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**The Curve** · 11-10-24 19:59

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

1. Don't play the numbers game. If a lady insists on a number up front then she isn't in the game for the dating aspect. Focus on the ladies who are looking for a side piece. If there is a discussion about numbers, I tend to focus on broad ranges. The objective is to get to the M&G. This is where deals are closed, in person, after they get to know you. Based on percentages and numbers, I've concluded that if you can get a lady to an M&G and get her to laugh, you are more likely than not going to be able to bang her. The idea here is to make her feel like she would fuck you even if you weren't giving her any ppm / allowance. I focus and set my search filters to "newest" instead of "recently active" because the real profiles who are new are less likely to be bookers using seeking as a backpage site.

2. There are exceptions to general rule 1 above. I break them if the profile is hot or interesting enough and will engage with a numbers discussion before meeting if the lady merits it. GPS vibe before meeting- no thanks. As with above, I will provide a broad range. This will generate questions about what factors I use to determine exact amounts. Again, I give general answers, like can she host, what is she looking for, what she wants our dates to be like, but mainly focus on what our in person chemistry will be like.

3. If during the M&G there is a GPS or hooker vibe. No thanks, I move on. Plenty of fish in the sea and new profiles appear every day. Current rotations need attention. Prior SBs who have had changes in circumstances need attention too. Girls I have thrown back into the pool are often up for a spin when I'm in a pinch. Junior and the checking account can always use a break. If during the M&G the chemistry is good and it's clear she is into me; then more often than not, we won't ever even have an allowance discussion. If we do, and she's worth it, I'll be happy to provide it, but any senior knows that the allowance / PPM amounts are subject to downward change. Once a lady gets comfortable with you, the covers come off and condoms aren't required if you forgot to bring them after the fifth or sixth date and then going forward you don't ever have to. At some point, you may experience a financial difficulty (ie laid off, kid has to go to private school, etc) and so you tell her, "I really want to continue seeing you, but can't afford to." if she enjoys your company then more often than not you'll find her negotiating against herself.

But more often than not, if you focus on not engaging in the numbers discussion up front and show a lady a good time on a date; you'll find that numbers drop considerably. And most importantly, make sure you start working out. Lose the gut, dress nicely, stay well groomed, show her a good time, and don't be a douche.

Can't tell you how many dudes out there can't comprehend why they can't get low cost pussy; but are 50 lbs overweight and treat a girl like trash.

Must have missed this before. I've been dodging the hard number talk with ranges (that I also really try not to define) for months. It really weeds out the mercenaries effectively.

My bad habit is engaging these women before doing a search on here. So what's funny is when pressed and I do give a range that's well below and well above what people here have reported they take, a few times they disengage. Almost like they don't have enough security in what they're selling that I will deem them worth what they insist.

**PRMan12** · 11-09-24 20:49

Originally Posted by NovaNova [View Original Post]

She lists her age as 19. No restaurant in the DMV area is going to serve alcohol to a 19 year old now days.

Nobody check I'd's anymore and they probably have fakes anyways, my point is, they said they don't drink as they are doing some workout.

**NovaNova** · 11-09-24 16:30

Originally Posted by PRMan12 [View Original Post]

Met them, big waste of time, paid bill and bolted. They are real, if someone can flip them to intimacy, please share. They don't drink either, no fun!

Originally Posted by CharmCityBro [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...c-c43e3ee4ed16

Not looking for intimacy. Wants compensated dinners with her and her friends.

She lists her age as 19. No restaurant in the DMV area is going to serve alcohol to a 19 year old now days.

**PRMan12** · 11-09-24 13:04

Originally Posted by CharmCityBro [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...c-c43e3ee4ed16

Not looking for intimacy. Wants compensated dinners with her and her friends.

Met them, big waste of time, paid bill and bolted. They are real, if someone can flip them to intimacy, please share. They don't drink either, no fun!

**NovaNova** · 11-09-24 10:59

Originally Posted by TomFordModel [View Original Post]

She's an absolute beast. She needs to pay.

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

This one's delusion has gone to another level. First she wants $1200 ppm (huh? But the kicker is that she wants both the first and second ppm paid upfront once you meet! Lmao! These bitches are getting crazier by the day I swear.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-efc3eafce220

Looks like she is into granny panties too based on the outline on her hip in the second photo. G-probably get stuck inside that fat ass of her's.

**NovaNova** · 11-09-24 10:48

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

This one's delusion has gone to another level. First she wants $1200 ppm (huh? But the kicker is that she wants both the first and second ppm paid upfront once you meet! Lmao! These bitches are getting crazier by the day I swear.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-efc3eafce220

This profile always makes me laugh. The sense of entitlement on this one. Divorced, single mom, overweight stripper, with a full neck tattoo and another on the forehead to top it all out. I am sure someone out there is into all this but good grief.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d929043b-0c63-49f4-995b-14a9f2df64f7

**CharmCityBro** · 11-08-24 21:59

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...c-c43e3ee4ed16

Not looking for intimacy. Wants compensated dinners with her and her friends.

**BuckNaked84** · 11-08-24 20:23

Originally Posted by TomFordModel [View Original Post]

She's an absolute beast. She needs to pay.

Got to side with TFM here.

**BuckNaked84** · 11-08-24 20:21

Originally Posted by ShortMan22 [View Original Post]

No! Are you?

He asked that for a simple reason. The profile has the "Seeking Transgender" tag.

You don't filter that out?

**TomFordModel** · 11-08-24 17:48

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

This one's delusion has gone to another level. First she wants $1200 ppm (huh? But the kicker is that she wants both the first and second ppm paid upfront once you meet! Lmao! These bitches are getting crazier by the day I swear.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-efc3eafce220

She's an absolute beast. She needs to pay.

**Dimples572** · 11-08-24 16:13

This one's delusion has gone to another level. First she wants $1200 ppm (huh? But the kicker is that she wants both the first and second ppm paid upfront once you meet! Lmao! These bitches are getting crazier by the day I swear.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-efc3eafce220

**ShortMan22** · 11-08-24 10:46

Originally Posted by TheCurve [View Original Post]

Are you, uh, seeking transgender?

No! Are you?

**The Curve** · 11-08-24 10:20

Originally Posted by ShortMan22 [View Original Post]

I'm not 100%sure but this one has multiple profiles under different name.

When I was chatting with her profile name was Bossy, now its Lovely miss.

As I said I 'm not 100%sure about her being a scammer, but proceed with caution.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...8-ff9c7cb0160e

Are you, uh, seeking transgender?

**ShortMan22** · 11-08-24 10:02

I'm not 100%sure but this one has multiple profiles under different name.

When I was chatting with her profile name was Bossy, now its Lovely miss.

As I said I 'm not 100%sure about her being a scammer, but proceed with caution.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...8-ff9c7cb0160e