Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**DonnnyBravo** · 10-05-25 16:15

Originally Posted by Zombie835 [View Original Post]

Has anyone seen her lately? I know there's older reviews out there from years ago, just wondering if anything has changed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...2-bdc79beab4ab

Originally Posted by Hawg219 [View Original Post]

A wise kid once told me, "If she doesn't show her body by the third photo, then she's fat!

Unfortunately, this was the case with Katie. Saw her for 300 ppm and got bbfscip, no cim. Lackluster GFE, borderline dead fish. Skin tasted salty. I also hate daty with big girls because there's so much blubber you have to fight through to get to the prize. She doesn't like MSOG, I had to convince her to go two rounds. Upside is that she's very tight in the best ways possible. Awkward personality and business as usual attitude. Kept running in and out of the bathroom, singing to herself with the door closed. Kicked her out after 45 minutes.

Overall didn't enjoy my experience. YMMV with this one, but definitely not worth more than 200. Her current size is like purple hair Jenn from Windsor Locks. Too big for my liking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2710bb9c-cd5e-4093-8bb2-bdc79beab4ab?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D

Hawg219 saw her last year. I heard more info from him than posted, so she wasn't worth my time plus distance from me.

**Zombie835** · 10-05-25 16:00

Has anyone seen her lately? I know there's older reviews out there from years ago, just wondering if anything has changed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...2-bdc79beab4ab

**SmokinJoePA** · 10-01-25 02:54

Rookie question.

Originally Posted by LBWusg [View Original Post]

I join SA last week and I must say that some of the girls are straight up hoes. I found 2 listing where the girl was also posting on STG or LC.

I found one girl with whom all the menu details had been discussed but I pulled out at last minute when she sent me a current video, and she was way more overweight than her site pictures.

Question is do you pay for a hotel at additional cost, or do you risk taking her home? This is more of a consideration with a new baby.

Only you can make that call. What do you have to lose? Everyone has to make his own call on risk vs reward. What is yours?

Some guys swear by home turf because they feel like it helps them control the situation. For some, that is a good point. Worked with a guy who invited women to his home because he thought a hotel was a waste of money. A few times a year he'd come home to find his place cleaned out, always a few days after a date. Maybe he just liked always having the latest and greatest TV, etc? Seems like a hotel is cheap when you factor that in?

Even a car date, some guys got jammed up because their date left paraphernalia behind for an uncle or a SO to find. Even if she's still in the car, will she fess up or will you end up on the hook? Who has more to lose, you or her?

Plenty of guys have been robbed going to an incall, too. Angry boyfriend, family emergency, pay the rent, or straight out armed robbery. Even with a woman with good reviews, or a woman he has seen many times before. In this life, things change, sometimes fast.

If you get the room, make sure she leaves before you do, and checkout immediately. You don't want to be on the hook for any damages or hijinx that go on afterwards. Be aware that you might not be anonymous either. Some mid range hotels put your name on the TV as a welcome. Lower end, does the desk worker really care about your privacy?

Some women will ask for compensation up front (for the room, transportation, babysitter, excuse-of-the-day, etc). Just a few thoughts. When you go to a restaurant, you sit, order, eat, then pay. The mechanic fixes your car, then pay. Do you ever pay a "deposit" for these? Do you get paid before you do your job, or after? Just a few thoughts.

If you are interested, here's a few threads that are worth reading and only take a few minutes:

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...s-For-BackPage

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/cust...MongeringRules

YMMV. $0. 02, etc. Hope this helps you. Good luck and write a report for how you make out, good or bad.

**LBWusg** · 09-30-25 20:10

I join SA last week and I must say that some of the girls are straight up hoes. I found 2 listing where the girl was also posting on STG or LC.

I found one girl with whom all the menu details had been discussed but I pulled out at last minute when she sent me a current video, and she was way more overweight than her site pictures.

Question is do you pay for a hotel at additional cost, or do you risk taking her home? This is more of a consideration with a new baby.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 09-30-25 14:41

Originally Posted by XxMarkXx [View Original Post]

I met her a number of times this past winter. She is straightforward and is not a girly girl who will fawn over you. She is not a spinner, but is sexy and curvy. Had a great time with her, dinner, conversations and behind closed doors.

Sadly, she ghosted me after a month or two. Would have loved to keep seeing her, we seemed to click pretty well. She has kids and lived over an hour from hartford area, was just here for work, so, I'd like to think her situation just changed and it wasnt me.

Just my experiences.

This time around she sent my a photo of her tits, so she was serious. I found her to be a bit aloof on the phone. She is strictly business. I found her socials back in February so I had a lot of photos to make a judgement. She is definitely cute however nothing to get overly excited about. I am sure she is very busy setting up meets on seeking. She gave me her availability on a Friday, Monday evening was one of the days however when I called to confirm she was not available unless it was in the AM. Then I suggested a meet and greet when I spoke with her on the phone. After that she ghosted me. I don't want any bullshit either so I don't care.

**TopGun9** · 09-30-25 13:45

Originally Posted by Tommy13 [View Original Post]

I stopped using SA. I tried SDM because for the price of one month of SA you get three. But you get what you pay for. There is some overlap but if you find a girl of SA who is also on SDM or vice versa then you know you have a hustler on your hands so just plan accordingly. It's fun, and once in a while you find a gem. But honestly, it's also a frustrating experience as you constantly run into bullshit artists, but to be fair mongers aren't exactly paragons of virtue either so I can't fault them.

Same.

I've used SDM exclusively in the past 2-3 years. It take a lot of work to find a gem, but you will eventually find them.

SA still have more baby profiles than SDM though.

**TopGun9** · 09-30-25 13:43

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

After they increased the membership fees, I stopped using it, its too much even with a 20% discount they are offering.

