Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[GlenBenton]

Periodic reminder of the following, for those who read the forum:

- GB is either single or has the dumbest / least involved partner in the world.

- GB has a boat, and judging from the job that involves NY / CT presence, a F. I. R. E. Job that affords a nice lifestyle.

- GB has enough game (physical, social, mental, and otherwise) to snag the hottest women on SB with alarming success.

If you're in a relationship with someone who cares where you are enough to constrain your scheduling, have no sugar to offer besides escort-level PPM, and have no desirable physical / social attributes. YMMV, obviously.

None of this is to call into question GB's massive contributions to the forum; his posts are by far my favorite thing here. But you need to decide the stuff you can work on (e. G, getting fit, having confidence, growing balls) and the stuff you can't, and set your expectations for PPM accordingly.

Thank you. I guess. But, I'm just a normal dude. There is not silver bullet to obtain elites. You attract what you put out. Confidence, Cadence, and Charisma go a long way when connecting with people, no matter the context. It's all about being genuine, knowing how to carry yourself, and having that magnetic energy. People pick up on that, and it makes interactions smoother.

SA girls are easy to get. Just remember, the good ones will always shy away from certain labels (I. E. Hookers) but deep down, they're aware of what the website is about.

[SugarLifeNow]

Hey everyone, Dave here, new SLN girl in Hartford, her name is Cali and she is 26. Super submissive and loves rough sex. Loves having her hair pulled in doggy, and wants to get pounded for a long time. Likes spanking, choking, slapping, and anal. She is into being tied up, blindfolded, and punished. Not into girls, but would do a 3 sum MFM. Ok with BBFS. Mid range PPM.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Caliegh/

[SR Only]

GB is my hero.

[PoolPlayInTool]

Periodic reminder of the following, for those who read the forum:

- GB is either single or has the dumbest / least involved partner in the world.

- GB has a boat, and judging from the job that involves NY / CT presence, a F. I. R. E. Job that affords a nice lifestyle.

- GB has enough game (physical, social, mental, and otherwise) to snag the hottest women on SB with alarming success.

If you're in a relationship with someone who cares where you are enough to constrain your scheduling, have no sugar to offer besides escort-level PPM, and have no desirable physical / social attributes. YMMV, obviously.

None of this is to call into question GB's massive contributions to the forum; his posts are by far my favorite thing here. But you need to decide the stuff you can work on (e. G, getting fit, having confidence, growing balls) and the stuff you can't, and set your expectations for PPM accordingly.

I am a decent look guy, look much younger than my 68 years however there is no way that I would be able to negotiate the PPM rate GB gets for most of the women he sleeps with here. I have to go down a few notches on the hotness scale and then pay the $300 or maybe a bit more depending. I am realistic. Best guess on GB he is in his early to mid 40's, has all his hair, is one of those guys women just fall all over for, and has lots of money to spend.

[RalphReilly]

Each girls expectation is different. They all came down in price (some 100%.

Ranges for girls I mentioned today: 0 - 501.

Yes 501. The art of the deal.

Periodic reminder of the following, for those who read the forum:

- GB is either single or has the dumbest / least involved partner in the world.

- GB has a boat, and judging from the job that involves NY / CT presence, a F. I. R. E. Job that affords a nice lifestyle.

- GB has enough game (physical, social, mental, and otherwise) to snag the hottest women on SB with alarming success.

If you're in a relationship with someone who cares where you are enough to constrain your scheduling, have no sugar to offer besides escort-level PPM, and have no desirable physical / social attributes. YMMV, obviously.

None of this is to call into question GB's massive contributions to the forum; his posts are by far my favorite thing here. But you need to decide the stuff you can work on (e. G, getting fit, having confidence, growing balls) and the stuff you can't, and set your expectations for PPM accordingly.

[GlenBenton]

My God GlenB. You put in a lot of work. I know your list is long but can you say PPM for them?

Each girls expectation is different. They all came down in price (some 100%.

Ranges for girls I mentioned today: 0 - 501.

Yes 501. The art of the deal.

