Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

[TVDinner]

Opposite for me. I got like 10 numbers off sb from one 89 token pack or whatever itvis. When I look at recently active and last online dates sb appears to be more active. More bots for sure but its been my go to.

Capt, do you focus on verified accounts mostly or a mix? Any tips would help. I want to tip my toe in the SB waters, but want to make it worthwhile as I usually have success on SA.

[Nobody08]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-6d04165a9ff2

Any intel on this one?

[Mako16]

What is AM?

I'm assuming Ashley Madison by the context.

[PhlipJ11]

So I have been on this site for a long time. Long enough I know and have met tabby (I know wrong thread). Anyways I have really made a post on here before. I am just always ultra scared about anything internet related because it's forever. So I am basically have stuck to different lines. So for example I am current and active on AM. I have had some luck there in the past. Not been active as of the last few years but I got back on and made connections with a couple different woman. They were both real because I ask them to send a picture doing a certain thing that makes it hard to find a stock image of that really helps weed out the fakes up front. Anyways I have had 2 different ladies talk to me and everything is going great and they are really flirty and almost aggressive with their flirtiness and sending pictures without me asking and then boom. They are gone off the channel we were talking and also off AM. Anyone else experience this? Mind you this is after we have swapped pictures and we are talking and flirting and everything is great. I mean I get having cold feet but 2 in one week is kinda odd to me. Just wanted to share the AM playing field and see if anyone else had similar experiences.

What is AM?

[MountainIce]

So I have been on this site for a long time. Long enough I know and have met tabby (I know wrong thread). Anyways I have really made a post on here before. I am just always ultra scared about anything internet related because it's forever. So I am basically have stuck to different lines. So for example I am current and active on AM. I have had some luck there in the past. Not been active as of the last few years but I got back on and made connections with a couple different woman. They were both real because I ask them to send a picture doing a certain thing that makes it hard to find a stock image of that really helps weed out the fakes up front. Anyways I have had 2 different ladies talk to me and everything is going great and they are really flirty and almost aggressive with their flirtiness and sending pictures without me asking and then boom. They are gone off the channel we were talking and also off AM. Anyone else experience this? Mind you this is after we have swapped pictures and we are talking and flirting and everything is great. I mean I get having cold feet but 2 in one week is kinda odd to me. Just wanted to share the AM playing field and see if anyone else had similar experiences.

[Fireman469]

Seems like it's getting harder and harder to use gift cards to set up accounts. Anyone have recent luck with a non-credit card way for Seeking or Secret Benefits?

[Captgol]

I spent a few hundred $$ on SB. Got zero replies to anyone I initiated. Tried to stick with only opening messages from accounts it claimed viewed and favorited my profile before messaging me. And none of them ever replied.

Is there people actually having different experiences?

On SA I have done okay. I stay away from messaging girls who dress up in fancy dresses. In their pics so most of the girls I message who reply are 200-300. I'm still trying to figure out how to better navigate the conversations when discussing prices and 'menus' or whatever you want to call it.

Opposite for me. I got like 10 numbers off sb from one 89 token pack or whatever itvis. When I look at recently active and last online dates sb appears to be more active. More bots for sure but its been my go to.

[JohnGuest]

I spent a few hundred $$ on SB. Got zero replies to anyone I initiated. Tried to stick with only opening messages from accounts it claimed viewed and favorited my profile before messaging me. And none of them ever replied.

Is there people actually having different experiences?

On SA I have done okay. I stay away from messaging girls who dress up in fancy dresses. In their pics so most of the girls I message who reply are 200-300. I'm still trying to figure out how to better navigate the conversations when discussing prices and 'menus' or whatever you want to call it.

I've had luck on SB recently and SA (a couple years ago). I offer them a free lunch and $200 to meet, lunch only, NSA. About a quarter of the contacts show up. If we click, I discuss very generous terms for an hour of covered BF / GF fun. I've met about ten SB women for lunch this year, maybe five we met later at a hotel for fun. I always host at a decent hotel. Got a lovely 23 year old babe now. Our fifth meet will be Wednesday morning!

