Sugar Baby

[Jordang]

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

My first rule is that I don't present that I am married. If they think I am single then that threat of a play for blackmail is off the table until if / when they learn otherwise.

Other rules have been stated. You should be anonymous. I'm a bit older than you so I don't get a shocked reaction when I tell them I don't have instagram or snapchat.

Don't play close to home. Play at least 2 Targets and 3 publixs away from your closest ones.

If I were you I would also not try and find a long term SB. At that point, just get a divorce.

I'd also try and get a grasp on who is visiting to reduce your chances of an awkward public encounter when you are with the mrs. That's one benefit of living in Orlando. I couldn't imagine trying to do this in a small town.

[HardWoodsman]

If you like Latin fitness instructors here is another one for you. She is a yoga instructor. She has really worked on those core muscles. It shows in a super tight kitty. She is highly sexually with a wide open menu. Multiple pops are encouraged. As a bonus, she has a huge clit.

She is also open to mfm 3 somes.

If you're interested or have any 30+ Brazilian or latinas that you would like to share privately send me a PM.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...8-51c179cfd4c1

[HardWoodsman]

I know I've seen her reviewed before. Been chatting, price is right and very open. And. That ass. Tell me what you know or pm me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-a69799ab1746

She's good to go man and you won't be disappointed. Wide open menu and no drama. Clean and tight. Her face does not do it for me but other than that I had no complaints. I would repeat.

I concur. She's fun, not into drama, has tight body and can host at her place. The girl does her squats, she can do rear cowgirl for days.

[LSmooth]

All of the girls on Seeking etc are desperate for $$.

They want to get it and be safe, then get the deed over.

Your photos can be used for blackmail.

1 in 20 say no, I just say pick a public coffee shop, we will meet there.

I've been on seeking for few years and what I do is use snapchat. I usually only send one picture if they verified themselves with like social media accounts or another form with me and they are worth it. If there not OK with it I just tell them I'm verified on seeking (which I know some might like that) and that's problem move on. With snapchat you can send them a that moment selfie and it'll be sent like a Instagram story so they can only view it once and if they screenshot the picture it'll tell you they did but they have to be quick once the open because closes quick and another is if you send them a picture through snapchat messages and what I do also is as soon I send it and they viewed picture snapchat tells you I delete automatically from snapchat message so they don't save picture. I never once had any of them screenshot or save picture usually because I verify them before.

[Carlosa]

All of the girls on Seeking etc are desperate for $$.

They want to get it and be safe, then get the deed over.

Your photos can be used for blackmail.

1 in 20 say no, I just say pick a public coffee shop, we will meet there.

How can you get away without sharing pics of yourself?

I mean, most (if not all) of the time, the women I want to meet won't talk or move forward without pictures.

[PPruben]

I do not give any pics of myself.

I pay for anonymity.

I even say my car is a different make and model.

Alot of rules are in rat trap.

How can you get away without sharing pics of yourself?

I mean, most (if not all) of the time, the women I want to meet won't talk or move forward without pictures.

[Voltron]

She's good to go man and you won't be disappointed. Wide open menu and no drama. Clean and tight. Her face does not do it for me but other than that I had no complaints. I would repeat.

Thanks for the intel brother. I think that is my only complaint, her face. She sent me some pics and I was blown away and once she told me the menu I was sold.

[LeeElvisLee]

Here is how you can waste LESS time with the site to find the legit ones:

-get a phone number right away. I'm talking within the first two messages.

-if the girl wants to do snap or telegram or not give you her number at all then move on from there. Only get a number.

-look at their join date. If it's the same day or anytime within the last week, it's 50-50 on whether they could be legit, but most of those will be scammers.

-cast a wide net. Send a short (2 sentence message) to every girl you like, then see who replies.

-if the area code isn't local, red flag. It doesn't mean they are a scammer, but you want to find out right away.

-always text the girl don't waste time messaging on the site.

-if comms take too long (like hours in between every text you send them-red flag-they are probably texting thru the internet from a country far away.

-arrange a meetup for that night. If she's not able to then suggest tomorrow night.

-beware of girls that always have excuses on why they can't meet.

These are just some tips to help you avoid wasting more time and finding out who the real girls are in a shorter much shorter amount of time so that way you can choose to move on or not.

If they want to use snap I am ok with it. Once I get on snap I ask for a live pic to see if they are really who they say they are.

Also numbers with not local area codes are risky yes but I have met many legit women cause they could be using a phone app like we are.

[Bertil]

I know I've seen her reviewed before. Been chatting, price is right and very open. And. That ass. Tell me what you know or pm me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-a69799ab1746

She's good to go man and you won't be disappointed. Wide open menu and no drama. Clean and tight. Her face does not do it for me but other than that I had no complaints. I would repeat.

[Voltron]

I know I've seen her reviewed before. Been chatting, price is right and very open. And. That ass. Tell me what you know or pm me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-a69799ab1746

[Carlosa]

Anyone meet this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...8-2ba1c0fea276

She is nice.

[Carlosa]

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

I do not give any pics of myself.

I pay for anonymity.

I even say my car is a different make and model.

Alot of rules are in rat trap.

[Berol Loz]

Maintain completely separate lives.

Never ever use your home to host.

Never use your real phone number, or a real phone number Get a deleteable burner app. Use a fake name, fake Facebook, fake every damn thing.

Make sure your Cashapp doesn't have your real name. Never forget that they are basically just tricks.

This is the advice I always give to UTRs and advice I've learned the hard way because I didn't always follow it. It's easy to just walk away if you follow those rules. It eadikt gets complicated if you don't.

Two have tried to blackmail me, one wanted to move in.

This is good advice. Married guys are potentially more open to blackmail. The less personal information a lady (or her friends) know about you the better.

[Xcvxxx]

Maintain completely separate lives.

Never ever use your home to host.

Never use your real phone number, or a real phone number Get a deleteable burner app. Use a fake name, fake Facebook, fake every damn thing.

Make sure your Cashapp doesn't have your real name. Never forget that they are basically just tricks.

This is the advice I always give to UTRs and advice I've learned the hard way because I didn't always follow it. It's easy to just walk away if you follow those rules. It eadikt gets complicated if you don't.

Two have tried to blackmail me, one wanted to move in.

Exactly right my guy. That's why the details in all my post are slightly different. Someone else said hope for the best and prepare for the worst. LOL truest.

[Xcvxxx]

Exactly right my guy. That's why the details in all my post are slightly different. Someone else said hope for the best and prepare for the worst. LOL truest.