AMP Tips and Guidelines

[Dockers55]

This is my strategy for seeing someone for the first time, this is more for indies, but can apply for an AMP as well.

When I see a massage lady for the first time, I have a few things I do to determine if there is any fun to be had past a legit massage. I always ask when making an appointment about her draping policy. If she requires it, I usually pass. If it's not required, that's a good first step.

Secondly, if she asks me if there are any areas I want to have worked on, I tell her, the glutes and hamstrings. When she massages there, it depends on how aggressive she is in massaging that area. If she goes all the way up the legs, a good sign that there will be some happiness. If she doesn't do that and avoids the area, likely all you'll get is a massage.

When lying face down, I dangle my arms over the side of the table. After about 5-10 minutes into the massage, if she is standing next to me, I'll reach over and my hand will touch her calf. If there is no response, I'll gradually move up the leg, and eventually to her butt. If she doesn't object, that's another good sign something may happen.

This usually works for me. But as always, YMMV.

[USTraveller]

My regular does a tease that has me arch my back and eventually I'm on my hands and knees. She starts an HJ but I get to the edge and she has me flip over. I'm assuming she wants me to finish per usual for easier clean up for her. If I release on all fours it could get messy.

Any suggestions on asking to finish on all fours? Should I place the towel under me up front and say something when I'm close to finishing?

Should I say something right up front (if so what since I don't speak Asian)?

I just think releasing while up on my hands and knees while she's teasing my ass, taint and stroking me would be incredible! Kind of like milking actually, which I haven't experienced. Thoughts from the group?

I've had this happen during the COVID Years and may have been an adjustment so you weren't exhaling in her face (even with masks on, which I'm glad that stopped). Basically started with a lot of teasing, then some prostate play then just very skilled work. She had some Kleenex and used that to catch everything that came out of me. It was pretty great but my arms and legs got wobbly like a newborn giraffe. It was planned on her part.

For you, maybe just say "keep going" or something like that. Maybe some of the ladies don't even think of finishing you off that way. Just a thought. YMMV and welcome to the forum.

-USTraveller.

[New Adventures]

My regular does a tease that has me arch my back and eventually I'm on my hands and knees. She starts an HJ but I get to the edge and she has me flip over. I'm assuming she wants me to finish per usual for easier clean up for her. If I release on all fours it could get messy.

Any suggestions on asking to finish on all fours? Should I place the towel under me up front and say something when I'm close to finishing?

Should I say something right up front (if so what since I don't speak Asian)?

I just think releasing while up on my hands and knees while she's teasing my ass, taint and stroking me would be incredible! Kind of like milking actually, which I haven't experienced. Thoughts from the group?

[Shogun Hua]

I've been to AMPs off and on for about 30 years now. Some awesome experiences and some just ok ones. I've always paid the house up front and then tipped the girl when the time came.

However, I want a girl that will play around with my sensitive areas throughout the experience and not just before the flip to get me worked up for the tip.

I have read to maybe lay the tip on the table in the room so she can see it when she leaves the room while you undress. I have read to hand it to her before you begin. Have you guys had any luck with these or are there other methods?

I understand that it is best to visit the same place over and over and maybe even better if you can see the same girl several times. I have experienced this and know that is a great way to. I saw one at some point that we just both got naked and would play for the allotted time I had paid for. I've had them pop me multiple times during a visit. I've had one make me pop and then her get another girl and both of them just play with me together until I popped a second time. Most of these were years ago when I was younger and had the time and money to build that relationship at that establishment. Even had one that would see me early in the day and I would be a paying customer. She would then tell me to come back later that evening before they closed and we would just play around until we were both satisfied.

All of those ways work. If you know the place, I usually just say 1 hour and pay the full amount for a seamless experience. If you pay half way, they usually leave to get ready and put stuff away. New places, I tend to wait to tip.

[IWearSandals]

I've been to AMPs off and on for about 30 years now. Some awesome experiences and some just ok ones. I've always paid the house up front and then tipped the girl when the time came.