SB and SA work. You just have to put in a lot of time and money.

[MartyC]

From my understanding with speaking to any of the girls that had gone over and started a Tryst account, they definitely get the prices they are asking for. However, for most of them, they have normal jobs and more so do it as side money, so it's not like they are flying through clientele on a daily basis like some girls are that are charging a 3rd of the rates. With it being side cash, having even just 1 maybe 2 appointments a week can cover a decent amount for them depending on bills and such, but yes they do get those prices from some guys that feel like it's worth it. Absolutely insane to me, but I guess you could say that my opinion is definitely subjective on placing a price on it. It's also why you see so many girls adjust prices up and down to find that sweet spot of the amount of clients they are going to want to get and then hold that rate steady when they feel like they are at the sweet spot for how many clients they want to see regularly. A couple of them that I have seen before they went to tryst have actually told me similar stories behind the rates they charge. At the same time, have you seen the rates they try and charge on seeking or SB? It's like a base rate that most have and then they either negotiate or stick to what they want for it, but those prices are high too. Benefit of seeking and SB that I have seen over the years is that it's not hourly or anything and most I have had encounters with it's like a non clock watched experience compared to ones on tryst.

I spent a few hundred $$ on SB. Got zero replies to anyone I initiated. Tried to stick with only opening messages from accounts it claimed viewed and favorited my profile before messaging me. And none of them ever replied.

Is there people actually having different experiences?

On SA I have done okay. I stay away from messaging girls who dress up in fancy dresses. In their pics so most of the girls I message who reply are 200-300. I'm still trying to figure out how to better navigate the conversations when discussing prices and 'menus' or whatever you want to call it.

[Indyjc01]

Do they seriously get the rates they're asking for on tryst?

A little OT.

But honestly tho I'm curious about this. Tryst prices seemed to have exploded over the last year. Is there really that many people paying 500+? Seems like everyone on there is asking that.

From my understanding with speaking to any of the girls that had gone over and started a Tryst account, they definitely get the prices they are asking for. However, for most of them, they have normal jobs and more so do it as side money, so it's not like they are flying through clientele on a daily basis like some girls are that are charging a 3rd of the rates. With it being side cash, having even just 1 maybe 2 appointments a week can cover a decent amount for them depending on bills and such, but yes they do get those prices from some guys that feel like it's worth it. Absolutely insane to me, but I guess you could say that my opinion is definitely subjective on placing a price on it. It's also why you see so many girls adjust prices up and down to find that sweet spot of the amount of clients they are going to want to get and then hold that rate steady when they feel like they are at the sweet spot for how many clients they want to see regularly. A couple of them that I have seen before they went to tryst have actually told me similar stories behind the rates they charge. At the same time, have you seen the rates they try and charge on seeking or SB? It's like a base rate that most have and then they either negotiate or stick to what they want for it, but those prices are high too. Benefit of seeking and SB that I have seen over the years is that it's not hourly or anything and most I have had encounters with it's like a non clock watched experience compared to ones on tryst.

Years ago in the 2000s when things started popping online and we had escort dot com and the big doggie I and many others were able to negotiate rates. Not always mind you but many times. Now its a lot easier for them to see what everyone else is asking on Tryst and think they can get that too. GPS and the American way at its finest. And it does help if this isn't their only source of income. Some I think are doing pretty good making it on Onlyfans too. Also if somebody in Chicago or whatever is willing to pay all their expenses and several Ks per day to see them; the more power to the lady. She sure isn't going to say $$$HR here if she wants !K plus in those cities.

And the touring ladies have additional expense such as travel and hotels. Several of those "out of towners" post ads are fishing for dollars. No confirmed "dates" and/or deposits and they skip here and move on to another city. And the foreign ones usually have an agency that takes a cut. Just a couple of years ago the Latina ladies with TouringVIPGirls were $$.5 HHR and $$$-$$$.5 HR. All the ones that are still around have gone independent but they still use a screener "secretary". They probably share the same person but not the one previously with TVIP. They are now $$$$ or more HHR and $$$$$$ or more HR. Got a text message earlier this year from the "secretary" of one with the initials of VB who I've seen several times. I asked the rate but I knew what it was on Tryst. Got back $$$$$$ HR. I just said thanks but she's priced herself out of my budget. Another one with big naturals and the initals of TA is $$$$$$$ HR now. I know that's a heck of a lot lower than !K or more. But to each their own. I can sure eat more times at Texas Roadhouse for the price of Fogo de Chao or St Elmo's. And even more times at Arby's or the grill at Thorntons. LOL. East side humor.

