Strip Club Reports

[TempleAvenue]

Can we conclude the purported 9's and 10's giving FS in the strip clubs do not exist in the real world of SD? LOL.

I thought maybe a plant / shill from one of the clubs would post but looks like a big fat zero.

I used to go SC in both San Diego and LA (City of Industry, Hacienda Heights) around 2010 era. Even that time, LAs one are more fun, and cheaper. You can get single dances / special like 4 dances for price of two. I like the Deja Vu on Gale and another one on Gale past the USPS. I forgot the name but they shut it down. I would expect that it was due to FS offered. Many girls offered FS and it was about $1. 2 for a quick like 3 songs duration. Of because, everything is covered. I remember a girl named Robyn. She's tall, nice body, very pretty and horny. But it was dark and the girls were very strict. You can rub their p* or even spread and look at it. But it's good. Once I had a FS with a girl with pretty face and with like JLO booty (natural).

Deja Vu is also closed now (after covid I stopped by once). A lot of pretty girls, 18+ club so fully nude and lots of lights on the stage. It's my thing that before I got a dance, I want to see naked dancing spreading on the stage and it turned on my so much when I actually got the dance. I never had FS at Deja Vu but lots of sucking tits. I don't remember getting FIV in a regular dance rooms. Only one time I had a private dance for 30 minutes. But Deja Vu I had touch and sucked beautiful tits (all natural as I am strictly natural boobs / ass guys). The only girl I remembered was the girl from Iran. Her friend / partner also a dancer and both are hot. But the girl from Iran was so hot, very beautiful tits and very young. I sucked her tits so much. I later got the dance from the gf of the Iran's girl, and I told her that I sucker her tits. She's not really happy. LOL. Lots of young girls (white / Latina / Asia) and I truly missed those. And the waitress would clean the stage by crawling in four. There is one girl (Latina) with nice ass, she turned on me so much. I always tips her and admired her ass. And whey they announced Balloon dance (you get a Red Bull) and get a dance from the waitress to pop a ballon on your lap (no clothing came off) I approached her to get one from her but some reason she never wanted to give me a dance. But one time I had a dance from waitress (she's mixed Asian and white). Her breasts revealed so much and I got to touch it from outside. She would grab my hands and rub all over her breast from outside. She's like 10/10 and would be the girl at the college so hot everyone knows her.

For San Diego, the SC are bored compared to LA. Goldfinger and Cheetah are the most fun. I have only been to other clubs once and never visited. I used to visit Goldfinger before covid and there are a few girls (like 8/9) on Friday / Sat nights. I usually get nude dances. Some bouncers caught you touching (even girls allowed) they would warn you. Cheetah is expensive. You got to buy 5 songs.

I visited Cheetah last week and this is my experience. Five songs minimum ($1) and nothing came off. But they have ICE box that 30 minutes for $4. Tops off but not the bottom. During my visit, I saw three beautiful girls (Gia (Latina), Princess (Persian) and I don't remember the last one. Young Latina with very perky tits and a tattoo between her tits. Nice butt and beautiful kitty). I saw Gia and the other Latina on stage (back stage has better view as it's closed and can see the girls better). I was going to get a dance from Gia before closing time and she got a customer doing 30 minutes dance and she said "NO" it will be a while when I asked her to get me after giving dance to the customer. And I have been eyeing on Princess (beautiful Persian with very smooth skin and bra showing her boobs). I was able to grab Princess 30 minutes to closing time and started with 5 songs. I was able to touch her and I wanted to see her breast and more private. So I upgraded to ICE box. Her breast were MM but done very nicely. Most areas of the breasts felt real and once small area, I could feel silicon. And of because, I saw the stiches and for sure I know it's MM. But they really felt natural for the most part. I wanted to see her p* and asked her to slide the panty to show me but she didn't show it to me. She is a coversationalist and didn't really give me a dance for the last half of the time. Just rubbing here and I am mostly grabbing her tits. I still wanted to get dances from Gia so I hanged out near the ladies room. Girls are leaving and saw Gia in a street clothes and she can't give me a dance anymore. (I felt Gia thought I was bluffing when I asked her to get me for a dance. But we run into each other from the regular dance rooms when Princess and I upgraded to ICE and me handing out Benajamin to the bouncer). But somehow I still wanted to experience Gia. Why there is no escorts like Gia or Pricess?

