NoVA SugarBabies

[LowKey12]

This one just told me the lowest she's gotten is $3 K a meet or $10 K a month.

What the actual fuck?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...c-c505d6806aa7

[ProCatHunter]

In the world of sugar, disposability is a feature, not a bug. Sucks that she disappeared, but now you have space to search for a replacement. Isn't that really half the fun of all of this? If the end state was what we all wanted, we'd be posting on the escort threads.

Something something, as we get older, they all stay the same age. Have fun with it. Especially since though it ended earlier than you would've liked, it didn't get stale, and as you already know they all get stale. In some respects, she did you a favor by not having to slowly ghost her!

Must be karma coming to bite me hard in my ass.

I always have a rotation going but lately I haven't been on seeking for months and over time I have "slow" ghosted several of my own SBs because I was bored. So this is ultimately a taste of my own bitter medicine. I'm part of the problem, most of us are. We treat people as disposable and then when we get treated the same way, it bothers us (it bothers me for sure).

And yes I've gotten complacent. I have one AAA rated SB at the moment, I've posted about her before. But due to schedules we can only meet 1-2 times a month. None of the other SB in my rotation compared (actually none of my past lovers in 50 yr compare LOL) so over time I drop them off without actively searching to fill the void.

And when this new SB popped up by chance (not on seeking or online!) I got a bit too carried away. Maybe I was over eager and needy. Something I am not in general but I guess she could sense the desperation. And ghosted me! Who knows.

[HeyDuhman]

In the bowl, we are all fungible. We have rotations, most of us will keep looking until our rotations are full. Guys who can only handle 1 due to schedule will often keep looking so they can upgrade. I've been in both scenarios. Getting ghosted in the bowl is routine. I don't do it for lots of reasons but mainly to avoid having an angry sb.

She might have found a daddy who is willing to provide triple what you provide. She might have been on seeking for a revenge fuck because her boyfriend or baby daddy wasn't paying enough attention. 95% of these girls are batshit crazy.

Don't overthink it, just find the next sb who will likely have a softer tighter pussy. All SBs come with expiration dates. Alternatively, if you're looking for a relationship, you should probably be on match or bumble. Not trying to be pejorative, but the girls on seeking are looking for 1 thing just like us.

Must be karma coming to bite me hard in my ass.

I always have a rotation going but lately I haven't been on seeking for months and over time I have "slow" ghosted several of my own SBs because I was bored. So this is ultimately a taste of my own bitter medicine. I'm part of the problem, most of us are. We treat people as disposable and then when we get treated the same way, it bothers us (it bothers me for sure).

And yes I've gotten complacent. I have one AAA rated SB at the moment, I've posted about her before. But due to schedules we can only meet 1-2 times a month. None of the other SB in my rotation compared (actually none of my past lovers in 50 yr compare LOL) so over time I drop them off without actively searching to fill the void.

And when this new SB popped up by chance (not on seeking or online!) I got a bit too carried away. Maybe I was over eager and needy. Something I am not in general but I guess she could sense the desperation. And ghosted me! Who knows.

[ProCatHunter]

In the bowl, we are all fungible. We have rotations, most of us will keep looking until our rotations are full. Guys who can only handle 1 due to schedule will often keep looking so they can upgrade. I've been in both scenarios. Getting ghosted in the bowl is routine. I don't do it for lots of reasons but mainly to avoid having an angry sb.

She might have found a daddy who is willing to provide triple what you provide. She might have been on seeking for a revenge fuck because her boyfriend or baby daddy wasn't paying enough attention. 95% of these girls are batshit crazy.

Don't overthink it, just find the next sb who will likely have a softer tighter pussy. All SBs come with expiration dates. Alternatively, if you're looking for a relationship, you should probably be on match or bumble. Not trying to be pejorative, but the girls on seeking are looking for 1 thing just like us.

So since I started on seeking / sugaring a few years ago it has been good.

Almost all the arrangements / situation ships ended on my terms (except one. My favorite sb from 2023).

But recently I had started an arrangement with a great young girl. Not from seeking for a change. LOL.

Date 1 great.

Date 2 greater.

Date 3 planned and lots of flirting in between.

Day before date 3 she goes silent.

Date of date 3 I don't follow up, still waiting for her to respond to my previous text. But alas. No response. I don't bother following up to my previous text confirming the date logistics and details.

Day after the date 3 I start to feel like shit and here we are crying like a baby.

Rejection hurts. Maybe more so in sugaring than in traditional dating?

How do you guys deal?

[Arty33]

I don't get butt hurt or emotionally feel. I do chase them actively, I will follow up on the date and after the date and try to get her back, do all my charming powers, why? Because I want to fuck her if she's desirable. The sense of accomplishment in getting her to my bed naked and doing my favorite BB with a bonus CIP makes me feel good about it. If I can't get there fine, I tried then move on. Once I have done that, then every other time is an extra until I get tired of her, and no longer care too much if she leaves me. Sometimes the sex is so good and money is reasonable for me to keep her, and I love to keep her, but if she moves on then at that point I don't feel the same need to chase her. It's all about sex in that world, nothing else, and for SBs it's all about that allowance, ofc they care about sex as they do get horny and love good sex, but they always put allowance over good sex.

