Cuddle Comfort / Pro Cuddlers

[Marcath]

If you play your cards right you can get your nut busted 75% of the time. That's about what my success rate is.

Is that your rate with Non-Pro or Pro cuddlers?

[Grimmy23]

Try this. Go to target, they make a brand of trousers, I forget the name, but they are like 1000% rayon. They are more sheer than any condom on the market. Do not wear boxers and cut a hole in the pants near your penix and asshole, large enough that you will drop out when erect.

Cuddle with that.

Either you will get a handie or more, or you will get arrested.

Being with a cuddler is more like being on a date where you don't know if you're going to get a goodnight kiss, just a hug, or end up in bed. If you play your cards right you can get your nut busted 75% of the time. That's about what my success rate is. There are girls on there who have pressed sexual assault charges on guys who crossed the line, so you do have to be careful. But when extras are going to happen it's usually intuitively obvious that they're going to happen and clothes start falling off, very much like they would on a normal date. I wouldn't recommend rushing anything with any cuddler. If you absolutely have to get off, go to an AMP or see an escort and you'll get off for sure. If it's about an overall more satisfying experience where you have a full hour or two in bed with a nice girl who has nice conversation and it feels more like a real date, cuddlers are right up your alley. You just have to accept that once in a while you're probably going to get blue balled.

[PriscillaM]

Thank you for the advice and tips. Hopefully Ill be contributing soon.

Try this. Go to target, they make a brand of trousers, I forget the name, but they are like 1000% rayon. They are more sheer than any condom on the market. Do not wear boxers and cut a hole in the pants near your penix and asshole, large enough that you will drop out when erect.

Cuddle with that.

Either you will get a handie or more, or you will get arrested.

[Hanbrolo]

Bottom line: Be patient. Be a gentleman. Don't be creepy. Don't get grabby or pushy. Expect nothing but a nice platonic cuddle with a nice girl. Be elated if clothes come off. Be prepared for a strictly platonic session once in a while, and when one happens just enjoy the hour in bed with a nice girl, even though it's platonic. Chalk it up and move on to the next one.

Thank you for the advice and tips. Hopefully Ill be contributing soon.

[Grimmy23]

I'm interested.

1. What do you all wear during a cuddle session? Example are you allowed to just wear boxers or do you wear like a t-shirt and shorts?

2. If something were to escalate how has it happened? Do you initiate? Do you ask? Wait for them to say something?

1. By CC rules, cuddling in underwear is not allowed. Minimum attire is t-shirt and shorts, with boxers not being considered as appropriate shorts. However, in practice, at least 80% of the girls will bend the rules. I've cuddled in underwear and I've cuddled naked more than once. Most of the time for me it starts in underwear and the undies come off after a few minutes.

My standard routine if the girl is hosting is to walk into her hosting site (usually a hotel room, but on rare occasion her home). Once I'm inside and we have the introductory hug out of the way (which is pretty typical), I'll say something like "oh crap, I left my cuddle shorts in the car. Should I go down and get them or can I just cuddle in my underwear?" I'll have a pair of thin nylon running shorts in my car just in case - the type with the mesh liner kind of like a swimsuit that doesn't need underwear. It may be luck of the draw but I've never once had a girl tell me to go get the shorts. The typical response is something along the lines of "whatever makes you comfortable. " If she says that it's a license to take my pants off, and I'll probably even take my shirt off at that point and be wearing only undies to start.

If you're hosting, the "I left my cuddle clothes in the car" trick doesn't work. In those cases I'm in a hotel room and I answer the door wearing a t-shirt and my thin running shorts. The cuddle will start from there. A lot of times the girl will bring cuddle clothes to change into. She'll go into the bathroom to change and there's a good chance she may come out wearing something sexy or skimpy. I've had girls come out wearing skimpy tops with no bra underneath and shorts with half of their ass hanging out. I've had girls come out wearing lingerie. I've also had girls come out wearing a t shirt and thick sweat pants, and I've had girls just take their shirt and pants off right there in my full view to start the cuddle in bra and panties. You get the idea - it's all over the place. But if she comes out wearing lingerie, or something skimpy, or undresses in front of me, rest assured I'm going to have the rest of those clothes on the floor pretty quickly.

2. YMMV in this area. Every girl is different. I'd say the most typical scenario is you start cuddling and making close contact. Your arms around each other or maybe you're spooning. Once you're comfortable, let your hands wander OTC a little. By this I don't mean go grabbing body parts. Just sort of gently graze OTC. If she's a by the rules girl she will quickly stop you and ask that you don't touch her there. If she doesn't brush off some light OTC touches you can get a little more assertive by going up the shirt and / or down the pants. If you're able to touch any intimate body parts under the clothes it's game on and things will usually escalate pretty quickly and naturally from there.

