IE Sugar Forum

**PassYourPaper** · Yesterday 10:13

Hey Gents,

I just want to get any info on these ladies if anyone had any experience with them. Their ads are in SecBen. Any intel would be appreciated. I attached the photos.

**RichNHood** · 01-09-26 23:32

Originally Posted by PassYourPaper [View Original Post]

Hello gents, how is the IE SB scene going so far?

Not as hot as it was before social media made almost every other cute chick think she's an OF model who deserves a cash app deposit just to respond to your DM but theres still plenty of opportunities to woo a young impressionable chick without tossing your whole wallet at them.

**PassYourPaper** · 01-08-26 14:26

Hello gents, how is the IE SB scene going so far?

**Nfssc** · 01-04-26 16:04

Originally Posted by PassYourPaper [View Original Post]

Good Day all! I am trying to get into the SB / SD game. I am only using Sec Ben as of the moment. I just have a few questions regarding this site.

1. does anyone had luck getting a SB in this site?

2 why the girls does not respond back. Usually they will send a message first, after I replied they don't message back. Out of 20+ convo text only 1 responded.

3. do the girls get charged if they send message?

It's what I've mainly used for about 2 years. A lot of people seem to hate it but I think you just have to know how to play the game to get the women to meet. I'm in my 30's and enjoy some age gaps so I've had my fun with younger and older women ranging from $$ ppm.

The more attractive and younger you go the less likely you'll get a response imo and I think they get to message for free.

**PassYourPaper** · 01-01-26 23:27

Good Day all! I am trying to get into the SB / SD game. I am only using Sec Ben as of the moment. I just have a few questions regarding this site.

1. does anyone had luck getting a SB in this site?

2 why the girls does not respond back. Usually they will send a message first, after I replied they don't message back. Out of 20+ convo text only 1 responded.

3. do the girls get charged if they send message?

**RichNHood** · 11-24-25 13:43

Way back in the day when craigslist allowed escorts to post there was a girl I saw post from time to time, never was interested in booking a date with her but one day I see this same girl posted a personals ad. I respond we chat up and we actually do a same day date. Not trying to brag but I was about mid 20's at the time, fit and good looking with my own place and all so pretty sure that helped sealing the deal on a date with her. I picked her up in Lake Elsinore, took her to dinner in Riverside and to my place where we had drinks and hooked up. I remember her being extremely responsive to penetration, like having a orgasm in minutes in doggie. She begged me to pull the cover off and bust in her mouth. She said she had a recent death in her family and needed a distraction from that.

She wasnt the best looking chick but it was a turn on to bang a chick for free who is charging other guys to do the same. It was short lived though, after only a couple weeks and a few hookups she flipped out over the smallest thing and told me to lose her number.

**RichNHood** · 11-24-25 13:23

Tagged was such a goldmine back in the day for hooking up with girls who are not real escorts. One example was this black chick I found many years back. She had a bit of an exotic look as if she was mixed with a little Ethiopian and a little shy and submissive. I like to do quick cheap meetings with girls for the first time before spending more on a longer date but my quick visit turned into an extended stay! Negotiated a BBFS session and for me to pick her up somewhere in covina and take her to a nearby no-tell motel. It was a hot day and she smelled sweaty probably from running around all day. I gave her the money to get the room and she says she added a little more to make it an overnight stay for herself. I suggest we shower together because I feel sweaty (I really didn't I just wanted her clean). She dries me off and wants me to get comfortable and starts a slow sensual BBBJ. I tell her to jump on and she rides me cowgirl getting really into it. Normally I can last a very long time with a girl riding me but I was not prepared for a long session this time and busted quickly inside her. She immediately asks do I want to go again and I said I'll need a minute, so we cuddle up for a while. At this point I know I can really have my way with her and then have her suck me again while I was browsing on my phone and playing music. She eagerly continued for over a hour while taking short breaks. We start fucking again but it was hard for me to complete so I gave up on that for now and suggested we grab some food. Ended up taking her back to her place to pick up a few items and I bought food and a bottle to bring back to the room. Ended up eating drinking and fucking for a good while. Dated a few more times but she eventually disappeared on me.

**RyDogg888** · 06-18-25 20:56

Originally Posted by Ddy3831 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-f0bdb156b21a

Also posted in the SD forum here secondary location is in Irvine, but looking for info on her has been very transactional so far thinking she's a pro, supposed to meet up with her next week, any info would be appreciated!

