"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Peter Johnson** · 10-01-24 12:22

Has anyone met this girl:

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...3-66ed59a717eb

She seems nice enough in chat. I got her on the Signal app, for more private conversation, but she oddly didn't want to discuss ppm details that way, and only wanted to do so over the phone.

That could be an awkward conversation, and of course a chance it could be recorded, etc. One reason I use Signal is not have paper trail of such conversation, at least linked to my name and identity. (Although Signal still uses your phone #, but the girls don't have it. And you can actually register with any # you want).

In her Seeking pics, she has hairy pits, so perhaps that means hairy bush as well? Anyway I doubt I will pursue her further, but just curious if anyone else has.

**BumbaCloth** · 10-01-24 12:06

Originally Posted by ReffingMan94 [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?

Xoxo195.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-3d6d7f691eb0
Lani.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-2202b608b1ff
Bean.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-712cc5d12ecb
Petite2638.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-c7687038b432
Pheonix.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-345591b17dc7

She's Filipina, it was like pulling teeth to get her to show a pic of her. The profile pic is supposedly her four kids go. She first sent me a pic of her when she was slim her current pics she try to hide her shape.

**MSmith3034** · 10-01-24 10:48

PM if you like, but this is the concise version.

It's still a quid pro quo situation, just as you are accustomed to, but less turn & burn. You need to play up your value slightly (but not overboard) and persona a bit more than a girl who knows nothing about you before you come & after you go. But don't overthink it, keep it simple and don't share anything you don't want getting out to the world. Create an alter ego and live up to that. A decent SB only wants to know some basics to know you are a decent human typically and she wants to be left alone outside of the arrangement probably as much as you do.

Originally Posted by Xcvxxx [View Original Post]

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

**Xcvxxx** · 10-01-24 10:06

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

**Peter Pan** · 09-30-24 22:25

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-2269a2e8d8bc

**Airmantroy** · 09-30-24 09:30

Originally Posted by ReffingMan94 [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?

Xoxo195.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-3d6d7f691eb0

Lani.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-2202b608b1ff

She has decent pics on the site, but they hide the gut in front (40#'s worth). And she is very aware of it, boring, unethusiastic and a pain in the ass to pin down for a meet.

**CookiesMan** · 09-30-24 02:34

Originally Posted by ReffingMan94 [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?

Xoxo195.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-3d6d7f691eb0

Lani.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-2202b608b1ff

Bean.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-712cc5d12ecb

Petite2638.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-c7687038b432

Pheonix.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-345591b17dc7

Lani always claimed she could meet, but would ghost when the time was agreed upon.

Petite: I reached out to her about 4 months ago but never heard anything back.

**Berol Loz** · 09-29-24 22:59

The end of the month is usually a good time to check the sugar sites out as rent / bills are coming due. I usually look for girls with something in their profile that sounds like they are willing to meet and have a few photos, ideally full body. Here's a couple around the Atlanta area:

Gracie6431,20, Marietta.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...73132081&nsp=1

"Looking for a kind and caring individual to occasionally hangout with. Should be mutually benefial!

Esme, 22, Griffin.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...67837782&nsp=1

"I want to be your sugar b*by*. I go to college, I live on my own*.

Diva, 21, Atlanta.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...72945838&nsp=1

"currently looking for a short term arrangement but long term is possible".

Goddess08,21, Savannah.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...72456646&nsp=1

"interested in a mutually beneficial arrangement".

Sofi2834,22, Atlanta.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...69320884&nsp=1

"prefer a longterm discreet arrangement. I require an allowance. Monthly or PPM. ".

**ReffingMan94** · 09-29-24 20:59

Hey guys,

Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?

Xoxo195.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-3d6d7f691eb0

Lani.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-2202b608b1ff

Bean.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-712cc5d12ecb

Petite2638.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-c7687038b432

Pheonix.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-345591b17dc7

**CookiesMan** · 09-29-24 18:24

I have found my long term SBs for now, so here are a few more I am throwing back:

London.

She started out great. Nice body and tall. We went on a meet and greet and talked and texted. Great conversation but when intimacy was brought she tried to delay and only wanted to date for gifts, so I stop pursuing. A great girl if you ok with no intimacy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-71d65eab0eb4

AsianPersuasion.

Good conversation, but never could tell if she was real or fake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...0-2df51586a59c

Jasmine.

A small beauty, but too inconsistent. I knew her from her massage days so we hit it off instantly. If you don't mind the inconsistency, she is a good one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...7-465b566292db

Mei.

I think she is all about the meet and greets for $150. I usually don't pursue but I thought she was interesting, but surely after the third day she texted and said she had fun but it wasn't enough to enter an arrangement. Smh. So if you just ok with taking out and paying her, go for it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...e-b00d809172a6

Wittylady.

Nice and sweet, but travels a lot to be in an arrangement to meet weekly.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-3ebfa8a09be5

Excited beauty.

A freak for sure. Very sexy, but a pro. She is all about the Benjamins.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...c-e48a0778a67f

Maola.

A scammer. She lies about what is agreed on. She is a pro working as a SB and wants to upsale you on everything. She says she GFE, but she is not. She has a nice body, but not worth the time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...a-3aaa6f103056

TallGoddess.

