Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**GlenBenton** · 07-30-25 16:48

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-4c77f04398ed

I messaged her 6 months ago, never met up because at the time her age range maxed at 59.

Upon a deep photo search it led me to her LinkedIn page where she is a Doctor but does not live in West Hartford.

Then there was another link to a Tutor page with her photo.

I am pretty sure its a fake profile.

She's legit.

You think GB would let a new one slide through? Nope. Was already there!

First name starts with "are".

**GlenBenton** · 07-30-25 16:44

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

Yes, that explains it. Seems like we're looking for very different things. My dates are typically multi-hour events, often including a nice relaxed meal afterwards. For me, it's closer to a regular date. That's how I like it, when I have the time. And if I don't have the time, then I don't bother. I've lot interest in the STG-type quickie sessions I used to do before I discovered SA and the UTR world.

1. You feed these chicks? That's ridiculous.

2. Calling it a Date is cringe-worthy.

3. I agree on the multi hour piece. But only for a select few.

In the words of Snoop Dogg:

Niggas be brown-nosing these hoes and shit. Takin' bitches out to eat, and spendin' money on these hoes.

I treat a ***** like 7-Up, I never have, I never will.

I tell a ***** like this.

"*****, you without me is like Harold Melvin without the Bluenotes; You'll never go platinum".

**PoolPlayInTool** · 07-30-25 10:07

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

I have been talking to her, she has poor communication, she told me that she is a Doctor, has FL area code number so I am also thinking its a fake profile.

Based on what I saw from the photo search and then knowing her real name I saw Florida, New Jersey, and Mass.

Back when her profile first showed up a reverse photo search on one of her photos brought me to a women's hair site because the photo was an exact match.

The same photos she is using now did not show up in search back then 6 months ago.

She said she loves cars, well I have one that everyone loves and offered to take her for a ride once the weather got warm. I deactivate my profile after that mess with that nut case who knifed my car seats and I never had further conversation with her on seeking.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 07-30-25 09:55

Originally Posted by Sutigel2 [View Original Post]

I agree: fake profile. But it isn't the area code that makes me feel that way, it's the extremely "extra" ai profile. No human writes like that, and if they do, they have issues.

Again: the area code isn't the biggest red flag to me. I have had regulars from SA with Texas, Hawaii, and RI area codes. I, myself, have an out of state area code. Find a girl that attends school in the area and they likely kept their old phone number.

I've never encountered an MD on the site, and that seems a bit odd, but I have encountered some girls with advanced degrees. I do have an out of state SA girl whom I see when I travel. She claimed she is an RN. It wasn't that easy to find other info on her, but when I did, I discovered she's actually a PA-C in an emergency room setting. Some of the best oral I've ever had. Still no MDs, though.

Seems like a lot of women are using Chat Gpt, I agree most of them are the fake profiles. Seems unlikely that a working MD would have a profile on one of these sites. Especially when the photos can be reverse searched.

**Sutigel2** · 07-30-25 09:10

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

I have been talking to her, she has poor communication, she told me that she is a Doctor, has FL area code number so I am also thinking its a fake profile.

I agree: fake profile. But it isn't the area code that makes me feel that way, it's the extremely "extra" ai profile. No human writes like that, and if they do, they have issues.

Again: the area code isn't the biggest red flag to me. I have had regulars from SA with Texas, Hawaii, and RI area codes. I, myself, have an out of state area code. Find a girl that attends school in the area and they likely kept their old phone number.

I've never encountered an MD on the site, and that seems a bit odd, but I have encountered some girls with advanced degrees. I do have an out of state SA girl whom I see when I travel. She claimed she is an RN. It wasn't that easy to find other info on her, but when I did, I discovered she's actually a PA-C in an emergency room setting. Some of the best oral I've ever had. Still no MDs, though.

**Tommy13** · 07-29-25 22:05

Anyone ever meet her? Says she had an SD before. Seems legit and DTF.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=73296571

**Chudakkad** · 07-29-25 20:33

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-4c77f04398ed

I messaged her 6 months ago, never met up because at the time her age range maxed at 59.

Upon a deep photo search it led me to her LinkedIn page where she is a Doctor but does not live in West Hartford.

