"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Bobt45]

The only way to combat this is to report them to seeking. In your report make sure you say they're advertising online only right on their profile and tell them it's a violation of their terms of service. Everyone should do this. If they get enough kickback from paying members maybe it'll force their hand. Just my two cents.

You can see if from her profile. She said looking for Online arrangement. I am baffled Seeking even allows this to still be up.

[MSmith3034]

This ☝65039;9757;65039;9757;65039;.

Why go to the time and trouble to ever meet if guys will continually send money to a girl to stay home and sext? A girl friend confided in me that she meets-and-greets guys for coffee for $200, promising more on subsequent dates with no plans to follow through.

Seeking was much better about the enforcement of no "online-only" profiles pre-Covid. Speaking of which, that was an excuse for many for a while too.

But she will not be comfortable ever. Just continually asking for money allowance for online.

[MajMilkDuds]

It did say she'd meet after being comfortable.

But she will not be comfortable ever. Just continually asking for money allowance for online.

[MilfHunter818]

You can see if from her profile. She said looking for Online arrangement. I am baffled Seeking even allows this to still be up.

It did say she'd meet after being comfortable.

[MajMilkDuds]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-bf74fd2ebcb2

Anyone talking to her? She seems fun but looks like a time waster. You can send a PM if you want.

You can see if from her profile. She said looking for Online arrangement. I am baffled Seeking even allows this to still be up.

[MilfHunter818]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-bf74fd2ebcb2

Anyone talking to her? She seems fun but looks like a time waster. You can send a PM if you want.

[CocoMuffin]

I've been talking to her too. She reeks of desperation and super pushy via text. Doesn't help that she isn't cute.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-f53cecb472b4

I could go into the whole long story here, but I basically I was supposed to meet her at a local park for a quick date. But instead she takes a pic of my license plate and the threatens to go to the police if I don't send her $100 (which I did not do).

And you can see how bizarre those pics are, on her profile. I don't know why I even agreed to meet her. Just was being lazy and reckless, I suppose. She hit me up when I first got back signed up on the site and I saw lots of red flags, but still thought like some fun a the park could be worth it.

She didn't even come up to my vehicle, so had no interest in doing anything. But she did message me (on Signal) the pic of my plate, so she does have it. It's a rental car though, so even less of a concern. Then she keeps messaging me that she's at the police station, about to file the report.

I suggest blocking, but up to you.

[CocoMuffin]

Verbatim her dm to me.

"Come fuck my throat daddy and let me squirt on you".

Loves anal too apparently.

Anya.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...e-cb684a8656be

500.

[MadDog1746]

Ok I already took some heat from Carmel , from posting my bad experience on the board, to help you guys. Someone here told her about what I wrote and then more threats, but I think she finally calmed down. No good deed goes unpunished.

The latest is that I got this message on Signal from some girl that I must have talked to, probably in Asheville. I can't figure out her Seeking profile, so maybe I already blocked and deleted her? And I can't even find the rest of her Signal messages so I probably deleted those too, a few days ago

But my point is that I don't even remember who she is and I've just been back on Seeking for two weeks, so it must have been recent, and we must have barely talked or I would remember.

But this is what she wrote:

"This is my last message to you before I block you here too, because I hope it gives you some clarity on something I personally felt was obvious.

No, it wasn't my plan to come here and fuck you over. I in fact felt extremely obligated to move forward with you because of your generosity, even though you were actually starting to scare me. You were being pushy, unempathetic towards me literally having to evacuate my home, you were demanding of my time. I've pushed myself to do things I felt obligated to do with men because of their generosity in the past and trust me, the trauma that leaves me with is far more detrimental than someone like you losing a little money. I wasn't about to put myself in a situation to meet you, not be down with you (which based off of your pushiness I probably wouldn't have fucked with you anyway), and then feel stuck.

That is why I don't put too much info on here that can give me away. I have to be cautious these days. I mainly dabbled in the escort market and felt that is good to not give away information but recently got into the cuddling game and they try and figure you out LOL.

[FarFarAway]

I had one who I had texted with off the site. Things dropped off a bit, and I tried to revive the conversation. We got into a back and forth about how she was certain I had invited her over to my house, got her into the hot tub, was crazy drunk and did all sorts of stupid shit, and she bailed. I claimed innocence, I'd never met her, I have a SO so I could not have had her at my home. She told me all sorts of stuff about my children, which, IRL, I have none.

Anyway, some people literally cannot be reasoned with. The current political situation in the US is evidence of that. In this case, I just took the attitude that there are lots of women on seeking and related dating sites, I never have to have any particular one, and in fact this person did me a favor by revealing (early in our interactions) just how nutty and unreliable she would be as a SB. So, that block button really comes in handy.

[Peter Johnson]

Ok I already took some heat from Carmel , from posting my bad experience on the board, to help you guys. Someone here told her about what I wrote and then more threats, but I think she finally calmed down. No good deed goes unpunished.