However, I want a girl that will play around with my sensitive areas throughout the experience and not just before the flip to get me worked up for the tip.

I have read to maybe lay the tip on the table in the room so she can see it when she leaves the room while you undress. I have read to hand it to her before you begin. Have you guys had any luck with these or are there other methods?

I understand that it is best to visit the same place over and over and maybe even better if you can see the same girl several times. I have experienced this and know that is a great way to. I saw one at some point that we just both got naked and would play for the allotted time I had paid for. I've had them pop me multiple times during a visit. I've had one make me pop and then her get another girl and both of them just play with me together until I popped a second time. Most of these were years ago when I was younger and had the time and money to build that relationship at that establishment. Even had one that would see me early in the day and I would be a paying customer. She would then tell me to come back later that evening before they closed and we would just play around until we were both satisfied.

[RyanE36]

Probably nothing. If I am getting a real massage because of aches and pains I am doing it through my insurance and that paper trail is not one I am going to risk.

And, for what it is worth, I dated a legit masseuse in my early 20's and have gotten a decent number of real massages over the years from guys and gals. People get hard and a lot of the "she is totally saying she wants to fuck me" is just part of the massage. You have muscles in your ass and a real massage is going to get close to the fun bits (even if it is just moving the sheet). That is WHY the naughty massage LEO dance is like that. And plenty of legit lower tier masseuses (the ones who work out of shopping malls and don't take insurance) will definitely lead people along.

That said: I have been to a few of the neon sign naughty parlors that do the "Not on the first visit" thing. That is almost always either a newbie who doesn't really want to do anything (and you should respect that) or a policy of the parlor and a way to lead people along. Handie on the second, blowie on the third, and then you have a new provider and are back to just getting a handjob but if you come back often enough we'll totally remember your face and give you what you want. Or they'll let you know that you can pay for them to go topless and you to masturbate.

If spreading my legs when she is working my ass, gently stroking her leg (if she puts it near enough my hand), and giving a dick flex and some eye movements on the flip aren't enough? Then I am not getting a happy ending and will look for a different place next time. Because if a provider is willing to get you off, they will. A handjob is just as illegal as full service by the time the cop finishes writing their story. All that multi-visit testing is just a way to milk people for more money. Rather than the other kind of milking.

Yeah, fair points. Though those fingers sliding in my crack were definitely a tease, nothing therapeutic. But yeah, I guess not worth risking it.

[JimmyReagan73]

What would you have done.

Probably nothing. If I am getting a real massage because of aches and pains I am doing it through my insurance and that paper trail is not one I am going to risk.

And, for what it is worth, I dated a legit masseuse in my early 20's and have gotten a decent number of real massages over the years from guys and gals. People get hard and a lot of the "she is totally saying she wants to fuck me" is just part of the massage. You have muscles in your ass and a real massage is going to get close to the fun bits (even if it is just moving the sheet). That is WHY the naughty massage LEO dance is like that. And plenty of legit lower tier masseuses (the ones who work out of shopping malls and don't take insurance) will definitely lead people along.

That said: I have been to a few of the neon sign naughty parlors that do the "Not on the first visit" thing. That is almost always either a newbie who doesn't really want to do anything (and you should respect that) or a policy of the parlor and a way to lead people along. Handie on the second, blowie on the third, and then you have a new provider and are back to just getting a handjob but if you come back often enough we'll totally remember your face and give you what you want. Or they'll let you know that you can pay for them to go topless and you to masturbate.

If spreading my legs when she is working my ass, gently stroking her leg (if she puts it near enough my hand), and giving a dick flex and some eye movements on the flip aren't enough? Then I am not getting a happy ending and will look for a different place next time. Because if a provider is willing to get you off, they will. A handjob is just as illegal as full service by the time the cop finishes writing their story. All that multi-visit testing is just a way to milk people for more money. Rather than the other kind of milking.

