Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[DarkClouds]

The UTR effort is somewhere between pro and civilian. Agreed.

Oh mine are as well. We generally hang out at my place for awhile. Sometimes after dinner or a drink somewhere. Sometimes without doing that. But my point is I already know how the night is going to end and what is expected of me. I suppose it's not as low effort as a pro but it's generally much lower effort than dating. Otherwise why not just do that?

[CtSpoilGuy]

Yes, that explains it. Seems like we're looking for very different things. My dates are typically multi-hour events, often including a nice relaxed meal afterwards. For me, it's closer to a regular date. That's how I like it, when I have the time. And if I don't have the time, then I don't bother. I've lot interest in the STG-type quickie sessions I used to do before I discovered SA and the UTR world.

Oh mine are as well. We generally hang out at my place for awhile. Sometimes after dinner or a drink somewhere. Sometimes without doing that. But my point is I already know how the night is going to end and what is expected of me. I suppose it's not as low effort as a pro but it's generally much lower effort than dating. Otherwise why not just do that?

[DarkClouds]

Yes, that explains it. Seems like we're looking for very different things. My dates are typically multi-hour events, often including a nice relaxed meal afterwards. For me, it's closer to a regular date. That's how I like it, when I have the time. And if I don't have the time, then I don't bother. I've lot interest in the STG-type quickie sessions I used to do before I discovered SA and the UTR world.

I guess it depends on what you consider to be high effort then. For many of these women it's a few texts and meeting up for fun pretty quickly. Compare that to meeting someone on tinder and going on dates and potentially taking a bunch of time before things happen. Seems pretty low effort to me in comparison and it's not like I haven't had a ton of success on here or anything.

And yes I always wrap it up for anything. Not rolling the dice on that considering how many women it is and how many other guys I'm sure they are doing the same things with.

[CtSpoilGuy]

You have to be joking. If you're doing it right, SA is extremely high effort. But worth it if you can spare the time. But you still want to direct that effort at the most promising prospects, not just spray and pray.

I guess it depends on what you consider to be high effort then. For many of these women it's a few texts and meeting up for fun pretty quickly. Compare that to meeting someone on tinder and going on dates and potentially taking a bunch of time before things happen. Seems pretty low effort to me in comparison and it's not like I haven't had a ton of success on here or anything.

And yes I always wrap it up for anything. Not rolling the dice on that considering how many women it is and how many other guys I'm sure they are doing the same things with.

[DarkClouds]

Haha. I always wear a raincoat. I find it more enjoyable when I'm not stressing about the consequences.

If you are successful and score, going in bare, you do spray and pray.

[ManLovesLadies]

You have to be joking. If you're doing it right, SA is extremely high effort. But worth it if you can spare the time. But you still want to direct that effort at the most promising prospects, not just spray and pray.

If you are successful and score, going in bare, you do spray and pray.

[DarkClouds]

You have to be joking. If you're doing it right, SA is extremely high effort. But worth it if you can spare the time. But you still want to direct that effort at the most promising prospects, not just spray and pray.

I mean it's already pretty low effort in my opinion so sending a couple of messages doesn't take any real time and I've definitely hooked up with ones that have platonic in their profile anyway.

In this case it looks like she ended up blocking me anyway so I guess we will never know LOL.

[CtSpoilGuy]

It's a numbers game. I use every signal available to me to eliminate likely headaches and then move forward from there. It's all about improving your ROI.

I mean it's already pretty low effort in my opinion so sending a couple of messages doesn't take any real time and I've definitely hooked up with ones that have platonic in their profile anyway.

In this case it looks like she ended up blocking me anyway so I guess we will never know LOL.

[DarkClouds]

It's a numbers game. I use every signal available to me to eliminate likely headaches and then move forward from there. It's all about improving your ROI.

While I understand how having "platonic" in their profile would be a reason for concern, I still talk to them. Far more are willing to fuck than you might think.