Anyone you know those two girls? If you have better experiences from those two girls (other than roaming all over their breasts), please share or let me know. (I was hesitated when I was asking Gia about the dances and what she offered before she disappeared with the last customer on that night, she offered me that I could touch down there inside the panty I think. But she won't take off the panty). Gia's face is sexy, I like her natural tits and her butt is very nice. Not too curvy but very beautiful when she is nude and standing up.

[FreeWally]

That said I would like to know where in San Diego these Full Service Strip clubs are? Not TJ, or Thailand, or Columbia, or even Germany. Where in San Diego are these clubs with all the girls offering FS?

Nowhere, as I've said. I wouldn't be driving to COI and writing guides about those clubs if I could just do it in SD. Other people wouldn't either.

I also need to ask where in the club are you getting Full Service? How do you get by the bouncers checking in, or other customers showing up?

I've had it offered at several clubs, but it's the exception and never a hot girl. Hot girls only offer light extras that nobody cares about. Girls that offer medium extras like handjobs, FIV, etc. Know the blind spots of the cameras. Who cares if the bouncer comes in, they just stop. I can't even see the customer across from me get extras clearly unless I stare. I know about the blind spots because those girls will always go to the same spot, or if a girl thinks I'm cool she will move me to that spot. I've had other girls even say so.

As I've said, I have even pointed out to people the security feeds that are in plain sight. One monitor shows all around the club so security can see if customers are following or harassing girls, or coming into the club looking for trouble by their behavior. That's in color. The other black and white monitor you can see me getting dances and waving. It's important to make sure dancers are safe and nobody is being stupid. Nobody cares if a girl's bra falls off for the entire dance. There were some years bouncers got strict about not straddling or being topless but this was just for show they didn't care that they did these things they just did not want the club to get caught allowing it. Cheetah's used to be raided all the time until they won a huge lawsuit over it (made national headlines).

It seems to me because the strip clubs business model is not that effective any more. Many have not recovered and opened up after covid. And we know many are closing down for good. This leads me to suggest that many mongers no longer go because they to don't get enough bang for their buck.

Every club is different. COI clubs are non-stop fuck fests where girls will look at you funny for asking for just a no-tip dance for the official rate. I had Safari hop off me the moment I said I wanted just a dance.

The majority of clubs are now franchises, which makes them soulless and exploit the dancers more than even the customers, forcing dancers to take funny money as payment (Deja Vu franchises) or taking almost all the dance money (Kim Clubs in COI) so that dancers make money mostly on tips. Forcing them to do extras.

There is another key point that several have mentioned either directly or in passing. Being a regular. We all know being a regular, who of course is spending money and getting to know the girls well usually gets special attention. I confess, I've never gone enough to be a regular. I don't go to talk to pretty girls or to enjoy their company, so with that understanding, I'm just a new fish passing thru, which contributes to my impression of the business.

There are two types of regulars. A person who is a regular. The girl knows him, goes up to him right away. That is mostly the only special attention they get. Then there is the whale simp regular who gives ten times as much to girls. He doesn't even have to be a real regular and girls will give him special attention. Typically older retirees who have more money than they could spend at a strip club anyways. I've always been the first type, and it was a lot of fun. But I never much real special attention. Girls were very nice to me and were happy to chat for a bit, that's all. Not the same as I could describe to the guys spending thousands each visit. When people say regulars, they do not mean the latter normally. But you'll hear wild stories attributed to the latter even though that's not normal at all. If it were, girls wouldn't even bother giving dances to anyone else.

I've said in every post that full service clubs don't really exist. There are some strippers that will escort out of the club that is different and not in the club. And there are FS girls at clubs but they aren't the norm and the higher the service I got offered the uglier they were. I always ignored them because I would not even get a dance with them let alone extras. I named the one exception in my previous post but I'm going to avoid naming girls anymore. If someone says full service clubs in SD (whether hot girls or it being the norm) then at the same time they are lying but also I would like to know. If you want to believe the shills go ahead and go to their club. Be my guest.

[Muncher8888]

Hey, believe me guys, I get what attracts many guys to strip clubs. I like to watch 8's, 9's, and 10, dancing naked too.

That said I would like to know where in San Diego these Full Service Strip clubs are? Not TJ, or Thailand, or Columbia, or even Germany. Where in San Diego are these clubs with all the girls offering FS?


Going back to my question. Where are these Full Service Strip Clubs? And please be specific, because I can assure you, if I can fuck a 10, or a 9 for $$$ or maybe $$ I'd see the clubs in a whole new light.

Can we conclude the purported 9's and 10's giving FS in the strip clubs do not exist in the real world of SD? LOL.

