like most of them that look halfway decent don't even respond to my initial message. Some even block me. I don't think I'm hideous or anything LOL. I'll message them, share my picture, they'll read my messages, look at my profile, and that's it. Idk what I'm doing wrong exactly. And some of these girls are on the site pretty frequently too. Who exactly are these women talking to? LOL. Because if they found a whale or something, I'm sure they wouldn't be on the site so much. Anyone got any insight?

When you first message them, are you being bland or boring and just saying "Hey" or "What's up" or even "hey there beautiful" because each girl on there receives that exact same message dozens, if not hundreds of times a day. Figure out something clever or funny. Say something to stand out. There's a million different "tinder openers" you can look up if you want something a little unique.

**TrevMan** · 02-24-26 14:44

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...3-6d1327ff5457

Cute profile pictures but asking for 700 ppm which made me walked away.

**2me4Looking2** · 02-24-26 11:12

I finally found a good option that worked to pay for Seeking and you can do everything online. I used Biterefill's prepaid Visa that is funded with cyrpto. If you have never used crypto, the easiest option I have found is to create an account on Kraken and be sure you pay with a real debit card. Any other payment method will result in them holding the crypto funds for up to 7 days. Buy Ether based USDC stable coin. When you choose a card on Bitrefill it will give you the address to send the funds to so that you can add money to the card and you can send directly from Kraken to the virtual card.

You have to give personal info on Kraken but not on Biterefill so seeking wouldn't be able to get any of your personal info and you can use whatever name and address you want.