Bottom line: Be patient. Be a gentleman. Don't be creepy. Don't get grabby or pushy. Expect nothing but a nice platonic cuddle with a nice girl. Be elated if clothes come off. Be prepared for a strictly platonic session once in a while, and when one happens just enjoy the hour in bed with a nice girl, even though it's platonic. Chalk it up and move on to the next one.

[Hanbrolo]

I'm interested.

1. What do you all wear during a cuddle session? Example are you allowed to just wear boxers or do you wear like a t-shirt and shorts?

2. If something were to escalate how has it happened? Do you initiate? Do you ask? Wait for them to say something?

[Sleep135]

Has anyone seen goddess. 12? I added a period in her username. Was talking to her and she had some thirsty pics, but she deactivated her account yesterday.

She's back, feel free to dm me if you have any info. I got a couple girls I've seen in the past few mth, I can share info on. No slam dunks as YMMV, but got some play.

[Ck2001]

I went to the cuddle boards in other counties and states and people and leaving reviews of actual encounters. At least give a hint or a nikename so other can get some extras also. Waisted alot of money testing the waters but once I found a solid few I only go back to them. Feel free to dm me if you want to trade cuddle stories in LA.

I actually agree pretty strongly with Grimmy's post a few more down, that the specifics are better off kept to DMs for these girls. If the names and deeds are placed here on the board for all to see, those girls are going to have a lot of trouble from either the CC admins or from overly demanding mongers who don't understand that this is a massive YMMV situation. Public postings here are just going to chase away the girls or get them banned. These aren't massage parlor girls or common escorts. They don't owe you sex. Just take a look at what has happened in some of those other cities that OrangeGoku references. The girls that were named on these boards with descriptions of sex acts are 90% banned (by CC moderators for breaking the site rules) or deactivated (self-selecting out of this because of all the trouble). Let's not repeat those mistakes here in LA.

[OrangeGoku]

I went to the cuddle boards in other counties and states and people and leaving reviews of actual encounters. At least give a hint or a nikename so other can get some extras also. Waisted alot of money testing the waters but once I found a solid few I only go back to them. Feel free to dm me if you want to trade cuddle stories in LA.

[Sleep135]

Has anyone seen goddess. 12? I added a period in her username. Was talking to her and she had some thirsty pics, but she deactivated her account yesterday.

[Goone]

If any of you have some cuddler recs pm me please.

[Gidden Lade]

This requires a mentality change from the typical AMP experience where you fully expect to get action and leave pissed off if you dont get it. In cuddling, youre going in for a platonic cuddle. Anything else that happens is a bonus. Go in expecting to enjoy the cuddle regardless of whether you get laid or not. When you do get laid its more like sex after a first date and its much more fulfilling than anything youll ever get in an AMP.

Sounds like the far outer fringe of mongering; hovering in the gray area between mongering & actual dating. None of the "guarantees"(to use the term loosely) of mongering, but without the hassles of dating civilians. Definitely sounds intriguing.

[Grimmy23]

Curious how much info do you guys divulge on the site and in these sessions? I've yet to have my first session but I do have a Pic on profile to help my odds at extras. Also this might sound like a dumb question since these sessions are geared more platonic does the S / O topic come about? I don't want to kill my chances if they ask. If anyone has any good rec's for a first timer for a session and don't mind sharing my DMs are open. TIA kindly.

I would strongly encourage keeping nitty gritty details about cuddlers in DM. The reason being is that mods on that site are known to monitor activity here. Girls have been banned from the site for knowingly providing extras. Additionally, these aren't pro sex workers, so we don't want them to get flooded with monger requests. The ones that get too much pub here almost always disappear in fairly short order.

As for the SO thing, I've had it come up. It often does, not in every session but in more than half for me. I'm a happily married guy and wear a ring. Most of them are oblivious to it. They seem to understand that a guy can be very happy in his relationship but still have a subpar sex life. And if it's not about sex, the platonic cuddlers understand that sometimes people need space and time to hang out with someone else for an hour or two. I've just never found it to be a problem.