So since I started on seeking / sugaring a few years ago it has been good.

Almost all the arrangements / situation ships ended on my terms (except one. My favorite sb from 2023).

But recently I had started an arrangement with a great young girl. Not from seeking for a change. LOL.

Date 1 great.

Date 2 greater.

Date 3 planned and lots of flirting in between.

Day before date 3 she goes silent.

Date of date 3 I don't follow up, still waiting for her to respond to my previous text. But alas. No response. I don't bother following up to my previous text confirming the date logistics and details.

Day after the date 3 I start to feel like shit and here we are crying like a baby.

Rejection hurts. Maybe more so in sugaring than in traditional dating?

How do you guys deal?

[NovaNova]

This one starts asking for $$ upfront for beauty appointments. Too bad. Probably not real but I thought the cute / GND look vs IG model might be legit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...f-25d64aae3186

Another one with a profile that has been around for several months. Maybe another sleeper profile Buck commented on previously.

[NovaNova]

So since I started on seeking / sugaring a few years ago it has been good.

Almost all the arrangements / situation ships ended on my terms (except one. My favorite sb from 2023).

But recently I had started an arrangement with a great young girl. Not from seeking for a change. LOL.

Date 1 great.

Date 2 greater.

Date 3 planned and lots of flirting in between.

Day before date 3 she goes silent.

Date of date 3 I don't follow up, still waiting for her to respond to my previous text. But alas. No response. I don't bother following up to my previous text confirming the date logistics and details.

Day after the date 3 I start to feel like shit and here we are crying like a baby.

Rejection hurts. Maybe more so in sugaring than in traditional dating?

How do you guys deal?

That's easy, just don't give a fuck. It's like anything in life, win some loose some, but in the end who cares? The world keeps spinning and life goes on. Move on to the next and sure as shit do not shed a tear for her because she is not even thinking about you. You need to remember that the only reason she was hanging out with you to begin with is because you gave her an allowance and there are plenty of others that will gladly take your money. Think with the big head and remember that these girls are fucking for money, fucking other dudes, and will eventually move on if someone offering a bigger allowance enters their rotation. Be honest with yourself, did you stop window shopping for SBs when you added her to your rotation or did you keep looking for the next best thing and would you have dropped her if someone better came along? She also might still reach out once she looses a dude in her rotation and wants your allowance again unless you were a complete jerk to her.

[SRH59]

This one starts asking for $$ upfront for beauty appointments. Too bad. Probably not real but I thought the cute / GND look vs IG model might be legit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...f-25d64aae3186

[BuckNaked84]

Some are exactly like guys. Is what it is.

Been there, done that. Two is better than one. LOL.

[BuckNaked84]

Been there, done that. Two is better than one. LOL.

Bro. I'm not new here. We had sex both times.

It must have been so bad. LOL:

[HeyDuhman]

How do you get that far down the road?

Bro. I'm not new here. We had sex both times.

It must have been so bad. LOL:

[BuckNaked84]

How do you get that far down the road?

So since I started on seeking / sugaring a few years ago it has been good.

Almost all the arrangements / situation ships ended on my terms (except one. My favorite sb from 2023).

But recently I had started an arrangement with a great young girl. Not from seeking for a change. LOL.

Date 1 great.

Date 2 greater.

Date 3 planned and lots of flirting in between.

Day before date 3 she goes silent.

Date of date 3 I don't follow up, still waiting for her to respond to my previous text. But alas. No response. I don't bother following up to my previous text confirming the date logistics and details.

Day after the date 3 I start to feel like shit and here we are crying like a baby.

Rejection hurts. Maybe more so in sugaring than in traditional dating?

How do you guys deal?

[HeyDuhman]

So since I started on seeking / sugaring a few years ago it has been good.

Almost all the arrangements / situation ships ended on my terms (except one. My favorite sb from 2023).

But recently I had started an arrangement with a great young girl. Not from seeking for a change. LOL.

Date 1 great.

Date 2 greater.

Date 3 planned and lots of flirting in between.

Day before date 3 she goes silent.

Date of date 3 I don't follow up, still waiting for her to respond to my previous text. But alas. No response. I don't bother following up to my previous text confirming the date logistics and details.

Day after the date 3 I start to feel like shit and here we are crying like a baby.

Rejection hurts. Maybe more so in sugaring than in traditional dating?

How do you guys deal?

[BuckNaked84]

Just amazed that she could post that profile, when I am afraid to mention anything monetary whatsoever for fear of being banned for life. LOL.

This is actually legit. This is porn star Britt Blair and she has been posting that she is visiting DC in August. She's hot as he'll, but she is pricey. It's pretty in line with standard porn star rates but I'm pretty sure she's independent.

She has reviews on TER and her ad is on Tryst.

[BuckNaked84]

She was just moving to DC last we chatted. Was looking for a room for several days, which I wasn't down for. She went dark. Hopefully she sticks around, who knows.

I would say Blaisian as well. Who knows.

Fellas, if you've visited the Philippines, Thailand, Cambodia and many other places, when you see them pure or mixed with Black or Latin, this tends to be the look.

That being said, does anyone have any insight or experience that could beneficial?

Thanks to the gentleman who provide insight on the origin of her photos.