Sugar Daddy Sites

**Murrican** · 10-01-24 20:45

I need the brain trust here.

You all know I'm pretty experienced at this. But something new today. Girl, 21, looks cute and new. We agree on price and such. Then she asks, are you OK with the fact I have a boyfriend.

I asked what that means for us. She says he is just there to make sure she stays safe.

I have a bad feeling. I know this can end badly.

Anyone had this exact situation and know where it's headed? Not speculation but actual experience with this.

**HollywoodGuy** · 10-01-24 20:31

Originally Posted by Xcvxxx [View Original Post]

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

The best advice is just stay within your budget. If once a week is all the time you can cut out spend a little more, if once a day is your preference you might want to spend a little less. Just be firm on your rate and stick to no matter what. PPM only, no weekly or monthly allowances and no advances.

**Lexx1** · 10-01-24 13:36

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

This one (and the ones after) prove it's over for Seeking. A big heffer "deserving" 500 a visit. It's just over. Who pays that for this low quality??

Originally Posted by Uncountable [View Original Post]

Maisy, 25. Caucasian heavy set lady. Lives in Woodland Hills: https://members.seeking.com/member/7...3-9fe7ca029bf6.

There was a report earlier that she demanded 1200 ppm, but I don't think she was able to get that offer because she started me with 500. I offered 400 and she wasn't too pleased. She lectured me about how not only she knew her worth, but also how she was worth more than 1000. An hour later, she informed me that she was fine with 400 as long as I provided Uber. After Uber, it would have cost more than 500, so I gently let her down. She was into everything except anal. She is also mobile. I would have taken one for the team but I had a feeling I would have received a subpar night because I haggled her down $100.

Man the times I've heard that bullcrap argument from these girls over the years of knowing their "worth". LOL I heard that argument dealing with nonpros / sugarbabies both on Craiglist and Seeking. And nonpros / sugarbabies are the same damn thing, interchangeable terms. Here's a joke that some of you may have heard before. There's different variations of it out there. But this should be the original.

Churchill: Madam, would you sleep with me for 1 million pounds?

Socialite: My goodness. Well, I suppose.

Churchill: Would you sleep with me for 5 pounds?

Socialite: What type of woman do you think I am?

Churchill: Madam we've already established that. Now we are haggling about the price.

The take from that joke is it doesn't matter if a woman agrees to fuck at 1 million dollars or 100 dollars. When Churchill says we've already established that, they type of woman she is. Meaning it's been established she's a wh0 re for accepting. It doesn't make her more "high class" at the higher amount. A wh0 re is a wh0 re at any amount. So the whole argument of "I know my worth" is just to squeeze more money out of you. That's it! If a woman truly knew her "worth" she wouldn't be spreading her legs for cash in the first place, at any amount. So I just laugh at these chics that come at me with that argument and tell them if they truly knew their worth. They wouldn't be fucking for cash at all!

I've never spent 400 and up on any of these girls. The most is about 300 nowadays peak but not with every girl. 500 and up for me with any of these girls even if a "hot" girl is silly. I used to fuck these same girls as nonpros from Craigslist for 50 to 150 average. All races White, Asian, Latina, Black, etc. Ages from 18 to mid 20's and sometimes some early 30's if they were still hot and cheap. The only time the price doubled on average is when they found SeekingArrangement and signed up. And now because they were on a sugarbaby site they felt more "prestigious" and more worthy. LOL Give me a break.

The only type of girl I would even remotely consider spending 500 and up on is a popular pornstar, high end hot model or a celebrity. But the girls on Seeking are not that. They are mostly everyday regular girls, girl next door type, which is fine. But not worthy of spending crazy amounts on even if "hot".

**UnknownSD** · 10-01-24 13:08

I reviewed her before. Just curious if any of you met up with her or had an arrangement with her before.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-7ecd1f28c3a6

**UnknownSD** · 10-01-24 13:00

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

This one (and the ones after) prove it's over for Seeking. A big heffer "deserving" 500 a visit. It's just over. Who pays that for this low quality??