I thought maybe a plant / shill from one of the clubs would post but looks like a big fat zero.

[Lascivious]

This doesn't look like a strip club. Heck, it's not even a club at all it's a venue you can rent to throw your own party.

I was doom scrolling IG and an ad for it came up. It said new gentlemen's club.

[ToddRichards12]

Looks like a new club is opening August 11th.

https://wickedwestsd.com/

This doesn't look like a strip club. Heck, it's not even a club at all it's a venue you can rent to throw your own party.

[Lascivious]

Looks like a new club is opening August 11th.

https://wickedwestsd.com/

[FreeWally]

That said I would like to know where in San Diego these Full Service Strip clubs are? Not TJ, or Thailand, or Columbia, or even Germany. Where in San Diego are these clubs with all the girls offering FS?

COI means City of Industry. It has its own thread in the LA section. I used to be a regular contributor to that thread until I switched back to kgirls and jgirls. The nice thing about COI clubs is there are a lot of young girls, including many young white girls. If you want a classy upscale club, go Spearmint Rhino. If you want lots of girls to choose from and just want to get straight to it, Synn. Thursday is the busiest day because of VIP deals and gives you a good idea of what's possible, though you will have to park far from Synn and walk there due to everyone else doing the same. It's not for everyone, personally I liked Spearmint more but if you want just FS go to Synn.

About being a regular, it only makes sense if you are retired with too much money and too little life left to live, and don't mind being in the club all the time. It is not worth it for anyone else, but if that described someone then I think it is a good fit. Not a bad way to spend your last years if you have everything else in order. Once I was a regular girls no longer approached me like someone new, which honestly is more fun in my opinion. There is no point in competing, there is always someone willing to spend too much on a girl. So have your fun but don't overspend.

When I went to Cheetah's often it was quite enjoyable for what it was, but after a point I got nothing new out of it and then being a regular was a disadvantage for complicated reasons. I don't regret it but there is a time limit and budget limit where you had your fun and have to move on. Same with COI too. Don't get sucked in.

[Bane858]

Confirming what Lobstro says about SD except back in the 2000's there was a hot little Brazilian who would do BBBJ cfs in the private dance area of Goldfingers or whatever it was called at that time. No extra charge either. My only regret is I only got to see her twice before she moved back to Brazil.

They don't exist. I think that guy was referring to some clubs up in LA, where I have zero knowledge. I have frequented the strip clubs in San Diego since I moved here in 1986, sometimes to excess (when I made good money in tech and got occasional bonuses to burn), and I have never had actual sex in any of the clubs, nor do I know anyone who has. From before the time I moved here, the city has had it in for the clubs, often spending a lot of resources with various stings and harassments. And once you lose a license, fat chance of getting a new one. So the clubs have far too much at risk to let it happen. You've got "eyes" everywhere. Maybe the owner or manager is getting laid in a back room, but customers are not.

[Lobstro]

Hey, believe me guys, I get what attracts many guys to strip clubs. I like to watch 8's, 9's, and 10, dancing naked too.

That said I would like to know where in San Diego these Full Service Strip clubs are? Not TJ, or Thailand, or Columbia, or even Germany. Where in San Diego are these clubs with all the girls offering FS?

They don't exist. I think that guy was referring to some clubs up in LA, where I have zero knowledge. I have frequented the strip clubs in San Diego since I moved here in 1986, sometimes to excess (when I made good money in tech and got occasional bonuses to burn), and I have never had actual sex in any of the clubs, nor do I know anyone who has. From before the time I moved here, the city has had it in for the clubs, often spending a lot of resources with various stings and harassments. And once you lose a license, fat chance of getting a new one. So the clubs have far too much at risk to let it happen. You've got "eyes" everywhere. Maybe the owner or manager is getting laid in a back room, but customers are not.

[MaximusKahn]

Hey, believe me guys, I get what attracts many guys to strip clubs. I like to watch 8's, 9's, and 10, dancing naked too.

That said I would like to know where in San Diego these Full Service Strip clubs are? Not TJ, or Thailand, or Columbia, or even Germany. Where in San Diego are these clubs with all the girls offering FS?

I also need to ask where in the club are you getting Full Service? How do you get by the bouncers checking in, or other customers showing up?

It seems to me because the strip clubs business model is not that effective any more. Many have not recovered and opened up after covid. And we know many are closing down for good. This leads me to suggest that many mongers no longer go because they to don't get enough bang for their buck.

