Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

**Jay2000** · 04-22-25 16:12

Has anyone had experience this girl?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-7c6f24cebfe8

Quoted me 500+ for meet up. Tried to do a search but the name was too short.

**SeekingDan** · 04-22-25 15:39

Originally Posted by NiceGuysLast66 [View Original Post]

Saw a girl recently, who made a comment about how she's not had much success meeting guys recently, because she had someone give her a bad review / rating.

I didn't ask where, and can't think of a not-too-obvious way to ask her now. She's not mentioned ANYWHERE on here. Anyone have any ideas of where these reviews / ratings might be found?

Are you sure it's not a different profile she used before? Or name or something?

**NiceGuysLast66** · 04-20-25 22:54

Saw a girl recently, who made a comment about how she's not had much success meeting guys recently, because she had someone give her a bad review / rating.

I didn't ask where, and can't think of a not-too-obvious way to ask her now. She's not mentioned ANYWHERE on here. Anyone have any ideas of where these reviews / ratings might be found?

**JohnGuest** · 04-19-25 14:13

Originally Posted by Bob0324 [View Original Post]

Kind of conservative and although I do enjoy making a good girl, be bad, her tits are just too damn big for my liking.

I've had great results with young SB and SA ladies wanting money for school expenses. I'm skeptical of where the funds go, but WTF? I'm almost 70. YOLO!

**Bob0324** · 04-17-25 21:46

Originally Posted by RubGuy80 [View Original Post]

Anyone successfully had a good time with this one? https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...57f4329a548433.

I met her a while back from seeking for a quick meet and greet, but it looks like she isn't on there anymore. Now on SB. She was dressed nice and very cute and a little shy during our meet. Easygoing too. Seems to be wanting to pay off her student loans and has a legit job.

I've been wanting to meet her again for a while but she seems nearly always active on SB and responds very quickly asking to meet up (although not in an aggressive way), so I want to make sure she's not the village bicycle before I proceed again with her 🤣

Feel free to DM me if you've met with her and want to keep it UTR. Thanks

Kind of conservative and although I do enjoy making a good girl, be bad, her tits are just too damn big for my liking.

**RubGuy80** · 04-15-25 11:00

Anyone successfully had a good time with this one? https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...57f4329a548433.

I met her a while back from seeking for a quick meet and greet, but it looks like she isn't on there anymore. Now on SB. She was dressed nice and very cute and a little shy during our meet. Easygoing too. Seems to be wanting to pay off her student loans and has a legit job.

I've been wanting to meet her again for a while but she seems nearly always active on SB and responds very quickly asking to meet up (although not in an aggressive way), so I want to make sure she's not the village bicycle before I proceed again with her 🤣

Feel free to DM me if you've met with her and want to keep it UTR. Thanks

**Member #6987** · 04-03-25 23:14

Originally Posted by Playwithme483 [View Original Post]

Interesting. What was it about the hobby made you feel hollow?

Not really sure what made me feel like that, could be some of those girls grew feeling and that made me feel bad. I felt like I crushed their hopes or sth.

**Playwithme483** · 04-03-25 13:02

Interesting. What was it about the hobby made you feel hollow?

Originally Posted by RedReindeer [View Original Post]

I tried with cash few times, worked few times and did not work most of the times. Cash w a small card w my message in it. Other times, I tried cards / gift cards / notes with some sort of pickup lines / flowers. I feel most of the girls just like to be loved and it depends what love is to them.

I feel like this hobby is not worth for me / not my cup of tea. Just few months feel like drained me / made a hollow in me.

**Member #6987** · 04-03-25 06:57

Originally Posted by Playwithme483 [View Original Post]

You approached them by passing cash with your number attached? Can you tell us more about how you select targets and how you approach?

I tried with cash few times, worked few times and did not work most of the times. Cash w a small card w my message in it. Other times, I tried cards / gift cards / notes with some sort of pickup lines / flowers. I feel most of the girls just like to be loved and it depends what love is to them.

I feel like this hobby is not worth for me / not my cup of tea. Just few months feel like drained me / made a hollow in me.

**Bob0324** · 04-02-25 23:39

Originally Posted by Playwithme483 [View Original Post]

Information straight from the master is always welcome! Do you strike up a conversation with them first? Compliment them or talk about whst they're doing? Or say nothing and pass the note?

I feel like I'd get instantly rejected trying to pass the note. You're definitely more bold than I am. Like I mentioned, I tried something like this a few times and never with favorable results.

