Cuddle Comfort / Pro Cuddlers

[Grimmy23]

I'm new to the site and to the game! Have a cc account and trying to learn.

I didn't see this question asked / answered (hope I didn't miss it):

What do you look for in the profiles. You who have had success at extras.

- I assume that any profile that specifically says "Platonic only" is going to be Platonic only, and you avoided these. (right?

- If I read reviews and see "Set clear boundaries" or something to that effect in the positive review this is a sign it's platonic only??

- What about age range, I'm in my 50's. Best to not book 29-yr old? Or have any found it doesn't matter.

- What about attractiveness level? Those that had bad luck, did you find you were aiming too high?

- Pics that are sexy: showing off butt, puckering up, etc. Are these signs these are escorts?

- Ditto with 20-something yr old smoking hot profiles? (Or has anybody found these are fake / catfish / etc).

- In cases where girls were (as Grimmy23 put it) "more like sex workers", does that mean they would upsell? If so, can anybody share what an expected upsell cost would be? (or is this too varied or too secretive for open conversation?

- Your profile: you have a picture there? I'm have an SO, so I'm not posting a picture. Does this doom my odds?

I'm going to be visiting LA soon and thought I might try there and hoping to maximize my odds.

I'll be happy if I just get a good experience cuddling romantically but without any "completion".

I have lots more questions.

But will be fine if it ends up just cuddling with a nice girl.

What spaaa4 says is pretty spot on. That's the thing with cuddling. We all try to look at profiles and find the hidden clues. The thing is there are very few hidden clues, and the ones you read into profiles aren't always accurate.

Most girls say "platonic only. " Don't take it at face value. I've had some pretty steamy sex with "platonic only" girls and have been blue balled by ones who didn't say that.

Sexy pics. A lot of focus on butt, cleavage, skimpy outfits etc are USUALLY a good sign, but not always. Some of the highest mileage sessions I’ve had have been with girls who had very PG looking profiles. Some of the worst sessions I’ve had have been with girls who had pics of themselves in lingerie or skimpy bikinis.

Few of these girls are sure bets. Strange as it sounds, that's what makes cuddling interesting. Most of us don't want sure bets. We want the girl next door who doesn't spread her legs for 10 guys a day for a living. If we want a sure bet we can go to an AMP and get laid anytime we want very easily. Most of us are into cuddling because we got tired of the AMP scene. The thrll of the chase brings a fun and interesting new spin into the hobby.

The best thing is trust your gut. If you see a few you like, try to get some intel. Ask around on here (preferably by DM to some of the mongers who have experience with cuddling so that we don't publicly out the girls too much). Understand that even with intel it's usually not a sure bet, but you can increase your odds substantially. I’ve gotten extras and even FS from girls who aren’t widely known to provide extras. I’ve gotten nothing from girls who are well known extras providers. A lot about cuddling is how well you vibe with the girl.

Always look at it this way. You’re in a private room with a girl, in a bed (usually), quite often minimally clothed, all while making close body contact. You have your arms around each other. You’re spooning. Hands naturally end up on each other’s bodies. All of the ingredients are there for anything to happen, even with a girl who doesn’t include extras as part of her routine. If she likes you it doesn’t take a huge stretch of the imagination to see how clothes can start falling off.

[Spaaa4]

What do you look for in the profiles. You who have had success at extras.

Pics showing a bit of cleavage / bikini pics.

- I assume that any profile that specifically says "Platonic only" is going to be Platonic only, and you avoided these. (right?

Not always, I'll usually look for a more strict message like "Any request for sexual activity will be reported" "If you're looking for anything sexual look elsewhere " etc.

- What about age range, I'm in my 50's. Best to not book 29-yr old? Or have any found it doesn't matter.

Some have told me they're put off by older men and won't go further that platonic but it depends a lot on the individual.

- Pics that are sexy: showing off butt, puckering up, etc. Are these signs these are escorts?

Not always.

- Ditto with 20-something yr old smoking hot profiles? (Or has anybody found these are fake / catfish / etc).

Chances of them being fake are pretty low if they're pros. If they ask for a deposit or something without karma just skip.

- Your profile: you have a picture there? I'm have an SO, so I'm not posting a picture. Does this doom my odds?

Nope. They usually request one before meeting up though.

[Davtturl01]

I agree 100% If you play your cards right, are respectful and go for a 2 hour then I feel you have the best chance for extras. I have had 10 out of 12 give extras with 8 FS.

Good luck in the chase.

I'm new to the site and to the game! Have a cc account and trying to learn.

I didn't see this question asked / answered (hope I didn't miss it):

What do you look for in the profiles. You who have had success at extras.

- I assume that any profile that specifically says "Platonic only" is going to be Platonic only, and you avoided these. (right?

- If I read reviews and see "Set clear boundaries" or something to that effect in the positive review this is a sign it's platonic only??

- What about age range, I'm in my 50's. Best to not book 29-yr old? Or have any found it doesn't matter.

- What about attractiveness level? Those that had bad luck, did you find you were aiming too high?

- Pics that are sexy: showing off butt, puckering up, etc. Are these signs these are escorts?

- Ditto with 20-something yr old smoking hot profiles? (Or has anybody found these are fake / catfish / etc).

