NoVA SugarBabies

**Old Chinese Guy** · 10-21-25 08:42

Originally Posted by BagIt [View Original Post]

If a woman wants to meet in public for a first time meet and greet, how do you handle whether to give her cash just to meet for first time and how much? Say you meet for coffee or just ice cream cone and talk for 30 minutes to negotiate a deal for the sex meets to come at a later time? Do you ask the woman if she expects payment just to meet the first time, before the first meet?

This meet and greet is for the woman who wants to check us out to see if we seem normal, safe, kind, respectful. But mainly for her to get an idea if we would be safe to be alone with, and fuck.

You have to ask yourself the reasons why each of you are meeting in the first place. She wants money and you want sex. If the M&G is what you say it is for and you do not get sex, then don't give any money. But then if it turns out to be a sex meet, then by all means pay her. Paying for a M&G is like putting down a deposit to see an escort. The first rule of mongering is 'Do not put down deposits'. Also, paying for a M&G without sex on the basis that she is spending time with you is bs, how about your time? Is she reimbursing you for your time?

**Dimples572** · 10-21-25 07:51

Originally Posted by BagIt [View Original Post]

If a woman wants to meet in public for a first time meet and greet, how do you handle whether to give her cash just to meet for first time and how much? Say you meet for coffee or just ice cream cone and talk for 30 minutes to negotiate a deal for the sex meets to come at a later time? Do you ask the woman if she expects payment just to meet the first time, before the first meet?

This meet and greet is for the woman who wants to check us out to see if we seem normal, safe, kind, respectful. But mainly for her to get an idea if we would be safe to be alone with, and fuck.

Do not pay for a MnG. Totally unnecessary. If you want to pay for the drinks / food, or perhaps her Uber then cool. But absolutely do not pay her a fee just for meeting, that's ridiculous. And as far as future meeting arrangements when you're actually getting together for real, discuss those ahead of time before your MnG with the understanding that assuming you two vibe on the MnG and neither one of you is a catfish then X amount is what you're comfortable with paying.

**BagIt** · 10-21-25 06:16

If a woman wants to meet in public for a first time meet and greet, how do you handle whether to give her cash just to meet for first time and how much? Say you meet for coffee or just ice cream cone and talk for 30 minutes to negotiate a deal for the sex meets to come at a later time? Do you ask the woman if she expects payment just to meet the first time, before the first meet?

This meet and greet is for the woman who wants to check us out to see if we seem normal, safe, kind, respectful. But mainly for her to get an idea if we would be safe to be alone with, and fuck.

**Emesdee** · 10-20-25 16:02

I typically don't report much here because too many guys have told SBs about this site. Here's a field report for some of the girls who are currently active-ish on the site (I always found it pointless reporting on girls who don't visit the site anymore). I'm not going to get into many details here but I'm willing to share info with senior members over DM. Some of these I've closed with, some I haven't, but I've at least either spoken extensively or had a M&G with them to be able to give insight for those interested.

Lia - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...a-735fd56e4259.

Much better looking in person IMO.

Lisa - https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-e8167f9b7ceb.

Seems to be very kink experienced if you're into that.

Clara - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...5-5cc36c314dea.

Wants $2 K PPM for intimacy, $1. 2 K otherwise 🙄.

Lydia - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-88da4366075c.

Slightly high ask, but attractive.

Deb - https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-2dc2e1bc45d0.

Pretty easy to setup a meet, and can host, but also on the chubby side a little.

Charms - https://members.seeking.com/member/f...9-268b02a3bdaf.

Also pretty easy to setup a meeting, but you can kind of tell from her photos that everything about her is big.

Macarena - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...4-4f8772d1f9b3.

Wanted 7, doesn't seem to speak any English.

Daddysloverprincess - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-1a94bd8ee7da.

Been reported on here before, real and DTF, but in my experience, flaky.

Annika - https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-ac4c9170a8a9.

Pretty hot, but wants to be wined and dined, and not just fucked.

Stephanie - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-2e314e882008.

Another that wants to be wined and dined, though reasonable allowance expectation.

Katie - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-837f731e03a3.

Wants marriage 🤮.

Martina - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...4-f3cec807eec8.

OF "girl," wants to build trust on her OF account 🙄.

Pleasure Chick - https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-b8b43a10e134.

Hot for her age, can host out near Annapolis.

Naomi - https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-f9aae8786f61.

Seems to be up for a lot, has an OF. Ask is reasonable-ish, but a bit high for what you're getting IMO.

**Dimples572** · 10-20-25 10:15

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

Your mailbox is full.

My bad, should be empty now.

**Dimples572** · 10-20-25 10:14

Originally Posted by BuckNaked84 [View Original Post]

Deleted conversation, and hid. I generally don't block, as I think seeking looks into those.

Nah dude, I block like a fiend. Never caused any issues. Other shit I've done may have caused issues, but not blocking anyone.

**JonFisher** · 10-19-25 14:04

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Whenever they do that camera angle from above thing that's always a tell tale sign they're a fatty. Immediate red flag.

Your mailbox is full.

**TomFordModel** · 10-18-25 17:35

Originally Posted by Max#01 [View Original Post]

Let alone that the correct abbreviation for the Republic of Korea is ROK.

That should give you an idea of her prefer race.

**Max #01** · 10-18-25 16:01

Originally Posted by TomFordModel [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-43867f701518

She's looking for a sugar bf that can lead to a husband. She said her friend found a fiance on seeking.

I tried and failed.

Let alone that the correct abbreviation for the Republic of Korea is ROK.

**TomFordModel** · 10-18-25 12:21

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-43867f701518

She's looking for a sugar bf that can lead to a husband. She said her friend found a fiance on seeking.

I tried and failed.

**PRMan12** · 10-18-25 09:07

Originally Posted by GuideMaster67 [View Original Post]

Seems like every other city has copious amounts of talent. Maybe this government shutdown will spur some girls to get on the site.

But it definitely takes awhile and some effort. I play in the low-mid range space for allowance, but only have arrangements with the 8, 9 and 10's. Definitely requires a lot more work but once you find them, they tend to be pretty "loyal".

**GuideMaster67** · 10-17-25 16:53

Seems like every other city has copious amounts of talent. Maybe this government shutdown will spur some girls to get on the site.

**Dr SugarD** · 10-17-25 09:35

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

So I guess with Vanilla / Blackhawk GC no longer working, it's either personal CC or Google Play.

Any other option that people have used successfully recently?

Blackhawk hasn't worked for me in awhile. I then switched to egift cards and they worked for awhile. I tried one last week and it was rejected. According to SA customer service it was turned down by the bank. So long SA!

**Joshtoo** · 10-17-25 08:33

Carrie, 21, Shenandoah.

Good communication and a planned meeting time and location.

She ghosted after confirming an hour earlier and never met.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...a-293ce09cb8d1

**BuckNaked84** · 10-16-25 17:15

Originally Posted by Joshtoo [View Original Post]

Merliah, Silver Spring.

Wants to talk money only on the site and not elsewhere. I stopped engaging. I'm sure she will get banned soon.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...9-bc364f821342

Deleted conversation, and hid. I generally don't block, as I think seeking looks into those.