There is another key point that several have mentioned either directly or in passing. Being a regular. We all know being a regular, who of course is spending money and getting to know the girls well usually gets special attention. I confess, I've never gone enough to be a regular. I don't go to talk to pretty girls or to enjoy their company, so with that understanding, I'm just a new fish passing thru, which contributes to my impression of the business.

Going back to my question. Where are these Full Service Strip Clubs? And please be specific, because I can assure you, if I can fuck a 10, or a 9 for $$$ or maybe $$ I'd see the clubs in a whole new light. Right now, I've only spent too much cash for a hard on. If I can get laid and satisfied, then I'd be happy to endorse strip clubs as a fun place to get some. Right now they are just a place to spend a lot of money looking at naked women and leaving hard and horny. Which is not enough bang for my buck. To put it simply, I have other more satisfying options to get FS that are less expensive.



If you don't want to share all the great information in the open forum, feel free to PM me with specifics.

To all you mongers who love the clubs, I say enjoy them, and be grateful, I'm one less monger between you and your time with the girls.

Be grateful. At some places every girl will ask you for sex. I just told my story of how Safari from Synn COI hopped right off of me when she found out I wanted a just dance in the VIP. It was my very first time and I was just taking things slow, didn't want to end my night by starting my first girl with sex. Diamond otoh will give you a real dance. Or fuck, up to you. When you have that choice you might not be so shy.

I know your feeling about the money aspect of it, I felt that way when I was young. So maybe it's not too hard too hard for you to imagine that as you get much older, you might just want young women and you know you're paying them well so you don't care anymore. Cut to the chase and both of you get what you want, it's a win win. But when most of us are young, our ego and confidence is perhaps more in need than our enjoyment of women. So we care about things like "Did this stripper really like me or not" rather than just enjoying it for what it is.

When you order a Starbucks and pay the lady, do you ask yourself "I wonder if she would be making me a coffee if I didn't give her this money. " I don't. Hope that sums up my answer to your dilemma.

Unfortunately, I do not have a good solution for you here other than to say that there is still some hope and fun for you. When I was young and handsome, a few girls actually did like me, kissed me during dances, asked me to go out, wasted time on me when they shouldn't have. This is not normal, I know, because now old and ugly they sure don't. I will never forget the look of utter confusion and disgust on the bouncer at Cheetah's face as he was making his rounds and saw her deep kissing me and tapped her and said "What the fuck you doing?" Sigh. She had just brought up hanging out and that set me back.

Now I'm smart, I don't have long enough to live to waste time on them. But you are young so go ahead.

[Zaitzev]

...When I was young and handsome, a few girls actually did like me, kissed me during dances, asked me to go out, wasted time on me when they shouldn't have. This is not normal, I know, because now old and ugly they sure don't.

It's like you're writing my memoirs for me. LOL!

I feel the same way. Once was young and in shape and with no family to support, I had a ton of discretionary income. I was getting plenty of extra action from dancers who I hit it off with. Went on dates, was even times where I was the one being asked out by them not the other way around. Got a ton of both ITC and OTC action, at times for no additional charge. Experienced that all through my 20's and 30's.

Now I've passed 50, I'm fat and out of shape, and I don't have enough consistent free time where I could be a regular at a SC, even if I wanted to be one. But occasionally I have a few benjamin's in my pocket that are just dying to be shoved into the G-string of the nearest hot stripper, and who am I to resist that urge?

[FreeWally]

In many ways you are right. I was just sharing my perspective, and appreciate seeing your perspective too.

I've had fun at Strip Clubs, but I've never had sex at one. A lot of teasing and stimulation, but I'm not into cummings in my pants, so I've never had a completed sexual experience there.

Although we all know the women are there for the money, I've never liked the feeling of getting tons of attention only when I'm giving money away, and ignored when I'm not. Or worse, being suddenly left alone when they realize they got all the money they can from me, and you watch them move onto the next fish tossing money around. The constant pressure to get a lap dance can be annoying at times too.

Be grateful. At some places every girl will ask you for sex. I just told my story of how Safari from Synn COI hopped right off of me when she found out I wanted a just dance in the VIP. It was my very first time and I was just taking things slow, didn't want to end my night by starting my first girl with sex. Diamond otoh will give you a real dance. Or fuck, up to you. When you have that choice you might not be so shy.

I know your feeling about the money aspect of it, I felt that way when I was young. So maybe it's not too hard too hard for you to imagine that as you get much older, you might just want young women and you know you're paying them well so you don't care anymore. Cut to the chase and both of you get what you want, it's a win win. But when most of us are young, our ego and confidence is perhaps more in need than our enjoyment of women. So we care about things like "Did this stripper really like me or not" rather than just enjoying it for what it is.

