NoVA SugarBabies

[VictorSmitham]

There is no algorithm. This isn't Match dot com. It is individuals clicking on "Favorite button", or sending messages.

Regarding your experience, it is fairly easy to explain. There are a limited number of 8,9,10's, and they already messaged you.

Nah, there has to be something. When I come on here and click on the links, there are beautiful girls that have never once popped up on my feed.

[BuckNaked84]

There is no algorithm. This isn't Match dot com. It is individuals clicking on "Favorite button", or sending messages.

Regarding your experience, it is fairly easy to explain. There are a limited number of 8,9,10's, and they already messaged you.

Is anyone noticing something weird about the seeking algorithm? I stupidly signed up for a 90 day membership and I'm being shown all old, busted up fat chicks. Even though I have been matching with only 8's, 9's, and 10's. I'm not sure what is going on but I'm kind of irritated that I spent so much and all of a sudden I'm not getting any matches or messages. When I signed up for 30 days, my inbox gets 3 - 5 messages per day and 20+ interested SBs. Anyone else noticing this bullshit?

[VictorSmitham]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...b-e23a76fc983f

I see it pop up in searches, and I've never reached out to this profile, but anytime I click into the profile, it says it doesn't exist.

Nope mine doesn't show it either.

[VictorSmitham]

Is anyone noticing something weird about the seeking algorithm? I stupidly signed up for a 90 day membership and I'm being shown all old, busted up fat chicks. Even though I have been matching with only 8's, 9's, and 10's. I'm not sure what is going on but I'm kind of irritated that I spent so much and all of a sudden I'm not getting any matches or messages. When I signed up for 30 days, my inbox gets 3 - 5 messages per day and 20+ interested SBs. Anyone else noticing this bullshit?

[NovaNova]

Yes. "Passable" is the tell.

Typically they point it out or put Trans-friendly in their profile tags. This one does neither but it does say but it does say "very passable" and looking for "open minded" guys. If you read between the lines, plus someone looks a little off in the pics, me thinks this one's a sheep in wolves clothing LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-8e7d6c0a7d76

I believe overall consensus from the board is that this "chick" is a dude based on previous posts. Que Aerosmith "Dude Looks Like a Lady".

[NovaNova]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...b-e23a76fc983f

I see it pop up in searches, and I've never reached out to this profile, but anytime I click into the profile, it says it doesn't exist.

Nope cannot see it on my real nor my ghost account. Guessing she has her profile hidden.

[NovaNova]

I agree with everything he said. Definitely worse than 5-10 years ago but worth it when you find a good one. My rotation is down to 3 but the 3 have been 4 years going strong. All unprotected, multiple rounds. I have gone back into the tank to find new ones but it's a hassle with the higher prices and meet and greets. Before my current 3, I probably had 8 regular SBs that fizzled over the years for different reasons.

I actually did go back into the tank recently and met a gorgeous 22 year old Latina but wanted 600 a meet and a guaranteed 4 times a month. Not sustainable with my other SBs so I met her twice hoping she would be okay with once a month since we got along well. Nope, didn't go for it. Her name was Delilah and a nurse. Lucky guy (s) whoever is currently seeing her. Really hot.

SB is great for business travel! Even international. Before your trip, buy the membership and put your profile in the destination city. Say in your profile your in town in business, it works really well since you have a paid hotel. They will even be tour guides that you can fuck LOL. Did that in two asian countries for business and it was amazing. Also do it in the US. Hopefully the game doesn't completely go away in 5 years at this rate.

I'll answer your questions. Others may have different opinions.

Yes, I recommend the Sugar Game and have tutored 2 of my good friends who were old school looking for hookups in bars. And yes, the sugar experience is much worse than it was 5-10 years ago. Doesn't mean you can't have fun, it just requires a LOT of work.

Most SB's don't think of themselves as sex workers. And you will see pro's advertising as SB's. One of my best experiences was with a woman who was a SB and transitioned to a pro while we were in an arrangement. There are also bots, fakes, scammers, women seeking platonic and women with GPS.

Currently, I buy and hold. It's too much work to find a good SB. Previously, I dropped SB's for the smallest infractions (real or perceived). As a matter of personal preference, I enjoy the "connection" with a SB and therefore rarely did one-and-done unless the sex was bad.