Haha. I wouldn't bang them even if they paid me LOL. I can find hotter girls on CMB for free.

**UnknownSD** · 10-01-24 12:57

Here's a white-blonde girl for you guys. She's been on SA for a while now and she's back with a new profile. Her username before was Jojo. She's definitely not 23, probably in her mid-30's. She's very unattractive. Allowance negotiable. Unverified.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-ed1dc5cb8dcf

**Xcvxxx** · 10-01-24 11:28

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

**EvilTmp** · 10-01-24 09:52

Originally Posted by Uncountable [View Original Post]

Maisy, 25. Caucasian heavy set lady. Lives in Woodland Hills: https://members.seeking.com/member/7...3-9fe7ca029bf6.

There was a report earlier that she demanded 1200 ppm, but I don't think she was able to get that offer because she started me with 500. I offered 400 and she wasn't too pleased. She lectured me about how not only she knew her worth, but also how she was worth more than 1000. An hour later, she informed me that she was fine with 400 as long as I provided Uber. After Uber, it would have cost more than 500, so I gently let her down. She was into everything except anal. She is also mobile. I would have taken one for the team but I had a feeling I would have received a subpar night because I haggled her down $100.

This one (and the ones after) prove it's over for Seeking. A big heffer "deserving" 500 a visit. It's just over. Who pays that for this low quality??

**Uncountable** · 10-01-24 01:54

I forgot to add this gem.

Angelica, 24, Latina: https://members.seeking.com/member/6...7-745cbc312e8a.

She wanted 500 for two hours. No Anal and all covered. She might reconsider BBJ if you are clean. That was the word she used and I didn't ask for what it meant. I didn't even respond after that. If she had accepted 100 with a BBJ, I would have accepted.

**Uncountable** · 10-01-24 00:38

Maisy, 25. Caucasian heavy set lady. Lives in Woodland Hills: https://members.seeking.com/member/7...3-9fe7ca029bf6.

There was a report earlier that she demanded 1200 ppm, but I don't think she was able to get that offer because she started me with 500. I offered 400 and she wasn't too pleased. She lectured me about how not only she knew her worth, but also how she was worth more than 1000. An hour later, she informed me that she was fine with 400 as long as I provided Uber. After Uber, it would have cost more than 500, so I gently let her down. She was into everything except anal. She is also mobile. I would have taken one for the team but I had a feeling I would have received a subpar night because I haggled her down $100.

LovelyPetal2 (Name: Ashley), 25. Dark Skinned Black girl. She is exactly my type: https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-dc3b7cfc4fb1.

I am at least a decade younger than her desired type of men. She told me about how she wanted a man who was a provider and also very generous. Then she demanded to know exactly how much ppm / allowance I gave my last girl. Normally, I only talk about this on a meet and greet, unless it is a one and done, like Maisy above. She would not budge so I said I can do 500 ppm. She was shocked! She said the minimum she ever received was 1200 and she was used to 1500. I quietly thanked her for her kindness and sweetness. And she also quietly blocked me on seeking, LOL. I was actually willing to go up to a 1000, but her demeanor told me she was very rigid and not at all malleable.

Sophie, 31. Mixed. Her photos are deeply photoshopped: https://members.seeking.com/member/5...6-14b6deea5a17.

Red Flag: she sent the first message and it said, "Would love to meet. U free tomorrow?" I foolishly established a line of communication. Long story short she wanted between 1200 and 1400. I told her she was worth it and more, LOL, but that it was way above my comfort level. She then wanted to know how much I could comfortably spend, but I declined since what I was willing to give was far below her number. She also said that what she gives in bed depends on how she feels about the guy. That was what really scared me. Imagine spending over a grand to get an unenthusiastic performance because she thought you were ugly. No sir.

Madison, 19. Claims Caucasian but looked like a Latina during our video call: https://members.seeking.com/member/e...d-fc65c276818f.

