Sugarbabies and Arrangements

**TheEndlessEdge** · 05-21-25 09:40

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-9520be45e2e0 - Very strange situation with her. Wants to meet up but seems like her life is a wreck. Asked me to send her money for cigarettes, baby diapers, etc. Not sure if she's legit, but YMMV. I've seen her on the site before, and from talking to her, I get the sense that she's legit, but there are some weird things about her situation.

**Berol Loz** · 05-18-25 14:27

Originally Posted by Kabbakabba [View Original Post]

A SA date in Toledo, made plans for me to come see her.

After texting back and forth, we made plans.

I drove 150 minutes all the way to Toledo.

Everything was going fine, texts.

As soon as I entered Toledo, Crickets, she went poof!

I kept texting, asked for update, no response back.

50 minutes pass by!

I was wondering what to do? I drove around the town.

I texted, no response.

And suddenly, I get a text saying, "Sorry my phone died, you can go back to your own town".

And then, I tell her, I drove just to see her trying to persuade her.

"She says, weirdo and ghosts me".

-- What would you guys do?

Like BumLick1 said, there's not much you can do, but you did report her here like you did, so people can avoid this time-waster.

Unfortunately, some of these people (because, for all we know, it's a guy in his parents' basement) may get off on the idea that some random guy wasting time to see them.

**SR7D1** · 05-18-25 12:58

Originally Posted by TheEndlessEdge [View Original Post]

Lizzybeth - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-2702baa70e00 - She's been around for awhile and is legit. Hops back on the site on and off under different accounts. Cool person. Some pics are older and some might be new. BBBJ, DATY, CFS, CIM.

Megan - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...5-b16008af7aec - Good time whenever she's in town. She's usually in Columbus and Cleveland for work. Just got to catch her whenever she's free. BBBJ, DATY, CFS, CIM.

Toni - https://members.seeking.com/member/a...4-dc7a9594da38 - Seemed interested and no response after a few initial messages.

Gabby - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...0-eafddcce677e - Interested, but we're trying to get our schedules aligned. Cool person so far.

Shann - https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-5ba458e0cc8e - She's interested but seems like she's going through something right now. Working on a meet later this week.

Raven - https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-59d4d432a3c8 - Planning on getting together with her this week. Good response so far..

Megan and Raven are really cute. I am pretty sure I met Yungbaby a while back. Can't remember why I didn't move forward with her? Maybe she was bigger than her pics? Dunno.

**TheEndlessEdge** · 05-18-25 11:32

Lizzybeth - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-2702baa70e00 - She's been around for awhile and is legit. Hops back on the site on and off under different accounts. Cool person. Some pics are older and some might be new. BBBJ, DATY, CFS, CIM.

Megan - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...5-b16008af7aec - Good time whenever she's in town. She's usually in Columbus and Cleveland for work. Just got to catch her whenever she's free. BBBJ, DATY, CFS, CIM.

Toni - https://members.seeking.com/member/a...4-dc7a9594da38 - Seemed interested and no response after a few initial messages.

Gabby - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...0-eafddcce677e - Interested, but we're trying to get our schedules aligned. Cool person so far.

Shann - https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-5ba458e0cc8e - She's interested but seems like she's going through something right now. Working on a meet later this week.

Raven - https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-59d4d432a3c8 - Planning on getting together with her this week. Good response so far.

Yungbaby - https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-dd149ca7c71a - Seems open to setting something up. In talking stages.

**TheEndlessEdge** · 05-18-25 10:53

Originally Posted by Kabbakabba [View Original Post]

A SA date in Toledo, made plans for me to come see her.

After texting back and forth, we made plans.

I drove 150 minutes all the way to Toledo.

Everything was going fine, texts.

As soon as I entered Toledo, Crickets, she went poof!

I kept texting, asked for update, no response back.

50 minutes pass by!

I was wondering what to do? I drove around the town.

I texted, no response.

And suddenly, I get a text saying, "Sorry my phone died, you can go back to your own town".

And then, I tell her, I drove just to see her trying to persuade her.

"She says, weirdo and ghosts me".

-- What would you guys do?

In scenarios like this, you want to make sure you have at least two or three extra potential meets lined up, so if #1 flakes, you have #2 or #3 ready to go. Flaking is a thing that will happen quite often, especially if you're out and about in another city.

**Berol Loz** · 05-18-25 01:50

Originally Posted by OlderGent52 [View Original Post]

I have just recently gotten a gift card to work. But you will need to verify with selfie. Verification takes 3+6 hrs. The you move seflie to private and delete. Then delete selfie from blog.

Thanks for that, I think knowing you can delete your SDM selfie after it's been verified is going to make a lot of guys happy! LOL.

**BumLick1** · 05-17-25 22:49

Originally Posted by Kabbakabba [View Original Post]

A SA date in Toledo, made plans for me to come see her.

After texting back and forth, we made plans.

I drove 150 minutes all the way to Toledo.

Everything was going fine, texts.

As soon as I entered Toledo, Crickets, she went poof!

I kept texting, asked for update, no response back.

50 minutes pass by!

I was wondering what to do? I drove around the town.

I texted, no response.

And suddenly, I get a text saying, "Sorry my phone died, you can go back to your own town".

And then, I tell her, I drove just to see her trying to persuade her.

"She says, weirdo and ghosts me".

-- What would you guys do?

I'd probably go back to my own town. What's there really left to do?

**Kabbakabba** · 05-17-25 21:47

A SA date in Toledo, made plans for me to come see her.

After texting back and forth, we made plans.

I drove 150 minutes all the way to Toledo.

Everything was going fine, texts.

As soon as I entered Toledo, Crickets, she went poof!

I kept texting, asked for update, no response back.

50 minutes pass by!

I was wondering what to do? I drove around the town.

I texted, no response.

And suddenly, I get a text saying, "Sorry my phone died, you can go back to your own town".

And then, I tell her, I drove just to see her trying to persuade her.

"She says, weirdo and ghosts me".

-- What would you guys do?

**TSmash** · 05-17-25 10:03

Originally Posted by OlderGent52 [View Original Post]

I have just recently gotten a gift card to work. But you will need to verify with selfie. Verification takes 3+6 hrs. The you move seflie to private and delete. Then delete selfie from blog.

Sounds like a no go for that site too. I hate this selfie thing everyone makes you do now. I have no doubt that these websites keep your selfie. It might seem like you're deleting it but I believe they have it stored somewhere. I'm pry just overly cautious.

**OlderGent52** · 05-16-25 20:18

Originally Posted by TSmash [View Original Post]

Does SugarDaddyMeet accept gift card as payment? Rather join SA again but I'm not down with the selfie they make you take now when signing up.

I have just recently gotten a gift card to work. But you will need to verify with selfie. Verification takes 3+6 hrs. The you move seflie to private and delete. Then delete selfie from blog.

**SR7D1** · 05-16-25 15:18

Originally Posted by BearsBuddy [View Original Post]

Correct, but they did add their weight t the profile. It's better because everyone's idea of average is subjective.

It's worse. They can opt out of adding their weight and they always think they weigh less than they do. And I for some reason cannot filter by weight (yes I added my own weight).