General Reports

[JimJrHd110]

Is it just me or is there something wrong with the format and layout of the form? It's hard to navigate and read.

[BigBusiness]

I have ran into an increase of providers wanting a deposit prior to scheduling. In one case I was talking to a girl after getting ghosted and found out I was 15 minutes away!! Instead of arguing about $25 she could have made the $150 in the same amount of time LOL.

I can understand if traveling or scheduling a day or two in advance. I wouldn't do it but could justify the ask. Why would a chick, who is providing an illegal service expect someone using a burner or app phone, to create a paper trail that links them to you in the first place? I guess if you will give a deposit you're not in LE but I'm sure there are ways they can do that to still bust someone. Dunno.

I've asked this question of a couple providers who insist on getting one if they haven't seen the guy before. The reason is how often THEY get ghosted by mongers after agreeing to the appointment time (possibly turning another appt down) and spending a considerable amount of time getting themselves ready for the appointment. (just for a no-show) Don't shoot the messenger here, I'm just reporting the flip side of this issue. I even brought up the point that they're losing business over it and they said they'd rather lose business over it than get ghosted.

[SimonPieMan]

This is happening again this weekend. There are still open spots if anyone wants to attend. If not, the pre-party is tonight. Go to the bar there and you have a decent chance of having some fun. It's at the Eastgate Holiday Inn tonight. Starting tomorrow you have to have a wristband to get in.

Did anyone go to this? I'm curious about the festivities. PM if preferred.

SP.

[ScuttleNutt]

I have ran into an increase of providers wanting a deposit prior to scheduling. In one case I was talking to a girl after getting ghosted and found out I was 15 minutes away!! Instead of arguing about $25 she could have made the $150 in the same amount of time LOL.

I can understand if traveling or scheduling a day or two in advance. I wouldn't do it but could justify the ask. Why would a chick, who is providing an illegal service expect someone using a burner or app phone, to create a paper trail that links them to you in the first place? I guess if you will give a deposit you're not in LE but I'm sure there are ways they can do that to still bust someone. Dunno.

I don't have firm numbers, but I would be that upwards of 80% or more of those asking for deposits are not real providers. Most of them are some sort of only fans scam or just some dude who stole pics off the internet. I hang or stop texting immediately when they ask for deposit. Not worth my time.

[Huckelberry1]

I have ran into an increase of providers wanting a deposit prior to scheduling. In one case I was talking to a girl after getting ghosted and found out I was 15 minutes away!! Instead of arguing about $25 she could have made the $150 in the same amount of time LOL.

I can understand if traveling or scheduling a day or two in advance. I wouldn't do it but could justify the ask. Why would a chick, who is providing an illegal service expect someone using a burner or app phone, to create a paper trail that links them to you in the first place? I guess if you will give a deposit you're not in LE but I'm sure there are ways they can do that to still bust someone. Dunno.

[CooperTown]

This is happening again this weekend. There are still open spots if anyone wants to attend. If not, the pre-party is tonight. Go to the bar there and you have a decent chance of having some fun. It's at the Eastgate Holiday Inn tonight. Starting tomorrow you have to have a wristband to get in.

If you ever have the opportunity, I'd highly recommend the hotel takeover through Play Champagne.

Hundreds of swingers and very few single males. They had a hotwife room, basically a room where couples would look for single guys. Lots of playrooms with dozens of beds for use, and as soon as they leave, people immediately come and clean and reset up the bed for the next couple. Parties in hotel rooms, basically anything goes.

Not your traditional post, but for those of you looking for unique fun, I highly recommend.

[JimJaimes]

I was getting this message for a couple months until I updated the operating system on my Mac. Apparently the automatic updates are semi automatic.

[HighLifeMan]

Thanks HighLifeMan. This is some of the best advice I've received lately. It worked like a charm with very little set up.

Simon.

No problem. Glad it worked out for you. I also turn it on when getting on here. It seems to help. To get on here when this site act's up. Have a good one be safe out there.

[SimonPieMan]

Just like to chime in on this. I do have the same thing come up because Ohio new law on sites like it. But the browser I use is Opera it has a vpn built in with it. Pretty easy to use. Hope this helps out you as well as others having trouble. Have a good one be safe out there.

Thanks HighLifeMan. This is some of the best advice I've received lately. It worked like a charm with very little set up.

Simon.

[DuckMam]

I'm not very tech savvy, I understand that a VPN will make these issues go away. However you lost me when you said "Use a VPN, it will go away as long as you are signing in somewhere they don't have the law". If I was signing in somewhere they don't have the law why would I need a VPN? Are you saying that even if I have a VPN I still can't access these sites without the age verification if I'm in Ohio?

What am I missing?

The part you are missing is if VPN connects you to a server that happens to be on a state that had the same law. However, most VPNs have servers in other countries.

[Sad Sack]

This is because you live in one of the states that passed an age verification law for porn. It is reading your IP and asking based on your location. Use a VPN, it will go away as long as you are signing in somewhere they don't have the law.

I'm not very tech savvy, I understand that a VPN will make these issues go away. However you lost me when you said "Use a VPN, it will go away as long as you are signing in somewhere they don't have the law". If I was signing in somewhere they don't have the law why would I need a VPN? Are you saying that even if I have a VPN I still can't access these sites without the age verification if I'm in Ohio?

What am I missing?

[Smokey Gringo]

Eros and Tryst continue to go downhill as the number of profiles exclusively promoting OF accounts continues to grow.

OnlyF is a virus that ruins anything it touches. It started to ruin here, it's Ruined Fetlife, and I play a mobile game and ladies are starting to advertise there but I report them when I catch them. It is so fucking lazy and stupid. It's stripping without having to go clock in and work for the money. And these fools have been paying. It does seem like it's on the decline though and can't wait to piss on its ashes. Most men if you saw chatter on social media now abhor it. Because like I said, it's the laziest for them to extract your money from you. Fuck that, make them work for it. And that also ties back into my longtime argument with local girls rates. There's no where they can get a job no matter how hot or if they even have a degree of some kind and make $100-200 an hour. Only stripping and fucking.

[HighLifeMan]

This is because you live in one of the states that passed an age verification law for porn. It is reading your IP and asking based on your location. Use a VPN, it will go away as long as you are signing in somewhere they don't have the law.

Just like to chime in on this. I do have the same thing come up because Ohio new law on sites like it. But the browser I use is Opera it has a vpn built in with it. Pretty easy to use. Hope this helps out you as well as others having trouble. Have a good one be safe out there.

[WanderingAbout]

Eros and Tryst continue to go downhill as the number of profiles exclusively promoting OF accounts continues to grow.

[Wielic]

I pulled up chaturbate.com and an age verification window popped up. I've never had this issue before. It wants me to scan my I'd or verify through Yoti. Does anyone have experience with this issue? I'm not thrilled about scanning my I'd. I can access other adult websites with no issue. Geez, it seams like everyone wants to scan your I'd these days. Even Kroger wants to scan it when you buy alcohol.

SP.

This is because you live in one of the states that passed an age verification law for porn. It is reading your IP and asking based on your location. Use a VPN, it will go away as long as you are signing in somewhere they don't have the law.