[LuckyCT]

Sorry. I had some work to do and couldn't finish.

That said. I noticed some typos in my previous post:

LilMissRhody knows her way around a Dick. Not sick.

Maggie - "I pity the fool who uses that BED next". Not andee (whatever that means).

Anyway, I digress.

Abi - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-663c0c94030a.

Single mom, fake rack and an ass built for sex. She's a bit business-like but I found that refreshing. No need for BS and no fear of encountering a stage 5 clinger. She's fun.

Violet - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-5a1b4ae6560b.

This chick does porn (she showed me). You can look it all up under "sapphireink". She's a little thicker than I usually go after, but her horniess and fucking ability made up for that. She's a freak.

Jessie - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-49daa1e42f58.

She was ok. Didn't blow my socks off, but enjoyable nonetheless. She did text me everyday for about a week after our initial session where she said she wanted to meet again (which was a turn off). One and done.

Sara - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-4c77f04398ed.

She's a cutie but wouldn't budge on "getting to know each other first.". Met for drinks twice before getting her naked. It was ok. She's pretty vanilla.

Natalie - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...a-a0c437221b81.

Bailed on her when I saw her. Pictures aren't her. Don't fall for it.

Welp. That what I got. Who else can contribute something of substance on this dying board?

My God GlenB. You put in a lot of work. I know your list is long but can you say PPM for them?

[GlenBenton]

Sorry. I had some work to do and couldn't finish.

That said. I noticed some typos in my previous post:

LilMissRhody knows her way around a Dick. Not sick.

Maggie - "I pity the fool who uses that BED next". Not andee (whatever that means).

Anyway, I digress.

Abi - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-663c0c94030a.

Single mom, fake rack and an ass built for sex. She's a bit business-like but I found that refreshing. No need for BS and no fear of encountering a stage 5 clinger. She's fun.

Violet - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-5a1b4ae6560b.

This chick does porn (she showed me). You can look it all up under "sapphireink". She's a little thicker than I usually go after, but her horniess and fucking ability made up for that. She's a freak.

Jessie - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-49daa1e42f58.

She was ok. Didn't blow my socks off, but enjoyable nonetheless. She did text me everyday for about a week after our initial session where she said she wanted to meet again (which was a turn off). One and done.

Sara - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-4c77f04398ed.

She's a cutie but wouldn't budge on "getting to know each other first.". Met for drinks twice before getting her naked. It was ok. She's pretty vanilla.

Natalie - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...a-a0c437221b81.

Bailed on her when I saw her. Pictures aren't her. Don't fall for it.

Welp. That what I got. Who else can contribute something of substance on this dying board?

[GlenBenton]

Summer is coming to a close and with, so too does my SA membership.

August and Sept have proven to be my swan song.

Feat include:

Kat - https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-776b2f0ad509.

A true 10 in every sense of the word. Hot, cool as fuck and a savage behind closed doors. Based in Manhattan. Thankfully, I am there twice a week. She came to CT for a visit too. Smoke show is an understatement.

LilMissRhody - https://members.seeking.com/member/5...a-ee66067e2c33.

She's a touch older than I prefer but she wears it well. She's an OF regular (I found this out upon meeting; as I do not use OF). She knows her way around a sick and can get quite freaky.

Becca - https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-f51385783f20.

A girl next door with daddy issues. She let me do whatever I wanted and, needless to say, I wanted a lot.

Chelsea - https://members.seeking.com/member/1...8-cf3798297b20.

Another "innocent" blonde that really comes out of her shell if she likes what she sees. I blew through a 3 pack of Okamoto. 01's in our first session. She's swell.

Maggie - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...8-2f3e494fd311.

Wanted to experience a SA ginger. Maggie is just that. She had me meet her at some flea bag motel in Portland CT (solera or something). We got down and dirty in that room. I pity the fool who uses that andée next.

Carol - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...1-6f1ef6f6e16c.

A one and done; only because Kat entered it he picture shortly after seeing Carol. She was a good time though.

