NoVA SugarBabies

[Emesdee]

If a woman wants to meet in public for a first time meet and greet, how do you handle whether to give her cash just to meet for first time and how much? Say you meet for coffee or just ice cream cone and talk for 30 minutes to negotiate a deal for the sex meets to come at a later time? Do you ask the woman if she expects payment just to meet the first time, before the first meet?

This meet and greet is for the woman who wants to check us out to see if we seem normal, safe, kind, respectful. But mainly for her to get an idea if we would be safe to be alone with, and fuck.

No, it's also for us to make sure the same for the woman. Also, that she isn't 50 pounds heavier than her photos, which can happen quite a lot. I personally don't pay for M&Gs, but technically, I would say as long as the payment they're asking for isn't a lot for you AND they're willing to accept it in-person, then go for it if you think they're serious. Don't ever send money to them upfront electronically or anything like that. I personally would proceed with the assumption that any M&G is free and if they want money for it, they will ask.

[Old Chinese Guy]

If a woman wants to meet in public for a first time meet and greet, how do you handle whether to give her cash just to meet for first time and how much? Say you meet for coffee or just ice cream cone and talk for 30 minutes to negotiate a deal for the sex meets to come at a later time? Do you ask the woman if she expects payment just to meet the first time, before the first meet?

This meet and greet is for the woman who wants to check us out to see if we seem normal, safe, kind, respectful. But mainly for her to get an idea if we would be safe to be alone with, and fuck.

You have to ask yourself the reasons why each of you are meeting in the first place. She wants money and you want sex. If the M&G is what you say it is for and you do not get sex, then don't give any money. But then if it turns out to be a sex meet, then by all means pay her. Paying for a M&G is like putting down a deposit to see an escort. The first rule of mongering is 'Do not put down deposits'. Also, paying for a M&G without sex on the basis that she is spending time with you is bs, how about your time? Is she reimbursing you for your time?

[Dimples572]

If a woman wants to meet in public for a first time meet and greet, how do you handle whether to give her cash just to meet for first time and how much? Say you meet for coffee or just ice cream cone and talk for 30 minutes to negotiate a deal for the sex meets to come at a later time? Do you ask the woman if she expects payment just to meet the first time, before the first meet?

This meet and greet is for the woman who wants to check us out to see if we seem normal, safe, kind, respectful. But mainly for her to get an idea if we would be safe to be alone with, and fuck.

Do not pay for a MnG. Totally unnecessary. If you want to pay for the drinks / food, or perhaps her Uber then cool. But absolutely do not pay her a fee just for meeting, that's ridiculous. And as far as future meeting arrangements when you're actually getting together for real, discuss those ahead of time before your MnG with the understanding that assuming you two vibe on the MnG and neither one of you is a catfish then X amount is what you're comfortable with paying.

[BagIt]

If a woman wants to meet in public for a first time meet and greet, how do you handle whether to give her cash just to meet for first time and how much? Say you meet for coffee or just ice cream cone and talk for 30 minutes to negotiate a deal for the sex meets to come at a later time? Do you ask the woman if she expects payment just to meet the first time, before the first meet?

This meet and greet is for the woman who wants to check us out to see if we seem normal, safe, kind, respectful. But mainly for her to get an idea if we would be safe to be alone with, and fuck.

[Emesdee]

I typically don't report much here because too many guys have told SBs about this site. Here's a field report for some of the girls who are currently active-ish on the site (I always found it pointless reporting on girls who don't visit the site anymore). I'm not going to get into many details here but I'm willing to share info with senior members over DM. Some of these I've closed with, some I haven't, but I've at least either spoken extensively or had a M&G with them to be able to give insight for those interested.

Lia - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...a-735fd56e4259.

Much better looking in person IMO.

Lisa - https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-e8167f9b7ceb.

Seems to be very kink experienced if you're into that.

Clara - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...5-5cc36c314dea.

Wants $2 K PPM for intimacy, $1. 2 K otherwise 🙄.

Lydia - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-88da4366075c.

Slightly high ask, but attractive.

Deb - https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-2dc2e1bc45d0.

Pretty easy to setup a meet, and can host, but also on the chubby side a little.

Charms - https://members.seeking.com/member/f...9-268b02a3bdaf.

Also pretty easy to setup a meeting, but you can kind of tell from her photos that everything about her is big.

Macarena - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...4-4f8772d1f9b3.

Wanted 7, doesn't seem to speak any English.

Daddysloverprincess - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-1a94bd8ee7da.

Been reported on here before, real and DTF, but in my experience, flaky.

Annika - https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-ac4c9170a8a9.

Pretty hot, but wants to be wined and dined, and not just fucked.

Stephanie - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-2e314e882008.

Another that wants to be wined and dined, though reasonable allowance expectation.

Katie - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-837f731e03a3.

Wants marriage 🤮.

Martina - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...4-f3cec807eec8.

OF "girl," wants to build trust on her OF account 🙄.

Pleasure Chick - https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-b8b43a10e134.

Hot for her age, can host out near Annapolis.

Naomi - https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-f9aae8786f61.

Seems to be up for a lot, has an OF. Ask is reasonable-ish, but a bit high for what you're getting IMO.

[Dimples572]

Your mailbox is full.

My bad, should be empty now.

[Dimples572]

Deleted conversation, and hid. I generally don't block, as I think seeking looks into those.

Nah dude, I block like a fiend. Never caused any issues. Other shit I've done may have caused issues, but not blocking anyone.

[JonFisher]

Whenever they do that camera angle from above thing that's always a tell tale sign they're a fatty. Immediate red flag.

Your mailbox is full.

[TomFordModel]

Let alone that the correct abbreviation for the Republic of Korea is ROK.

That should give you an idea of her prefer race.

[Max #01]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-43867f701518

She's looking for a sugar bf that can lead to a husband. She said her friend found a fiance on seeking.

I tried and failed.

Let alone that the correct abbreviation for the Republic of Korea is ROK.

[TomFordModel]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-43867f701518

She's looking for a sugar bf that can lead to a husband. She said her friend found a fiance on seeking.

I tried and failed.

[PRMan12]

Seems like every other city has copious amounts of talent. Maybe this government shutdown will spur some girls to get on the site.

But it definitely takes awhile and some effort. I play in the low-mid range space for allowance, but only have arrangements with the 8, 9 and 10's. Definitely requires a lot more work but once you find them, they tend to be pretty "loyal".

[GuideMaster67]

Seems like every other city has copious amounts of talent. Maybe this government shutdown will spur some girls to get on the site.

[Dr SugarD]

So I guess with Vanilla / Blackhawk GC no longer working, it's either personal CC or Google Play.

Any other option that people have used successfully recently?

Blackhawk hasn't worked for me in awhile. I then switched to egift cards and they worked for awhile. I tried one last week and it was rejected. According to SA customer service it was turned down by the bank. So long SA!

[Joshtoo]

Carrie, 21, Shenandoah.

Good communication and a planned meeting time and location.

She ghosted after confirming an hour earlier and never met.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...a-293ce09cb8d1