"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**CocoMuffin** · 10-01-24 15:15

Wants $$$ + a hotel b / c they can't host.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-581c6137725b

**Viktor213** · 10-01-24 13:02

Originally Posted by Xcvxxx [View Original Post]

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

All the advance given is right on so nothing to add there. But I think it all depends on what you want. Do you want something more touchy feely or just an attractive side piece that doesn't ask a lot of questions? You need to know. If it's just a side piece the SB doesn't need to know your real name, your real number, details about your life, or any other details that can hurt you as already stated. You set the time, place, conditions, because you're the one paying. If you can't maintain this frame consult a divorce lawyer and protect your assets.

**BumbaCloth** · 10-01-24 12:49

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

Has anyone met this girl:

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...3-66ed59a717eb

She seems nice enough in chat. I got her on the Signal app, for more private conversation, but she oddly didn't want to discuss ppm details that way, and only wanted to do so over the phone.

That could be an awkward conversation, and of course a chance it could be recorded, etc. One reason I use Signal is not have paper trail of such conversation, at least linked to my name and identity. (Although Signal still uses your phone #, but the girls don't have it. And you can actually register with any # you want).

In her Seeking pics, she has hairy pits, so perhaps that means hairy bush as well? Anyway I doubt I will pursue her further, but just curious if anyone else has.

If you like 70's & 80's porn she's your girl if I remember right she said she's doesn't used deodorant or uses natural deodorant.

**CocoMuffin** · 10-01-24 12:43

I had messaged her back and forth several times via text and almost met up. I don't recall what she was asking for because I deleted our convos. We never met up though, my fault. Seems nice and real though.

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

Has anyone met this girl:

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...3-66ed59a717eb

She seems nice enough in chat. I got her on the Signal app, for more private conversation, but she oddly didn't want to discuss ppm details that way, and only wanted to do so over the phone.

That could be an awkward conversation, and of course a chance it could be recorded, etc. One reason I use Signal is not have paper trail of such conversation, at least linked to my name and identity. (Although Signal still uses your phone #, but the girls don't have it. And you can actually register with any # you want).

In her Seeking pics, she has hairy pits, so perhaps that means hairy bush as well? Anyway I doubt I will pursue her further, but just curious if anyone else has.

**Peter Johnson** · 10-01-24 12:28

Originally Posted by Xcvxxx [View Original Post]

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

I'm not married, but just remember the saying "There are 100 ways to get busted, cheating, and if you can think of 50 of them, you are a genius." And I've certainly had girlfriends and had to do the same thing so I know how challenging it can be. But the obvious steps to take are use burner phone, don't use your real name. Use burner email for the Seeking acct, of course don't have your real pics on there, etc. You can also go further and takes steps not to let a SB see your car or license plate, etc but can only go so far and there will always be some risk. And always, the usual std, pregnancy and psychb*tch stalker risks, as with any dating.

But yes, it can all be worth it if you find the right girl and have some amazing experiences (and no fallout). Just don't get lazy and complacent, if you have a lot to lose and could be a lot of innocent and harmless fun, to be had by all.

**CocoMuffin** · 10-01-24 12:28

The sugar daddy lifestyle is very much a situation of you get exactly what you're looking based on how much effort you and SB put into the relationship.

If you still just want pump and go, you'll find that. If you want something more long term FWB, you'll find that. If you want to divorce your wife and find a new one, you'll find it. If you're poly and want a real gf with sugar benefits, you'll find it. Whatever you want, establish it early at the latest in the meet and greet.

For boundaries, a burner phone or google voice number is great. Avoid connecting on social media. If you're meeting out in public, have a game plan if you run into someone you know.

Originally Posted by Xcvxxx [View Original Post]

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

**Peter Johnson** · 10-01-24 12:22

Has anyone met this girl:

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...3-66ed59a717eb

She seems nice enough in chat. I got her on the Signal app, for more private conversation, but she oddly didn't want to discuss ppm details that way, and only wanted to do so over the phone.

That could be an awkward conversation, and of course a chance it could be recorded, etc. One reason I use Signal is not have paper trail of such conversation, at least linked to my name and identity. (Although Signal still uses your phone #, but the girls don't have it. And you can actually register with any # you want).

In her Seeking pics, she has hairy pits, so perhaps that means hairy bush as well? Anyway I doubt I will pursue her further, but just curious if anyone else has.

**BumbaCloth** · 10-01-24 12:06

Originally Posted by ReffingMan94 [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?

Xoxo195.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-3d6d7f691eb0
Lani.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-2202b608b1ff
Bean.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-712cc5d12ecb
Petite2638.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-c7687038b432
Pheonix.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-345591b17dc7

She's Filipina, it was like pulling teeth to get her to show a pic of her. The profile pic is supposedly her four kids go. She first sent me a pic of her when she was slim her current pics she try to hide her shape.

**MSmith3034** · 10-01-24 10:48

PM if you like, but this is the concise version.

It's still a quid pro quo situation, just as you are accustomed to, but less turn & burn. You need to play up your value slightly (but not overboard) and persona a bit more than a girl who knows nothing about you before you come & after you go. But don't overthink it, keep it simple and don't share anything you don't want getting out to the world. Create an alter ego and live up to that. A decent SB only wants to know some basics to know you are a decent human typically and she wants to be left alone outside of the arrangement probably as much as you do.

Originally Posted by Xcvxxx [View Original Post]

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

**Xcvxxx** · 10-01-24 10:06

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

**Peter Pan** · 09-30-24 22:25

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-2269a2e8d8bc

**Airmantroy** · 09-30-24 09:30

Originally Posted by ReffingMan94 [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?

Xoxo195.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-3d6d7f691eb0

Lani.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-2202b608b1ff

She has decent pics on the site, but they hide the gut in front (40#'s worth). And she is very aware of it, boring, unethusiastic and a pain in the ass to pin down for a meet.

**CookiesMan** · 09-30-24 02:34

Originally Posted by ReffingMan94 [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?

Xoxo195.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-3d6d7f691eb0

Lani.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-2202b608b1ff

Bean.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-712cc5d12ecb

Petite2638.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-c7687038b432

Pheonix.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-345591b17dc7

Lani always claimed she could meet, but would ghost when the time was agreed upon.

Petite: I reached out to her about 4 months ago but never heard anything back.

**Berol Loz** · 09-29-24 22:59

The end of the month is usually a good time to check the sugar sites out as rent / bills are coming due. I usually look for girls with something in their profile that sounds like they are willing to meet and have a few photos, ideally full body. Here's a couple around the Atlanta area:

Gracie6431,20, Marietta.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...73132081&nsp=1

"Looking for a kind and caring individual to occasionally hangout with. Should be mutually benefial!

Esme, 22, Griffin.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...67837782&nsp=1

"I want to be your sugar b*by*. I go to college, I live on my own*.

Diva, 21, Atlanta.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...72945838&nsp=1

"currently looking for a short term arrangement but long term is possible".

Goddess08,21, Savannah.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...72456646&nsp=1

"interested in a mutually beneficial arrangement".

Sofi2834,22, Atlanta.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...69320884&nsp=1

"prefer a longterm discreet arrangement. I require an allowance. Monthly or PPM. ".