I saw her, she's very transactional but real.

She drove to Ontario to meet me in a hotel and told me "I don't really want to get to know you".

Then we stripped, BBBJ and BBFS and she said bye. Haven't talked to her since.

**Cesar66** · 05-16-25 19:58

Originally Posted by RainySeattleGu [View Original Post]

Hey why'all.

Visiting the IE in the next few days, and have been chatting up this girl from Seeking that goes by Lily (adding the photos for reference). I've researched the board, and saw that others have talked to her, but there weren't too many specifics about her. Any intel would be greatly appreciated!

So o was supposed to meet up with her twice but both times things poped up on both our end. When we were supposed to finally meet up if text me saying "Now is not a good time" after that her seeking account disappeared. She never responded back from my text messages but she hasn't blocked me and I do see that says "read" she is married and has kids but I think she was doing this secretly. Either she decided to stop or she got caught which I'm hoping she didn't.

**Ddy3831** · 04-05-25 00:29

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-f0bdb156b21a

Also posted in the SD forum here secondary location is in Irvine, but looking for info on her has been very transactional so far thinking she's a pro, supposed to meet up with her next week, any info would be appreciated!

**Traveler8888** · 03-27-25 13:11

Originally Posted by RainySeattleGu [View Original Post]

Hey why'all.

Visiting the IE in the next few days, and have been chatting up this girl from Seeking that goes by Lily (adding the photos for reference). I've researched the board, and saw that others have talked to her, but there weren't too many specifics about her. Any intel would be greatly appreciated!

She me a link please?

**RainySeattleGu** · 03-26-25 21:21

Hey why'all.

Visiting the IE in the next few days, and have been chatting up this girl from Seeking that goes by Lily (adding the photos for reference). I've researched the board, and saw that others have talked to her, but there weren't too many specifics about her. Any intel would be greatly appreciated!

**Ace McNasty** · 03-13-25 11:23

Originally Posted by Mngrrr [View Original Post]

That's a ghoulish looking woman.

One sugardaddy's ghoul is another one's Zendaya.

Speaking of, the IE truly has no shortage of brown and ebony sugar. Especially east of Corona. These sugar apps are loaded with AA profiles. Nothing like a gorgeous skinny 19 yo ebony baby with huge titties to drain your balls at your usual no tell hourly roach motel in Upland or Rialto LOL.

No doncoms. CIP finish only. Always. Is there any other way to fuck?

**Berol Loz** · 02-23-25 01:40

Originally Posted by VeryBigBuck [View Original Post]

So, this was my approach when I was in the bowl, worked well for me. YMMV. This approach will not work with pros.

Target new to Seeking girls who don't want to admit to themselves that they are selling their pussy. It is based on the premiss that the party that has the money calls the shots and that there are MANY POT SB out-there and very, very few "real" SD's. Also lines up with their desire to be "spoiled". Heck, sometimes SBs with platonic in their profile would head to the FC with me after the M&G. Most headed to the FC on date 2. Over one year only 3 out of 16 POTs did not convert and go to the FC, 13 SB went to the FC, all bare, only 3 did not want CIP. 2 or 3 asked for condoms but I did not have any with me, they fucked anyway...

Thank you for this. Great advice here regardless what site you're using.

**Berol Loz** · 02-23-25 01:38

Originally Posted by AceMcNasty [View Original Post]

You can do a whole lot better than that group in the IE. Where are you hunting? Try other apps like SB, SDM and SecBen. Don't just restrict yourself to SA. The IE has lots of young single Moms. Both Latinas and white girls.

One of my current ones is a 20 yo Cuban girl, skin and bones just like the way I prefer. From the Upland-San Bern area. All bare, no condoms, and she lets me CIP because I'm neutered.

Definitely don't restrict yourself to just Seeking; Sugardaddymeet.com (SDM) and SecretBenefits.com both have plenty of girls available, too. Seeking has added a verification requirement (you have to take a selfie for them), while SDM has made it voluntary for now.

One thing I learned last year was SDM also charges girls money to read messages so it's in their interest to make an arrangement since it's costing them money too, unlike Seeking where it's always free for girls. I suppose this is the reason you'll see girls ask you to message you with your email / phone. So they don't have to pay.