I was not aware that SA increased price again.

**XxMarkXx** · 09-29-25 12:12

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

I already figured that all out, was just curious if anyone here actually hooked up with her.

One thing did change with her, back in February she was willing to meet at the hotel where she was staying for work, she actually worked there. This time around no go and she won't even meet for a drink there. She denied ever saying that she would meet that way however I looked back at the old texts and she did. It did seem odd that she would put her job at risk meeting guys where she worked.

I met her a number of times this past winter. She is straightforward and is not a girly girl who will fawn over you. She is not a spinner, but is sexy and curvy. Had a great time with her, dinner, conversations and behind closed doors.

Sadly, she ghosted me after a month or two. Would have loved to keep seeing her, we seemed to click pretty well. She has kids and lived over an hour from hartford area, was just here for work, so, I'd like to think her situation just changed and it wasnt me.

Just my experiences.

**SR Only** · 09-28-25 14:40

I did a car date with Ashley in a remote Trumbull Mall lot. I think I shot my potential children in her. Her size and being fairly bland I opted to not do it again with her. Huh, look at that, I said no to pussy. LOL I'll try not to let that happen again.

**Tommy13** · 09-28-25 12:09

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

I've seen Ashley in the past with mixed results. I was able to make a new SA account just to view profiles and saw she sent a DM, so I text her. All I got to say is that she's an underperformer and just wants money for nothing. If she isn't complaining about guys on SA degrading her, she says she has a terminal illness and that I everyone should be generous to her during this tough time. She does engage with demons as it's the family hobby.

If you decide to see her, it is def YMMV. She's a 30 yr old MILF and has to have someone watch her kid. She has a weird voice almost like a kid talking. She weighs more than her pics reveal. Lives with mom and brother that all have active warrants per ct judicial site. She will also likely ask if you can "help" her out. Don't do it. Shouldn't with anyone. She'll try to use her "illness" or a future meet as leverage to get immediate help.

I met up with her one time a long time ago and yeah, she's worthless. And not even cute in person. She is also super annoying and I had to basically cuss her out to get her to leave me alone even after I blocked her, she would hit me up from different numbers.

The girl Abby / Abigail I posted about alst week turned into the same sort of annoyance. After I cut her off she hit me up for money from a different number. But more of the same, as firelfuff.

**ClassicForNow** · 09-28-25 12:05

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

I've seen Ashley in the past with mixed results. I was able to make a new SA account just to view profiles and saw she sent a DM, so I text her. All I got to say is that she's an underperformer and just wants money for nothing. If she isn't complaining about guys on SA degrading her, she says she has a terminal illness and that I everyone should be generous to her during this tough time. She does engage with demons as it's the family hobby.

If you decide to see her, it is def YMMV. She's a 30 yr old MILF and has to have someone watch her kid. She has a weird voice almost like a kid talking. She weighs more than her pics reveal. Lives with mom and brother that all have active warrants per ct judicial site. She will also likely ask if you can "help" her out. Don't do it. Shouldn't with anyone. She'll try to use her "illness" or a future meet as leverage to get immediate help.

Donny thanks for adding her pics! This is why it is so important t add pics to the link. I messaged her a couple years ago when she first appeared on another site. Tough nut to crack with her "car only date" BJ for 200 and nothing else. She would not budge always saying "I'm not one of those drugged up cheap ass hoe's" UH-HUH LOL She was good with disguising her weight issue with angled pic shots, but she sent one that if looking hard enough you could see the weight. Now coupled with the kid, family and drug issues I was glad I didn't bite.

**DonnnyBravo** · 09-27-25 16:49

Originally Posted by Hawg219 [View Original Post]

Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-db6a66a97eb7

I've seen Ashley in the past with mixed results. I was able to make a new SA account just to view profiles and saw she sent a DM, so I text her. All I got to say is that she's an underperformer and just wants money for nothing. If she isn't complaining about guys on SA degrading her, she says she has a terminal illness and that I everyone should be generous to her during this tough time. She does engage with demons as it's the family hobby.

If you decide to see her, it is def YMMV. She's a 30 yr old MILF and has to have someone watch her kid. She has a weird voice almost like a kid talking. She weighs more than her pics reveal. Lives with mom and brother that all have active warrants per ct judicial site. She will also likely ask if you can "help" her out. Don't do it. Shouldn't with anyone. She'll try to use her "illness" or a future meet as leverage to get immediate help.

**Chudakkad** · 09-26-25 22:27

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

After they increased the membership fees, I stopped using it, its too much even with a 20% discount they are offering.

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

The $40 a month extra is peanuts however the selection has gone downhill. Glen is you are reading this I saw Stephania (Soni) this week. Best of the Olita bunch for sure.

For me it is because I meet one SB in like 2-3 months so it adds up.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 09-26-25 11:36

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

After they increased the membership fees, I stopped using it, its too much even with a 20% discount they are offering.

The $40 a month extra is peanuts however the selection has gone downhill. Glen is you are reading this I saw Stephania (Soni) this week. Best of the Olita bunch for sure.

**DonnnyBravo** · 09-26-25 10:52

I don't have an acct since being banned, but I was passed along this one. She's been talked about before. Surprisingly, she met up same day she was passed to me. Great girl in the moment and plenty of fun and virtually no restrictions. Ppm was lowered without me asking. She said willing to go even lower on subsequent meets. Tried to set up a 2nd meet, but she delayed in responding a couple days but asked me what day works. I responded twice since but haven't gotten any responses. I know she has a normal job and college that can keep her busy. Just a note, do not mention this site / reviews or that you talked about her with anyone. Despite her allowing a friend to pass her number to me, she wasn't happy about it and almost didn't meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...b-e8edf2967e56