NoVA SugarBabies

[DCKing]

For me, she wanted to be paid at the start of the meeting and not at the end. That's a red flag for me. I'm curious if that was a stipulation for you or not.

I have been burned a few times by this, you have a right to consider that a red flag!

[Member #7156]

She did 500 for me and came to my place. She friendly and nice to chat with. Amazing rack. A little thick in the ass, but athletic. Recent college grad that doesn't make enough money for the DC life she wants. Unfortunately, she's done this long enough that she has a pro attitude, wanted a cover for oral, which she didn't mention until in the bedroom. Seems like she'd rock your world if you're her age and / or hot.

YMMV.

For me, she wanted to be paid at the start of the meeting and not at the end. That's a red flag for me. I'm curious if that was a stipulation for you or not.

[CharmCityBro]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...f-c4c4d7712721

Wants 600 and I need to get a hotel. Thanks.

She did 500 for me and came to my place. She friendly and nice to chat with. Amazing rack. A little thick in the ass, but athletic. Recent college grad that doesn't make enough money for the DC life she wants. Unfortunately, she's done this long enough that she has a pro attitude, wanted a cover for oral, which she didn't mention until in the bedroom. Seems like she'd rock your world if you're her age and / or hot.

YMMV.

[DCKing]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...f-c4c4d7712721

Wants 600 and I need to get a hotel. Thanks.

[PRMan12]

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...d-31254a21f4e3

Anyone meet her yet?? Wants 500?? Ready to meet!

[PRMan12]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...d-18e6ebed0220

Seems easy to meet! Hard to tell how she looks from her pics, any intel??

She wants 500, nice girl, but not worth that amount. Cuteish, but maybe a little overweight.

[PRMan12]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...d-18e6ebed0220

Seems easy to meet! Hard to tell how she looks from her pics, any intel??

[CharmCityBro]

Told her that it would be cash and at the end of the date, she said no wanted it upfront and wished her the best!

Thanks for the info!!

Glad the information was put to good use.

[PRMan12]

Thanks for this post. Scheduled to meet later today and when she asked to book on 1st or 2nd floor I became suspicious and I did a search and found this and canceled. Thank You!

Told her that it would be cash and at the end of the date, she said no wanted it upfront and wished her the best!

Thanks for the info!!

[MikeShores]

SeductiveHottie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...d-a9833f56cb9f

Fake picture in profile but will send real photos via text. Had a drink and a joint and then I made the mistake of sending allowance via cash app. She made a phone call and then had to get something from her car. Left a key from her keychain saying it was her house key and she'd come back. She didn't.

A good reminder not to make rookie mistakes.

Thanks for this post. Scheduled to meet later today and when she asked to book on 1st or 2nd floor I became suspicious and I did a search and found this and canceled. Thank You!

[PRMan12]

No, it's also for us to make sure the same for the woman. Also, that she isn't 50 pounds heavier than her photos, which can happen quite a lot. I personally don't pay for M&Gs, but technically, I would say as long as the payment they're asking for isn't a lot for you AND they're willing to accept it in-person, then go for it if you think they're serious. Don't ever send money to them upfront electronically or anything like that. I personally would proceed with the assumption that any M&G is free and if they want money for it, they will ask.

That's just me, but I feel like it should be a general rule; as prior poster said, it works both ways, feeling each other out. I'm cool with a m&g just never would pay extra $ for them, as it is, you are paying for drinks or coffee, etc.

[Member #7156]

If a woman wants to meet in public for a first time meet and greet, how do you handle whether to give her cash just to meet for first time and how much? Say you meet for coffee or just ice cream cone and talk for 30 minutes to negotiate a deal for the sex meets to come at a later time? Do you ask the woman if she expects payment just to meet the first time, before the first meet?

This meet and greet is for the woman who wants to check us out to see if we seem normal, safe, kind, respectful. But mainly for her to get an idea if we would be safe to be alone with, and fuck.

No, it's also for us to make sure the same for the woman. Also, that she isn't 50 pounds heavier than her photos, which can happen quite a lot. I personally don't pay for M&Gs, but technically, I would say as long as the payment they're asking for isn't a lot for you AND they're willing to accept it in-person, then go for it if you think they're serious. Don't ever send money to them upfront electronically or anything like that. I personally would proceed with the assumption that any M&G is free and if they want money for it, they will ask.

[Old Chinese Guy]

If a woman wants to meet in public for a first time meet and greet, how do you handle whether to give her cash just to meet for first time and how much? Say you meet for coffee or just ice cream cone and talk for 30 minutes to negotiate a deal for the sex meets to come at a later time? Do you ask the woman if she expects payment just to meet the first time, before the first meet?

This meet and greet is for the woman who wants to check us out to see if we seem normal, safe, kind, respectful. But mainly for her to get an idea if we would be safe to be alone with, and fuck.

You have to ask yourself the reasons why each of you are meeting in the first place. She wants money and you want sex. If the M&G is what you say it is for and you do not get sex, then don't give any money. But then if it turns out to be a sex meet, then by all means pay her. Paying for a M&G is like putting down a deposit to see an escort. The first rule of mongering is 'Do not put down deposits'. Also, paying for a M&G without sex on the basis that she is spending time with you is bs, how about your time? Is she reimbursing you for your time?

[Dimples572]

If a woman wants to meet in public for a first time meet and greet, how do you handle whether to give her cash just to meet for first time and how much? Say you meet for coffee or just ice cream cone and talk for 30 minutes to negotiate a deal for the sex meets to come at a later time? Do you ask the woman if she expects payment just to meet the first time, before the first meet?

This meet and greet is for the woman who wants to check us out to see if we seem normal, safe, kind, respectful. But mainly for her to get an idea if we would be safe to be alone with, and fuck.

Do not pay for a MnG. Totally unnecessary. If you want to pay for the drinks / food, or perhaps her Uber then cool. But absolutely do not pay her a fee just for meeting, that's ridiculous. And as far as future meeting arrangements when you're actually getting together for real, discuss those ahead of time before your MnG with the understanding that assuming you two vibe on the MnG and neither one of you is a catfish then X amount is what you're comfortable with paying.

[BagIt]

If a woman wants to meet in public for a first time meet and greet, how do you handle whether to give her cash just to meet for first time and how much? Say you meet for coffee or just ice cream cone and talk for 30 minutes to negotiate a deal for the sex meets to come at a later time? Do you ask the woman if she expects payment just to meet the first time, before the first meet?

This meet and greet is for the woman who wants to check us out to see if we seem normal, safe, kind, respectful. But mainly for her to get an idea if we would be safe to be alone with, and fuck.