Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**ManLovesLadies** · 07-28-25 14:59

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

You have to be joking. If you're doing it right, SA is extremely high effort. But worth it if you can spare the time. But you still want to direct that effort at the most promising prospects, not just spray and pray.

If you are successful and score, going in bare, you do spray and pray.

**DarkClouds** · 07-28-25 13:52

You have to be joking. If you're doing it right, SA is extremely high effort. But worth it if you can spare the time. But you still want to direct that effort at the most promising prospects, not just spray and pray.

Originally Posted by CtSpoilGuy [View Original Post]

I mean it's already pretty low effort in my opinion so sending a couple of messages doesn't take any real time and I've definitely hooked up with ones that have platonic in their profile anyway.

In this case it looks like she ended up blocking me anyway so I guess we will never know LOL.

**CtSpoilGuy** · 07-28-25 13:49

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

It's a numbers game. I use every signal available to me to eliminate likely headaches and then move forward from there. It's all about improving your ROI.

I mean it's already pretty low effort in my opinion so sending a couple of messages doesn't take any real time and I've definitely hooked up with ones that have platonic in their profile anyway.

In this case it looks like she ended up blocking me anyway so I guess we will never know LOL.

**DarkClouds** · 07-28-25 13:11

It's a numbers game. I use every signal available to me to eliminate likely headaches and then move forward from there. It's all about improving your ROI.

Originally Posted by Tnahound [View Original Post]

While I understand how having "platonic" in their profile would be a reason for concern, I still talk to them. Far more are willing to fuck than you might think.

**Tnahound** · 07-28-25 12:41

Originally Posted by JonMels [View Original Post]

If a girl marks platonic, I move on, unless her profile indicates that she might be too stupid to know what the word means.

While I understand how having "platonic" in their profile would be a reason for concern, I still talk to them. Far more are willing to fuck than you might think.

**JonMels** · 07-28-25 00:11

Originally Posted by CtSpoilGuy [View Original Post]

Yeah I saw her a bunch back in the day but she is hard to actually get to meet up nowadays. Not sure the juice is worth the squeeze anymore on that one and I think she has gotten a little bigger recently too.

On a side note anyone have info on this one? Says she has been a member since 2023 but she has a platonic tag and she told me she has never met anyone. Which I assume is BS but curious if it's worth my time: https://members.seeking.com/member/b...e-1c1468705198.

If a girl marks platonic, I move on, unless her profile indicates that she might be too stupid to know what the word means.

**Chudakkad** · 07-27-25 16:42

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

Ah, I remember her now. You're spot on. Plays games. Wants to go shopping and tries to get you to spend money but won't likely end up doing anything beyond that. Used to go by Rose. I know her real name. She was on STG for a brief period, still constantly playing games.

She told me that she now works at the casino.

**DarkClouds** · 07-27-25 13:55

Ah, I remember her now. You're spot on. Plays games. Wants to go shopping and tries to get you to spend money but won't likely end up doing anything beyond that. Used to go by Rose. I know her real name. She was on STG for a brief period, still constantly playing games.

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-1b9f8e8b3649

Like this exotic beauty but she said that I am not her type physically.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...1-ea6699168584

Met her, not a good experience, looks way better in person but plays mind games and drinks a lot, had to say goobye to her after first meetup

**Berol Loz** · 07-26-25 17:41

Originally Posted by Steve99 [View Original Post]

Plus 1. Us 150-300 guys are just getting priced out. Guess there are just enough dumb ass tech, wall street, etc. Bros out there snapping up anything above an 8. But these girls don't get 500 consistently and are back on SA and then they drop out. The quality is weak also lately on SA. I just will not go over 3 out of principle. Very few are worth more than 200. LOL. I have had a regular for 3 raw. But she hunts around on SA. They all have rosters like us.

I am trying SDM. That is a rough bunch LOL. Girl with real nice tits in Stamford said she had coffee and guy gave her 300. WTF. She could be lying. You just have to keep hunting.

Her: https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=73939902.

She doesn't drive and Stamford. Which is too far for me. But nice rack. Haha.

Originally Posted by GlenBenton [View Original Post]

I've had tremendous success on seeking and I've only surpassed 500 twice (maybe 3 x.).