[Ray Alan]

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What would you have done.

I would have taken her hand, squeezed it gently and whispered back, "I'm from out of town, there won't be a next time. I will take care of you if you take care of me sweet heart".

[RyanE36]

I haven't been partaking much over the past couple years. Getting old, getting expensive. Some thing.

Anyways, had really bad back pain after a work trip and searched for anything that seemed legit. Found a place nearby that had over 100 reviews, from many women, all positive. Searched on all the websites for it, and all seemed to indicate they were legit and no funny business, just good massage. So I decided to go.

Table had a sheet on it you're supposed to get under and everything. I was very well covered. Massage was good. Then about halfway through she started the legs and glutes. Her finders were running deep into my crack. No way it wasn't intentional, a long with some grazing of the boys. I opened up, and her fingers and grazing got more. Then she finished my legs, and had me flip. On my back she started a neck massage, then chest, and then belly massage. I got super hard, I'm sure she saw it. Then she massaged the upper thighs, again grazing the boys. I slightly rubbed her leg when she was next to me, and flexed my penis a bit, but nothing happened.

Not sure if she was intentionally teasing, or she was trying to gauge interest. At the end she whispered her name on my ear and said to see her next time. But that's it.

What would you have done.

[Shogun Hua]

Sometimes I'll fins a place that has a phone number and address, but says nothing about walk-ins. I have been to a couple places that do advertise walk-ins welcome, but also provide a phone number. The place nearby, the phones don't even work, so I was wondering is it standard practice to call ahead? Or is it only if they say nothing about walk-ins?

Unless you know the therapist, are a repeat customer and have their personal PH# they might hold your appointment. I find that even if you make an appointment with the Mamasan, they won't hold it. Its typically first come, first serve. Typically I only call ahead to find out who is working. If you have a name of a potential good provider. I ask to see if they are working, hopefully they are. When you are let in, I find out the name of that person. If you don't like them, ask for the one you called about. Good luck!

[AnonymousFlame]

Sometimes I'll fins a place that has a phone number and address, but says nothing about walk-ins. I have been to a couple places that do advertise walk-ins welcome, but also provide a phone number. The place nearby, the phones don't even work, so I was wondering is it standard practice to call ahead? Or is it only if they say nothing about walk-ins?

[Gingimlet2000]

I've read various threads, various versions of asking how to assess risk.

Thought I might offer some wisdom, and 2 stories, after years of mongering:

1. Years ago a bay area joint got pinched, owner had been videotaping sessions for years. Rumors flew big names would be implicated, nothing came of it other than a period of crazy headlines. Only direct experience I'm aware of taping in rooms, but smartphones make anything possible.

On that note I'm seeing more what appear to be actual footage of sessions posted on porn sites. My advice. Don't. Not worth risk to you or the ladies finding out. And if it's posted, they will.

2. I simply walked up early evening to a regular, long standing mid size city place on a main street just shuttered. Cop rolls up, asked what I was doing, demanded my I'd. Simply told him I read it was closed in the papers, wanted to see for myself. After detaining me 15-20 minutes let me go.

The risk is slim, but I always warn to stay away before / during high profile events (national elections, golf tournaments). It's amateur hour and rookies get popped. It's not the 'what. ' It's all about 'when.'

In those slim moments, there are no rules. I've seen and read some crazy stuff happen.

Stay safe. Happy hunting.

[JimmyReagan73]

When do you think is the best time to visit an AMP? When do you think they are the least busiest? I just hate interruptions. Seems all the reviews are when they visit in the afternoon or evening. Wondering about mid mornings.

No idea how the other person turned this into a discussion of how much he loves to raw dog it but.