[Tnahound]

If a girl marks platonic, I move on, unless her profile indicates that she might be too stupid to know what the word means.

While I understand how having "platonic" in their profile would be a reason for concern, I still talk to them. Far more are willing to fuck than you might think.

[JonMels]

Yeah I saw her a bunch back in the day but she is hard to actually get to meet up nowadays. Not sure the juice is worth the squeeze anymore on that one and I think she has gotten a little bigger recently too.

On a side note anyone have info on this one? Says she has been a member since 2023 but she has a platonic tag and she told me she has never met anyone. Which I assume is BS but curious if it's worth my time: https://members.seeking.com/member/b...e-1c1468705198.

If a girl marks platonic, I move on, unless her profile indicates that she might be too stupid to know what the word means.

[Chudakkad]

Ah, I remember her now. You're spot on. Plays games. Wants to go shopping and tries to get you to spend money but won't likely end up doing anything beyond that. Used to go by Rose. I know her real name. She was on STG for a brief period, still constantly playing games.

She told me that she now works at the casino.

[DarkClouds]

Ah, I remember her now. You're spot on. Plays games. Wants to go shopping and tries to get you to spend money but won't likely end up doing anything beyond that. Used to go by Rose. I know her real name. She was on STG for a brief period, still constantly playing games.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-1b9f8e8b3649

Like this exotic beauty but she said that I am not her type physically.


https://members.seeking.com/member/8...1-ea6699168584

Met her, not a good experience, looks way better in person but plays mind games and drinks a lot, had to say goobye to her after first meetup

[Berol Loz]

Plus 1. Us 150-300 guys are just getting priced out. Guess there are just enough dumb ass tech, wall street, etc. Bros out there snapping up anything above an 8. But these girls don't get 500 consistently and are back on SA and then they drop out. The quality is weak also lately on SA. I just will not go over 3 out of principle. Very few are worth more than 200. LOL. I have had a regular for 3 raw. But she hunts around on SA. They all have rosters like us.

I am trying SDM. That is a rough bunch LOL. Girl with real nice tits in Stamford said she had coffee and guy gave her 300. WTF. She could be lying. You just have to keep hunting.

Her: https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=73939902.

She doesn't drive and Stamford. Which is too far for me. But nice rack. Haha.

I've had tremendous success on seeking and I've only surpassed 500 twice (maybe 3 x.).

The girls I see are all bangers too.

Most ask for crazy amounts. I say no. Send them a picture and work my magic and everyone of them acquiesce to my counter offer.

That said. I ask again "maybe it's you".

Yes, not criticising Steve, but that's the thing I find when I get guys new to sugaring asking about girls, you can't underestimate looks and game, I've had a guy tell me about a girl he found on one of the sites and she's doing him for 200, I message her a normal "Hi how are you" message and crickets. Now, this guy is a fit guy in his early 30's (and I'm not that), so of course, he's going to get access to ladies I just won't without throwing money I don't want to spend. Am I mad?, No, jealous-yeah, a bit LOL That's life.

The picture idea is good, but I think I need to work on my photos.

[CtSpoilGuy]

Has anyone seen Sweetkitten98 in New Haven? Also known as Emily? I've been trying to get in touch with her via seeking but no luck. There's sporadic reports of her not being the best with following through back in 2020, but I'm trying to see if things have changed. Reports have also said she's an incredibly low ppm with a wide open menu if you're lucky enough to see her. Anyone have her number or socials info?

Sweetkitten98, Sweet Kitten, Emily, Sweet Kitten 98.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-ec9c1e97ff6c

Yeah I saw her a bunch back in the day but she is hard to actually get to meet up nowadays. Not sure the juice is worth the squeeze anymore on that one and I think she has gotten a little bigger recently too.

On a side note anyone have info on this one? Says she has been a member since 2023 but she has a platonic tag and she told me she has never met anyone. Which I assume is BS but curious if it's worth my time: https://members.seeking.com/member/b...e-1c1468705198.