Then there was another link to a Tutor page with her photo.

I am pretty sure its a fake profile.

I have been talking to her, she has poor communication, she told me that she is a Doctor, has FL area code number so I am also thinking its a fake profile.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 07-29-25 12:23

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-4c77f04398ed

I messaged her 6 months ago, never met up because at the time her age range maxed at 59.

Upon a deep photo search it led me to her LinkedIn page where she is a Doctor but does not live in West Hartford.

Then there was another link to a Tutor page with her photo.

I am pretty sure its a fake profile.

**Chudakkad** · 07-29-25 10:16

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

It's a numbers game. I use every signal available to me to eliminate likely headaches and then move forward from there. It's all about improving your ROI.

I concur, once a SB backed out at the last moment saying that she has never done this before and this whole idea makes her cringe and I responded in a very classy manner that I respect her decision etc etc and a week later I messaged her expecting no response to my surprise and she was on, had a great time with her, so I agree its a numbers game.

**DarkClouds** · 07-28-25 21:28

The UTR effort is somewhere between pro and civilian. Agreed.

Originally Posted by CtSpoilGuy [View Original Post]

Oh mine are as well. We generally hang out at my place for awhile. Sometimes after dinner or a drink somewhere. Sometimes without doing that. But my point is I already know how the night is going to end and what is expected of me. I suppose it's not as low effort as a pro but it's generally much lower effort than dating. Otherwise why not just do that?

**CtSpoilGuy** · 07-28-25 19:47

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

Yes, that explains it. Seems like we're looking for very different things. My dates are typically multi-hour events, often including a nice relaxed meal afterwards. For me, it's closer to a regular date. That's how I like it, when I have the time. And if I don't have the time, then I don't bother. I've lot interest in the STG-type quickie sessions I used to do before I discovered SA and the UTR world.

Oh mine are as well. We generally hang out at my place for awhile. Sometimes after dinner or a drink somewhere. Sometimes without doing that. But my point is I already know how the night is going to end and what is expected of me. I suppose it's not as low effort as a pro but it's generally much lower effort than dating. Otherwise why not just do that?

**DarkClouds** · 07-28-25 16:15

Yes, that explains it. Seems like we're looking for very different things. My dates are typically multi-hour events, often including a nice relaxed meal afterwards. For me, it's closer to a regular date. That's how I like it, when I have the time. And if I don't have the time, then I don't bother. I've lot interest in the STG-type quickie sessions I used to do before I discovered SA and the UTR world.

Originally Posted by CtSpoilGuy [View Original Post]

I guess it depends on what you consider to be high effort then. For many of these women it's a few texts and meeting up for fun pretty quickly. Compare that to meeting someone on tinder and going on dates and potentially taking a bunch of time before things happen. Seems pretty low effort to me in comparison and it's not like I haven't had a ton of success on here or anything.

And yes I always wrap it up for anything. Not rolling the dice on that considering how many women it is and how many other guys I'm sure they are doing the same things with.

**CtSpoilGuy** · 07-28-25 15:46

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

You have to be joking. If you're doing it right, SA is extremely high effort. But worth it if you can spare the time. But you still want to direct that effort at the most promising prospects, not just spray and pray.

I guess it depends on what you consider to be high effort then. For many of these women it's a few texts and meeting up for fun pretty quickly. Compare that to meeting someone on tinder and going on dates and potentially taking a bunch of time before things happen. Seems pretty low effort to me in comparison and it's not like I haven't had a ton of success on here or anything.

And yes I always wrap it up for anything. Not rolling the dice on that considering how many women it is and how many other guys I'm sure they are doing the same things with.

**DarkClouds** · 07-28-25 15:05

Haha. I always wear a raincoat. I find it more enjoyable when I'm not stressing about the consequences.

Originally Posted by ManLovesLadies [View Original Post]

If you are successful and score, going in bare, you do spray and pray.

**ManLovesLadies** · 07-28-25 14:59

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

You have to be joking. If you're doing it right, SA is extremely high effort. But worth it if you can spare the time. But you still want to direct that effort at the most promising prospects, not just spray and pray.

If you are successful and score, going in bare, you do spray and pray.