Talaa - https://members.seeking.com/member/2...4-6f5a4082462d.

Really cool chick. Zero donation with her. We just hit it off so well.

To be continued.

[Justlookineat]

Hey guys, any input on either of these two? Thanks.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-cd23f476e95e

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...8-b1b0d6030c6b

[TrentWilliams]

I spend some time just chatting first. A lot of the "real" girls on there don't have a "price". Yeah, maybe the last guy gave her WAY too much, but if you build some connection, they often take less if they actually enjoy your company.

It does get a bit awkward when you finally have to talk pricing. And you don't want to waste both of your time if she's looking for way more than you are willing to spend. So I don't wait too long. Kinda depends how flirty the conversation is going. If she has no redeeming personality traits, then I just transition right to price talk to either move on or cut her loose. If they say a number that is way off, I just respectfully say we are too far apart on that and wish them well.

I've actually never paid more than 250. And that was to bombshell college girl. Usually its much less. The girl I'm seeing now doesn't even want money.

So basically, you get a better deal if you treat them like a human. But there is always another girl out there so if the price isn't what you are looking for, just move on and don't be afraid about if you "played it right".

Very well said I agree 100%.

[Slow Hands78]

Let's see you see a sugar baby and decide that the most you would spend on her is $400 for PPM.

Do you:

A) Say you're interested in PPM, and offer $400 or less? If less, how much less?

B) Say you're interested in PPM, then let them make the first move on $, countering with $400 or less (and again, if less, how much less)?

At the risk of being a "market maker" and not wanting to make the first move, I've been hesitant to throw out the first number. 9 times out of 10, the ask from the SB is high of my threshold, and I have to back them down (to their disappointment). I'm debating leading with an offer (either at or below my threshold) that may be higher than their "lowest" PPM. Wanted to see if folks had a preferred method to get to an agreed price with the least amount of disappointment.

I spend some time just chatting first. A lot of the "real" girls on there don't have a "price". Yeah, maybe the last guy gave her WAY too much, but if you build some connection, they often take less if they actually enjoy your company.

It does get a bit awkward when you finally have to talk pricing. And you don't want to waste both of your time if she's looking for way more than you are willing to spend. So I don't wait too long. Kinda depends how flirty the conversation is going. If she has no redeeming personality traits, then I just transition right to price talk to either move on or cut her loose. If they say a number that is way off, I just respectfully say we are too far apart on that and wish them well.

I've actually never paid more than 250. And that was to bombshell college girl. Usually its much less. The girl I'm seeing now doesn't even want money.

So basically, you get a better deal if you treat them like a human. But there is always another girl out there so if the price isn't what you are looking for, just move on and don't be afraid about if you "played it right".

[RalphReilly]

Were you seeing her?? And if so were you covered? There is no way I would not be covered with any girl except for oral. The Herpies comment was totally lame.

1 ppm when she was much less expensive. Still not worth it.

Covered (always for me) but I think she was more referring to the hypothetical skanks I'd be replacing her with.

[PoolPlayInTool]

Let's see you see a sugar baby and decide that the most you would spend on her is $400 for PPM.

Do you:

A) Say you're interested in PPM, and offer $400 or less? If less, how much less?

B) Say you're interested in PPM, then let them make the first move on $, countering with $400 or less (and again, if less, how much less)?

At the risk of being a "market maker" and not wanting to make the first move, I've been hesitant to throw out the first number. 9 times out of 10, the ask from the SB is high of my threshold, and I have to back them down (to their disappointment). I'm debating leading with an offer (either at or below my threshold) that may be higher than their "lowest" PPM. Wanted to see if folks had a preferred method to get to an agreed price with the least amount of disappointment.

I always ask them to name their price and then negotiate if needed.

[PoolPlayInTool]

She also doesn't take well to rejection. She told me to "enjoy getting herpies" when I mentioned I'd be going in a different direction at a lower price point. What a mess.

Were you seeing her?? And if so were you covered? There is no way I would not be covered with any girl except for oral. The Herpies comment was totally lame.