Red flags? There are many. Read the numerous forums out on the internet and educate yourself before getting in the game. Rule #1: Never pay money up front. Only pay after the bump and grind. Rule #2: Never forget Rule #1.

Currently have a 4 SB rotation (although one has gone MIA). No plans to stop seeing any of them and not actively recruiting.

I have a few questions about your SB experience.

Do you recommend SB or is the experience getting worse over time?

Are they typically independent?

Is your experience typical one and done or long term?

What red flags do you look for?

Thanks! I've been curious if a SB worth exploring.

Rudy and Tophat offer sound response to your question that I have found to be 100% accurate during my time in the bowl which is far less than theirs. It is a ton of work to actually find a decent rotation of SBs to connect with. Unless you actually want to have repeat performances with some kind of a connection, escorts are a far easier and cheaper route to go and some of the agencies have some very hot girls. There was recently a report on the NOVA agency board describing a duo performance with two K-girls that look way hotter than many of the girls in the bowl. Many of the girls that I have met have complained that they get messages asking to meet in an hour or two as they do not consider themselves escorts. A quality SB has a job with her own life and will not be at your beckoning call. Many of these girls get dozens of messages every day so they may take several days or never respond to your message. I was able to build up my rotation of 3 over several months but then at the end of June one told me that she would no longer be able to see me after July so I was down to 2 in August. It took me all of July & August, tons of messages that either were not reponded to or went no where, a few meet and greets, a girl with a smoking body but a smelly pussy, a skinny asian that smelled weird with her clothes on, and a catfish I walked out on during the meet and greet, but I think I found her replacement today after all that work. Patience is the key and I too recommend if you are willing to put in the work and actually want the connection.

[PRMan12]

PRMan, she's been reviewed by a few mongers. Including me. Search the NOVA board for Victoria and Tori. My last encounter with her was a cash and dash. Watch your 6 if you decide to meet. See post #13267. DM if you need more info

I think it may be a different girl, no cash and dash, but still not great, as the girl was very nice but 40 lbs added to pics!

[CuriousVaMan]

PRMan, she's been reviewed by a few mongers. Including me. Search the NOVA board for Victoria and Tori. My last encounter with her was a cash and dash. Watch your 6 if you decide to meet. See post #13267. DM if you need more info

Hey gents-.

Any Intel on this one: https://members.seeking.com/member/2...5-22985f7585c2.

Have a date planned for next week, so I can report back, but figured I would check with the boards.

Thanks!

[CuriousVaMan]

Yes. "Passable" is the tell.

Typically they point it out or put Trans-friendly in their profile tags. This one does neither but it does say but it does say "very passable" and looking for "open minded" guys. If you read between the lines, plus someone looks a little off in the pics, me thinks this one's a sheep in wolves clothing LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-8e7d6c0a7d76

[Dimples572]

Hey gents-.

Any Intel on this one: https://members.seeking.com/member/2...5-22985f7585c2.

Have a date planned for next week, so I can report back, but figured I would check with the boards.

Thanks!

She's had multiple accounts over the years. She's the one that'll do a cash and grab on you. Have you pay the ppm upfront and then ghost you. She's freak, but if you do actually see her make sure you stick to your guns and refuse to pay until the deed is done.

[SRH59]

I chatted with her last week. Says she's not really interested in a "purely physical" arrangement.

Got the same statement from her. Then a prompt to tell me what I could do in an arrangement, which I really didn't know how to answer. Like, how much do I pay not to have sex?? That was the end of that discussion but she is sexy.

[Dimples572]

This one's a pro in town visiting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...1-7f6d76f26334

https://alicesky.co/

[PRMan12]

Probably way more hood than you want, but actually real. Not perusing.

She's real, but wants 1500. I know no one here is paying that, but honestly who in there right mind would. She's 500 max and that's being generous. Hoping someone has been with her for less?

[PRMan12]

Hey gents-.

Any Intel on this one: https://members.seeking.com/member/2...5-22985f7585c2.

Have a date planned for next week, so I can report back, but figured I would check with the boards.

Thanks!