The note is always folded inside of $50 bill. I've had very few refused to even take it numerous that I never heard from but I generally don't say anything just handover the cash with the note. Like I said the note has a brief sentence in my phone number. I've never had anybody freak out really. And like I said, it's a numbers game but worth it to me.

**Playwithme483** · 04-02-25 14:26

Information straight from the master is always welcome! Do you strike up a conversation with them first? Compliment them or talk about whst they're doing? Or say nothing and pass the note?

I feel like I'd get instantly rejected trying to pass the note. You're definitely more bold than I am. Like I mentioned, I tried something like this a few times and never with favorable results.

Originally Posted by Bob0324 [View Original Post]

I know you asked red reindeer, but for me any attractive lady that's not with a man is fair game. And I hand them a note with the cash with a small sentence and my number. Same sentence every time works pretty well. I don't want to give out what the sentence says though. I've done this just to people I encounter anywhere. People that are working places I even did this at a drive-through a couple years ago and ended up seeing the girl a couple times but we just didn't click in bed. Yeah, and I find the real young ladies are starved for attention. And I do have some I'm saying I just want to come hang out. You don't have to give me anything and I tell them that ain't happening. That would be weird. They always get something in return keeps boundaries. But on the other hand, I have offered hot young chicks up to $2000 to come make me happy and been turned down. I had one really hot chick at my place and laid $2000 out in front of her and she wouldn't do it.

**Bob0324** · 04-01-25 21:29

Originally Posted by Playwithme483 [View Original Post]

You approached them by passing cash with your number attached? Can you tell us more about how you select targets and how you approach?

I know you asked red reindeer, but for me any attractive lady that's not with a man is fair game. And I hand them a note with the cash with a small sentence and my number. Same sentence every time works pretty well. I don't want to give out what the sentence says though. I've done this just to people I encounter anywhere. People that are working places I even did this at a drive-through a couple years ago and ended up seeing the girl a couple times but we just didn't click in bed. Yeah, and I find the real young ladies are starved for attention. And I do have some I'm saying I just want to come hang out. You don't have to give me anything and I tell them that ain't happening. That would be weird. They always get something in return keeps boundaries. But on the other hand, I have offered hot young chicks up to $2000 to come make me happy and been turned down. I had one really hot chick at my place and laid $2000 out in front of her and she wouldn't do it.

**Playwithme483** · 04-01-25 20:49

You approached them by passing cash with your number attached? Can you tell us more about how you select targets and how you approach?

Originally Posted by RedReindeer [View Original Post]

I'm fairly new, novice, stupid in this game. Followed Bob's tips on few occasions, for the last 45 days had almost 10 girls age ranging between 22-27. Did not really have to spend a lot of mone too. Just usual dinner, some gifts, flowers etc. Feel like I am rushing so pressed the brake. Now of those girls 2 of then call me almost every day, texts after texts, I am scared if they grew feelings or they're really that horny. Can't really say hence getting even more scared and feeling like shouldn't have got into this. Need to clear both the big and small head and cool down a bit. Didn't use any app, found them not the worth. Met them through different school / social events.

**Member #6987** · 04-01-25 18:47

I'm fairly new, novice, stupid in this game. Followed Bob's tips on few occasions, for the last 45 days had almost 10 girls age ranging between 22-27. Did not really have to spend a lot of mone too. Just usual dinner, some gifts, flowers etc. Feel like I am rushing so pressed the brake. Now of those girls 2 of then call me almost every day, texts after texts, I am scared if they grew feelings or they're really that horny. Can't really say hence getting even more scared and feeling like shouldn't have got into this. Need to clear both the big and small head and cool down a bit. Didn't use any app, found them not the worth. Met them through different school / social events.

**Tango411** · 04-01-25 13:44

Originally Posted by Playwithme483 [View Original Post]

I love hearing these stories. You're having a lot more success and getting younger, higher quality girls than most. So you must have developed a skillful approach. I have attempted things like this and gotten no response, or in one case threatening texts from the boyfriend. I would enjoy hearing more about how you approach them so as not to put them off right off the bat. I wouldn't ask you to share numbers or waste your time being a intermediary, but we can probably all learn from your methods.

One thing that probably holds many of us back from developing the relationships you do is being married. It sounds like these girls stay over at your place and develop a relatively close relationship in hobby terms. That opportunity just doesn't exist for many hobbyists.

In any case, whether you're sharing or not I enjoy reading about your experiences. Thanks for posting.

I think you hit on some important things here. Some of us are in relationships, lack time, money or the social skills. There are still avenues for all of us but not always as exciting. We try to help each other out here but there are limits. It sounds like Bob is in a great spot and has great success that I'm sure he's developed over the years.