She wants 700 for no anal and covered everything. If you want no rules, then 1400 ppm. She then said that she would be okay with 300-400 after the first session. I instantly knew this was a lie. I declined and she then asked if wanted to buy some of her content, and I emphasized that I preferred a real woman than pictures, and that was that.

Daisy, 20. Mixed. Beware: Escort masquerading as an SB. Wants 1000 for everything except anal.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...c-8a284e78df70

https://www.adultlook.com/p/3247968

Scammers and Pic Sellers

Selena 24, Caucasian: https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-9660d94a8470.

Upon sending an initial message, I got this:

"Im great. Nice to meet you. I'm interested in exploring a casual, no-strings-attached relationship with someone who is also looking for something similar Due to my poor experiences in my prior meeting, I will text more of my sexy pictures and videos for a hundred before meetup. ".

Jane 25, Caucasian: https://members.seeking.com/member/1...d-ffb41e405313.

Upon sending an initial message, I got this:

"I'm interested in exploring a casual, no-strings-attached relationship with someone who is also looking for something similar Due to my poor experiences in my prior meeting, I start with sharing my sexy pictures and videos for a hundred. ".

Lauren, 28, Caucasian: https://members.seeking.com/member/7...4-e2e4dd1e8d74.

She is using pictures stolen from https://www.instagram.com/laurenluto/.

At first I thought she was the real deal because the name on the Instagram matches that of her profile, but upon further investigation, I realized this was a fake.

I do have some women who have panned out and I have set up meetings with them with the highest ppm being 500. I will be giving their reports in about a month after I am done with them.

**UnknownSD** · 09-30-24 23:01

Here's a Middle Eastern girl for you guys. She's looking for platonic dates only. Since she's looking for platonic dates, I didn't chat further. She's unverified but I'm sure she's real.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-b621155303a1

**UnknownSD** · 09-30-24 22:53

Here's a Latino girl for you guys. Her profile says White but she looks Latino to me. Also, her profile says platonic but she's ready for FS but with a condom only, with no exceptions. She never had sex without a condom and she had never done FS with an SD yet. This will be her first time with an SD. She lives near Montebello. Photos are accurate. Her photos look better than her actual person. She looks average and with a few extra pounds. She's not slim as stated on her profile. Also, she doesn't want to meet in public so you'll go over to your place. Allowance negotiable.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...5-b8eafd0348f6

**UnknownSD** · 09-30-24 22:15

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

You may not be aware but having crooked teeth was actually considered very sexy. Not sure if this trend is still happening but it was a thing.

It was a trend in Japan for a while to have crooked teeth. Not sure if it's still a trend.

**HollywoodGuy** · 09-30-24 21:42

Originally Posted by UnknownSD [View Original Post]

Most of the China girls I have met have really bad teeth which is a major turn-off. That's why I'm very hesitant with meeting China girls. What's with these China girls? Are there no good orthodontists in China? Why don't their parents get their children braces when they're in middle or high school? I mean they are ok to spend thousands on getting the latest smartphone and unwilling to spend it on themselves and getting their teeth fixed? I really don't understand.

You may not be aware but having crooked teeth was actually considered very sexy. Not sure if this trend is still happening but it was a thing.

**UnknownSD** · 09-30-24 17:30

Originally Posted by UnknownSD [View Original Post]

Here's a China girl for you guys. Her profile pic is fake. She will Facetime with you first. She lives out in Santa Monica and goes to UCLA. Age is accurate. She's 20 years old. She has bad teeth and looks average. Allowance negotiable.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...3-8a021af4da30

Most of the China girls I have met have really bad teeth which is a major turn-off. That's why I'm very hesitant with meeting China girls. What's with these China girls? Are there no good orthodontists in China? Why don't their parents get their children braces when they're in middle or high school? I mean they are ok to spend thousands on getting the latest smartphone and unwilling to spend it on themselves and getting their teeth fixed? I really don't understand.