When you order a Starbucks and pay the lady, do you ask yourself "I wonder if she would be making me a coffee if I didn't give her this money. " I don't. Hope that sums up my answer to your dilemma.

Unfortunately, I do not have a good solution for you here other than to say that there is still some hope and fun for you. When I was young and handsome, a few girls actually did like me, kissed me during dances, asked me to go out, wasted time on me when they shouldn't have. This is not normal, I know, because now old and ugly they sure don't. I will never forget the look of utter confusion and disgust on the bouncer at Cheetah's face as he was making his rounds and saw her deep kissing me and tapped her and said "What the fuck you doing?" Sigh. She had just brought up hanging out and that set me back.

Now I'm smart, I don't have long enough to live to waste time on them. But you are young so go ahead.

[FreeWally]

I have seen this also. The 9-10 gives a better dance. As for extras, usually the less attractive women are more likely to offer. But I have gotten cfs and BBBJ then later BBFS from a 9-10 I kept seeing from Follies in Atlanta.

Sometimes the less hot girls are a shit deal and I don't get it, it seems like an inversion of economics.

The best looking girls succeed by giving dances, to everyone. Almost everybody loves them, no problem. They repeat and get paid. They know their job is to treat everyone well, no matter how old, ugly, or out of shape we are. It's not hard for them because they were nice people to start and their daddies actually loved them. They don't even have to work often, I know one girl is traveling the world more than she's at Cheetah's. She's the nicest girl. Think about it, less time at the club is less stress, hotter looks is less complaints, she can keep being who she really was when she started. I was a bit intimidated because of her looks but she's just a normal person. There's a couple of girls who average a day a week (sometimes taking weeks off and working extra days to catch up) and just enjoy their normal, wholesome lives.

And then there's the other girls. I won't get into that much often but some of them started out rough and got rougher with time from working at the club. Moms that have to work like it or not, women who consider the strip club a step up, etc.

[Habeed]

I agree with you 95%. But there are some times where the girl is just so hot that I don't care. Every now and then comes a girl so hot, I'm happy to spend money just for her attention. Ironically, from my experience, girls who have hit this threshold where I don't care, for some reason, have been amongst the nicest and have given me the best clean lap dances.

Most of the worst lap dances are from 7-8's. Not saying all 7-8 gives bad dances, but it's just that the worst I've had are 7-8. They 8-9 are hit and miss for me. Not the worst, but the best. However, the 9-10's have been amongst the best normally. That's said, haven't see. A 9-10 at Cheetahs. Plenty of 8-9's so that's why I go.

I have seen this also. The 9-10 gives a better dance. As for extras, usually the less attractive women are more likely to offer. But I have gotten cfs and BBBJ then later BBFS from a 9-10 I kept seeing from Follies in Atlanta.

Sometimes the less hot girls are a shit deal and I don't get it, it seems like an inversion of economics.

[Rick James B]

I agree with you 95%. But there are some times where the girl is just so hot that I don't care. Every now and then comes a girl so hot, I'm happy to spend money just for her attention. Ironically, from my experience, girls who have hit this threshold where I don't care, for some reason, have been amongst the nicest and have given me the best clean lap dances.

Most of the worst lap dances are from 7-8's. Not saying all 7-8 gives bad dances, but it's just that the worst I've had are 7-8. They 8-9 are hit and miss for me. Not the worst, but the best. However, the 9-10's have been amongst the best normally. That's said, haven't see. A 9-10 at Cheetahs. Plenty of 8-9's so that's why I go.

In many ways you are right. I was just sharing my perspective, and appreciate seeing your perspective too.

I've had fun at Strip Clubs, but I've never had sex at one. A lot of teasing and stimulation, but I'm not into cummings in my pants, so I've never had a completed sexual experience there.

Although we all know the women are there for the money, I've never liked the feeling of getting tons of attention only when I'm giving money away, and ignored when I'm not. Or worse, being suddenly left alone when they realize they got all the money they can from me, and you watch them move onto the next fish tossing money around. The constant pressure to get a lap dance can be annoying at times too.

The clubs can be very fun for bachelor events, and when hanging out with visiting business men with expense accounts to abuse.

And even though I did, and still do enjoy the show, and may still go now and then, so far I've never left feeling I got a good bang for my buck. Again, all is just in my humble opinion. If they work for you enjoy!