I know times are tuff out there. However my SSA COLA hasn't increase that much to cover those increases. The Asians at the local AMPs are getting more share of my SSA payments.

[JohnGuest]

In August, we exchanged a few messages on SB. I told her we must meet in public first, and I'm strictly PPM. She said I was looking for a booker. So I said "Bye!" Haven't heard a thing since.

She just messaged me saying she needs $40 immediately! I said no, many times over. Then she said she'd show me something. I again said no. Girl won't quit.

[GSpotGilligan]

Do they seriously get the rates they're asking for on tryst?

From my understanding with speaking to any of the girls that had gone over and started a Tryst account, they definitely get the prices they are asking for. However, for most of them, they have normal jobs and more so do it as side money, so it's not like they are flying through clientele on a daily basis like some girls are that are charging a 3rd of the rates. With it being side cash, having even just 1 maybe 2 appointments a week can cover a decent amount for them depending on bills and such, but yes they do get those prices from some guys that feel like it's worth it. Absolutely insane to me, but I guess you could say that my opinion is definitely subjective on placing a price on it. It's also why you see so many girls adjust prices up and down to find that sweet spot of the amount of clients they are going to want to get and then hold that rate steady when they feel like they are at the sweet spot for how many clients they want to see regularly. A couple of them that I have seen before they went to tryst have actually told me similar stories behind the rates they charge. At the same time, have you seen the rates they try and charge on seeking or SB? It's like a base rate that most have and then they either negotiate or stick to what they want for it, but those prices are high too. Benefit of seeking and SB that I have seen over the years is that it's not hourly or anything and most I have had encounters with it's like a non clock watched experience compared to ones on tryst.

[Indyjc01]

I don't know if management will allow this posting or not. Sorry if I'm breaking a rule. Not trying to promote any site or anything. Just thought members on here might like to know this. Oh and by the way I'm only on there to look; I've never paid a cent.

Anyway I received the following today:

Hello,

It is with both gratitude and sadness that we share this message with you today. After more than 22 incredible years, Sugardaddie.com will be closing down in 4 days. This decision was not made lightly, and while it marks the end of a remarkable chapter, we want you to know how much you have meant to us throughout this journey.

Sugardaddie.com has always been more than just a website, it has been a community. Over the years, you have shared laughter, friendships, romances, and even life changing relationships. Every connection, every story, every memory has been made possible because of you, our valued members. For that, we are profoundly grateful.

As part of this closure, all accounts and member information will be permanently closed on October 3, 2025,9:00 am EST. Anyone with remaining time on their membership will be fully compensated. We want to ensure every member is treated fairly as we close this chapter.

While this is the end of Sugardaddie.com as you know it, we understand that many of you may be looking for a new place to continue your journey. We are pleased to share that there will soon be a new option available at SugarDaddie.com, where you can create a fresh profile and start again in a brand new community. This new platform will give you the chance to reconnect, meet new people, and continue building the kinds of relationships that have always been at the heart of Sugardaddie.com.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for being part of the Sugardaddie.com family for these past 22 years. Your support and loyalty have been the heartbeat of this site, and we could not be more appreciative.

With warm regards and gratitude.

The Management Team.

Sugardaddie.com

By the way if I broke any rules sorry Admin it wasn't my intent.

[MartyC]

Do they seriously get the rates they're asking for on tryst?

A little OT.

But honestly tho I'm curious about this. Tryst prices seemed to have exploded over the last year. Is there really that many people paying 500+? Seems like everyone on there is asking that.

[BigAsaBat]

Do they seriously get the rates they're asking for on tryst?