People ask me for recommendations all the time. Which cuddler should I see? I have a fairly sizable list of intel that I've collected either personally or from others who have reported to me since I started the OC thread. I'm happy to share. However, my typical request is please don't DM and ask who I would recommend. That's a very difficult thing to answer because cuddling is such a YMMV game. I hate to be the guy who says go see so and so because she puts out, and then you see her and get nothing. I also don't know what any given guy might be looking for. What I ask is that you find a few that you might be interested in and I'll tell you if I have anything on them. That works out a lot better.

Finally, I can't restate this enough times. Go in hoping for what you want but expecting absolutely nothing but a nice platonic cuddle. Be a gentleman. Don't get grabby or pushy. Don't try sticking hands inside her clothes in the first couple minutes. Be squeaky clean, freshly showered, teeth brushed right before the session and breath smelling fresh. Just be a nice guy that the girl would legitimately want to cuddle with if she wasn't being paid for it. Do all of those things and your chances of success are much higher. You'll leave with blue balls once in a while. That’s a given in the cuddling world. For me that happens about 1/4 of the time. But even the blue balls sessions are almost always very pleasant. You just spent an hour alone cuddled up in bed with a girl that you chose. How bad can that be? This requires a mentality change from the typical AMP experience where you fully expect to get action and leave pissed off if you don’t get it. In cuddling, you’re going in for a platonic cuddle. Anything else that happens is a bonus. Go in expecting to enjoy the cuddle regardless of whether you get laid or not. When you do get laid it’s more like sex after a first date and it’s much more fulfilling than anything you’ll ever get in an AMP.

[Ghost323]

Curious how much info do you guys divulge on the site and in these sessions? I've yet to have my first session but I do have a Pic on profile to help my odds at extras. Also this might sound like a dumb question since these sessions are geared more platonic does the S / O topic come about? I don't want to kill my chances if they ask. If anyone has any good rec's for a first timer for a session and don't mind sharing my DMs are open. TIA kindly.

[Willie23]

Hello All,

After hearing about Cuddle Comfort and seeing posts from Grimmy (thank you BTW), I decided to give Cuddling a shot and am thrilled I did so. Cuddling is so different from going to an AMP as you honestly do not know what you'll get out of the experience, although at the very least, you should be getting a good cuddle with a stronger connection than you would have at an AMP. And save money to boot. This was a great experience and one that I am looking forward to trying out again.

Here are some thoughts if anyone is trying to do research as I had. Like many of us on this site, I have a significant other, I love her and am attracted to her, but sexually I have a much stronger drive than she does. Sexually she is not adventurous nor spontaneous, she is often only thinking of her own needs and does not do a good job of satisfying mine (she loves DATY, but does not really care to give a BJ). In short, she is just not overly interested in sex. Her gratification comes from exercising and yoga. We are both fit (her more than I to be honest), are both attracted to each other, have a good relationship, but sex does not really factor much in her world. Maybe once a month, whereas I would prefer it two to three times per week. Deciding (or following an urge) to go to an AMP or escort feels (and is) shitty, although I do not want to have an affair; I'd rather find and pay someone for their time and walk away. I have to deal with my guilt and / or justification, although apart from getting a divorce, (which I do not want), and needing to satisfy my sexual desires, this is the route I have chosen. I think many of you are probably in a similar boat rather than just being deviants, although there is no judgement either way if you are.

Enter Cuddle Comfort. As someone else posted, you get to select a girl who is very often the one who appears at your door. Since this is not an escort service most pictures are accurate (although I have heard stories of a few fakes). My visit was in my hotel, which felt safe. The Cuddler who I selected was exactly as she presented herself. If not better. There was a near-immediate connection and I was able to let my guard down. The cuddle was amazing. Even without anything sexual happening, and in the end I had a wonderful time. I will say that if something would have presented itself, I would have had no hesitation, but it didn't and I did not make any moves whatsoever in that direction. I understood the core of what this is. A cuddle. My visit was $120 for an hour. An AMP is around that for a half-hour. Yes, at the AMP you'll usually get a HE, although with a Cuddle you get a connection and in the end I felt less dirty and in many ways more fulfilled. Did I have blue balls, you bet, but I had a better time and I look forward to seeing her again.

Take the above for what you will. When I travel and need something, I will probably look first for a Cuddle over an AMP and see what happens (had someone called this a game? As always YMMV.

Just signed up and specified an older age range than is represented in the 'local' listing on the site. Immediately got a pro cuddler for $160/ hr who was 12 years younger than my lower threshold. I suspect it's an upsell / escort opportunity, but I'm holding out for someone over 45, just because I'm hoping she'll be open to greater physical intimacy. Maybe I'm just kidding myself. My impression of the median CC female is a significantly overweight 30-something.