- In cases where girls were (as Grimmy23 put it) "more like sex workers", does that mean they would upsell? If so, can anybody share what an expected upsell cost would be? (or is this too varied or too secretive for open conversation?

- Your profile: you have a picture there? I'm have an SO, so I'm not posting a picture. Does this doom my odds?

I'm going to be visiting LA soon and thought I might try there and hoping to maximize my odds.

I'll be happy if I just get a good experience cuddling romantically but without any "completion".

I have lots more questions.

But will be fine if it ends up just cuddling with a nice girl.

[Spaaa4]

Have been on CC for a while and the quality of girls have definitely gone down. If any of you got a chance to see Erica, Molly, Quinn etc. Hit me up. If you're up for sharing hit me up.

[Spaaa4]

I'm thinking of giving it a go. $120 isn't that much to gamble.

https://losangeles.craigslist.org/la...763816264.html

She's on CC and from talking with her via text she seems strictly platonic.

[Gidden Lade]

I'm thinking of giving it a go. $120 isn't that much to gamble.

https://losangeles.craigslist.org/la...763816264.html

She mentions platonic & non-sexual twice in the ad. Also wants half before meeting up. Sounds like a big gamble & even if she's legit you may not get much other than an actual cuddle. Of course, you never know. Looking forward to seeing what you decide & how it turns out. Good luck brother!

[PriscillaM]

I'm thinking of giving it a go. $120 isn't that much to gamble.

https://losangeles.craigslist.org/la...763816264.html

I would expect to hear lots of Aerosmith in your head for a long time after the session.

[Domino727]

I'm thinking of giving it a go. $120 isn't that much to gamble.

https://losangeles.craigslist.org/la...763816264.html

[LuccaMac]

Being with a cuddler is more like being on a date where you don't know if you're going to get a goodnight kiss, just a hug, or end up in bed. If you play your cards right you can get your nut busted 75% of the time. That's about what my success rate is. There are girls on there who have pressed sexual assault charges on guys who crossed the line, so you do have to be careful. But when extras are going to happen it's usually intuitively obvious that they're going to happen and clothes start falling off, very much like they would on a normal date. I wouldn't recommend rushing anything with any cuddler. If you absolutely have to get off, go to an AMP or see an escort and you'll get off for sure. If it's about an overall more satisfying experience where you have a full hour or two in bed with a nice girl who has nice conversation and it feels more like a real date, cuddlers are right up your alley. You just have to accept that once in a while you're probably going to get blue balled.

I agree 100% If you play your cards right, are respectful and go for a 2 hour then I feel you have the best chance for extras. I have had 10 out of 12 give extras with 8 FS.

Good luck in the chase.

[Grimmy23]

I say he's talking about pros.

I've contacted quite a few non pros and gotten exactly Zero replies while the pros responded about 90%of the time.

Yeah, all pros. I've never seen a non-pro.

[Drooo]

I say he's talking about pros.

I've contacted quite a few non pros and gotten exactly Zero replies while the pros responded about 90%of the time.

Is that your rate with Non-Pro or Pro cuddlers?

[Marcath]

If you play your cards right you can get your nut busted 75% of the time. That's about what my success rate is.

Is that your rate with Non-Pro or Pro cuddlers?

[Grimmy23]

Try this. Go to target, they make a brand of trousers, I forget the name, but they are like 1000% rayon. They are more sheer than any condom on the market. Do not wear boxers and cut a hole in the pants near your penix and asshole, large enough that you will drop out when erect.

Cuddle with that.

Either you will get a handie or more, or you will get arrested.

Being with a cuddler is more like being on a date where you don't know if you're going to get a goodnight kiss, just a hug, or end up in bed. If you play your cards right you can get your nut busted 75% of the time. That's about what my success rate is. There are girls on there who have pressed sexual assault charges on guys who crossed the line, so you do have to be careful. But when extras are going to happen it's usually intuitively obvious that they're going to happen and clothes start falling off, very much like they would on a normal date. I wouldn't recommend rushing anything with any cuddler. If you absolutely have to get off, go to an AMP or see an escort and you'll get off for sure. If it's about an overall more satisfying experience where you have a full hour or two in bed with a nice girl who has nice conversation and it feels more like a real date, cuddlers are right up your alley. You just have to accept that once in a while you're probably going to get blue balled.

[PriscillaM]

Thank you for the advice and tips. Hopefully Ill be contributing soon.

Try this. Go to target, they make a brand of trousers, I forget the name, but they are like 1000% rayon. They are more sheer than any condom on the market. Do not wear boxers and cut a hole in the pants near your penix and asshole, large enough that you will drop out when erect.

Cuddle with that.

Either you will get a handie or more, or you will get arrested.

[Hanbrolo]

Bottom line: Be patient. Be a gentleman. Don't be creepy. Don't get grabby or pushy. Expect nothing but a nice platonic cuddle with a nice girl. Be elated if clothes come off. Be prepared for a strictly platonic session once in a while, and when one happens just enjoy the hour in bed with a nice girl, even though it's platonic. Chalk it up and move on to the next one.

Thank you for the advice and tips. Hopefully Ill be contributing soon.