Cuddle Comfort / Pro Cuddlers

[Domino727]

I'm thinking of giving it a go. $120 isn't that much to gamble.

https://losangeles.craigslist.org/la...763816264.html

[LuccaMac]

Being with a cuddler is more like being on a date where you don't know if you're going to get a goodnight kiss, just a hug, or end up in bed. If you play your cards right you can get your nut busted 75% of the time. That's about what my success rate is. There are girls on there who have pressed sexual assault charges on guys who crossed the line, so you do have to be careful. But when extras are going to happen it's usually intuitively obvious that they're going to happen and clothes start falling off, very much like they would on a normal date. I wouldn't recommend rushing anything with any cuddler. If you absolutely have to get off, go to an AMP or see an escort and you'll get off for sure. If it's about an overall more satisfying experience where you have a full hour or two in bed with a nice girl who has nice conversation and it feels more like a real date, cuddlers are right up your alley. You just have to accept that once in a while you're probably going to get blue balled.

I agree 100% If you play your cards right, are respectful and go for a 2 hour then I feel you have the best chance for extras. I have had 10 out of 12 give extras with 8 FS.

Good luck in the chase.

[Grimmy23]

I say he's talking about pros.

I've contacted quite a few non pros and gotten exactly Zero replies while the pros responded about 90%of the time.

Yeah, all pros. I've never seen a non-pro.

[Drooo]

I say he's talking about pros.

I've contacted quite a few non pros and gotten exactly Zero replies while the pros responded about 90%of the time.

Is that your rate with Non-Pro or Pro cuddlers?

[Marcath]

If you play your cards right you can get your nut busted 75% of the time. That's about what my success rate is.

Is that your rate with Non-Pro or Pro cuddlers?

[Grimmy23]

Try this. Go to target, they make a brand of trousers, I forget the name, but they are like 1000% rayon. They are more sheer than any condom on the market. Do not wear boxers and cut a hole in the pants near your penix and asshole, large enough that you will drop out when erect.

Cuddle with that.

Either you will get a handie or more, or you will get arrested.

Being with a cuddler is more like being on a date where you don't know if you're going to get a goodnight kiss, just a hug, or end up in bed. If you play your cards right you can get your nut busted 75% of the time. That's about what my success rate is. There are girls on there who have pressed sexual assault charges on guys who crossed the line, so you do have to be careful. But when extras are going to happen it's usually intuitively obvious that they're going to happen and clothes start falling off, very much like they would on a normal date. I wouldn't recommend rushing anything with any cuddler. If you absolutely have to get off, go to an AMP or see an escort and you'll get off for sure. If it's about an overall more satisfying experience where you have a full hour or two in bed with a nice girl who has nice conversation and it feels more like a real date, cuddlers are right up your alley. You just have to accept that once in a while you're probably going to get blue balled.

[PriscillaM]

Thank you for the advice and tips. Hopefully Ill be contributing soon.

Try this. Go to target, they make a brand of trousers, I forget the name, but they are like 1000% rayon. They are more sheer than any condom on the market. Do not wear boxers and cut a hole in the pants near your penix and asshole, large enough that you will drop out when erect.

Cuddle with that.

Either you will get a handie or more, or you will get arrested.

[Hanbrolo]

Bottom line: Be patient. Be a gentleman. Don't be creepy. Don't get grabby or pushy. Expect nothing but a nice platonic cuddle with a nice girl. Be elated if clothes come off. Be prepared for a strictly platonic session once in a while, and when one happens just enjoy the hour in bed with a nice girl, even though it's platonic. Chalk it up and move on to the next one.

Thank you for the advice and tips. Hopefully Ill be contributing soon.

[Grimmy23]

I'm interested.

1. What do you all wear during a cuddle session? Example are you allowed to just wear boxers or do you wear like a t-shirt and shorts?

2. If something were to escalate how has it happened? Do you initiate? Do you ask? Wait for them to say something?

1. By CC rules, cuddling in underwear is not allowed. Minimum attire is t-shirt and shorts, with boxers not being considered as appropriate shorts. However, in practice, at least 80% of the girls will bend the rules. I've cuddled in underwear and I've cuddled naked more than once. Most of the time for me it starts in underwear and the undies come off after a few minutes.