The latest is that I got this message on Signal from some girl that I must have talked to, probably in Asheville. I can't figure out her Seeking profile, so maybe I already blocked and deleted her? And I can't even find the rest of her Signal messages so I probably deleted those too, a few days ago

But my point is that I don't even remember who she is and I've just been back on Seeking for two weeks, so it must have been recent, and we must have barely talked or I would remember.

But this is what she wrote:

"This is my last message to you before I block you here too, because I hope it gives you some clarity on something I personally felt was obvious.

No, it wasn't my plan to come here and fuck you over. I in fact felt extremely obligated to move forward with you because of your generosity, even though you were actually starting to scare me. You were being pushy, unempathetic towards me literally having to evacuate my home, you were demanding of my time. I've pushed myself to do things I felt obligated to do with men because of their generosity in the past and trust me, the trauma that leaves me with is far more detrimental than someone like you losing a little money. I wasn't about to put myself in a situation to meet you, not be down with you (which based off of your pushiness I probably wouldn't have fucked with you anyway), and then feel stuck.

If you want to make something like this work with a real woman and not have it be so transactional feeling, which neither of us want, you need to be a little more considerate of people's emotions and whether or not you're cultivating an environment that feels safe. I have made arrangements work many times and it requires two people who actually, seriously get down with one another, something that you and I don't have. I need more emotional intelligence from a man.

Sorry this didn't work out, best of luck. ".

I'm in ATL and she is in NC. I never made plans to go there. I never put any pressure her at all to do anything. I don't even remember who she is. Just totally wacky, and you can read between the lines and see how many issues she has.

[Viktor213]

I had a series of shady text messages with her. She didn't outright ask for money before meeting, but it never felt right. I guess my instincts were correct. She has multiple profiles I think, but the pics on both profiles are similar.

I had conversations with this one too but nothing as crazy as blackmail. She tells me she's ill and needs $$ for meds but still wants to meet. After some back and forth I tell her once she gets her medical situation handled to hmu. Definite scammer.

[BrownSugaTwo]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-f53cecb472b4

I could go into the whole long story here, but I basically I was supposed to meet her at a local park for a quick date. But instead she takes a pic of my license plate and the threatens to go to the police if I don't send her $100 (which I did not do).

And you can see how bizarre those pics are, on her profile. I don't know why I even agreed to meet her. Just was being lazy and reckless, I suppose. She hit me up when I first got back signed up on the site and I saw lots of red flags, but still thought like some fun a the park could be worth it.

She didn't even come up to my vehicle, so had no interest in doing anything. But she did message me (on Signal) the pic of my plate, so she does have it. It's a rental car though, so even less of a concern. Then she keeps messaging me that she's at the police station, about to file the report.

I suggest blocking, but up to you.

I had a series of shady text messages with her. She didn't outright ask for money before meeting, but it never felt right. I guess my instincts were correct. She has multiple profiles I think, but the pics on both profiles are similar.

[Peter Johnson]

Although certainly a bit unnerving at first when threatened.

1) What is she going to go to the police for?

02 I strongly suspect if Shen went to the police. She is likely to be arrested for a warrant of some so. Sooooo yeaahhh. That's not happening.

Exactly. She said she was going to show the entire chat, on Signal, to the police and I would be arrested for "solicitation". But she's the one who messages me every day, and wants to get together.

I pointed out that the chat also shows that she is threatening me, and insisting I send her money, which is extortion. She agreed and said "blackmail" is more accurate, but she doesn't care.

She doesn't have my name or phone number, even. But I did send her my pics, which I know can be used with Facecheck to get my real name, which is bad. I wish there was some way to change this. I need to be much more careful who I send my pics to now.

This morning she messaged me:

"I didn't turn you in and I never would I just lost my car".

So many crazies out there.

[LikeMike1963]

Although certainly a bit unnerving at first when threatened.

1) What is she going to go to the police for?

02 I strongly suspect if Shen went to the police. She is likely to be arrested for a warrant of some so. Sooooo yeaahhh. That's not happening.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-f53cecb472b4

I could go into the whole long story here, but I basically I was supposed to meet her at a local park for a quick date. But instead she takes a pic of my license plate and the threatens to go to the police if I don't send her $100 (which I did not do).

And you can see how bizarre those pics are, on her profile. I don't know why I even agreed to meet her. Just was being lazy and reckless, I suppose. She hit me up when I first got back signed up on the site and I saw lots of red flags, but still thought like some fun a the park could be worth it.

She didn't even come up to my vehicle, so had no interest in doing anything. But she did message me (on Signal) the pic of my plate, so she does have it. It's a rental car though, so even less of a concern. Then she keeps messaging me that she's at the police station, about to file the report.

I suggest blocking, but up to you.