Obviously not an exhaustive search. But between my experiences and those of a few buddies who also do the AMP thing:

Assuming "normal" 08000-2200 hours, the first hour or two is a mad house of all the people who want to be first because of Reasons. Yes, you are probably going to be swapping trace amounts of spit with other dudes if you are slobbering all over her. But understand that (unless you are going to a place next to a shipping container) these women are human beings and don't like being soaked in cum and spit all day. And just how much sex smells. If these women were really as dirty as people think they are by mid morning: You would smell it. Wipes and showers are very regular. And if you are the kind of person who is obsessed with bareback: soap and water don't clean off aids.

Late 11 to probably 13 are also a mess because it is people looking to have a quickie on their lunch break because they don't realize people can smell the cum and oil on them for the rest of the day.

And then any time after 18 seem to also be a rush as people just grabbed dinner and are looking for some fun before they go home.

Personally? I usually only go to an AMP on my day off. So I shoot for late 10 or 14-15 as that works out well for running errands and then heading home for a quick shower.

That said, when I have been on travel I have had really good luck going between 16 and 18. Ghost town, my pick of providers, and no rush or interruptions. Chatting with a few of the friendlier providers, that seems to be pretty normal. My working theory is that is when everyone is driving around and locals are extra wary of someone recognizing them entering or leaving.

[Member #6770]

When do you think is the best time to visit an AMP? When do you think they are the least busiest? I just hate interruptions. Seems all the reviews are when they visit in the afternoon or evening. Wondering about mid mornings.

I would suggest it depends on what type of level of service you are looking for. I have a local rotation for FS visits, in those cases I either arrive at opening time or within an hour. Why? Because of DATY, I don't want to depend on the woman doing a perfect job cleaning themselves. In the past, I had a few women who offered more than FS, and I would call the day before, and arrive 1 hour before opening. That was so I could shower with the lady (only a few table shower AMPs in my area) and enjoy all the services they offered. BBFS is frequently available, but there are more than a few factors to get you to that point, sometimes its just cash, in NYC / NJ it is available for $50-$100 extra. Sometimes a regular gets extra's like BBFS, although it's rare to get a decent BBBJ in the AMPs, I have gotten good ones, but few are really skilled. None of the ladies have offered Greek, but I have gotten that a few times, because of years of visiting those women.

If you are looking for a straight Happy Ending HJ, well anytime will work, but better not to go if there are more than a few cars in the parking lot, I hate waiting, or having an old MMS type start and then another woman takes over.

If you are looking to establish a friendship type relationship, then see if the woman will trade phone numbers, I get calls regularly from a few AMPs when they are slow and they are looking for clients. Another suggestion for a good visit is to learn a few words, if Chinese Shay-Shay is thanks, Nee How and say the womans name is a great way to start a visit. Same goes for Korean ladies, even a few words gets you noticed, and remembered. Don't be afraid to tell a few things about yourself, career, family, kids, etc. I visited a local AMP and the woman was a return for 10 days to fill in due to medical issues by the MMS, she recognized me, remembered my career and a family fact about Asia. She wasted no time getting down to fun, said she hadn't enjoyed sex in some time, and said, "no condom, don't tell the MMS". Use caution here about reviews that may help them identify you, could find yourself banned (happened to me with one woman, for 2 years, I mentioned she had the longest nipples locally, she took offense) . If you are single, let them know, and don't be afraid to ask if you like a woman if she wants to go out for a meal on their day / part of a day off. I see a Korean woman regularly, she asks questions about my wife almost every visit, she wants to feel like I am not "cheating"? I have mentioned my wife is out of state a few times and the AMP K woman has gone way beyond her HJ only spa. She doesn't provide FS or BJs so, no condoms, so, I was thrilled when she uses her mouth and "worship" might be applicable to her services. She allowed me to do DATY once, but then disclosed she doesn't enjoy sex. Her partner follows the HJ rules, but recently allowed pants off and FIV and said she had an orgasm. Other questions, let me know, sorry for the diatribe.

[Perving]

When do you think is the best time to visit an AMP? When do you think they are the least busiest? I just hate interruptions. Seems all the reviews are when they visit in the afternoon or evening. Wondering about mid mornings.