The girls I see are all bangers too.

Most ask for crazy amounts. I say no. Send them a picture and work my magic and everyone of them acquiesce to my counter offer.

That said. I ask again "maybe it's you".

Yes, not criticising Steve, but that's the thing I find when I get guys new to sugaring asking about girls, you can't underestimate looks and game, I've had a guy tell me about a girl he found on one of the sites and she's doing him for 200, I message her a normal "Hi how are you" message and crickets. Now, this guy is a fit guy in his early 30's (and I'm not that), so of course, he's going to get access to ladies I just won't without throwing money I don't want to spend. Am I mad?, No, jealous-yeah, a bit LOL That's life.

The picture idea is good, but I think I need to work on my photos.

**CtSpoilGuy** · 07-26-25 17:02

Originally Posted by Hawg219 [View Original Post]

Has anyone seen Sweetkitten98 in New Haven? Also known as Emily? I've been trying to get in touch with her via seeking but no luck. There's sporadic reports of her not being the best with following through back in 2020, but I'm trying to see if things have changed. Reports have also said she's an incredibly low ppm with a wide open menu if you're lucky enough to see her. Anyone have her number or socials info?

Sweetkitten98, Sweet Kitten, Emily, Sweet Kitten 98.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-ec9c1e97ff6c

Yeah I saw her a bunch back in the day but she is hard to actually get to meet up nowadays. Not sure the juice is worth the squeeze anymore on that one and I think she has gotten a little bigger recently too.

On a side note anyone have info on this one? Says she has been a member since 2023 but she has a platonic tag and she told me she has never met anyone. Which I assume is BS but curious if it's worth my time: https://members.seeking.com/member/b...e-1c1468705198.

**Tnahound** · 07-26-25 13:45

Originally Posted by Hawg219 [View Original Post]

Has anyone seen Sweetkitten98 in New Haven? Also known as Emily? I've been trying to get in touch with her via seeking but no luck. There's sporadic reports of her not being the best with following through back in 2020, but I'm trying to see if things have changed. Reports have also said she's an incredibly low ppm with a wide open menu if you're lucky enough to see her. Anyone have her number or socials info?

Sweetkitten98, Sweet Kitten, Emily, Sweet Kitten 98.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-ec9c1e97ff6c

I saw her a couple of years ago about three or four times. As TG9 said, she's been on SA for a long time. She was fun and had very few restrictions. Thanks for reminding me about her. I might just have to hit her up again.

**TopGun9** · 07-26-25 13:02

Originally Posted by Hawg219 [View Original Post]

Has anyone seen Sweetkitten98 in New Haven? Also known as Emily? I've been trying to get in touch with her via seeking but no luck. There's sporadic reports of her not being the best with following through back in 2020, but I'm trying to see if things have changed. Reports have also said she's an incredibly low ppm with a wide open menu if you're lucky enough to see her. Anyone have her number or socials info?

Sweetkitten98, Sweet Kitten, Emily, Sweet Kitten 98.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-ec9c1e97ff6c

She's been on SA forever!!

I probably reached out to her once or twice in the past but never heard back from her.

**Hawg219** · 07-26-25 09:27

Has anyone seen Sweetkitten98 in New Haven? Also known as Emily? I've been trying to get in touch with her via seeking but no luck. There's sporadic reports of her not being the best with following through back in 2020, but I'm trying to see if things have changed. Reports have also said she's an incredibly low ppm with a wide open menu if you're lucky enough to see her. Anyone have her number or socials info?

Sweetkitten98, Sweet Kitten, Emily, Sweet Kitten 98.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-ec9c1e97ff6c

**ClassicForNow** · 07-25-25 13:12

Originally Posted by Jonma [View Original Post]

She's fun and can squirt but I agree pics are flattering and it was a one and done for me. She asks for too much.

Cn you provide Pics? I'm sure we can identify.

**Jonma** · 07-25-25 11:02

Originally Posted by CtSpoilGuy [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...0-507453deb985

Anyone seen her before? I've seen her on the site a bit but just started talking to her.

Going to set up a date soon but curious how she is and what's her usual ask if anyone has info.

She's fun and can squirt but I agree pics are flattering and it was a one and done for me. She asks for too much.