Nice girl. Starting stripping and loss contact.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...5-4856247f8ed8

Slim honey.

I believe she was a pro as well. She immediately had car problems and was strained in another state and needed money. She caught an attitude when I decided not to meet her after picking up on her pro vibes.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...0-8dc7a23eb984

GeorgiaGal.

I hated to let this one go because she was a true SB and was great at everything I needed. She is a little needy at time where she will call everyday and talk like a real girlfriend, but I do not have a SO so I was ok with it. She ran into some money problems and began to ask for more than I was willing to give.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...a-c6df57ce8f7b

Adrain.

Not sure if she is a pro or not I have read mixed reviews. She is a sweet girl with a nice body but a bore lay. She just lays there and don't like much touch.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-67a1e6e2d684

DarlaDarling.

Crazy. You have been warned.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...3-dc21901046f2

Maria.

Very Beautiful. Obsess with working out. Just like the fun part of an arrangement.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...8-7522609c40ac

Thecrazymamacita.

My boo. My first SB and she was great and still is.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-0d8ec2137e9c

Lizette.

Too many games.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...9-40fc93c81261

KitKat.

Have a date set up. She is in between Atlanta and Birmingham.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-ec4d6be5ecfe

LovingHeiress.

Very sweet girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...5-841401a349cd

Enjoy guys!

**Peter Johnson** · 09-29-24 15:17

Originally Posted by MajMilkDuds [View Original Post]

I can vouch for her. She is a little odd but is real and legit. Does suck a good cock. I have had plenty of car dates. But her not having a car and she said she lived with family kinda turned me off. If you are ok with all that she is safe a fun.

Yes I had to go pick her up from her house on her lunch break. Then was kind of rushed doing it in the car, but not that she rushed me but I knew she had to get back to work. (She does call center work from home).

But she was super casual about everything and not uptight. She got naked in the back of my SUV and went to work. She was also ok with pics and video, and CIM at the end. Although she was a bit of a cum dodger, which was disappointing. Anyway, I would see her again for the right PPM.

Again, I don't know about BBFS vs CFS. I think I could talk her into bare, but I'm trying to take less risks lately, after some penicillin shots recently so maybe I don't want to try to get in there. But if I get together with her again, I will probably get turned on and try anyway.

Anyway I like her and treat her right if you meet up. I think she said she will be staying in Roswell for the next week.

**MajMilkDuds** · 09-29-24 13:43

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-8279a0a45737

This girl is for real and fairly chill and laid back. She needs some $ pretty badly right now, and is probably open to car dates as well. She is ok with BBBJ. Not sure about BBFS, but might depend on the the monger and the PPM amount. Anyway, she is in a bad spot and some money would help her out, so perhaps one of you gents can meet up with her.

I can vouch for her. She is a little odd but is real and legit. Does suck a good cock. I have had plenty of car dates. But her not having a car and she said she lived with family kinda turned me off. If you are ok with all that she is safe a fun.

**Peter Johnson** · 09-29-24 01:16

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-8279a0a45737

This girl is for real and fairly chill and laid back. She needs some $ pretty badly right now, and is probably open to car dates as well. She is ok with BBBJ. Not sure about BBFS, but might depend on the the monger and the PPM amount. Anyway, she is in a bad spot and some money would help her out, so perhaps one of you gents can meet up with her.

**SeekingHead** · 09-23-24 13:07

Originally Posted by Coldgin499 [View Original Post]

Hey fellahs, long time reader here, I don't post too often, wanted to see I can get everyone's take on a specific type of sd. My sb and I have a normal ppm arrangement, we both get something out of it and have fun. She's told me that she knows of someone who has arrangements where the SB pays just to have insults hurled at them. I've also seen things like paypig and findom. My guess is these unicorns might exist? Do you think there's any credibility to this? Also, no judgement, to each their own. I'm really just curious.

In those instances 99% of the time women are lying to their friends & or boyfriends. They are not going to brag to their friends they are sucking a 60 year old dude's dick for cash.

**Viktor213** · 09-23-24 12:15

Originally Posted by Coldgin499 [View Original Post]

Hey fellahs, long time reader here, I don't post too often, wanted to see I can get everyone's take on a specific type of sd. My sb and I have a normal ppm arrangement, we both get something out of it and have fun. She's told me that she knows of someone who has arrangements where the SB pays just to have insults hurled at them. I've also seen things like paypig and findom. My guess is these unicorns might exist? Do you think there's any credibility to this? Also, no judgement, to each their own. I'm really just curious.

My friend these unicorns do exist but they are rare and even when found they don't last long. These stories of SBs "knowing someone" are usually from online SB forums and amount to dreams of women getting big coins for doing virtually nothing. When I connect with women on SB sites most like to throw out what the "last SD or guy" did. I always love the story of the last "older guy" that was "cool" that paid her rent but didn't want "anything" in return. All they did was "talk". Yeah, ok.

Long-term, consistent SDs are rarer than most might think. Your SB would do well to focus on keeping you happy and the ppm arrangement working than pondering stories like those. My 2 cents.

Good Luck.