My standard routine if the girl is hosting is to walk into her hosting site (usually a hotel room, but on rare occasion her home). Once I'm inside and we have the introductory hug out of the way (which is pretty typical), I'll say something like "oh crap, I left my cuddle shorts in the car. Should I go down and get them or can I just cuddle in my underwear?" I'll have a pair of thin nylon running shorts in my car just in case - the type with the mesh liner kind of like a swimsuit that doesn't need underwear. It may be luck of the draw but I've never once had a girl tell me to go get the shorts. The typical response is something along the lines of "whatever makes you comfortable. " If she says that it's a license to take my pants off, and I'll probably even take my shirt off at that point and be wearing only undies to start.

If you're hosting, the "I left my cuddle clothes in the car" trick doesn't work. In those cases I'm in a hotel room and I answer the door wearing a t-shirt and my thin running shorts. The cuddle will start from there. A lot of times the girl will bring cuddle clothes to change into. She'll go into the bathroom to change and there's a good chance she may come out wearing something sexy or skimpy. I've had girls come out wearing skimpy tops with no bra underneath and shorts with half of their ass hanging out. I've had girls come out wearing lingerie. I've also had girls come out wearing a t shirt and thick sweat pants, and I've had girls just take their shirt and pants off right there in my full view to start the cuddle in bra and panties. You get the idea - it's all over the place. But if she comes out wearing lingerie, or something skimpy, or undresses in front of me, rest assured I'm going to have the rest of those clothes on the floor pretty quickly.

2. YMMV in this area. Every girl is different. I'd say the most typical scenario is you start cuddling and making close contact. Your arms around each other or maybe you're spooning. Once you're comfortable, let your hands wander OTC a little. By this I don't mean go grabbing body parts. Just sort of gently graze OTC. If she's a by the rules girl she will quickly stop you and ask that you don't touch her there. If she doesn't brush off some light OTC touches you can get a little more assertive by going up the shirt and / or down the pants. If you're able to touch any intimate body parts under the clothes it's game on and things will usually escalate pretty quickly and naturally from there.

Bottom line: Be patient. Be a gentleman. Don't be creepy. Don't get grabby or pushy. Expect nothing but a nice platonic cuddle with a nice girl. Be elated if clothes come off. Be prepared for a strictly platonic session once in a while, and when one happens just enjoy the hour in bed with a nice girl, even though it's platonic. Chalk it up and move on to the next one.

[Hanbrolo]

I'm interested.

1. What do you all wear during a cuddle session? Example are you allowed to just wear boxers or do you wear like a t-shirt and shorts?

2. If something were to escalate how has it happened? Do you initiate? Do you ask? Wait for them to say something?

[Sleep135]

Has anyone seen goddess. 12? I added a period in her username. Was talking to her and she had some thirsty pics, but she deactivated her account yesterday.

She's back, feel free to dm me if you have any info. I got a couple girls I've seen in the past few mth, I can share info on. No slam dunks as YMMV, but got some play.

[Ck2001]

I went to the cuddle boards in other counties and states and people and leaving reviews of actual encounters. At least give a hint or a nikename so other can get some extras also. Waisted alot of money testing the waters but once I found a solid few I only go back to them. Feel free to dm me if you want to trade cuddle stories in LA.

I actually agree pretty strongly with Grimmy's post a few more down, that the specifics are better off kept to DMs for these girls. If the names and deeds are placed here on the board for all to see, those girls are going to have a lot of trouble from either the CC admins or from overly demanding mongers who don't understand that this is a massive YMMV situation. Public postings here are just going to chase away the girls or get them banned. These aren't massage parlor girls or common escorts. They don't owe you sex. Just take a look at what has happened in some of those other cities that OrangeGoku references. The girls that were named on these boards with descriptions of sex acts are 90% banned (by CC moderators for breaking the site rules) or deactivated (self-selecting out of this because of all the trouble). Let's not repeat those mistakes here in LA.

[OrangeGoku]

I went to the cuddle boards in other counties and states and people and leaving reviews of actual encounters. At least give a hint or a nikename so other can get some extras also. Waisted alot of money testing the waters but once I found a solid few I only go back to them. Feel free to dm me if you want to trade cuddle stories in LA.

[Sleep135]

Has anyone seen goddess. 12? I added a period in her username. Was talking to her and she had some thirsty pics, but she deactivated her account yesterday.

[Goone]

If any of you have some cuddler recs pm me please.